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babylonsister

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Thu Sep 16, 2021, 09:24 PM Sep 2021

"Misinformation Killed Her" -Friend Of 29 Year-Old Kentucky Bride To Never Be, Dead Due To Covid [View all]

https://www.dailykos.com/stories/2021/9/16/2052502/--Misinformation-Killed-Her-Friend-Of-29-Year-Old-Kentucky-Bride-To-Never-Be-Dead-Due-To-Covid

"Misinformation Killed Her" -Friend Of 29 Year-Old Kentucky Bride To Never Be, Dead Due To Covid
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Thursday September 16, 2021 · 9:00 AM EDT


There are roughly 332 million people in the United States today. I would say give or take, because we are about 600k short, as Covid has killed one in every 500 human beings in the country. That is sobering. I know hundreds of people, most of them, but not all, still alive after Covid. But I have never computed it until CNN did it for me.

Early on the mainstream media did a tremendous disservice by plastering headlines about how the disease was much less likely to affect the young. So the young, naturally, thought “So what?” This woman, a 29 year-old bride to be named Samantha Wendell, probably thought something similar. She probably thought she was young, so she was safe. But Delta is a game changer in that department.

Samantha Wendell could not wait for her wedding this summer. For nearly two years, the 29-year-old surgical technician had been meticulously planning every detail, from the seating chart to the Tiffany blue floral arrangements, her fiancé, Austin Eskew, said. Wendell and Eskew wanted to start a family as soon as they got married, Eskew, a correctional sergeant, said. The couple, of Grand Rivers, Kentucky, hoped to eventually have three, maybe four, children.


So when the Covid-19 vaccines came out, and some of Wendell’s co-workers said the shots caused infertility — an unfounded claim that has gained ground despite top reproductive health groups refuting it — she “just kind of panicked,” Eskew, 29, said.

Now here I will take a detour and skip to an ESPN reporter named Allison Williams, who is probably going to be mentioned more and more as we hear about the expectant moms and those trying to start a family suffering from Covid. Because you see, she is high profile, and woefully misinformed.
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This woman said in public that she is putting her family and health first by not getting the vaccine, because she wants another child. (Yes my head hurts too) But there is zero evidence whatsoever to suggest that the vaccine would compromise any potential pregnancy.

So let’s return to the story of Ms. Wendell. She had co-workers, that, and this is just a guess, had Doctorates in Biochemistry from Facebook University spout off in her ear about how vaccines are bad for fertility. She listened. She hesitated.

And then she was gone-just like that..

..“Misinformation killed her,” said Maria Vibandor Hayes, 39, a cousin who lives in New Orleans and said goodbye over FaceTime before Wendell died on Sept. 10. “If we can save more lives and families’ lives, then this is the gift that she left for us to deliver.” Despite her initial hesitancy, Wendell herself had recently changed her stance on the vaccine. As the delta variant spread, causing cases to rise, and restrictions were instituted for those who were unvaccinated, she concluded in early July that it made sense to get vaccinated ahead of the couple’s honeymoon to Mexico.

She and Eskew got vaccination appointments for the end of July. In the meantime, wedding preparations continued: dress fittings, menu tastings, and a bachelorette party in Nashville, Tennessee.


She would come back from Nashville sick. She began to uncontrollably cough. She got weaker. The disease took her over. Last Friday, after being informed that her situation was hopeless, her family disconnected life support. She was so close to getting the vaccine. She had put aside the rantings of her co-workers, and chose science over rumor. She was this close.

But thanks to rumor, and misinformation, and lies, and ignorance, she was influenced just enough, just long enough, to let Covid into her body and end her life.


How do those co-workers feel do you suppose? Do they understand that their mouths, and the spouting off of them, and likely, lets face it, their insidious addiction to social media and susceptibility to miscreants likely contributed to Samantha’s death? Do they understand what they have done? Will anybody ever charge people with deliberate spreading of misinformation on social media with manslaughter?

And how many more families have to be destroyed, marriages cancelled, lives ended, tears shed, before the truth about the consequences, and the protection, finally seep in?


Or is it still just about the notifications button, and the temporary endorphin boost, the digital drug we call social media provides?

America is underdosing against Covid by overdosing on Facebook and the like.

And yes, it is deadly.

Samantha Wendell planned her whole future that never came, because the lies landed in her brain faster than the truth.

Then it was too late.

