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retrowire

(10,345 posts)
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 03:08 PM Jul 2016

A thread for apologies.

Last edited Tue Jul 12, 2016, 09:39 PM - Edit history (1)

So, you all know me as an avid Bernie supporter.

And I just wanted to make it known that I still stand with Bernie and the political revolution he started. I won't beat around the bushes here...

I still have trust issues with Hillary. I still feel a sting from how my views and actions have been cast aside and insulted during the primary.

But I also understand that I was passionate as well and I lashed out at others.

The point is, now that Bernie has endorsed Hillary, I want it to be known that I have every intention to follow his lead. I don't have the luxury to allow a Trump presidency and I won't sit comfortably by while risking a nation of emboldened bigots being proven right, that they can legitimately step on the rights of my neighbors of minorities.

Essentially, if Hillary wins, the Bernie's Political Revolution still has a platform.

If Trump wins, then we lose it all. Not only will we be halted, but we'll be backtracked a long ways.

So... To get to it, I'm sorry to the Hillary Supporters that I may have offended during the primary season.

If we are progressives, then let us progress.

If anyone else wants to stand up and apologize, (and this is all in the interest of unity, we've been pretty brutal), then step on up and make amends.

Stand together, right? Let's continue onward.

DISCLAIMER: This apology reflects my opinion and my opinion alone. I am representing no other party, site or forum.

