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24. I agree with every sentence that you wrote. . .
Sun Sep 29, 2019, 01:36 PM
Sep 2019

Save for the one clause:". . . can't you see the suffering those innocent people would then have to endure?"

Can't you see that nothing I wrote was dismissive of the possiblity that others could suffer due to the man's actions?

I have spent my entire life trying to understand my own emotions and that of those around me. I KNOW that it is better to live and struggle with the pain of one's own trauma rather than trying to transfer that pain onto others.

Ask virtually any mental health professional about the psychology of child sexual abuse. Over and over again, it is confirmed that abusers suffered their own abuse when they were young and powerless. Rather than confront their rage and work through it, they "recreate" similar scenarios in which they appease their pain by becoming the one who has the power in the experience.

Because I have made an effort to understand the pathology behind sexual abuse of children, are you now going to suggest that I don't want child molesters stopped and imprisoned?

As a very conservative, religious former friend once pointed out : There is a difference between an excuse and a reason.

I don't think that the reason for the arsonist's actions had anything to do with the current political issues of our country. That does not mean that I excuse them as anything less than dangerous and criminal.

The reason that I refuse to blame the "Maga[t]s" for the man's crime is because it is an affront to logic and honesty. Being honest, using logic, and leading with compassion are a big part of my personal definition of what it means to be a Liberal.

Their dear leader encourages them to hate on California. marybourg Sep 2019 #1
Yup.. That is undoubtedly it. hlthe2b Sep 2019 #3
Looks like he will be spending more time in California than planned. Sneederbunk Sep 2019 #2
At 68, it might have been a one-way trip. RockRaven Sep 2019 #4
Domestic terrorism? The Japanese tried to set forest fires with balloon bombs during brewens Sep 2019 #5
Fu-go balloon bombs. Never heard of them ffr Sep 2019 #8
All previous fires need to be re-investigated now. ecstatic Sep 2019 #6
Since it was his high school reunion, how about if the headline instead read: Lulu KC Sep 2019 #7
Since he lives in Missouri, we can just keep calling him Missouri man. Iggo Sep 2019 #11
According to the article. . . Collimator Sep 2019 #9
Wild fires kill. Bodies burn and people die. Fuck this guy. No buts. (n/t) Iggo Sep 2019 #12
If that's how you feel. . . Collimator Sep 2019 #13
Um... Iggo Sep 2019 #15
The problem is. Blue_true Sep 2019 #19
I agree with every sentence that you wrote. . . Collimator Sep 2019 #24
I fold. Thanks for the detailed post. nt Blue_true Sep 2019 #28
Boom! cwydro Sep 2019 #23
You can make your own. calguy Sep 2019 #26
Hmmm, sounds experienced. nt Blue_true Sep 2019 #29
No. I'm not experienced calguy Sep 2019 #33
You forgot the, Blue_true Sep 2019 #34
Well, that's certainly something to keep in mind. Collimator Sep 2019 #30
I agree with you Iggo. I_UndergroundPanther Sep 2019 #31
That's what I'm saying. Iggo Sep 2019 #37
Lol, people blame everything on republicans here. cwydro Sep 2019 #14
Thank your for grasping my point. Collimator Sep 2019 #17
Well, republicans are typically assholes. So blaming them first is not all that inaccurate. Blue_true Sep 2019 #20
Thank you! Lulu KC Sep 2019 #18
Any terrorist Timewas Sep 2019 #10
That's what the Japanese tried to do in WWII with the balloon bombs Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Sep 2019 #22
But they Timewas Sep 2019 #25
Folks, the MAGATS are playing for keeps. They don't care about hurting or killing people. Blue_true Sep 2019 #16
Enemies of the president are... ffr Sep 2019 #21
I agree magats are dangerous. I_UndergroundPanther Sep 2019 #32
A "spy" saw his car parked on the side of the road and copied its tag number. NCjack Sep 2019 #27
arson suspect reportedly lit fires, then went to high school reunion and seemed 'happy' JI7 Sep 2019 #35
I'm getting sick of people doing this stuff. LiberalFighter Sep 2019 #36
I should have known; Samuel Ayer HS, Doc_Technical Sep 2019 #38
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