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215. Old widow lady safe in SW Ohio.
Wed Apr 15, 2020, 03:00 AM
Apr 2020

Have only left the house 3 times since March 9 - to the druggist and a grocery stop. I miss Sunday mass and seeing life beyond my vistas.

Daughter brings me some fresh food once or twice a week, and the pantry and freezer have stocked well enough.
Haven't seen adult son for at least a month; his work involves public contact and he was feeling rather poorly for about 2 weeks.
It wouldn't surprise me if he had the virus, but the urgent care he visited said his symptoms weren't bad enough for him to be tested.

Another daughter lives in a long-term care facility and, of course, they're in lock-down , so I can't see her. She's very emotionally needy and my life mission at this age is to give her psychological support and get her to appropriate doctors, and defend her as necessary. At this time our only visits are by phone. Her facility is planning a Zoom connection once per week; I'll need other daughter's help with that, as my desk-top doesn't have camera or microphone.

I have several "underlying conditions", as they say, and probably wouldn't survive, if they even felt I was worth saving due to age. Live on my own, and enjoy watching wildlife in my back yard, reading news and stuff on computer, and watching TV. Sleep late and get up late. Very little social interaction besides family. I hadn't planned on dying in pain & suffering, struggling to breathe. Had hoped to just fade away some time in the future.

