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Hekate

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46. Someone more deeply attuned to China and India would have to explore that. What I know is...
Sat May 12, 2018, 09:09 PM
May 2018

...they are both patriarchal cultures with no social safety net for old people aside from sons. Female infanticide was always fairly common, as girl children were a drag on the family economy, needed a dowry, and moved off to their husband's homes at marriage. Given the opportunities offered by modern medicine, i.e. ultrasounds and safe abortions, selecting for sons was a given, and the current crisis was predictable.

In India, where the whole notion of manhood is deeply tied to marriage and family, millions of young men are not imagining that they are being denied that status (and the sex that goes with it). Unlike American "incels," who suffer most from palpable personality defects and focus on the denial of the sexual act, these young men have good reason for their rage at a situation created by their parents' generation's personal selfishness, although most probably cannot see it quite that way. All they see is that they and their very large cohort are being denied a basic human social need (wife and children) -- and the easiest target to lash out at is anyone female.



so much hate has been unleashed KT2000 May 2018 #1
It is a toxic culture gratuitous May 2018 #2
And maybe, turn off the video games, marybourg May 2018 #3
Women make up 42% of the gaming market in 2017 Blue_Adept May 2018 #12
Porn makes them think wejust fall on our backs because they're dudes. elehhhhna May 2018 #26
Porn doesn't make anyone think anything. Loki Liesmith May 2018 #28
The brain is the largest sex organ in the human body ChubbyStar May 2018 #36
I think that porn makes them believe that women just fall on their backs ... dawg May 2018 #37
Yes, but I think it's part of a larger problem Bradshaw3 May 2018 #4
I think we have always had these types with us gratuitous May 2018 #5
"social skills" safeinOhio May 2018 #6
I've often wondered why a woman would want to have anything to do with these jerks, young or RKP5637 May 2018 #29
I've noticed the same, especially among well-off white men. yardwork May 2018 #40
I agree and also about right wing media Bradshaw3 May 2018 #41
The people who told them what's important and how to get it fucked up royally. Iggo May 2018 #7
Something went very wrong in the last 10 years. Initech May 2018 #16
Yep, it is ... like an invasion beam has set off a lot of aberrant behavior. n/t RKP5637 May 2018 #30
a bunch of jerk offs that need to jerk off. TeamPooka May 2018 #8
"... inceldom can be cured by getting these wayward young men laid ..." WRONG! apnu May 2018 #9
What a bunch of excuses. WhiskeyGrinder May 2018 #10
"Incel" violence is just the tip of the iceberg ck4829 May 2018 #11
It started with Gamer Gate. Initech May 2018 #17
You nailed it malaise May 2018 #22
The parallels between Incels and Islamic terrorists are astounding. Yavin4 May 2018 #13
Yep, good observation. Take away the location, country/nationality, and it seems the same. n/t RKP5637 May 2018 #31
There is NO one size fits all cure for this Blue_Adept May 2018 #14
Good read. Like Islamic terrorists, and whomever else, I think its worth trying to figure out how to stevenleser May 2018 #15
A very good read. I encourage everyone to read it in its entirety. Garrett78 May 2018 #18
Thanks for posting this. smirkymonkey May 2018 #19
Total Horseshit flotsam May 2018 #20
Do you really think this article hinges on "geographically Caucasian male"? ..... marble falls May 2018 #21
I could shit care less flotsam May 2018 #23
Whats with your hostility, ace? Women troubles? Read the article and have your question answered. marble falls May 2018 #24
So it's a tiny bit horseshit, and you skipped the rest. Iggo May 2018 #25
Reading comprehension is your friend Hekate May 2018 #44
Incels are an insignificant problem Loki Liesmith May 2018 #27
Unless they terrorize or kill you Hekate May 2018 #45
And again, parallels to Islamic terrorists. Those are a very small percentage of the population and stevenleser May 2018 #47
Feminists, and feminists HERE know about these fuckers for years ismnotwasm May 2018 #32
+1000 MuseRider May 2018 #38
Yeah. I agree. ismnotwasm May 2018 #39
Is there any connection MuseRider May 2018 #43
Someone more deeply attuned to China and India would have to explore that. What I know is... Hekate May 2018 #46
Tired of "sympathy for the 'incel'" dawg day May 2018 #33
I have sympathy for "pre-incels" -- the boys who were bullied for... moriah May 2018 #42
I dont have sympathy for them, nor do I have sympathy for Islamic terrorists. but stopping them one stevenleser May 2018 #48
I'm wondering if the loss of jobs that required physical & skilled labor lindysalsagal May 2018 #34
They're a bunch of whiny, entitled assholes GaYellowDawg May 2018 #35
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