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In reply to the discussion: The truth about what young men knew about rape years ago. [View all]bettyellen
(47,209 posts)90. Easy way out. Way too common for men to think they shld give bros
The benefit of the doubt unless the woman is sporting obvious injuries.
They don't believe what they don't see- but it never occurs to men they're very rarely going to be there when acquaintance rape happens. So how would they ever have a clue? Yet they weigh in again and again, accusing women of painting men with a broad brush.
They live in state where they're doubtful anyone both the most awful sociopaths people could do such things, and this leaves the women in their lives not telling them, it was your friend or coworker.
I'm sorry they are out of the loop, but tired of hearing they know better than women what is actually happening out there.
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The many dismissive posts about rape even here on DU indicate that not all men got the message.
yardwork
Nov 2012
#1
One thing about group psychology, sociopathy, and rape that needs to be considered.
Springslips
Nov 2012
#55
i am a mother. i had the talk. doesnt have to come from the father, though that is good stuff.
seabeyond
Nov 2012
#34
My daughter and I have already been educating my 11yo grandson. Thanks MM. nt
Mnemosyne
Nov 2012
#18
If he ever harms a woman, his mother will explode and he might not survive it! nt
Mnemosyne
Nov 2012
#58
both my boys have had that "talk" also. well before they got into a position of making their own way
seabeyond
Nov 2012
#29
What an ugly, uncalled-for reply. Perhaps you should avail yourself of the *ignore* feature,
apocalypsehow
Nov 2012
#69
as you said, most men and boys know. but I was thinking about that cretin rivard, whose father
niyad
Nov 2012
#49
Remember that group of popular high school boys some years ago who named themselves the
tblue37
Nov 2012
#70
In any situation in which there is an imbalance in power, the greater the imbalance, the greater the
patrice
Nov 2012
#76
Considering the statistics on rape... maybe not most but many boys did and do rape.
KittyWampus
Nov 2012
#77