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pbmus

(12,418 posts)
23. I am sorry for your loss...
Thu May 24, 2018, 06:45 PM
May 2018

My 93 yr old mother is still hanging on...barely.....

Loss of a loved one is never easy...

About an hour ago my mom died. [View all] milestogo May 2018 OP
A hug for you, and I wish you peace during this difficult time. IluvPitties May 2018 #1
thank you milestogo May 2018 #197
Deepest sympathy malaise May 2018 #2
thank you milestogo May 2018 #198
I'm so very sorry, milestogo... It has been many years, but feels like yesterday when I was in your hlthe2b May 2018 #3
I hope you have a friend or family member to be with you. Blessings. Don't be alone. Call someone. notdarkyet May 2018 #4
so sorry for you both, milestogo bigtree May 2018 #5
no milestogo May 2018 #138
my recent experience tells me that mopinko May 2018 #152
the hospice chaplain tried milestogo May 2018 #156
that's a shame. mopinko May 2018 #159
aw, heck bigtree May 2018 #173
Very Sorry. My Sympathy To You. TheMastersNemesis May 2018 #6
My sympathy to you and your bdamomma May 2018 #7
My mother passed away 5 years ago in hospice also. triron May 2018 #8
so sorry for your loss milestogo May 2018 #199
Sending you a ((HUG)) Alliepoo May 2018 #9
I've lost both of mine SHRED May 2018 #10
me too milestogo May 2018 #200
I'm so sorry. You have my heartfelt sympathies. Solly Mack May 2018 #11
I am sorry and my heart goes to you. Doreen May 2018 #12
Damn, the loss of your mom is a rough one, panader0 May 2018 #13
It takes some time to get used to this struggle4progress May 2018 #14
I am so sorry, milestogo! pnwmom May 2018 #15
My condolences to you. awesomerwb1 May 2018 #16
I'm very sorry. MontanaMama May 2018 #17
.... handmade34 May 2018 #18
So Sorry bluestarone May 2018 #19
I'm so sorry... sdfernando May 2018 #20
Milestogo, I'm so sorry. Hug any comforting memories Hortensis May 2018 #21
She loved flowers milestogo May 2018 #190
:) Hope you slept last night. Another day. Hortensis May 2018 #223
I am so sorry for your loss miles to go. smirkymonkey May 2018 #22
I am sorry for your loss... pbmus May 2018 #23
Oh wow, hurts like hell, I know...sorry Eliot Rosewater May 2018 #24
Do you have someone to comfort you? janx May 2018 #25
I'm so sorry vercetti2021 May 2018 #26
My sympathies to you. I went through this in December. 5 days before Christmas. blueinredohio May 2018 #27
My condolences for your loss. (eom) StevieM May 2018 #88
I am so sorry to hear that, MTG. TheBlackAdder May 2018 #28
thank you milestogo May 2018 #196
Very sorry for your loss. Stuart G May 2018 #29
So sorry samplegirl May 2018 #30
*huge hug* The world never feels the same without our parents in it. GreenPartyVoter May 2018 #31
I am so so sorry irisblue May 2018 #32
The love you have for your Mom will always warm your heart. cornball 24 May 2018 #33
I am so sorry for your loss. boston bean May 2018 #34
thank you milestogo May 2018 #243
Hugs TEB May 2018 #35
My deepest condolences. Coventina May 2018 #36
You're Not Alone Leith May 2018 #37
I'm so sorry for your loss milestogo. My sympathy to you and all livetohike May 2018 #38
I am so sorry. Snackshack May 2018 #39
I am so sorry for your loss, milestogo. badhair77 May 2018 #40
Awww, so very sorry for your loss. babylonsister May 2018 #41
Sorry for your loss. What city are you in? You shouldn't be alone in your grief. politicaljunkie41910 May 2018 #42
Words are so inadequate at this time. lpbk2713 May 2018 #43
My heart goes out to you. AJT May 2018 #44
Oh dear. I'm so sorry. You came to the right place for comfort. lamp_shade May 2018 #45