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A thread for apologies. (Original Post) retrowire Jul 2016 OP
Well said. GOTV, DU. FSogol Jul 2016 #1
if i were ever an asshole to you retrowire Jul 2016 #3
We argued a few times, but I never took personal offense. Glad you're still with us. FSogol Jul 2016 #7
okay. let's do this then. nt retrowire Jul 2016 #8
Thank you, we were all very passionate this year but we must defeat Trump! Agschmid Jul 2016 #2
pretty certain I was an asshole to you once retrowire Jul 2016 #5
I'm over it, and don't remember it. Agschmid Jul 2016 #53
I must have offended someone MFM008 Jul 2016 #4
i dont recognize your username retrowire Jul 2016 #6
I got tossed from the HRC group AllyCat Jul 2016 #87
Thank you. hamsterjill Jul 2016 #9
I'm sorry for the squabbles. looking forward towards this platform! nt retrowire Jul 2016 #13
We're good! hamsterjill Jul 2016 #44
Yes, standing together! Haveadream Jul 2016 #10
I voted Sanders to move WH leftward. I think he helped do exactly that. blm Jul 2016 #11
I'd apologize for some of my excesses but..... Armstead Jul 2016 #12
doesn't hurt to apologize anyway! retrowire Jul 2016 #14
not that I recall, Armstead. elleng Jul 2016 #31
"I'll probably still be an asshole on occasion." cstanleytech Jul 2016 #64
I've always thought you were one of the more thoughtful Bernie people OKNancy Jul 2016 #75
Sorry I worried openly about Bernie running third-party. Nye Bevan Jul 2016 #15
I don't think we've ever had a run in auntpurl Jul 2016 #16
This post edited after OP apparently apologized on a Hillary & Dem/DU HATE site for posting this OP Maru Kitteh Jul 2016 #17
For my own part.. nothing to forgive. Amimnoch Jul 2016 #18
Nicely said mcar Jul 2016 #19
Dear retrowire, Cary Jul 2016 #20
oh i totally learned plenty retrowire Jul 2016 #23
You know what I meant Cary Jul 2016 #28
i do, lol. nt retrowire Jul 2016 #36
This message was self-deleted by its author Demsrule86 Jul 2016 #21
I apologize as well... tallahasseedem Jul 2016 #22
I am sick & tired of voting for the lesser of two evils, but I'm just gonna have to be sick & tired. CrispyQ Jul 2016 #24
exactly. we don't have to love it retrowire Jul 2016 #26
I'd like to apologize too. I can get a bit snappy at times. grossproffit Jul 2016 #25
K&R nt LostOne4Ever Jul 2016 #27
I for one am enjoying klook Jul 2016 #29
I applaud you... 63splitwindow Jul 2016 #30
Thank you! Yes, let's go forward together! pnwmom Jul 2016 #32
oh I KNOW we got into a scuffle retrowire Jul 2016 #37
I honestly don't remember, so I'm sorry for whatever part I had in it. pnwmom Jul 2016 #50
Wow, I'm impressed. Thank you. bettyellen Jul 2016 #33
pretty certain we argued... retrowire Jul 2016 #38
Yes we did- but if I recall correctly you never stooped to sexist bullshit.... bettyellen Jul 2016 #41
sexist bullshit??? retrowire Jul 2016 #45
Never from you. Was disappointed to see some from people I had respected though. bettyellen Jul 2016 #73
Stooped to, not stopped. Sorry for the confusion and my damned spellcheck. bettyellen Jul 2016 #90
Dont you mean "stooped"? cstanleytech Jul 2016 #67
Posting on a phone while waking in NYC, lol....with a quite bettyellen Jul 2016 #71
Damn, be careful Warren DeMontague Jul 2016 #100
Thanks WDM, and never while crossing the street, lol! bettyellen Jul 2016 #105
Trump. Cannot. Win. ananda Jul 2016 #34
Actually he can. cstanleytech Jul 2016 #68
I would have struggled if Sanders didn't endorse. joshcryer Jul 2016 #35
For those of us who aren't really all that sorry but are Hortensis Jul 2016 #39
Excellent idea for a thread PatSeg Jul 2016 #40
I'll match your apology with my own for being unnecessarily peevish and cynical about Bernie Sanders geek tragedy Jul 2016 #42
you and I actually saw eye to eye throughout if I remember correctly. retrowire Jul 2016 #47
I don't recall you saying anything wrong. geek tragedy Jul 2016 #49
Thanks. You said it all here, retrowire: Surya Gayatri Jul 2016 #43
i know we got into a spat retrowire Jul 2016 #46
It's all good. Forward. The future awaits. Surya Gayatri Jul 2016 #48
Unity day wysi Jul 2016 #51
My apologies if I have offended you throughout this process. NCTraveler Jul 2016 #52
thanks so much. :) retrowire Jul 2016 #55
Very classy,retrowire. And I too apologize for any part sufrommich Jul 2016 #54
my pain happened when California was called before it was finished retrowire Jul 2016 #56
I been debating Coolest Ranger Jul 2016 #57
you've no idea how sincere i am. retrowire Jul 2016 #59
I believe sincerity is one of the biggest reasons retro is so well liked. NCTraveler Jul 2016 #77
Amen, but... Cary Jul 2016 #81
Right on lillypaddle Jul 2016 #58
I apologize for my behavior during the primary. It was atrocious! hrmjustin Jul 2016 #60
we argued! retrowire Jul 2016 #118
