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loyalkydem

(1,678 posts)
Thu Aug 9, 2012, 09:36 PM Aug 2012

Making fun of someone who died of cancer, has cancer, or potentially has cancer is NO JOKE!!!!!! [View all]

This is going to be painful for me to type this as I am a very private person, but as friends and family have pointed out, sometimes getting support is more medicine than just not getting any support at all. I have had enough of right wing trolls who have attacked Joe Soptic over the poor man who lost his wife to cancer in 22 days.

My family has suffered with cancer. You have no idea what we go through when a family member has cancer. My father for example, may he rest in peace, died of pancreatic cancer. Lucky for us, medicare was able tot ti take care of him and allowed him to live out for about 12 months before he finally died in 2008.

My grandfather and my grandmother also died of cancer but were able to live because of medicare coverage. The only person in my family that was not able to benefit from medicare was my Uncle Melvin who died in just six months upon learning he had the same disease my father had.

Recently, I just learned that I may be have Leukemia which as you know w is a disease of the blood. When the doctor tells you that you have Leukemic cells but they can't determine your blood count and that they must send the blood off for testing, the waiting game is what kills you. Your mind dwells on the possibility that you may get sick. That adds stress on you like you wouldn't believe.

The uncertainly, the fear, it messes with your mind. You want an answer right away but you know you can't and you have to wait while at the same time people telling you that it's going to be all right. It's very scary waiting to find out weather you have a disease like Leukemia. Thankfully, I have a great support group of friends on facebook and I have my family encouraging me.

But what makes me angry is the fact that I see Republican trolls posting hateful messages against Joe Soptic. The man lost his job through NO FAULT of his own okay. This caused him to lose his health insurance, his wife did have a part time job with benefits but lost her job. There for she lost her insurance.

Please read my words carefully as I'm holding back tears as I type this. Please listen to the commercial as Joe tells his painful story. He at no point accused Mitt Romney of murder. You're being spoon fed talking points from the right. Do not dare make fun or show how hatred you are of people who have had cancer or are going through cancer without reading the facts of what these people have to go through.

All forms of cancer are painful to deal with and its taking me all the courage I have to type this post out. So please keep an open mind when dealing with cancer survivors or people who are potentially having to deal with the illness. Thank you.

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So painfully true. Thank you. JohnnyLib2 Aug 2012 #1
:'( Im so sorry you have to go through this darkangel218 Aug 2012 #2
thank you for speaking up mrs_p Aug 2012 #3
+1 freshwest Aug 2012 #6
You have my respect and compassion. yellerpup Aug 2012 #4
this post demwing Aug 2012 #5
They get uglier by the day... Kalidurga Aug 2012 #7
Soptic Joe Texas-Limerick Aug 2012 #19
This needs someone to put music to it go on YouTube and go viral... Kalidurga Aug 2012 #23
Thanks Texas-Limerick Aug 2012 #30
That is eerie I heard Johnny Cash when I read your lyrics nt. Kalidurga Aug 2012 #47
I know your pain and loss... Tikki Aug 2012 #8
I know that no one at DI has ever made fun of those with cancer or any life-threatening ailment. RebelOne Aug 2012 #9
me too... noiretextatique Aug 2012 #44
Thank you so very much for this. Lone_Star_Dem Aug 2012 #10
Anyone who jokes about cancer might end up dealing with Karma. :-( nt Raine Aug 2012 #11
And even THESE guys won't be able to help the poor fool who does that: Ken Burch Aug 2012 #22
The media was so eager on this a bunch of them missed loyalkydem's cleduc Aug 2012 #12
As many now see-they are Sociopaths. ErikJ Aug 2012 #13
Empathy, indeed! RVN VET Aug 2012 #15
+10,000 smirkymonkey Aug 2012 #16
Well said. VERY well said. calimary Aug 2012 #34
The real message of today's Right is this: Ken Burch Aug 2012 #21
I can understand what you are going through. riverbendviewgal Aug 2012 #14
I would never, ever envy what you've gone through, tavalon Aug 2012 #39
Hate is easy Smilo Aug 2012 #17
You're Flatpicker Aug 2012 #18
You're also talking about a group that cheers for executions, catcalls about calimary Aug 2012 #35
Making fun of a guy whose wife died of cancer due to his greed-mandated layoff... Ken Burch Aug 2012 #20
not just cancer shireen Aug 2012 #24
K and R goclark Aug 2012 #25
stay courageous thinklikeme Aug 2012 #26
I kinda know what you're going through SnowCritter Aug 2012 #27
. Coyote_Bandit Aug 2012 #28
It's all through my family as well: just a question of "when" for me, not "if." DFW Aug 2012 #29
i hope the news is good for you. barbtries Aug 2012 #31
We have your back. WinstonSmith4740 Aug 2012 #32
Insurance companies are worse than the cancer druidqueen Aug 2012 #33
Post removed Post removed Aug 2012 #36
GO AWAY Skittles Aug 2012 #37
dam skittles you made it disappear... madrchsod Aug 2012 #41
K&R from another Cancer survivor !! penndragon69 Aug 2012 #38
Because of various issues, tavalon Aug 2012 #40
K&R from a Breast Cancer Survivor Robyn66 Aug 2012 #42
Thank you for posting this flakey_foont Aug 2012 #43
only heartless assholes make fun of poor, sick, struggling, deperate people noiretextatique Aug 2012 #45
I just returned from the hospital where my wife had the chemo port removed. Tierra_y_Libertad Aug 2012 #46
Thank you for this... Bobbie Jo Aug 2012 #48
Some folks think the worse others do, the better they do. McCamy Taylor Aug 2012 #49
Cancer pmdsyr32 Aug 2012 #50
I'm sorry to hear you lost your dad. Quantess Aug 2012 #51
Wishing you well, my husband had a bone marrow transplant for acute leukemia ... slipslidingaway Aug 2012 #52
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