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daleanime

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Sun Dec 1, 2013, 01:20 PM Dec 2013

Talk about a family rollacoaster.... [View all]

too fast with the highs and the lows.

This thanksgiving I made it to our family event after having missed a few years. The family does a fairly large dinner, we take over one of the local fire departments dinning halls. Everyone brings a dish to pass and a wrapped present. After dinner we hold our annual 'white elephant'. Its great family fun to see some one spent $25 on spam and fruitcake. This years we raised over $750. Trust me, in my family, this is a lot of money.

We take that $ and adopt two or three families for christmas. Its not hard to find people who have 'fallen on hard times'. The kids get coats, boots, clothing (as needed) and a couple 'toys'. The volunteers from the fire department make sure the kitchen is stocked for the holidays. They tend to focus on the basics-veg's, rice, etc... but they made sure to include a turkey or ham for christmas dinner.

And my family has been doing this for 15 years. Yeah, I'm kind of proud of them.

Then came Saturday.

My sister was in the area visiting her 'church' friends and her grandson wanted to see his uncle. Hey, what can I say, kids and dogs like me. So out to lunch we go.

Let's get this out of the way now, I love my sister, BUT.... she's a complete and total moran. When our conversation started drifting into dangerous places, I made a mistake. I asked her about the new pope.

Well it turns out that she really doesn't like him. He's too encouraging of that 'homosexual' lifestyle. And don't you know if we allow that then next its pedophiles.

When I had picked my jaw up off the floor I had to ask her what connection there was between the two. "Well both were listed as mental illness, now only one is. So soon that one will be approved of too."

Folks I tried. For long as I could keep her focused I tried to sever this connection in her mind. I failed. If we 'allow' the gay into our world, then of course we allow child abuse also.

And I was feeling so good about my family. Thanks for letting me vent.

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I understand completely. AndyA Dec 2013 #1
Thank you.... daleanime Dec 2013 #3
Thank you--hope your holidays are wonderful as well! AndyA Dec 2013 #5
Please continue to feel good about your family Stargazer09 Dec 2013 #2
Thank you.... daleanime Dec 2013 #4
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