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In reply to the discussion: Is stripping also violence? [View all]lildreamer316
(14,803 posts)that encouraging such behavior isn't part of what the male strippers do. But it's a paradox for them..it's part of the job, but it's a serious problem for them in the end. It's, ironically, part of the mostly-unspoken double standard that implies that men don't ever mind being grabbed, groped, and the like.
Strangely (to some) I feel exactly the same way you do. I don't want my head grabbed and forced into his crotch; I don't enjoy getting on my knees and putting in a dollar with my teeth, etc. I find it embarrassing and crass. I don't want to treat the man in that way..it feels cheap. Just as I would not want the same done to me.He is not a side of beef. I may see him as a sexual entity, but as something to fuel my fantasies only. I greatly respect the effort and time they spend on their bodies to get them in shape, and the effort and time they spend on their stage shows.