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PCIntern

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Sat Aug 15, 2020, 07:21 AM Aug 2020

Well it eventually had to happen in my practice: [View all]

Since 1980, I have treated a family in my practice wherein the husband and father is a well-known local politician. He represented an area of the city that was extremely, Shall we say, caucasian-oriented. His politics were far right, his attitudes towards people of color were, and I’ll be polite, questionable, and he was a giant Trump supporter. He lived and breathed all things Trump. Trump was the man who led him to the promised land and I know you all understand exactly what I’m talking about. And I have to be circumspect here because this is a public figure and of course I am restrained by HIPAA from revealing who this is or discussing certain aspects in detail.

He was virulently anti-mask and anti-social distancing and anti-just about everything that you can imagine. As an aside, He and his whole family had a warm spot in his heart for me because I literally saved his 18 year-old son’s life , but That is a story for another day. Well, guess who died from COVID-19? He had been somewhat compromised medically and succumbed very rapidly. Three days from initial symptoms to termination. He had been to a mask-less party at the New Jersey Shore, sickened appropriately thereafter and just gave out.

For the record, his wife and children whom I’ve known my entire career have always been nothing but polite and gracious with me and interestingly, the only Jewish High Holiday card I received routinely from my patients in all these years is from this family. I once estimated that I’ve lost approximately 11,000 people who are my active patients, and as a great writer once wrote every man’s death diminishes me, but the rapidity with which this Mercilessly took this man’s life was positively frightening. In a way, this is like a discount Herman Cain story.

It just goes to show that the virus doesn’t care what you think or who your idol is.

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Jesus! 11,000! That's astonishing. And that's just the dead and not the permanently maimed, right Squinch Aug 2020 #1
Maimed is about 75000 PCIntern Aug 2020 #3
My beloved doctor has a very small practice and she is visibly devastated when she talks about the Squinch Aug 2020 #5
I'm a disaster area PCIntern Aug 2020 #6
I don't even know what to say. You have taken on the burden of the ills of our society, really, Squinch Aug 2020 #8
I'm sorry for how this is affecting you. yardwork Aug 2020 #24
i believe you. barbtries Aug 2020 #36
I, too, am in awe GeoWilliam750 Aug 2020 #55
I know what you mean. Ilsa Aug 2020 #66
I'm ok actually PCIntern Aug 2020 #68
every damned one of these deaths is trumps fault... samnsara Aug 2020 #2
Republicans live like life is forever? pwb Aug 2020 #4
Your stories are gut-wrenching PJMcK Aug 2020 #7
As a previous medical professional, he is fortunate he went quick mitch96 Aug 2020 #9
You're right about that PCIntern Aug 2020 #11
My close friends father was on a vent after a botched bowel surgery. He got a bad case of mitch96 Aug 2020 #13
No kidding. My late husband had been a brittle Type I Diabetic from age 4. About twice a year catbyte Aug 2020 #16
Indeed. paleotn Aug 2020 #17
The trick is to die as young as possible at a very old age!! nt mitch96 Aug 2020 #39
Step daughter, R.N. in a Newark hospital. When the virus hit, all nurses were 3Hotdogs Aug 2020 #10
! JudyM Aug 2020 #42
Wow, poor soul. LittleGirl Aug 2020 #12
Wow. BumRushDaShow Aug 2020 #14
One click on google mnhtnbb Aug 2020 #27
Or BumRushDaShow Aug 2020 #28
He seemed nice.... Marcuse Aug 2020 #44
Sounds like good riddance to me. Hassin Bin Sober Aug 2020 #65
Well, yeah, but if people get too far into this detective game, the OP will have to self-delete Hekate Aug 2020 #60
I think I know who this is as well. smirkymonkey Aug 2020 #61
I am sorry for your loss, Doctor. Kid Berwyn Aug 2020 #15
Thank you for sharing that story, good Doctor. We need to hear those stories..... KY_EnviroGuy Aug 2020 #18
its amaizing how immune from things that these people feel. AllaN01Bear Aug 2020 #19
We all eventually die malaise Aug 2020 #20
He embraced a poisonous ideology Martin Eden Aug 2020 #21
Sad story. UserNotFound Aug 2020 #22
Branch Covidians. (Branch Davidian: Waco) So star trek! lindysalsagal Aug 2020 #35
There are not enough words to thank you for your incredible service. niyad Aug 2020 #23
Oh my dear niyad... CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2020 #43
Thank you so much, Peggy. He was the third person I know personally. niyad Aug 2020 #57
This is a terrible time. PCIntern Aug 2020 #69
The one's that get me are the "It's my choice" crowd. appleannie1 Aug 2020 #25
Bet most of that choice doesn't apply to women's bodies. OMGWTF Aug 2020 #34
I never under stood the logic. It's all about the life of the fetus but after the kid is born... mitch96 Aug 2020 #40
Exactly. jmowreader Aug 2020 #58
Thank you, doc. Stay safe. Joinfortmill Aug 2020 #26
Our brains are supposedly wired for survival nuxvomica Aug 2020 #29
11K lost from C19?? wow. Demovictory9 Aug 2020 #30
No. He means that over the years he's lost about 11,000 altogether. PoindexterOglethorpe Aug 2020 #37
three days. that's dizzying Roc2020 Aug 2020 #31
Thank you, Doctor Larissa Aug 2020 #32
"respect." I'm not sure that's a concept that is possible for a Trumpkin to grasp. soldierant Aug 2020 #51
... Wawannabe Aug 2020 #33
Somehow I can't work up any sympathy for someone PoindexterOglethorpe Aug 2020 #38
Try again. Kacy Aug 2020 #54
Hugs to you! lunatica Aug 2020 #41
I am sorry for you VA_Jill Aug 2020 #45
Well, that took me about a minute to figure out who you were talking about. GoneOffShore Aug 2020 #46
Figured it wouldn't take long PCIntern Aug 2020 #47
Absolutely - I only knew about the bad stuff - the obit did mention the good he'd done. GoneOffShore Aug 2020 #49
Wow! What a story! Thanks for sharing..."3 days from initial symptoms to termination"? He Illumination Aug 2020 #48
Thank you for sharing the story of the insidiousness of this disease. cayugafalls Aug 2020 #50
Note to self Kacy Aug 2020 #52
I'm so sorry; this has been especially hard on members of the medical community... Hekate Aug 2020 #53
'No Man is an Island' Javaman Aug 2020 #56
Awful. elleng Aug 2020 #59
One wonders if he had a moment during the illness Warpy Aug 2020 #62
I'm sorry to hear that mvd Aug 2020 #63
I'm sometimes tempted to move to Philly just so I can have you for a doctor. ZZenith Aug 2020 #64
Awww. PCIntern Aug 2020 #67
11000? LeftishBrit Aug 2020 #70
Thank you... PCIntern Aug 2020 #71
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