Losing a mother is hard. pazzyanne May 2018 #46
Yes indeed milestogo May 2018 #145
Thank you, milestogo. pazzyanne May 2018 #202
My heart goes out to you! TrollBuster9090 May 2018 #47
My condolences. The Velveteen Ocelot May 2018 #48
I'm sorry milestogo Cal Carpenter May 2018 #49
I'm so sorry. demmiblue May 2018 #50
Condolences ... NanceGreggs May 2018 #51
I'm so sorry Raine May 2018 #52
thanks people milestogo May 2018 #53
My condolences. My mother also passed at.a hospice after about a week of care . lunasun May 2018 #54
So sorry for your loss. Paz. RestoreAmerica2020 May 2018 #55
So sorry dcmfox May 2018 #56
Deepest condolences to you, milestogo lanlady May 2018 #57
My deepest sympathy. MyNameIsKhan May 2018 #58
So very sorry, hugs to you jcboon May 2018 #59
Ohhh, milestogo frogmarch May 2018 #60
Hmm. Crutchez_CuiBono May 2018 #61
I'm sorry. Take care of yourself. Buns_of_Fire May 2018 #62
Love to you & so sorry for your sad day 'milestogo' Wwcd May 2018 #63
There are no words, but I'm still very sorry for your loss. theaocp May 2018 #64
All the love of the universe is with you........ a kennedy May 2018 #65
Never easy...no matter when it happens. I'm sorry you'll be doing a "new" Kirk Lover May 2018 #66
Oh milestogo. I'm so sorry for your loss. femmedem May 2018 #67
Aw, milestogo, I'm so sorry to hear that. calimary May 2018 #68
I'm so sorry. onecaliberal May 2018 #69
Condolences to you and your family. Have a virtual hug from me. sinkingfeeling May 2018 #70
I'm so sorry! MelissaB May 2018 #71
I hope the opportunity to spend time with your mother was a blessing. Frustratedlady May 2018 #72
It was a blessing. milestogo May 2018 #96
I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a Mum is so bloody hard. Do you arthritisR_US May 2018 #73
So very sorry for your loss mcar May 2018 #74
I am so sorry for your loss LiberalLoner May 2018 #75
I am so very sorry for you. pdxflyboy May 2018 #76
My deepest condolences MrScorpio May 2018 #77
No matter the circumstance, TNNurse May 2018 #78
May your Mom have the most auspicious rebirth possible. vlyons May 2018 #79
yours and mine both DonCoquixote May 2018 #81
I'm so sorry, milestogo. lapucelle May 2018 #80
I am so sorry. Are other family members close by? Hoyt May 2018 #82
... defacto7 May 2018 #83
My condolences. Blue_true May 2018 #84
Big hug cp May 2018 #85
My condolences to you. Stay strong through these sad times. monmouth4 May 2018 #86
I am very sorry. LisaM May 2018 #87
I am so sorry for your loss. (eom) StevieM May 2018 #89
My heartfelt condolences Rorey May 2018 #90
I'm so sorry milestogo. montana_hazeleyes May 2018 #91
Deepest sympathies. InAbLuEsTaTe May 2018 #92
I am so sorry. Laffy Kat May 2018 #93
So sorry milestogo spanone May 2018 #94
So sorry for your loss Marthe48 May 2018 #95
I'm so sorry to read that. MineralMan May 2018 #97
Very sorry for your loss, milestogo! n/t Different Drummer May 2018 #98
Peace Hoosier May 2018 #99
I'm so sorry for your loss kimbutgar May 2018 #100
I'm sorry, milestogo. mia May 2018 #101
Peace to you and your family. It's hard to lose a mom or dad. Lint Head May 2018 #102
I am so sorry. snacker May 2018 #103
I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. herding cats May 2018 #104
SO sorry bucolic_frolic May 2018 #105
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my parents 4 decades ago.........and it still hurts! LongTomH May 2018 #106
Deepest sympathy Mountain Mule May 2018 #107
I am so sorry for you. bronxiteforever May 2018 #108
So very sorry for your loss. Zoonart May 2018 #109
