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PJMcK

(21,995 posts)
4. At least months
Thu Apr 23, 2020, 08:59 AM
Apr 2020

Let's face it: Until there are antibody tests, treatments and a vaccine, this disease is going to be around and we'll have to socially distance until we have those tools. Businesses will be irreparably changed, schooling will be very different and our previously normal social activities will never be the same.

Even with fast-tracking and relaxing of testing protocols, a vaccine won't be available in 2020. So more people will become infected and more people will die. The disease isn't Trump's fault but his lazy dismissiveness and inattentiveness will cause suffering and death for many Americans. MAGA, my ass.

I'm lucky to have my best friend (my wife) to isolate with. We're able to do some of our work remotely and we're developing a "new normal" for our day-to-day lives. Our big thrills of the week are when we leave the property to go to the post office, the dump or the supermarket! Sometimes, we'll go for a long drive through the Catskill Mountains and with gas so cheap, I don't feel any anxiety about the supply for now.

I'm with you, leftylady, this feels really weird. I have no idea when we'll be able to go home to our NYC apartment but I know it won't be soon. Several weeks ago, I changed my mailing address to a P.O. Box here in Pennsylvania making this the 6th state I've officially lived in. We were thinking of retiring here just not this soon!

It feels weird Chainfire Apr 2020 #1
Try doing some "yard" visits with friends or go enjoy nature at Lake Jacomo or something. cbdo2007 Apr 2020 #2
How did you handle distancing among the kids? NT enough Apr 2020 #13
Same thing we do everything else - we just yell at them to "stop it!!!", lol cbdo2007 Apr 2020 #16
Your kids are lucky have such dedicated and energetic parents! enough Apr 2020 #44
You may be alone True Blue American Apr 2020 #3
At least months PJMcK Apr 2020 #4
I'm in the same position Sanity Claws Apr 2020 #5
I'm with you. Today I feel I'm starting to lose my will to live Walleye Apr 2020 #6
See. That's it. I don't want to waste my life leftyladyfrommo Apr 2020 #10
Yeah the key is giving yourself responsiilities jcgoldie Apr 2020 #27
Walking will do you a world of good. cwydro Apr 2020 #36
Take time to grieve the loss of our life cally Apr 2020 #18
I also grieve for the demise of our beloved country Walleye Apr 2020 #21
Yes cally Apr 2020 #24
I was more alone before this shit started. panader0 Apr 2020 #7
Here on DU there are always lots of hugs to go around, we are here to 42bambi Apr 2020 #8
Weird is okay. Oddly natural given the circumstances. . . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Apr 2020 #9
I hear you, you are not alone. shockey80 Apr 2020 #11
At least gas is cheap. nt leftyladyfrommo Apr 2020 #12
Not alone at all and not weird! :) DarthDem Apr 2020 #14
We got thru plague, flu. Tuberculosis, cholera leftyladyfrommo Apr 2020 #15
Exactly! DarthDem Apr 2020 #38
I don't know how to do that. And my brother is leftyladyfrommo Apr 2020 #40
Glad to hear that DarthDem Apr 2020 #41
It really does. ananda Apr 2020 #17
I live alone, too. Nights are not pleasant. cry baby Apr 2020 #19
I've had trouble sleeping for years Marthe48 Apr 2020 #33
Helpful tips! Thank you and stay well! nt cry baby Apr 2020 #39
Play some soothing music in the background. roamer65 Apr 2020 #20
CSN&Y: Rejoice, rejoice you have no choice but to carry on. Walleye Apr 2020 #22
I was going to respond but who cares. Boomerproud Apr 2020 #23
Sounds like you are in a bad place too. redwitch Apr 2020 #25
Lots of us care. ❤ flibbitygiblets Apr 2020 #47
Strange days indeed. warmfeet Apr 2020 #26
Very difficult Lilaclady Apr 2020 #28
More difficult for some than others. I'm so sorry you have Hortensis Apr 2020 #50
If you have dogs, you are not alone cutroot Apr 2020 #29
And then there's the flip-side MissMillie Apr 2020 #30
I think it was TheFerret who asked "On a scale from 1 to the Shining... flibbitygiblets Apr 2020 #48
I have a morning circle Marthe48 Apr 2020 #31
I'm not much more alone than usual. Buckeye_Democrat Apr 2020 #32
Hang in there. The fact that your are starting to accept this is a good sign, i.e. the acceptance c-rational Apr 2020 #34
YouTube live streams can be fun and offer some interaction in the side chat. sarcasmo Apr 2020 #35
Me and my dog are here by ourselves. He's great company. ooky Apr 2020 #37
Doesn't really faze me, but my wife and kids Codeine Apr 2020 #42
My ex-wife was that way. Buckeye_Democrat Apr 2020 #46
I set up a drum circle with neighbors, zoom happy hours, zoom meetings, walks with friends. Chalco Apr 2020 #43
You may need to meet up with a Ilsa Apr 2020 #45
Same shanti Apr 2020 #49
True. nt leftyladyfrommo Apr 2020 #51
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