I disagree. I think you were, as usual, exceptionally even tempered and kind. When you Squinch Jul 2016 #129
You are too kind. hrmjustin Jul 2016 #130
"I still have trust issues with Hillary." If anyone said they trusted any politician 100% cstanleytech Jul 2016 #61
I don't think you have anything to apologize for. aikoaiko Jul 2016 #62
At least they aren't slapping and scolding him and bullying him into adding disclaimers.... bettyellen Jul 2016 #122
Mea culpa Helen Borg Jul 2016 #63
call me a hardass stupidicus Jul 2016 #65
... MoonRiver Jul 2016 #66
Good sentiment Retrowire angrychair Jul 2016 #69
Thanks retrowire. sheshe2 Jul 2016 #70
It's not the Clinton supporters you should be appealing to skepticscott Jul 2016 #72
I suspect that many of the Sanders supporters TNNurse Jul 2016 #80
I do not get that sense, frankly skepticscott Jul 2016 #88
Hello, I takes courage to be the 1st to step out there and apologize so kudos to you. DLCWIdem Jul 2016 #74
I apologize for jumping to conclusions about the Nevada convention bluestateguy Jul 2016 #76
Today President Obama said "With an open heart." I believe that's the only way. Thanks. nolabear Jul 2016 #78
Just a reminder bonemachine Jul 2016 #79
Sorry, but yes it is. auntpurl Jul 2016 #82
It's close enough in this context, right? Cary Jul 2016 #83
not what I said. from the op retrowire Jul 2016 #119
I agree that it's not what you said bonemachine Jul 2016 #120
ah ok nt retrowire Jul 2016 #121
Thank you, retrowire! calimary Jul 2016 #84
Read responses with amusement. Spitfire of ATJ Jul 2016 #85
I honestly don't care if anyone is being genuine or not. retrowire Jul 2016 #86
I can certainly get behind your political choices here ibegurpard Jul 2016 #89
Bottom line -- will you now support and vote for Hillary? n/t cosmicone Jul 2016 #91
This a loyalty oath in an apologies thread? Did you read the first post? nt retrowire Jul 2016 #92
The first post did not make it clear cosmicone Jul 2016 #94
From the first post. retrowire Jul 2016 #95
Thank you ... my apologies for missing that part. n/t cosmicone Jul 2016 #96
"Loyalty oath" Cary Jul 2016 #123
demanding a "yes or no" is an aggressive and rude form of communication retrowire Jul 2016 #124
I thought you were trying to be bigger than that? Cary Jul 2016 #125
see post 95. nt retrowire Jul 2016 #127
Ok please forgive me Cary Jul 2016 #126
answered your first post before seeing this retrowire Jul 2016 #128
You probably should have read the OP before responding. MerryBlooms Jul 2016 #93
I should have read it carefully. Yes. n/t cosmicone Jul 2016 #98
Good OP. So much animosity during this primary... MerryBlooms Jul 2016 #97
We're united! ronnykmarshall Jul 2016 #99
We are all truly in this together Loki Jul 2016 #101
I suspect the people who most owe the apologies, would sooner chew off their feet than give em. Warren DeMontague Jul 2016 #102
i feel exactly the same retrowire Jul 2016 #106
It's a good OP. Warren DeMontague Jul 2016 #109
Their silence is how they represent themselves. Rex Jul 2016 #107
You're one of the good ones, Rex. Warren DeMontague Jul 2016 #108
I feel the same way about you. Rex Jul 2016 #111
old enough to get that reference, too. Warren DeMontague Jul 2016 #113
Speaking of SNL, have you seen Maya and Marty? Rex Jul 2016 #114
I have not. I barely watch anything, anymore. But I like both those guys. Warren DeMontague Jul 2016 #115
Hamburger guy is sorry LuvLoogie Jul 2016 #103
DAMMIT I WAS GONNA DO THAT Warren DeMontague Jul 2016 #112
K&R! DemonGoddess Jul 2016 #104
This message was self-deleted by its author bravenak Jul 2016 #110
Great post, retrowire! Martin Eden Jul 2016 #116
You don't have much to apologize for, but it's a nice gesture. Vattel Jul 2016 #117
So, I guess this was all bullshit, then, after all. Squinch Jul 2016 #131
What are you talking about? nt retrowire Jul 2016 #132
There's a poster on another website using your username. eom grossproffit Jul 2016 #135
Really? nt retrowire Jul 2016 #141
I don't have you on ignore, MoonRiver Jul 2016 #133
Stronger Together!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! leftofcool Jul 2016 #134
I self deleted because I saw your post on JPR. Demsrule86 Jul 2016 #136
Playing games again Andy823 Jul 2016 #137
Nose-in-the-air, smug and comfortable privilege does that. Maru Kitteh Jul 2016 #142
Indeed and the DU Wiki thing is their weapon as well. Demsrule86 Jul 2016 #144
Oh my...really? tallahasseedem Jul 2016 #139
He went to JPR to explain this Post...nice NT Demsrule86 Jul 2016 #145
Do you have a link to that post Andy823 Jul 2016 #140
Yeah. I think the OP should be self deleted, as it is no longer sincere. liberalnarb Jul 2016 #146
Good job! Wounded Bear Jul 2016 #138
Well, no. The poster has since written a "Fuck you" post to Hillary on JPR and vowed never to Squinch Jul 2016 #143