I'm safe I_UndergroundPanther Apr 2020 #1
I've done the same thing as for clothing for going out. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #20
I'm OK rickyhall Apr 2020 #190
I'm showering as well hamsterjill Apr 2020 #202
I'm well but not safe. Maru Kitteh Apr 2020 #2
You be safe, please. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #22
This message was self-deleted by its author Sherman A1 Apr 2020 #3
Hey, we all have those interactions sometimes. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #23
Yeah don't let them get to you. captain queeg Apr 2020 #39
Ditto ConnorMarc Apr 2020 #112
We are the luckiest quarantine in the world LakeArenal Apr 2020 #4
Great attitude! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #24
Not stupid at all. AirmensMom Apr 2020 #5
Yep, the world is in one collective moan, it seems. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #26
This message was self-deleted by its author elocs Apr 2020 #6
Good for you! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #32
I'm safe LiberalLoner Apr 2020 #7
Glad you are safe! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #34
You too! Glad you are safe! Wishing protection for all my DU friends! LiberalLoner Apr 2020 #61
There are four adults and one toddler in my household. Eyeball_Kid Apr 2020 #8
Oh my! That's awful. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #35
Well but not safe, as long as COVFEFE-19 is still in the White House. lagomorph777 Apr 2020 #9
Truth!!! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #37
Staying at home with my wife mokawanis Apr 2020 #10
I worry about the outcome, too. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #48
We are doing fine. Sunny and mild today. Polly Hennessey Apr 2020 #11
Sounds lovely. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #50
Safe HarlanPepper Apr 2020 #12
Gotta take your entertainment where you can get it, right???!!! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #51
Ok ProfessorGAC Apr 2020 #13
Oh man! I've been there with the plumbing! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #52
It's Fixed ProfessorGAC Apr 2020 #115
Congratulations!!! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #124
Me and my husband are safe! CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2020 #14
I'm re-learning the cooking! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #53
As hardly anyone can get tested, hardly anyone knows if they are 'safe' right now or not. Voltaire2 Apr 2020 #15
I know. It's all the unknowns. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #54
I don't know if I'm safe or not. But I'm healthy, at least. Aristus Apr 2020 #16
Thank you. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #56
Doing great as long as I don't have to leave the house. luvs2sing Apr 2020 #17
This was posted onDU a bit ago LakeArenal Apr 2020 #40
Love it! luvs2sing Apr 2020 #41
Are you looking at MY hair??? hamsterjill Apr 2020 #58
I started growing my color out in December luvs2sing Apr 2020 #72
My hair....my worst "unhappy" situation (looks awful) northoftheborder Apr 2020 #83
Yes, lots of cooking and knitting going on here. luvs2sing Apr 2020 #93
I'm that introvert with an extrovert spouse Backseat Driver Apr 2020 #104
Compared to others we should be great marlakay Apr 2020 #18
It's hard to be around negativity. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #60
Thanks for understanding marlakay Apr 2020 #101
Sounds like a good plan. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #142
Under tornado watch JustAnotherGen Apr 2020 #19
Stay safe! Behind the Aegis Apr 2020 #36
Thanks JustAnotherGen Apr 2020 #113
Oh goodness. I hope it all fizzles out. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #62
Yikes! Me too. TrunKated Apr 2020 #92
I have a few friends JustAnotherGen Apr 2020 #114
Safe and well at the moment Proud Liberal Dem Apr 2020 #21
I'm scared, too. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #63
Same too Proud Liberal Dem Apr 2020 #68
OK Here for now SheltieLover Apr 2020 #25
I'm okay on the TP, too, but I need to restock perishables hamsterjill Apr 2020 #65
Thx! SheltieLover Apr 2020 #67
I'm okay, and also not okay. intheflow Apr 2020 #27
Thanks for your reasoned response. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #69
Family Safe and my brother is out of ICU and is expected to survive...feeling very blessed today Demsrule86 Apr 2020 #28
Did your brother have Covid-19? hamsterjill Apr 2020 #70
I'm safe. Haven't gone anywhere since March 14 The Velveteen Ocelot Apr 2020 #29
You are doing the most useful thing you can do at the moment LakeArenal Apr 2020 #44
Yes, I keep reminding myself that I'm most useful being useless. The Velveteen Ocelot Apr 2020 #46
A PATRIOTIC slob. Thanks for your sacrifice. LakeArenal Apr 2020 #55
I hear you. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #71
You are doing something useful. bluescribbler Apr 2020 #47
I am OK, taking it .."One Minute at a Time" Stuart G Apr 2020 #30
I hear you! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #73
Safe and sound. bluescribbler Apr 2020 #31
Good! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #74
Thanks bluescribbler Apr 2020 #186
Day #29 of total isolation. Towlie Apr 2020 #33
I think that means that you like yourself! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #76
That's my life too lunatica Apr 2020 #94
Not a stupid idea! Thanks for asking. FM123 Apr 2020 #38
Weather! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #77
I am pretty sure I've had it and recovered localroger Apr 2020 #42
I bet you're right. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #80
I'm doing well in the middle of Manhattan dhol82 Apr 2020 #43
Glad you are handling the challenges well. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #81
Well, since I have the time...... DFW Apr 2020 #45
Sounds like you've got it covered! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #100
It's better than being in a country with an insane leader DFW Apr 2020 #147
Very kind of you to ask! spicysista Apr 2020 #49
Wise counsel!!! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #102
Having a lot of weird dreams.... RANDYWILDMAN Apr 2020 #57
Yeah, me too! dhol82 Apr 2020 #85
Probably stress related? hamsterjill Apr 2020 #103
Me too, they're not bad Raine Apr 2020 #158
We have to rely on our governors to do the right thing but.... KY_EnviroGuy Apr 2020 #59
You bring up some good considerations. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #107
My wife is a health care professional. hunter Apr 2020 #64
Please tell your wife we all wish her wel. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #110
Retired in Paradise The River Apr 2020 #66
You are indeed lucky. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #111
I Dwell In a Constant State of The River Apr 2020 #116
Doing well so far... Wounded Bear Apr 2020 #75
Good deal! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #119
Doing good here... Alacritous Crier Apr 2020 #78
My experience as well. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #120
Doing fine shanti Apr 2020 #79
May you continue to be safe. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #121
Doing okay here in Scottsdale despite ChazII Apr 2020 #82
Wishing you well. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #122
Safe as can be. sarge43 Apr 2020 #84
I'll meet you virtually on November 3rd!! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #123
