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denbot

(9,899 posts)
Wed Apr 26, 2017, 02:38 AM Apr 2017

In Memoriam to our group host pinboy3niner.

This discussion thread is pinned.

Veteran or not, please feel free to post an image toast to a beloved DU'er, whether it's a drink, bong rip, scoop of ice cream, or in any way you wish to honor a good and honorable person.

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pinboy3niner (Bob) was the best of us.

"We few, we happy few, we band of brothers;
For he to-day that sheds his blood with me
Shall be my brother; be he ne'er so vile,
This day shall gentle his condition:
And gentlemen in England now a-bed
Shall think themselves accursed they were not here,
And hold their manhoods cheap whiles any speaks
That fought with us upon Saint Crispin's day."



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In Memoriam to our group host pinboy3niner. (Original Post) denbot Apr 2017 OP
Rest in Peace pinboy3niner... PoliticAverse Apr 2017 #1
Our Sweet Buddy on DU.. Cha Apr 2017 #2
Cry cry.. denbot Apr 2017 #3
I know.. every time Cha Apr 2017 #4
I will miss him at about 2 AM. When the DU was very quiet. applegrove Apr 2017 #5
RIP pinboy3niner! trusty elf Apr 2017 #6
I ain't no drinker... countryjake Apr 2017 #7
Nicely done countryjake denbot Apr 2017 #9
I should be sent to the punitentiary for this one, but.... trusty elf Apr 2017 #8
Very pinboy3niner'esk. denbot Apr 2017 #10
Hey pinboy3niner.... trusty elf Apr 2017 #11
I will miss his wit - and wisdom. He always made me laugh... Rhiannon12866 Apr 2017 #12
Not everybody likes vets, you know. trusty elf Apr 2017 #13
Haw.. hey you're close to a time out. denbot Apr 2017 #14
Thanks for that DashOneBravo Apr 2017 #29
I only had a brief encounter with him from time to time yuiyoshida Apr 2017 #15
a cheesy pun trusty elf Apr 2017 #16
You will be missed, pinboy3niner. Orrex Apr 2017 #17
... greatauntoftriplets Apr 2017 #18
. denbot Apr 2017 #19
. sheshe2 Apr 2017 #20
. In_The_Wind Apr 2017 #21
No, no, no, no, no ... Callmecrazy Apr 2017 #22
🦅 Donkees Apr 2017 #23
... Aristus Apr 2017 #24
101st ABN Screaming Eagle sheds a tear DashOneBravo Apr 2017 #25
"Fair winds and following seas..." Docreed2003 Apr 2017 #26
Always, always, always a very kind and thoughtful person!!! RKP5637 Apr 2017 #27
From one old buzzard to another, drink deeply JustABozoOnThisBus Apr 2017 #28
... bluecollar2 Jul 2017 #30
Among Bob's things I found this bottle of Tisdale Merlot patriot39 Jul 2017 #31
Thank you DashOneBravo Jul 2017 #32
Sorry About the Wine Bottle Photo patriot39 Aug 2017 #33
He's my "brother from nother mother" DashOneBravo Aug 2017 #34
This message was self-deleted by its author JonLP24 Oct 2017 #35
Happy Veterans Day Dai wi DashOneBravo Nov 2017 #36
Last year this time we started threads since we were worried about Pinboy3niner malaise Apr 2018 #37
This message was self-deleted by its author DashOneBravo May 2019 #38
Rest in light, Soldier. Duty Done. sarge43 Oct 2019 #39
Not forgotten Sir DashOneBravo May 2020 #40
No, no he isn't. denbot May 2020 #41
I didn't know Pinboy3niner, he joined while I was on DU hiatus, dware Aug 2020 #42
You're terribly missed DashOneBravo May 2021 #43
RIP twogunsid Aug 2021 #44
... Aristus Nov 2022 #45
For the fallen heroes The Wizard May 2023 #46
For Fallen Heros. Stuart G Apr 5 #47

applegrove

(118,633 posts)
5. I will miss him at about 2 AM. When the DU was very quiet.
Wed Apr 26, 2017, 03:33 AM
Apr 2017

He often had a pun for me in the wee hours of the morning when
I was too tired to resist his power. I think he appreciated my spelling errors.....they were a set up for him in a way. Vibes to all who loved him. Safe passage.

countryjake

(8,554 posts)
7. I ain't no drinker...
Wed Apr 26, 2017, 03:44 AM
Apr 2017

so I'll just plop this here for pinboy ...