FSogol

(45,586 posts)
7. We argued a few times, but I never took personal offense. Glad you're still with us.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 03:18 PM
Jul 2016

We have lots of work to do before November.

MFM008

(19,836 posts)
4. I must have offended someone
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 03:16 PM
Jul 2016

i got tossed from the Bernie group.




I thank Senator Sanders for his classy endorsement
He is a man of his word and will have valued input into this campaign.
He has already.

AllyCat

(16,265 posts)
87. I got tossed from the HRC group
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 06:37 PM
Jul 2016

for asking a question. So we are both in the banned lists. Even during GE, I am out of the discussion. And I'm not an into it fave kind of person. I have no sway over Bernie forum, but sorry your voice is silenced too.

hamsterjill

(15,224 posts)
9. Thank you.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 03:23 PM
Jul 2016

I believe we had a couple of tiffs, but you should know that I respect anyone's right to disagree as long as that person respects my right to do the same.

I applaud your post, and I am glad that you understand what *I* (personally) believe is at stake in this election.

Stronger TOGETHER!

Haveadream

(1,630 posts)
10. Yes, standing together!
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 03:24 PM
Jul 2016

Thank you for the gracious sentiment. Elections and campaigns can be really difficult and sometimes bring out the best and worst of us. You are right; it is critical that Dems work together and never forget that our similarities are greater than our differences.We have a lot of progress to make and a huge amount of conservative policy to undo. We desperately need to be united in that goal to stave off attacks from the GOP. The Clinton and Sanders coalition of Democrats is unbeatable. Stronger together!








blm

(113,132 posts)
11. I voted Sanders to move WH leftward. I think he helped do exactly that.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 03:25 PM
Jul 2016

I have no problem supporting HRC at this point, and acknowledged that some months ago, especially when another great goal of mine is to see the utter demise of the GOP as it exists today.

FWIW - Both sides had their silly days - I was banned by both groups for daring to express dismay at unnecessarily divisive use of RW talking points and careless exaggerations.

When your activism shifts to GOTV your patience for divisiveness wears thin pretty damn fast.

Welcome to GOTV. It matters - every election.

cstanleytech

(26,357 posts)
64. "I'll probably still be an asshole on occasion."
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 05:25 PM
Jul 2016

Anyone who isnt one on occasion is usually heavily medicated.

OKNancy

(41,832 posts)
75. I've always thought you were one of the more thoughtful Bernie people
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 05:52 PM
Jul 2016

You didn't bash the Clinton supporters like so many others did ( that I ever saw anyway)

I understood some of the Bernie people praising their guy or slamming Clinton, but some of the nasty words to the supporters of Hillary were hard to take. It made me have hate in my heart.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
15. Sorry I worried openly about Bernie running third-party.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 03:28 PM
Jul 2016

I should have trusted that he would do the right thing in the end.

auntpurl

(4,311 posts)
16. I don't think we've ever had a run in
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 03:29 PM
Jul 2016

but thank you for your gracious OP and of course I apologise if I've ever offended anyone. I strive to be always civil, but I don't always live up to my own ideals. I hope Bernie supporters throughout this primary season knew me (if they knew me at all!) as a polite Hillary supporter who was willing to engage in discussion about issues.

I think this endorsement comes at a great moment (although I do admit I was impatient for it!) and sets us up for a wonderful Democratic convention, in stark contrast to the other side of the aisle, which is going to be a shit show of epic proportions.

Thanks again for your nice OP.

Maru Kitteh

(28,346 posts)
17. This post edited after OP apparently apologized on a Hillary & Dem/DU HATE site for posting this OP
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 03:36 PM
Jul 2016

Last edited Sat Jul 23, 2016, 10:35 PM - Edit history (1)

I have no use for those who associate or surround themselves with that ilk.

I have no use for the perennial malcontents, snowflakes of privilege and the many other distasteful bed-mates-of-convenience who make up that site.

Jackass Delusionals exist for nothing, but hate. It is their sole raison d'etre.





 

Amimnoch

(4,558 posts)
18. For my own part.. nothing to forgive.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 03:37 PM
Jul 2016

Primary season is heated. Even more so on years where there will be no incumbent.

As I've said a few times during the primary season: I have much more love for a progressive political adversary during the primary season than I will ever have for someone who is indifferent or dispassionate.

Now.. on to defeating this potential international embarrassment!

Cary

(11,746 posts)
20. Dear retrowire,
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 03:38 PM
Jul 2016

My opinion is just my opinion. Take it or leave it.

I don't recall you at all. If we crossed paths and had harsh words, you caused me no harm. I am on record as advocating vote blue no matter who. I have never said a harsh word about Sanders, although I don't see why that matters and I don't see that making me any better or any worse. "Conservatives" are the enemy and my issue with whatever you want to call that certain group of people who express hatred towards Hillary Clinton and towards Democrats is that they enable "conservatives."

"Conservatives" are evil and they aren't fit to govern.

No offense but I don't care about you or whether you trust Hillary Clinton or whatever. This isn't about you. This is about our nation. I have kids. I care about their future and I'm scared for them.

That said, if you learned something and grew that's awesome. I'm proud of you. Let's continue onward, by all means.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
23. oh i totally learned plenty
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 03:43 PM
Jul 2016

And I apologize if I'd ever said anything wrong to you as well.

I agree that it's not about me. And don't lie I know you care about me, just as you care for all Americans. This is our purpose in this movement to begin with.

So thank you.

Response to retrowire (Original post)

tallahasseedem

(6,716 posts)
22. I apologize as well...
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 03:42 PM
Jul 2016

I was extremely frustrated with Bernie and probably said things out of frustration.

The fact of the matter is that we are all adults and no matter the fact that we do get hurt and lash out, we know how to come together in the end.

Unity so that we may get the platform we all want!