A blue tsunami n/t sarge43 Apr 2020 #132
Let's make it so!!!! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #141
Doing very well. Electricity was out here Glorfindel Apr 2020 #86
Oh goodness. You've been through the wringer. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #125
Let's see now... Sloumeau Apr 2020 #87
I like your style. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #126
I don't know. murielm99 Apr 2020 #88
I panic sometimes. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #127
We're as safe as possible and doing fine. Stonepounder Apr 2020 #89
By this time, I hope your video chat with the doctor had resulted in some relief. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #128
Sometimes karma just decides to have a giggle. Stonepounder Apr 2020 #171
Glad to hear this!!! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #181
Okay for now. Hanging in there. Hekate Apr 2020 #90
That's me, too, pretty much. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #129
Its a very sweet thread. My husband and I have been very lucky, thank you. BeckyDem Apr 2020 #91
Yes, it's going to be a long time to get to November hamsterjill Apr 2020 #130
You too! BeckyDem Apr 2020 #144
Thanks, hamsterjill gademocrat7 Apr 2020 #95
Bad weather is just too much right now! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #191
I work in a local hospital majdrfrtim Apr 2020 #96
Thank you! mindfulNJ Apr 2020 #106
Oh please be safe! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #133
Safe here, so far. ananda Apr 2020 #97
I hope it comes soon! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #135
My ass is OK, and... MarianJack Apr 2020 #98
Amen. Resist!!! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #136
;-) MarianJack Apr 2020 #148
Safe at home in Connecticut mindfulNJ Apr 2020 #99
That's generous of your daughter and son-in-law hamsterjill Apr 2020 #137
Yes it is.. mindfulNJ Apr 2020 #218
Still here cagefreesoylentgreen Apr 2020 #105
Sheesh! Can the police do anything about the neighbor. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #138
I'm sure the cops have been out cagefreesoylentgreen Apr 2020 #162
Yes, very safe here. My kids are guarding me. Butterflylady Apr 2020 #108
Hope all is well. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #139
Safe in mid-Michigan Siwsan Apr 2020 #109
Stir crazy is to be expected I think. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #140
Two humans w/ three dogs & one kitten overlord. Solly Mack Apr 2020 #117
I'm into cat rescue heavily. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #150
The kitten I found in my yard, in the front brambles Solly Mack Apr 2020 #163
I love to hear stories like this. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #165
those are the best kind. We got a cat from a couple who demigoddess Apr 2020 #205
NO ONE IS SAFE WITH THIS ADMINISTRATION AT THE HELM Demonaut Apr 2020 #118
No worries. I understand completely. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #151
So far so good with not getting Coronavirus mvd Apr 2020 #131
It's scary to have to go out. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #152
We're fine so far, although the forced finishing of home improvement projects isn't fun. Vinca Apr 2020 #134
Can you come to my house when you're finished? hamsterjill Apr 2020 #153
We're good so far ironflange Apr 2020 #143
Sanity, right? hamsterjill Apr 2020 #217
Thank you for this post. Doing well. LuckyCharms Apr 2020 #145
Good advice from your doc. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #154
You as well. I wish you good health. LuckyCharms Apr 2020 #157
Thank you! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #164
My husband just told me that an employee at his office had the classic coronavirus betsuni Apr 2020 #146
Oh shit! Sounds like a Trumper. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #155
I'm hanging in there MustLoveBeagles Apr 2020 #149
Stay safe and continue to do well! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #166
I'll try MustLoveBeagles Apr 2020 #172
I'm safe and pissed. dewsgirl Apr 2020 #156
I understand. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #167
Doing OK, I've been in except to get food 😏 Raine Apr 2020 #159
Newsom is doing a great job. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #168
Very nice and interesting thread, Hamsterjill. Thanks. Hortensis Apr 2020 #160
Thanks. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #169
I'm physically fine. a la izquierda Apr 2020 #161
I hear you. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #170
I'm currently filling out law school applications a la izquierda Apr 2020 #182
You really want to know? Lady Freedom Returns Apr 2020 #173
Yep and getting more so as each day passes. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #174
Scared shitless. scrabblequeen40 Apr 2020 #175
We gotta take care of one another hamsterjill Apr 2020 #177
Doing good except it was like a hurricane - OhZone Apr 2020 #176
I heard there was bad weather. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #178
The turnout in Wisconsin is a good sign! dawg day Apr 2020 #179
Yes, I agree. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #192
We are staying home and feeling fine. Desert grandma Apr 2020 #180
I'm glad NM is prepping and ahead of the game. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #193
Survived 2 cancers, a heart attack and now a pandemic! SmartVoter22 Apr 2020 #183
You are one tough and determined Democrat! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #195
I'm safe just outside Boston Marrah_Goodman Apr 2020 #184
I'm in San Antonio hamsterjill Apr 2020 #196
Doing well, safe and sound. Thanks for this. 0nirevets Apr 2020 #185
Thanks! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #197
Doing great! Buckeye_Democrat Apr 2020 #187
I can understand hamsterjill Apr 2020 #198
i'm as busy as a one-armed paper hanger. mopinko Apr 2020 #188
Now I know who to ask my gardening questions! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #199
peppers are the worst. mopinko Apr 2020 #203
Just my luck to start with something difficult!!! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #207
lots of info in the gardening forum. several pinned threads. mopinko Apr 2020 #210
Doing well, hamsterjill! Thanks for this thread. I'm much more worried about others than about highplainsdem Apr 2020 #189
May your prayers be answered! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #200
I'm doing ok for now democrattotheend Apr 2020 #194
Please take care. hamsterjill Apr 2020 #201
Our quarentine is holding up well so far. Four of us in the house. woodsprite Apr 2020 #204
Happy Belated Birthday! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #208
This will be a long answer. cate94 Apr 2020 #206
Ok here in FL! CaptainTruth Apr 2020 #209
I need to wash my hair LOL lillypaddle Apr 2020 #211
We're going to make it by doing all the right thinga nd not listening to Donnie Two Scoops ... marble falls Apr 2020 #212
Everything was pretty ok until March 12th. nilesobek Apr 2020 #213
That's scary. cate94 Apr 2020 #214
Old widow lady safe in SW Ohio. No Vested Interest Apr 2020 #215
OMG I had a near disaster day turn miraculous! I have a story, in FL Baclava Apr 2020 #216
Glad it all worked out! hamsterjill Apr 2020 #219
Thanks, forgot the worst part, it had started to rain! Just a few sprinkles, but sky was dark Baclava Apr 2020 #220
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