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Health question for women... (Original Post) GPV Nov 2022 OP
Mine had gone away until age 70 I got breast cancer Walleye Nov 2022 #1
I was on that 16 years ago. Diamond_Dog Nov 2022 #19
Ha.This weather kills me. I just turned up the heat to take a shower. Walleye Nov 2022 #20
I hear ya. Diamond_Dog Nov 2022 #21
They come and go. ProudMNDemocrat Nov 2022 #2
I still get them. Irish_Dem Nov 2022 #3
↑ Too true for me. quaint Nov 2022 #23
They go away. tblue37 Nov 2022 #4
Mine went away but I hardly ever had them at all in the first place. Ocelot II Nov 2022 #5
I think it's different for all of us. MontanaMama Nov 2022 #6
Luckily they are gone now. Didn't have a difficult or long transition, but had them occasionally. MLAA Nov 2022 #7
Prior to... 2naSalit Nov 2022 #8
They haven't gone away for me. I don't think they do. I started timing mine. littlemissmartypants Nov 2022 #9
I had bad flashes at first MuseRider Nov 2022 #10
They go away claudette Nov 2022 #11
Can go away Sanity Claws Nov 2022 #12
They come and go. At least mine do. ShazzieB Nov 2022 #13
I asked my dr the same question when I was going thru menopause.. Deuxcents Nov 2022 #14
I had serious hot flashes for about a year, then they went away. PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 2022 #15
Mine did not last forever...... secondwind Nov 2022 #16
Likely, there are therapies to make that symptom less bothersome Backseat Driver Nov 2022 #17
Mine did Rebl2 Nov 2022 #18
I don't remember having them at all Bayard Nov 2022 #22

Walleye

(31,028 posts)
1. Mine had gone away until age 70 I got breast cancer
Sat Nov 19, 2022, 11:17 AM
Nov 2022

The Arimidex medication they put you on was just like menopause again. So it wasn’t gone for good after all for me. For a while though it was. I have two more years on the medication hopefully that will be it.

Diamond_Dog

(32,006 posts)
19. I was on that 16 years ago.
Sat Nov 19, 2022, 12:45 PM
Nov 2022

It gave me hot flashes the whole time I was on it, but now that I’ve been off it about 5 years they seem to have gone away.

However, now I’m like many of the other ladies here when I say I get miserably hot at the drop of a hat or other times I’m cold and just can’t warm up. I find hot weather especially miserable.

Diamond_Dog

(32,006 posts)
21. I hear ya.
Sat Nov 19, 2022, 12:59 PM
Nov 2022

This time of year, If I’m sitting still and reading, I’m cold and need a blanket. But I do some house cleaning for 5 minutes and I’m a ball of sweat. In other words, I go from one extreme to the other.

At least when I’m cold a sweater or blanket does the trick. Not much you can do when it’s 90 degrees outside and your hubby is too cold when the a/c is set below 78 ….

ProudMNDemocrat

(16,786 posts)
2. They come and go.
Sat Nov 19, 2022, 11:19 AM
Nov 2022

But do check with your GYN for a treatment option right for you. I was on Effexor XR in a generic form for 12 years after my total hysterectomy in 2007. I called it my Happy Pill. If I went a day without a hot flash, I was happy.

Irish_Dem

(47,131 posts)
3. I still get them.
Sat Nov 19, 2022, 11:21 AM
Nov 2022

My body doesn't regulate temperature like when I as younger.
Sometimes I cannot get warm.
Other times I am flashing hot.

Ocelot II

(115,735 posts)
5. Mine went away but I hardly ever had them at all in the first place.
Sat Nov 19, 2022, 11:29 AM
Nov 2022

Got genetically lucky, I guess; my mother was the same.

MontanaMama

(23,322 posts)
6. I think it's different for all of us.
Sat Nov 19, 2022, 11:32 AM
Nov 2022

I had wicked hot flashes in the day and night sweats too. I’m 58 and the daytime for years. They’re gone now but I’ll still get an occasional heat blast at night. My body in general doesn’t regulate itself well in terms of temperature these days. That’s annoying.