CrispyQ

(36,562 posts)
24. I am sick & tired of voting for the lesser of two evils, but I'm just gonna have to be sick & tired.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 03:43 PM
Jul 2016

Trump cannot be president. He is the epitome of everything bad about the radical right wing.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
26. exactly. we don't have to love it
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 03:44 PM
Jul 2016

But we should do what's best, or at least the least harmful to our fellow Americans.

klook

(12,174 posts)
29. I for one am enjoying
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 03:53 PM
Jul 2016

Unity Day.

And I look forward to retaining the White House and regaining the Senate in November. The House is not out of reach.

Bernie's campaign, originally dismissed and derided as quixotic, has shown us that much more is possible than we might think. His endorsement of Hillary Clinton proves that he knows what's at stake and that we must all fight together for the best possible result.

I stand with Bernie. I'm in.

pnwmom

(109,024 posts)
50. I honestly don't remember, so I'm sorry for whatever part I had in it.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 04:43 PM
Jul 2016

Happy to let bygones be bygones.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
41. Yes we did- but if I recall correctly you never stooped to sexist bullshit....
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 04:25 PM
Jul 2016

Last edited Tue Jul 12, 2016, 07:35 PM - Edit history (1)

And those are basically the only people I have trouble respecting or forgiving. Admirable thread- your help is needed and greatly appreciated!

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
45. sexist bullshit???
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 04:29 PM
Jul 2016

I cannot recall but uhh, as I learned from my wife it's better to apologize for offending someone even if you think they're wrong because you still offended them.

So I'm sorry if I did.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
73. Never from you. Was disappointed to see some from people I had respected though.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 05:48 PM
Jul 2016

That's kind of a bummer. I know some people use the net as a place to vent and that is fine, but I draw the line and don't suffer fools who stoop that low.

But we are good, thank you!

cstanleytech

(26,357 posts)
67. Dont you mean "stooped"?
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 05:28 PM
Jul 2016

Dont feel bad though as I do it alot as well especially on days when my vision is blurry and I am posting via my nexus 7 which has a small screen.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
71. Posting on a phone while waking in NYC, lol....with a quite
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 05:45 PM
Jul 2016

Overzealous spell check to boot. Yes I meant stooped. Thanks!

cstanleytech

(26,357 posts)
68. Actually he can.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 05:32 PM
Jul 2016

Most of us hope he doesnt because if he does he will make a Bush administration look down right good in comparison.

joshcryer

(62,287 posts)
35. I would have struggled if Sanders didn't endorse.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 04:03 PM
Jul 2016

I've spent much of this time slamming Weaver and Devine, and the Sanders we saw today is the Sanders I expected. But perhaps I underestimated him and it really required strong negotiation to get what he wanted in the platform.

A great man.

PatSeg

(47,750 posts)
40. Excellent idea for a thread
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 04:15 PM
Jul 2016

Personally I avoided DU for the most part during the primaries, at least anything election related. Too divisive for me.

I am grateful for Bernie pulling the party to the left and have no problem voting for Hillary in November. Time to focus on defeating Trump and down ballot republicans.

Thank you for this thread and no you never were rude to me.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
42. I'll match your apology with my own for being unnecessarily peevish and cynical about Bernie Sanders
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 04:27 PM
Jul 2016

and his candidacy, including the post-voting stage.

I was wrong about him, and am very happy to say that.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
47. you and I actually saw eye to eye throughout if I remember correctly.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 04:30 PM
Jul 2016

Still sorry if I said something wrong.

 

Surya Gayatri

(15,445 posts)
43. Thanks. You said it all here, retrowire:
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 04:28 PM
Jul 2016
Stand together, right? Let's continue onward.


Enough said. Let's move on to massacre the Toupéed Fucktrumpet.

STRONGER TOGETHER!!!!!!!
 

Surya Gayatri

(15,445 posts)
48. It's all good. Forward. The future awaits.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 04:35 PM
Jul 2016


P.S. If I said anything OTT, please forgive and just chalk it up to the "fog of war", LOL!
 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
52. My apologies if I have offended you throughout this process.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 04:49 PM
Jul 2016

It has been a joy watching you find your way during this process. I don't mean finding your way to Clinton. I simply mean you have been very open about your own thoughts, on most occasions replied to posts accordingly, and made an attempt to talk issues, learn, and teach regularly.

sufrommich

(22,871 posts)
54. Very classy,retrowire. And I too apologize for any part
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 04:52 PM
Jul 2016

I played in the primary election nastiness. I was on the losing side in 2008 and I know how painful it can be.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
56. my pain happened when California was called before it was finished
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 05:01 PM
Jul 2016

I was angry, but it was then that I knew there was nothing left.

