Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,615 posts)
10. I would, too, if he weren't so malicious and destructive.
Thu Aug 20, 2020, 03:04 PM
Aug 2020

This is a man who seems to have no joy in his life. His only pleasure, if you can even call it that, comes from putting down anyone who opposes him, which his father apparently taught him is winning - and losing is completely unthinkable. He doesn't seem to enjoy music or art; he doesn't go to plays or concerts; he doesn't appreciate nature; he doesn't even like pets; he doesn't read anything but news items about himself; he has no real friends, just toadies and hangers-on; his wife doesn't seem to especially like him and all of his wives have been nothing but arm-candy for him (and he cheated on all of them); his relationships with his oldest children are weird, to say the least, and he seems to have none at all with the youngest; he has no hobbies other than golf, at which he cheats because he always has to win; and he's so absurdly vain that he is said to need two hours to do his hair and makeup. Everthing is superficial. He has to have the biggest, the best, the most expensive, the most ostentatious because he needs everyone to know that he's rich. His NYC apartment looks like Versailles redecorated by Saddam Hussein's pimp. He spends every waking hour fretting about the possibility that someone else might be richer, more powerful, more appreciated, more valued, and it drives him crazy. I can't imagine a more miserable existence. But in the process of trying to fill the bottomless black hole of his ego he is causing immeasurable damage, even killing people. So, yes, he's a sad, wretched specimen, but I can't bring myself to feel sorry for him except maybe in the Buddhist sense of compassion for all sentient beings.

I feel more sorry for Freddy MiniMe Aug 2020 #1
Yeah. Me too. Laelth Aug 2020 #4
You said it. Mike 03 Aug 2020 #6
Freddie didn't even defy the family. Laelth Aug 2020 #16
He would never feel sorry for you. Laelth Aug 2020 #2
I know several people who had shitty childhoods due to abuse, drug addicted parents, etc. Arkansas Granny Aug 2020 #3
He was given millions of dollars and bailed out by his dad. Trump is trash JI7 Aug 2020 #7
I was talking to my mom about this dilemma. What I said was that Mike 03 Aug 2020 #5
There is no reason to feel bad for him. He did not have a difficult childhood JI7 Aug 2020 #8
No. He didn't. Laelth Aug 2020 #17
He came from a seriously defective family, but so have many of the rest of us and we didn't Vinca Aug 2020 #9
I would, too, if he weren't so malicious and destructive. The Velveteen Ocelot Aug 2020 #10
This post is a work of art. LuckyCharms Aug 2020 #13
I agree. mnhtnbb Aug 2020 #19
Very well said. cwydro Aug 2020 #23
Snap out of it! LisaL Aug 2020 #11
Come on, you are kidding. BlueJac Aug 2020 #12
I differentiate between feeling sorry for a child an adult once was and how he or she is now. Kaleva Aug 2020 #14
The man suffers. He hates himself and always has. tinrobot Aug 2020 #15
Trump is living in a Hell of his own construction. The Velveteen Ocelot Aug 2020 #18
I could if he were just a miserable old nobody who spent his days in a recliner tanyev Aug 2020 #20
This message was self-deleted by its author tanyev Aug 2020 #21
Not me. It is what it is. Greybnk48 Aug 2020 #22
Latest Discussions»General Discussion»After reading Mary L. Tru...»Reply #10