Deepest sympathy GeoWilliam750 May 2018 #110
My sincere condolences. CentralMass May 2018 #111
Condolences, milestogo sarge43 May 2018 #112
I will be trying Ohiogal May 2018 #113
thank you milestogo May 2018 #115
Hugs to you Generic Other May 2018 #114
I'm sorry for your loss milestogo Uncle Joe May 2018 #116
Peace, light and a hug to you. BadgerMom May 2018 #117
So sorry to hear of your loss kentuck May 2018 #118
Thinking of you and sending out love backtoblue May 2018 #119
I just went through this with my brother. displacedtexan May 2018 #120
I am so sorry, you have my deepest condolences. dewsgirl May 2018 #121
I'm so sorry Danmel May 2018 #122
I lost my mom a month ago tomorrow nini May 2018 #123
I'm sorry for your loss. milestogo May 2018 #186
deepest condolences rurallib May 2018 #124
So very sorry snowybirdie May 2018 #125
My mother had home hospice care lunatica May 2018 #126
thank you milestogo May 2018 #244
And we are all there with you. tavernier May 2018 #127
you've come to the right place mnmoderatedem May 2018 #128
Condolences.... paleotn May 2018 #129
I'm so sorry. I know what you're going through, mine died last week. CaptainTruth May 2018 #130
So sorry for your loss CaptainTruth milestogo May 2018 #149
I am so sorry to hear about your mother...... chillfactor May 2018 #131
I'm so sorry for your loss. The_jackalope May 2018 #132
I'm so sorry for your loss. mountain grammy May 2018 #133
Are you doing ok? Crutchez_CuiBono May 2018 #134
thank you milestogo May 2018 #172
Of course. Crutchez_CuiBono May 2018 #183
I am very sorry. July May 2018 #135
Condolences. lsewpershad May 2018 #136
Very sorry for your loss JPPaverage May 2018 #137
It's never easy to cope with the death of parents. Afromania May 2018 #139
I have been there and I know your pain. I am so sorry lovemydogs May 2018 #140
My deepest sympathies on your great loss zeusdogmom May 2018 #141
I am so sorry. Loryn May 2018 #142
I'm so sorry for your loss. barbtries May 2018 #143
. JI7 May 2018 #144
Sorry for the loss of your mom workinclasszero May 2018 #146
I am so sorry. yardwork May 2018 #147
I'm so sorry. Ilsa May 2018 #148
Sending sympathy to comfort you. Greybnk48 May 2018 #150
Hugs to you and my sincere condolences. ButSeeYa May 2018 #151
So sorry for your loss. Peace and hugs. Ninga May 2018 #153
You are not alone. We are all there with you. samnsara May 2018 #154
So sorry for your loss...... CatMor May 2018 #155
Can't imgaine what you are going thru. So sorry for your loss. Va Lefty May 2018 #157
I am so sorry cpamomfromtexas May 2018 #158
So sorry friend. BootinUp May 2018 #160
May there be the spirit of Grace to surround and fill your space.. Civic Justice May 2018 #161
Rest in peace shenmue May 2018 #162
... cry baby May 2018 #163
I'm so sorry. I hope you have people around you. nolabear May 2018 #164
So very sorry. madaboutharry May 2018 #165
Please accept my deepest condolences milestogo denbot May 2018 #166
Our hearts feel your pain. Chickensoup May 2018 #167
Deepest sympathy to you and your family. roamer65 May 2018 #168
Very sorry to hear that. Iahotdog May 2018 #169
I am so sorry for your loss tenderfoot May 2018 #170
I'm sorry for your loss. samir.g May 2018 #171
It is a sacred hour. lostnfound May 2018 #174
I'm so sorry, milestogo. gristy May 2018 #175
It's a tough road you have ahead NewsCenter28 May 2018 #176
I am so sorry FM123 May 2018 #177
I am so sorry. cate94 May 2018 #178
I'm sorry for your loss. Lifelong Protester May 2018 #179
I am so sorry Maraya1969 May 2018 #180
so sorry for your loss. Call someone if you can. aikoaiko May 2018 #181