I don't feel destroyed though because a President Sanders is NOT required to achieve our goals.

Coolest Ranger

(2,034 posts)
57. I been debating
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 05:04 PM
Jul 2016

if I wanted to come back but if you are sincere in your apology then I accept it. This place has been seriously hostile and I been MIA observing how the reaction has been around here. There's too much at stake, my rights as a gay man, the supreme court and now police brutality towards me as a black man. So let's all put this aside and work to kick Trumps behind

Cary

(11,746 posts)
81. Amen, but...
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 05:59 PM
Jul 2016

It is the internet. You can always walk away, and come back, and walk away. ... No worse for the wear, eh?

Aggravated sometimes, but it passes quickly.

Anyway someone once told me that I had no right to expect empathy on the internet. Sometimes you get it. But don't sweat it too much my friend. It's just not worth it.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
60. I apologize for my behavior during the primary. It was atrocious!
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 05:18 PM
Jul 2016

7 hides in one day shows you how low my behavior was.

My sincere apologies!

Squinch

(51,087 posts)
129. I disagree. I think you were, as usual, exceptionally even tempered and kind. When you
Wed Jul 13, 2016, 05:27 PM
Jul 2016

lost it, you had good reason.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
130. You are too kind.
Wed Jul 13, 2016, 06:09 PM
Jul 2016



Luckily the ones I personally called names graciously accepted my apologies.

I am limiting my posting for now to keep myself away during the silly months.

cstanleytech

(26,357 posts)
61. "I still have trust issues with Hillary." If anyone said they trusted any politician 100%
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 05:20 PM
Jul 2016

I would be suggesting that they consider looking into some sort of treatment at a mental facility.

aikoaiko

(34,186 posts)
62. I don't think you have anything to apologize for.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 05:21 PM
Jul 2016

And I'm a feeling cynical and suspicious of the way some people are petting you now.

 

stupidicus

(2,570 posts)
65. call me a hardass
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 05:25 PM
Jul 2016

I'll neither offer nor accept any, and look forward to the conflicts her admin will surely result in.

angrychair

(8,755 posts)
69. Good sentiment Retrowire
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 05:33 PM
Jul 2016

I think it's good to move forward. As a fellow Sanders supporter, I admire your ability to move forward. I can move past most issues but not all. Not so much specific people, though there are some, but specific issues.

All I can do at this point is hope for the best and let it go.

Thanks for the thread and I hope it makes things a little better here.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
72. It's not the Clinton supporters you should be appealing to
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 05:45 PM
Jul 2016

It's the Sanders supporters who would rather see Donald Trump elected and the Republicans tighten their grip on the government than vote for Hillary. If we get a Trump presidency, that will be the reason (though they will try to throw blame on anyone else they can, just as the Nader supporters did in 2000).

TNNurse

(6,931 posts)
80. I suspect that many of the Sanders supporters
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 05:58 PM
Jul 2016

who are unable to accept Clinton as the nominee are new to politics.

How to we get them to understand that now is the time for unity?

We should focus on the common goal of keeping Trump out of the White House.

Senator Sanders will still be part of our government and can have even more influence and help make positive changes.

They need to be helped to understand that.

How do we help them????

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
88. I do not get that sense, frankly
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 06:48 PM
Jul 2016

In many cases, it's not just an inability to accept Clinton, it is full-blown hatred, the kind that does not simply emerge overnight. Some of that is coming from paid Republican trolls, no doubt, but not nearly all.

DLCWIdem

(1,580 posts)
74. Hello, I takes courage to be the 1st to step out there and apologize so kudos to you.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 05:51 PM
Jul 2016

and I also apologize if I offended you, because I certainly believe you are entitled to your opinion.

bluestateguy

(44,173 posts)
76. I apologize for jumping to conclusions about the Nevada convention
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 05:53 PM
Jul 2016

It was a complicated morass, and at the end of the day only a few persons were truly behaving badly.

The alleged chair throwing (or attempt to do so) was inconclusive, and at worst was only one person.

So I apologize.

bonemachine

(757 posts)
79. Just a reminder
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 05:57 PM
Jul 2016

Last edited Wed Jul 13, 2016, 02:06 PM - Edit history (1)

"I'm sorry if I offended you" is not an apology.

Edit: apparently, I've been told the appropriate non-apology nomenclature is "I'm sorry if you are offended".

