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44. On the other hand, DON'T get obsessed with Harvard
Sat Apr 27, 2019, 06:25 AM
Apr 2019

My younger daughter applied, was treated shabbily by the admissions team, and was basically insulted by them. She ended up happy as a clam in college Washington, DC, then went to a so-called "second tier" law school in New York, who gave her a "diversity" scholarship, since she is German. At age 31, she became the youngest partner ever at a major international law firm based in New York (she works out of their Frankfurt office), and now makes several multiples of what I do, will probably be a multi-millionaire before age 40, juggling motherhood and her job without coming close to burning out.

Her firm's head office in NYC sends over recent grads from Harvard Law and Yale Law to do internships. She tells me they are often stuck-up, useless snobs with a lousy work ethic, poor legal work in poor English, and even worse German. They think, mistakenly, that flashing their fancy diplomas is a substitute for being good at their jobs. They are shocked to find out that it is not.

So don't think that a "name" school is a must. She'll do best where she fits in best.

Maybe Aunt Becky could help too. mobeau69 Apr 2019 #1
WooHoo! Congratulations! dlk Apr 2019 #2
Wonderful! lucca18 Apr 2019 #3
Thanks...! She's pretty amazing! FirstLight Apr 2019 #4
Congrats! DonaldsRump Apr 2019 #5
good to know! FirstLight Apr 2019 #6
Good for her! DonaldsRump Apr 2019 #7
Just a friendly advice fatrick Apr 2019 #8
I encourage you to really dig into whether this is worth it in the long run. WhiskeyGrinder Apr 2019 #9
Yes. fatrick Apr 2019 #10
Yep. Companies like this take advantage of a lot of people. It's infuriating. WhiskeyGrinder Apr 2019 #11
My kids get things like that. One went to George Mason amd spent a week. It didn't mean anything. TheBlackAdder Apr 2019 #12
wow...I think it's still pretty impressive but thanks for the heads up FirstLight Apr 2019 #13
I'm proud of her, too! Plus, the other suggestions sound like good experience. Karadeniz Apr 2019 #14
Sounds like a wonderful experience for her; babylonsister Apr 2019 #15
Congratulations on having such an amazing daughter! FM123 Apr 2019 #16
thanks...! FirstLight Apr 2019 #19
That is so wonderful that she is proactive like that! FM123 Apr 2019 #28
Any interest in coming East? CTyankee Apr 2019 #17
She wanted to do HArvard FirstLight Apr 2019 #20
It's always best to aim high, I think. The school that gets her will be lucky, indeed! CTyankee Apr 2019 #29
The great thing about Harvard Horse with no Name Apr 2019 #32
good to know! FirstLight Apr 2019 #34
The average salaries of 10yr Harvard grads was about $9K more than second place Princeton Univ. TheBlackAdder Apr 2019 #41
On the other hand, DON'T get obsessed with Harvard DFW Apr 2019 #44
You should be proud. But also carefully research any program that wants money to attend. Pepsidog Apr 2019 #18
Well done! mcar Apr 2019 #21
Just made a small contribution, wishing her a wonderful experience! MLAA Apr 2019 #22
thanks! :) FirstLight Apr 2019 #24
Wow, I love hearing about amazing young people like your daughter! Lonestarblue Apr 2019 #23
she's always been a "stand-out" kinda kid FirstLight Apr 2019 #25
Bookmarking. You must be so proud. NightWatcher Apr 2019 #26
I know... FirstLight Apr 2019 #31
That is amazing! Phoenix61 Apr 2019 #27
right? FirstLight Apr 2019 #30
Congratulations to her NewJeffCT Apr 2019 #33
Kick for morning crew FirstLight Apr 2019 #35
Donated! Congrats to your daughter. Justice Apr 2019 #36
thanks so much... FirstLight Apr 2019 #37
I'll post the link for the news story when it goes up! FirstLight Apr 2019 #38
Her Scholarship 500 word essay is about Immigration -Please Read! FirstLight Apr 2019 #39
note: I was pregnant w/her during 9/11 FirstLight Apr 2019 #43
People often post gofundme stories on Twitter, one more site will help your fundraising. sarcasmo Apr 2019 #40
Thanks... FirstLight Apr 2019 #42
Please do your due diligence on this company Crabby Appleton Apr 2019 #45
I agree here. Is this experience worth this much money? Phentex Apr 2019 #46
Kick for the update FirstLight Apr 2019 #47
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