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DetlefK

(16,423 posts)
Fri Apr 27, 2018, 10:09 AM Apr 2018

What would it take for you to switch to a different religion?

You have your faith.

What kind of event, what kind of argument, would it take that would make you abandon your current faith and adopt a new faith?

What would it take to convince you that that other faith is "better" than your faith?




Me?
I used to be Catholic. When a teacher tried to explain to us that worshipping God makes you a better Christian than merely helping others (as Jesus did!), that's when it began to dawn on me that something is wrong with Christianity.

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What would it take for you to switch to a different religion? (Original Post) DetlefK Apr 2018 OP
Having one, for starters. n/t rzemanfl Apr 2018 #1
A beautiful and rich woman Cartoonist Apr 2018 #2
"Hey there, sugar. Wanna live a life of celibacy and poverty?" DetlefK Apr 2018 #4
I have an open mind but I don't think it's possible. In_The_Wind Apr 2018 #3
How much of a switch? I grew up as a Lutheran, but... TreasonousBastard Apr 2018 #5
One event would be getting married ollie10 Apr 2018 #6
Does picking another flavor of Christianity really count Mariana May 2018 #14
I use to be an agnostic/aithiest TNLib Apr 2018 #7
well it was religion that made me atheist.... samnsara Apr 2018 #8
An interesting question. Recommended. guillaumeb Apr 2018 #9
There's a serious claim Jesus "merely helped others"? Igel Apr 2018 #10
You misunderstood. DetlefK Apr 2018 #12
As a youngster, I bought into Christianity. MineralMan Apr 2018 #11
For me, Christianity is a foundational teaching, somewhat along the following lines: struggle4progress May 2018 #13
Two clif bars and a 4 pack of La Fin Du Monde Major Nikon May 2018 #15
Score! (nt) NeoGreen May 2018 #16

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
3. I have an open mind but I don't think it's possible.
Fri Apr 27, 2018, 10:20 AM
Apr 2018

Forty years ago I began a solitary pathway of do no harm.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
5. How much of a switch? I grew up as a Lutheran, but...
Fri Apr 27, 2018, 10:32 AM
Apr 2018

while I went through a number of changes, I can't imagine completely leaving the Christian tradition.

After years of happy non-belief, I joined a Quaker meeting for the spiritual light without dogma. I later joined a UU church for the same reason.

I suppose I could have become an Ethical Culturist, or followed some Eastern religion, but the point is to get away from dogma, not learn an entirely new perspective. I spent years in the Christian tradition, so why make a radical change if I can get what I want within it?

I do know some who have made such changes for various reasons, and they are comfortable with their choices.

 

ollie10

(2,091 posts)
6. One event would be getting married
Fri Apr 27, 2018, 10:36 AM
Apr 2018

Maybe you are a Methodist and marry a Lutheran. The churches are more similar than different, so you decide to go to the Lutheran church.

Or maybe you move. And you are a Lutheran and you don't find the Lutheran churches in your new area to be a good fit, so you seek out alternatives and find a Catholic church with a better fit. Again the churches aren't that different.

In my experience, the biggest difference between churches is the pastor/priest/minister. I have been a member of several different churches, of different denominations. Also, I am a musician so I have contributed to music for many more churches than I have attended. There are more similarities than differences in the basic structure....what makes the biggest difference is the pastor.

Or it could be a negative experience. I have been a member of 2 UU churches and I like their ideas. However, when one was finding a new leader, they rejected her because her partner they thought was trans-gender. They said they believed all are welcome, but the dominant message was "not in my back yard!". Oh, and others didn't like it that she was overweight. So I quit going, and that was sad for me because I would have loved it if they were not so hypocritical and practiced what they preached. The other UU church was not that way, but the one where I live now....oh well.

TNLib

(1,819 posts)
7. I use to be an agnostic/aithiest
Fri Apr 27, 2018, 10:42 AM
Apr 2018

When my late husband passed away my daughter, who was 9 at the time, asked to start attending church. I found a progressive episcopal church and we started attending. My daughter and I found peace and grace through our new found Christian faith during a very dark time in our lives.

I don't think I'll ever give that up.

Igel

(35,387 posts)
10. There's a serious claim Jesus "merely helped others"?
Fri Apr 27, 2018, 08:16 PM
Apr 2018

And didn't worship God?

That would be the Jeffersonian kind of New Testament narrative, where first you decide what is true and dispose of everything else--then add whatever's not there as "tradition" or "inspiration". You'd get to the same place without the first step, of course, but you'd have to come up with your own name and build the brand.

DetlefK

(16,423 posts)
12. You misunderstood.
Sat Apr 28, 2018, 06:13 PM
Apr 2018

If you have
* a hypothetical person who goes to church but doesn't help others
* a hypothetical person who helps others but doesn't go to church

Then the church-goer is supposedly the better person/Christian.

MineralMan

(146,350 posts)
11. As a youngster, I bought into Christianity.
Fri Apr 27, 2018, 08:30 PM
Apr 2018

When I became an adult, I reasoned as an adult, and put away childish beliefs. It was similar to understanding that Santa Claus was a fictional character at age five.

Reason was all I needed.

struggle4progress

(118,379 posts)
13. For me, Christianity is a foundational teaching, somewhat along the following lines:
Wed May 2, 2018, 01:38 PM
May 2018

We have all been and continue to be badly deluded about what is "real." What is really "real" is "love" (in the sense of agape); and we ourselves only become "real" in our efforts to live lives that recognize agape as the "source of everything for us." This is not just a matter of "feelings" nor is it merely a question of "ethics." Rather it is a choice, which immediately requires us to struggle constantly with our own inevitable hypocritical failures to live according to this principle that we say should govern all our lives. Faith is involved, because the notion is foundational: whatever is "proved" must be proved from something else; we cannot successfully follow the infinite regression to any logical certainty; and our lives are finite; so we must somewhere make choices on the basis of our incomplete understanding

If you convinced me you might have a better approach, I'd consider it, but this view lights a path rather well

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
15. Two clif bars and a 4 pack of La Fin Du Monde
Wed May 2, 2018, 08:18 PM
May 2018

Must be blueberry clif bars.

If you throw in a bottle of Paddy I’ll even sign my soul over.

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