Social media misuse is undermining efforts to end this pandemic.
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Kickin' Faux pas Sep 2021 #1
Obesity and no vaccine killed her. Jon King Sep 2021 #24
not all are obese rdking647 Sep 2021 #28
But we don't hear about the ones who's lives will be ruined after having COVID. C Moon Sep 2021 #31
Ahhhhh.... SergeStorms Sep 2021 #32
Obesity definitely has been a risk factor for bad outcomes caraher Sep 2021 #39
The OP claimed ALL were obese. SergeStorms Sep 2021 #43
Yes, I agree "all" is certainly wrong caraher Sep 2021 #52
Correct but misleading... qzwv8j Sep 2021 #46
It isn't true obamanut2012 Sep 2021 #50
The children? The pediatric cases? That is one breathtaking claim you are making. Hekate Sep 2021 #44
This woman? Hekate Sep 2021 #48
So, this woman? Really a tubbo, Jon -- not... Hekate Sep 2021 #54
CDC: Being obese and less than 65 increases risk of death from Covid 2-fold among unvaccinated. andym Sep 2021 #55
Softly and tenderly, Herman is calling... Blue Owl Sep 2021 #2
Who would have ever thought Herman would have so many friends? Crunchy Frog Sep 2021 #15
I'm guessing her co-workers gab13by13 Sep 2021 #3
Ditto! BigmanPigman Sep 2021 #7
No, not at all. SergeStorms Sep 2021 #36
5 weeks UpInArms Sep 2021 #4
This makes me sad and angry mcar Sep 2021 #5
her own idiocy killed her Skittles Sep 2021 #6
This Ferrets are Cool Sep 2021 #10
It wasn't her idiocy. It was her Facebook account. Initech Sep 2021 #13
they very, VERY much overlap Skittles Sep 2021 #16
I have a facebook account... Happy Hoosier Sep 2021 #20
THat IS idiocy if you are just accepting anything posted on places like that while ignoring what JI7 Sep 2021 #60
Exactly. Misinformation doesn't kill anyone. Captain Stern Sep 2021 #49
A friends daughter double vaxed in March, is now pregnant with a healthy baby... winstars Sep 2021 #8
Oh yes. Xolodno Sep 2021 #59
I don't think someone's pointless death will sway any of these anti-vaxxers at this point. sop Sep 2021 #9
At least she didn't breed IbogaProject Sep 2021 #11
The actual overall case lethality rate is nowhere near 2%. I have seen this rubbish Celerity Sep 2021 #37
But it is more fatal compared to the flu which has the same under reporting issues IbogaProject Sep 2021 #56
The USA had 22.9% more deaths than expected in 2020 March onward. IbogaProject Sep 2021 #57
The single underlying common denominator in all of these deaths? Facebook. Initech Sep 2021 #12
Facebook is possibly this country's biggest problem. lagomorph777 Sep 2021 #18
It's driving the crazies, indoctrinating the right, and empowering white supremacists. Initech Sep 2021 #19
Putin's favorite radicalization engine. lagomorph777 Sep 2021 #23
Nonsense. Happy Hoosier Sep 2021 #22
r/HermanCainAwards Initech Sep 2021 #34
a little Facebook story NJCher Sep 2021 #30
Why would they make an appointment Crunchy Frog Sep 2021 #14
+1 Stupid to the end. lagomorph777 Sep 2021 #25
Dare I point out, that looking at pictures of her, PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2021 #17
I post on every single story, they are all obese. Jon King Sep 2021 #21
Getting the vaccine is free, easy, and quick. lagomorph777 Sep 2021 #26
But losing weight is free. Heck it save you money. cinematicdiversions Sep 2021 #51
And yet, many fat people survive. Happy Hoosier Sep 2021 #27
helpful NJCher Sep 2021 #33
Good explanation GPV Sep 2021 #47
I had not seen your posts, PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2021 #35
You need a citation for that Buzz cook Sep 2021 #38
Yes, and... caraher Sep 2021 #40
No almost about it. Buzz cook Sep 2021 #42
It isn't true, either obamanut2012 Sep 2021 #63
Was Herman Cain? I didn't notice, but I haven't been keeping track the way you have. Hekate Sep 2021 #45
No they aren't obamanut2012 Sep 2021 #62
Willful ignorance. nt frogmarch Sep 2021 #29
It's quite striking that she was a medical professional. KY_EnviroGuy Sep 2021 #41
Should of got her shots. Texaswitchy Sep 2021 #53
RIP. My cousin and her husband, both fully vaxxed are now expecting ecstatic Sep 2021 #58
My niece got vaxxed when she was pregnant obamanut2012 Sep 2021 #64
Should have got the shots, oh well. UCmeNdc Sep 2021 #61
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