MLAA

(17,298 posts)
7. Luckily they are gone now. Didn't have a difficult or long transition, but had them occasionally.
Sat Nov 19, 2022, 11:41 AM
Nov 2022

Wishing you the best!

2naSalit

(86,647 posts)
8. Prior to...
Sat Nov 19, 2022, 11:43 AM
Nov 2022

I had to sleep on towels and change them during the night, my hair would be soaked. After, they have gone away but return once in a while and are far less extreme. Evening Primrose is said to be helpful.

I find that stress and sometimes diet are factors.

littlemissmartypants

(22,694 posts)
9. They haven't gone away for me. I don't think they do. I started timing mine.
Sat Nov 19, 2022, 11:43 AM
Nov 2022

When I realized how brief they are I decided that I can just wait them out and they're not that bad. Dress in layers you can easily vent or remove.

Also there are Hot Girl Pearls and other freezable jewelry options. I also keep extra sleepwear in the bed with me in case I get sweaty and need to change. Then I don't have to get up looking for clothes in the middle of the night. Keep small battery powered fans around the house, in my handbag and in the car. And I decided to call them power surges, feels empowering.



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MuseRider

(34,111 posts)
10. I had bad flashes at first
Sat Nov 19, 2022, 11:46 AM
Nov 2022

then they got a lot less frequent and not so bad. Now, almost 69 years old, they come and go now and then. I just sweat it out and move along.

claudette

(3,578 posts)
11. They go away
Sat Nov 19, 2022, 11:47 AM
Nov 2022
Fortunately, that wasn't one of my frequent issues. But, eventually, it all goes away and old age sets in!

Sanity Claws

(21,849 posts)
12. Can go away
Sat Nov 19, 2022, 11:55 AM
Nov 2022

They went away for me. Diet plays a role.
If you are bothered by hot flashes, try modifying your diet. Alcohol, coffee, and red meat can aggravate the problem.

ShazzieB

(16,426 posts)
13. They come and go. At least mine do.
Sat Nov 19, 2022, 12:03 PM
Nov 2022

When I do get them, they're less intense than they were at the height of perimenopause.

I've been having Fun with Night Sweats(tm) lately. Just enough that I wake up during the night and have to change my nightgown because it's damp and clammy around my neck and shoulders.

Deuxcents

(16,248 posts)
14. I asked my dr the same question when I was going thru menopause..
Sat Nov 19, 2022, 12:06 PM
Nov 2022

He asked me how long my mother was in menopause and I said..forever! Luckily, I don’t have that problem but ever once in a while I have a power surge..not bad at all now.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,862 posts)
15. I had serious hot flashes for about a year, then they went away.
Sat Nov 19, 2022, 12:20 PM
Nov 2022

Have never come back.

I'm 74, went through menopause 20 years ago.

I would think that if they persist for more than a few years, you should see if there is anything you can do about them.

Backseat Driver

(4,393 posts)
17. Likely, there are therapies to make that symptom less bothersome
Sat Nov 19, 2022, 12:31 PM
Nov 2022

if, indeed, related to reproductive hormone changes. Were you ever prescribed or considered medical HRT or bioavailable hormone adjustments during or post peri-menopause/menopause? I'm guessing that hot flashes could also be otherwise metabolically related, so ask your doctor, gynecologist, endocrinologist, or a naturopathic women's specialist (usually not covered by insurance) what might be right for you based on your history and/or testing.

Rebl2

(13,523 posts)
18. Mine did
Sat Nov 19, 2022, 12:37 PM
Nov 2022

I took prempro for a long time, for hot flashes, but mainly for osteoporosis. I quit taking it a couple years ago and they came back, off and on. I quit taking prempro because I started Prolia for osteoporosis, now I have taken my limit for Prolia and had to get an infusion of another drug to take the place of it. I can’t take those drugs for osteoporosis by mouth because they cause extreme stomach pain.

Bayard

(22,100 posts)
22. I don't remember having them at all
Sat Nov 19, 2022, 01:25 PM
Nov 2022

But I had enough other stress going on at the time, they may have just blended in.

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