Sorry if anyone was offended by my error.

auntpurl

(4,311 posts)
82. Sorry, but yes it is.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 05:59 PM
Jul 2016

"I'm sorry if you were offended" is not an apology. "I'm sorry if I offended you" very much is.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
119. not what I said. from the op
Wed Jul 13, 2016, 09:01 AM
Jul 2016

"I'm sorry to the Hillary Supporters that I may have offended during the primary season."

If people were offended, I apologize.

To those that weren't offended... they need no apology! Lol

bonemachine

(757 posts)
120. I agree that it's not what you said
Wed Jul 13, 2016, 10:21 AM
Jul 2016

It was intended to be general, not directed directly in your direction.

calimary

(81,605 posts)
84. Thank you, retrowire!
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 06:02 PM
Jul 2016

I tried to say thanks, myself, elsewhere here and it didn't work out quite the way I'd hoped.

So I'll say it again here, then!

Thank you for being so candid here. I'm sure everybody here at one time or other said something - well, let's just call it inadvertent.

Thank you for your sincerity. I meant mine as well.

And let me say, I've been on the losing end of many campaigns, myself. I remember dressing in black and blue for work, the day after reagan won in 1980. It's a pretty miserable feeling. I'd bet everybody here has been there at the end of one primary or general election campaign or other!

You're absolutely spot-on about what's at stake. I'm so glad you're standing with us, and that I'm standing with you! Saving you a seat here right next to me!

GOOD on you, GOOD on Bernie, GOOD on all his supporters who are making that transition (as challenging as it might be) or have already done so.

We ARE stronger together. And we will keep the White House - TOGETHER. And we will renovate and salvage the Supreme Court (and maybe also the U.S. Senate) - TOGETHER. Should be a cinch. After all, there are more of us Dems than there are CONS anyway!

P.U.A.L. Party Unity At Last!


retrowire

(10,345 posts)
86. I honestly don't care if anyone is being genuine or not.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 06:29 PM
Jul 2016

I don't expect that everyone is. But my efforts are sincere, and it's my actions that I'm responsible for.

In the end, I'm going to do what I'm going to do. Sincere people or not.

ibegurpard

(16,685 posts)
89. I can certainly get behind your political choices here
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 07:15 PM
Jul 2016

But apologizing to some of the people on this board? Not a chance.

 

cosmicone

(11,014 posts)
94. The first post did not make it clear
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 09:24 PM
Jul 2016

This is a democratic board whose raison d'etre is electing the democratic nominee,

so it was a fair question to ask. A simple answer would have sufficed ... I was not demanding a signature in blood or anything .. just a yes or no would be fine.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
95. From the first post.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 09:25 PM
Jul 2016

"The point is, now that Bernie has endorsed Hillary, I want it to be known that I have every intention to follow his lead."

Cary

(11,746 posts)
123. "Loyalty oath"
Wed Jul 13, 2016, 04:06 PM
Jul 2016

No one is demanding loyalty. We.want Democrats to win. Asking for your agenda is a fair question.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
124. demanding a "yes or no" is an aggressive and rude form of communication
Wed Jul 13, 2016, 04:10 PM
Jul 2016

Especially after it was already made clear.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
125. I thought you were trying to be bigger than that?
Wed Jul 13, 2016, 04:50 PM
Jul 2016

You could state your intent. I didn't demand anything. I would just like to know. I think it's a fair question and no, I don't think you made it clear. Just my opinion.

And I'm not trying to be aggressive. I would like to know.

MerryBlooms

(11,776 posts)
97. Good OP. So much animosity during this primary...
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 09:26 PM
Jul 2016

it's good to see so many coming together and moving forward.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
102. I suspect the people who most owe the apologies, would sooner chew off their feet than give em.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 10:34 PM
Jul 2016

And yes, there was uncalled for shit thrown from both sides.

Perhaps because of my vantage point, I saw a lot of awful crap thrown at sanders and his supporters, myself. Not just implying that sanders people were an assemblage of every vile, shambling trait in the universe, with a "bro-" suffix attached, but people calling Sanders things like a supporter-deceiving cheap rip off artist who enjoys things like "writing rape fantasy porn".

And yeah, there was nasty stuff thrown at hillary, too. And her supporters. For my part, I dont think I ever attacked HRC on anything other than issues, and i tried not to go after her supporters, although I acknowledge that I may have made the occasional snarky comment about age demographics or cultural relevance. For anything like that, I sincerely apologize.

This primary cycle was not this place's finest hour, to say the least.

I truly hope we can all move past it and unify for victory in november.

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
106. i feel exactly the same
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 11:08 PM
Jul 2016

I never attacked her on anything but the issues.

