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mopinko

(70,283 posts)
34. omg. that's hideous.
Mon Aug 14, 2023, 07:21 AM
Aug 2023

mothering a mentally ill child is a special hell. have a bp, and youngest had a dx of ptsd, but turned out to actually have epilepsy.
i have sooo many beefs w modern psyche. it’s still so crude. ppl still blaming moms, or letting their kids blame their mom. which validates the blame. when they were born that way. le sigh.

i hope the lawyer can help you. my kids dont talk to me. i cant tell them how sorry they will b some day. i see so many young ppl who have broken relationships w their parents. for them to try to destroy your relationship, i just cant believe they have her actual interests at heart.
go get em.

a du’er named droopy (tho he changed his handle and i dont remember the new 1.) has the same disorder. dont think he comes here any more, but we’re friends on fb. he got his under control, and is doing amazingly well. if u dig in the archives, he posted in the lounge a lot about his struggles. very good writer. i think he’s trying to get those stories published.

You do not deserve pain and misery, I can tell by your writing that you are a thoughtful considerate Walleye Aug 2023 #1
Very well articulated. intrepidity Aug 2023 #2
I remember depression well... Joinfortmill Aug 2023 #3
Logged to to rec berniesandersmittens Aug 2023 #4
A big problem with mental illness is that the mentally ill dictate the treatment Kaleva Aug 2023 #5
I can tell you I wish that had been the case with the many times I sought help. It wasn't. OldBaldy1701E Aug 2023 #9
I understand it's an illness Kaleva Aug 2023 #11
As someone who lived with a bi-polar for 20 years DenaliDemocrat Aug 2023 #6
Yet, I use the word "normally." Exceptions to the rule are NOT the rule. AZLD4Candidate Aug 2023 #7
I don't believe what you describe is "normal" DenaliDemocrat Aug 2023 #15
Well, you have your opinion. I have medical science. AZLD4Candidate Aug 2023 #16
I wish I'd had that book years ago. BlackSkimmer Aug 2023 #18
Thank you. The lies and manipulative behavior are difficult to tolerate. Oopsie Daisy Aug 2023 #35
That book is about people with Borderline Personality Disorder. yardwork Aug 2023 #38
Bi-Polar almost always has a co-morbidity DenaliDemocrat Aug 2023 #48
Bi-Polar almost always has a co-morbidity DenaliDemocrat Aug 2023 #49
Do you mean Borderline Personality Disorder instead of Bi-Polar? yardwork Aug 2023 #39
She is bi-polar DenaliDemocrat Aug 2023 #45
I'm so sorry. yardwork Aug 2023 #46
Not an ex DenaliDemocrat Aug 2023 #47
HAH! OldBaldy1701E Aug 2023 #8
pro tip if you have a friend who suffers from mi- mopinko Aug 2023 #10
Unfortunately, they often reject the help offered Kaleva Aug 2023 #12
i saw this on fb the other day. it's about grief, but the same cld b said for mi- mopinko Aug 2023 #19
Grief and mental illness are not the same thing Kaleva Aug 2023 #26
of course not. but the problem of not knowing how to help, mopinko Aug 2023 #27
I think your post provided great insights on helping those in grief. Kaleva Aug 2023 #32
did u miss the part that i suffer from depression? mopinko Aug 2023 #33
Clinical depression cannot be helped by offers of help Kaleva Aug 2023 #43
Not at all the same thing. BlackSkimmer Aug 2023 #28
True. Oopsie Daisy Aug 2023 #36
Jeez, I wish I were a healer..... Karadeniz Aug 2023 #13
Well said wendyb-NC Aug 2023 #14
Thank you MAJones Aug 2023 #17
Not unlike an LSD trip unless you have been there you cannot understand. twodogsbarking Aug 2023 #20
One hell of a good post. n/t LuckyCharms Aug 2023 #21
"cymbalta, paxil, trazodone, and ativain" Sympthsical Aug 2023 #22
Yes, I'm no doctor, but that looks to be a troublesome cocktail. BlackSkimmer Aug 2023 #23
I just finished an extensive pharmacology program Sympthsical Aug 2023 #24
I've got no background in pharmacology or medicine, but even I was familiar with those drug names. BlackSkimmer Aug 2023 #25
I think that too. unforunately, that's how mental health works AZLD4Candidate Aug 2023 #30
Sound advice. Oopsie Daisy Aug 2023 #37
Books help me. nt BWdem4life Aug 2023 #29
Since she was 17, my daughter has been diagnosed as schizoaffective: schizophrenia & bipolar. elocs Aug 2023 #31
omg. that's hideous. mopinko Aug 2023 #34
I have a broken relationship with my father, but he was abusive even into adulthood AZLD4Candidate Aug 2023 #41
i absolutely understand that. mopinko Aug 2023 #42
I'm sorry that you're in so much pain. yardwork Aug 2023 #40
I'm bipolar too, and recently went through a depression. crosinski Aug 2023 #44
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