Peace be with you. +++++++++ spooky3 May 2018 #182
So sorry for your loss. jonno99 May 2018 #184
I'm so sorry. n/t area51 May 2018 #185
I am so sorry. Her love will stay with you. raging moderate May 2018 #187
Sending you love. Tavarious Jackson May 2018 #188
Peace to you MaryMagdaline May 2018 #189
Can't imagine anything so horrible. I am sorry milestogo! Laura PourMeADrink May 2018 #191
My Deepest and Sincerest sympathy to your family -- n/t mazzarro May 2018 #192
So sorry to hear about your Mom healthnut7 May 2018 #193
Condolences on your loss benld74 May 2018 #194
I'm so very sorry, jazzcat23 May 2018 #195
Sending some empathy and love Blue_playwright May 2018 #201
so sorry milestogo, deeply sorry to hear Cicada May 2018 #203
I am sorry for your loss Gothmog May 2018 #204
We experienced a heart fracturing major stroke my mom sprinkleeninow May 2018 #205
thank you sprink milestogo May 2018 #245
Forever in your heart and memories, milestogo.., Heartstrings May 2018 #206
Alone is the worst DFW May 2018 #207
... lame54 May 2018 #208
I am so very sorry Rhiannon12866 May 2018 #209
My deepert sympathy for your pain and loss,Milestogo stuffmatters May 2018 #210
" I don't know how I will live without her." orleans May 2018 #211
thank you milestogo May 2018 #220
Sorry for your loss voteearlyvoteoften May 2018 #212
No matter your age, when a parent goes, you're made an "orphan"... VOX May 2018 #213
I am so terribly sorry phylny May 2018 #214
Dear Miles MFM008 May 2018 #215
so sorry to hear ! we are here for you steve2470 May 2018 #216
Take Care, Miles ProfessorGAC May 2018 #217
Condolences... N_E_1 for Tennis May 2018 #218
I'm so sorry... Upthevibe May 2018 #219
So sorry. I miss my Mom everyday. It will take time but one day you will remember her like she was Demsrule86 May 2018 #221
I am so sorry that you are going through this alone, milestogo. mnhtnbb May 2018 #222
Bless your heart... Raster May 2018 #224
My sympathies sellitman May 2018 #225
So sorry DownriverDem May 2018 #226
how are you doing today? samnsara May 2018 #227
I'm so very sorry. catbyte May 2018 #228
Grief can be paralzying. lark May 2018 #229
I'm glad that she had you for a son, and I sure that you'll take care of her memory well and have downeastdaniel May 2018 #230
So sorry for your major loss pandr32 May 2018 #231
My sympathies spinbaby May 2018 #232
Please accept my condolences n/t malthaussen May 2018 #233
Sorry to hear this sad news. May she rest in peace. imanamerican63 May 2018 #234
Please accept my condolences. I'm so sorry. Kind of Blue May 2018 #235
You were there for her. ucrdem May 2018 #236
Milestogo, I hope that the hospice had a grief organization that may be able to help you now. Texin May 2018 #237
The hospice was not in the state where I live milestogo May 2018 #255
I am so sorry Justice May 2018 #238
I was my mom's birthday present 70 years ago. Hulk May 2018 #239
So sorry for your loss. BadGimp May 2018 #240
... lunamagica May 2018 #241
Sorry for your loss dreamland May 2018 #242
I'm so very sorry for your loss Hekate May 2018 #246
Sorry for your loss and i hope peace comes soon for you. lancelyons May 2018 #247
I'm so sorry prudence54 May 2018 #248
(((Hugs))) Quayblue May 2018 #249
Sorry for your loss marlakay May 2018 #250
So sorry iamateacher May 2018 #251
So very sorry for you. My mom passed in the night so I didn't redstateblues May 2018 #252
Hey, I know how you feel. stevil May 2018 #253
Condolences on the loss of your beloved mother. gademocrat7 May 2018 #254
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