But I was unnecessarily snarky towards some of her supporters. That's what I'm mainly apologizing for.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
109. It's a good OP.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 11:47 PM
Jul 2016

You should be commended for the effort. Really, we all could do better, myself included. This primary wasn't any of our finest hour.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
107. Their silence is how they represent themselves.
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 11:15 PM
Jul 2016

It never hurts to apologize to mostly anonymous users on a public forum. I've done it many times when I get too worked up. I am guessing things run too deep for some to patch things up.

And that is a loss, imo for the community.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
113. old enough to get that reference, too.
Wed Jul 13, 2016, 03:31 AM
Jul 2016

My kid has started getting into SNL. I'm like "SNL? I'll give you SNL. It's not SNL if it's post Bill Murray"

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
114. Speaking of SNL, have you seen Maya and Marty?
Wed Jul 13, 2016, 03:37 AM
Jul 2016

Just a test run on NBC, but it was sometimes funnier then current SNL. HA! Yeah me to, like anything post Bill Murray is bunk. Eddie Murphy was funny, but Richard Pryor did it first and better.

Kids probably don't know who Pryor is, but they feel dated on Eddie.

I feel old.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
115. I have not. I barely watch anything, anymore. But I like both those guys.
Wed Jul 13, 2016, 04:07 AM
Jul 2016

if it was funny, I'll try and check it out.

DemonGoddess

(4,640 posts)
104. K&R!
Tue Jul 12, 2016, 10:48 PM
Jul 2016

You know, I understand trust issues where politicians are concerned. Being a native Chicagoan, and voting for Rosty even though we KNEW he was crooked. You know why? He always took care of his constituents.

I'm not saying Hillary is crooked. Far from it. All politicians bend the truth at some point. All of them. Not a one of them is immune to it. But you see, that's why I feel I CAN entrust this nation to her as President. I voted for people who were known to be crooked, because they DID THEIR JOBS. Her, I voted for, because I can believe in her, and I can trust that she will do the right thing.

She's been maligned for so many years by both the right and the left it's not even funny. I remember VERY well when she first spoke of a vast right wing conspiracy against her, and everyone thought she was crazy. She wasn't.

Response to retrowire (Original post)

Squinch

(51,087 posts)
131. So, I guess this was all bullshit, then, after all.
Sat Jul 23, 2016, 08:50 PM
Jul 2016

I thought so when it was posted, but it's validating to have one's suspicions confirmed.

MoonRiver

(36,926 posts)
133. I don't have you on ignore,
Sat Jul 23, 2016, 09:26 PM
Jul 2016

so you must not have been that bad, to me at least. Thanks for the statements of unity. That's all that matters now.

Maru Kitteh

(28,346 posts)
142. Nose-in-the-air, smug and comfortable privilege does that.
Sat Jul 23, 2016, 10:45 PM
Jul 2016

Immaturity and magical thinking also seem to play a part.

I've noticed many JPR members seem to be fans of CT and "mystical" type woo.

Demsrule86

(68,800 posts)
144. Indeed and the DU Wiki thing is their weapon as well.
Sun Jul 24, 2016, 07:34 AM
Jul 2016

It won't do them any good. I would crawl across broken glass to vote for Hillary and with all the voter suppression crap by Kasich, who know I may have to!

 

liberalnarb

(4,532 posts)
146. Yeah. I think the OP should be self deleted, as it is no longer sincere.
Sun Jul 24, 2016, 07:56 AM
Jul 2016

JPR Post:

F**k you Hillary. I trusted Bernie’s faith that you would do something with his progressive platform but choosing Tim Kaine just confirms that you’ll be playing it safe with your corporate pals on Wall St.

Hillary, I’d wish you luck but clearly you’ll cheat your way to this win too.

I think I’ll stay home. Sorry Bernie. I just can’t do it. It’s all a f**king lie anyways.

-Retrowire


Wounded Bear

(58,778 posts)
138. Good job!
Sat Jul 23, 2016, 10:00 PM
Jul 2016

Bernie will have much to say and do if we can flip the Senate. I see him as a committee chair tormenting Repubs for years to come.

You're right, a Trump win will put progressivism back decades. I really don't want that to happen. The best revenge for what the Repubs have done the past years is to take back our government and get some things done to make people's lives better.

Squinch

(51,087 posts)
143. Well, no. The poster has since written a "Fuck you" post to Hillary on JPR and vowed never to
Sat Jul 23, 2016, 10:49 PM
Jul 2016

vote for her, accused her of cheating, etc.

Everything else in your post is true though. Anyone not voting or voting for Trump is an idiot.

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