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47of74

(18,470 posts)
Wed Aug 21, 2013, 09:53 PM Aug 2013

Churches like these give Christians a bad name;

Ugh. Just ugh.

Collegedale's decision to grant benefits to same-sex couples was a victory for Kat Cooper, a gay detective who championed the months-long effort that made the Chattanooga suburb the first city in Tennessee to offer benefits to same-sex spouses of its government employees.

Cooper's mother, Linda, stood by her side throughout the process. She held tight to her daughter's hand at a July meeting over the issue. And the two embraced after the City Council's 4-1 vote on Aug. 5.

But those small acts of support translated into collateral damage that left Linda Cooper and other relatives separated from their church family of more than 60 years. And one local advocate for gay families says the church's stance was the most extreme he's heard of in years.

Leaders at Ridgedale Church of Christ met in private with Kat Cooper's mother, aunt and uncle on Sunday after the regular worship service. They were given an ultimatum: They could repent for their sins and ask forgiveness in front of the congregation. Or leave the church.


They make all of us look a bunch of bleepstick bigots.
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Churches like these give Christians a bad name; (Original Post) 47of74 Aug 2013 OP
Christians sin just like anyone else. n/t L0oniX Aug 2013 #1
"That's a nice shirt reverend." Thav Aug 2013 #2
As Hunt Cooper said, "There's no sin to repent for" Fortinbras Armstrong Aug 2013 #3
You're so right wryter2000 Aug 2013 #4

Thav

(946 posts)
2. "That's a nice shirt reverend."
Thu Aug 22, 2013, 08:44 AM
Aug 2013

"What's it made of? Cotton Polyester? Welp, the bible says I now have to stone you to death for wearing clothes of mixed fiber. I'm going to get some bricks, be right back."

Fortinbras Armstrong

(4,473 posts)
3. As Hunt Cooper said, "There's no sin to repent for"
Thu Aug 22, 2013, 09:20 AM
Aug 2013

The people of the Ridgedale Church of Christ need to be reminded that our God is a god of love, not condemnation.

If some member of the congregation works on Sunday, does the pastor threaten to expel them unless they quit their job and repents? How about those who wear garments of mixed fabrics?

If the various Christian Churches had spent as much time condemning sins of avarice as it has sexual sins, we would be better off -- and would be closer to the message of Christ.

wryter2000

(46,077 posts)
4. You're so right
Thu Aug 22, 2013, 11:18 AM
Aug 2013

This makes all religion, esp. Christianity, look bad. I'm so frustrated that this sort of message gets out there and the message of Christian love doesn't.

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