Bob was there in DC that night for the Welcome Home concert, he loved Fogerty, so I've been rockin' out and bawlin' ever since I heard. He's been my pal here since way back in the "olden" days and I will miss him so. I can't get over today's awful news ...

He really was the best.

yuiyoshida

(41,831 posts)
15. I only had a brief encounter with him from time to time
Wed Apr 26, 2017, 04:33 AM
Apr 2017

but he did come to my defense once. I won't forget that.

patriot39

(3 posts)
31. Among Bob's things I found this bottle of Tisdale Merlot
Fri Jul 21, 2017, 09:29 PM
Jul 2017

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It's from a B Co. 2nd Bn (Airmobile) 501st INF. reunion in 2011.

A tribute to Bob was held on 7/15, with a flag ceremony and three-volley salute. His remains were laid to rest in the Bakersfield National Cemetery on7/21, also with a flag ceremony and three-volley salute.

As was stated during the tribute, above all, Bob was a patriot. He served his country both in and out of uniform, and he served it well.

Rest in peace, brother.

DashOneBravo

(2,679 posts)
32. Thank you
Mon Jul 31, 2017, 06:35 PM
Jul 2017

Last edited Fri May 4, 2018, 10:39 PM - Edit history (1)

I was going to link up at on of the reunions but we could never work it out.
I would have loved to go to the ceremony. If you have any pictures of the marker or tombstone, I'd be honored to have a copy.

I'm glad he was buried at a military cemetery and with honors. He was a warrior and that is a fitting place for him.

-fellow Infantryman

patriot39

(3 posts)
33. Sorry About the Wine Bottle Photo
Tue Aug 1, 2017, 12:38 AM
Aug 2017

Originally, Bob's son intended to have Bob's cremains buried at Arlington National Cemetery, but he generously allowed the family to have the tribute and interment here in SoCal. The flag ceremony at the cemetery was very moving.

A headstone was ordered and is expected to be completed within six weeks. I would be happy to send you photos, either as e-mail attachments or via USPS. I have photos of the flag, Bob's jungle shirt (which he always wore with his 101st Airborne hat), Bob's awards from work, his military commendations, his books, etc.

One of the most poignant articles I have is a letter from USARV HQ. Bob had friends in an ARVN armored unit, and he submitted a request to be a troop advisor attached to that unit. The request was approved but he didn't get the letter until he was undergoing treatment at Letterman General Hospital in S.F. He knew that he would not make it back there to be with his buddies, and he was very upset.

Three of them even visited Bob in CA after he got married. They had to return to 'Nam, of course, and ended up in re-education camps. At least one of them survived, and Bob learned that he was working as a bank manager. Bob made three trips to 'Nam with his 2nd wife, and I hope that he was able to connect with Phoung.

Thank you for caring about my brother.

DashOneBravo

(2,679 posts)
34. He's my "brother from nother mother"
Tue Aug 1, 2017, 08:40 PM
Aug 2017

That's very considerate to have him laid there. We made the same choice with my father who served also in the 101st ABN. Arlington was too far away for family members to visit so we chose one that was 2 hours away.

It doesn't surprise me that he was upset. Duty weighs heavy on men like your brother. It was apparent by his work with veterans, so I'm not surprised he'd be that way when he was on active duty. He was just taking care of his troops. That's what made him an outstanding leader and person.

If any of his Vietnam memorabilia that isn't divided up is left. I'd like to make a suggestion. Anything like pictures, awards, from the time he was in the 501st. Please send it to the 101st ABN Don Pratt Museum at Ft Campbell. They had a very large section on the A Shau Valley. I'd be glad to pay for it.

When the headstone comes is placed. Could you get a picture then? If it isn't any problem.

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dware

(12,369 posts)
42. I didn't know Pinboy3niner, he joined while I was on DU hiatus,
Sat Aug 15, 2020, 10:59 AM
Aug 2020

but I did go into the archives and read alot of his posts and he was a great DU'er.

It seems that our generation is dying off and with it, those of us that served in Vietnam.

It's so sad when I hear about another fellow Vietnam Veteran leaving this earth way too early.

R.I.P. Pinboy3niner, your last reveille has sounded.

twogunsid

(1,607 posts)
44. RIP
Sun Aug 1, 2021, 12:33 PM
Aug 2021

"I see beyond the forest the moving barriers of a hidden column. Our dead brothers still live for us, and bid us think of life, not death – of life to which in their youth they lent the passion and glory of the spring. As I listen, the great chorus of life and joy begins again, and amid the awful orchestra of seen and unseen powers and destinies of good and evil our trumpets sound once more a note of daring, hope, and will." - Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr.

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