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bif

(22,876 posts)
Wed Sep 13, 2023, 07:49 AM Sep 2023

I accidentally stepped on my cat's tail

this morning and she freaked out. She's been hissing and growling at me for the last half hour. It's like she's possessed. Is there anything I can do to calm her down?
She has this look in her eyes like she's going to attack me.

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I accidentally stepped on my cat's tail (Original Post) bif Sep 2023 OP
Tuna? She'll get over it I've done it before. It's alarming though Walleye Sep 2023 #1
Some tuna and/or treats, then grace and space Best_man23 Sep 2023 #2
Give her a warm shower. Cats always calm down Emile Sep 2023 #3
LOL Rorey Sep 2023 #5
Hopefully she'll get over it soon Rorey Sep 2023 #4
Mine has gotten used to it. I appolgize and now all I have to do is brush his tail and he lets ... marble falls Sep 2023 #6
Give the cat a treat every time it walks by or enters the room. magicarpet Sep 2023 #7
She's kind of freaking me out. bif Sep 2023 #8
Try telling her you are sorry Sanity Claws Sep 2023 #9
My cat forgets everything when multigraincracker Sep 2023 #10
I tried that. bif Sep 2023 #12
Do you think you did any damage to her tail? Marthe48 Sep 2023 #11
Yes. You are right. raging moderate Sep 2023 #13
It doesn't appear to be damaged. bif Sep 2023 #14
Oh, good. raging moderate Sep 2023 #15
I immediately sat on the floor and held out my hand. bif Sep 2023 #16
Just hurt feelings Marthe48 Sep 2023 #19
I feel terrible! bif Sep 2023 #20
It sounds like you hurt yourself more than you hurt the kitty Marthe48 Sep 2023 #21
Need to pick her up and justaprogressive Sep 2023 #17
No way! bif Sep 2023 #18
Those are automatic behaviors, not intentional. LastDemocratInSC Sep 2023 #22
Your fear is palpable. I can feel it even over the wire. Your baby is 'feeling' your emotions cayugafalls Sep 2023 #23
I'm gong to be out of the house for most of the afternoon bif Sep 2023 #25
Calm yourself first. cayugafalls Sep 2023 #24
Maybe put Rebl2 Sep 2023 #26
Any better today? multigraincracker Sep 2023 #27

Best_man23

(4,926 posts)
2. Some tuna and/or treats, then grace and space
Wed Sep 13, 2023, 07:53 AM
Sep 2023

Put out the tuna or treats and give her some space. Approach once she has appeared to have calmed down.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
4. Hopefully she'll get over it soon
Wed Sep 13, 2023, 08:02 AM
Sep 2023

I stepped on the tail of one of my breakfast guests awhile back. He had attitude for a little bit, but he got over it.

marble falls

(57,900 posts)
6. Mine has gotten used to it. I appolgize and now all I have to do is brush his tail and he lets ...
Wed Sep 13, 2023, 08:03 AM
Sep 2023

... a gentle protest. We have a shoes off policy, so there's that.

The first time I did it, he was puffed and angry. He's finally realized I'm an old bumbling but well meaning fool and he's allowed for it.

Just stay solicitous and keep telling her it's all right and reassure her, maybe a treat? She'll get used to human feet and it will get better.

magicarpet

(14,291 posts)
7. Give the cat a treat every time it walks by or enters the room.
Wed Sep 13, 2023, 08:11 AM
Sep 2023

Enroll the cat in a yoga class,... obesity might be on the cats horizon.

bif

(22,876 posts)
8. She's kind of freaking me out.
Wed Sep 13, 2023, 08:12 AM
Sep 2023

It's been a half hour and she's following me around and still growling and hissing at me. She's an Abyssinian. I don't know if that makes any difference.

Sanity Claws

(21,872 posts)
9. Try telling her you are sorry
Wed Sep 13, 2023, 08:31 AM
Sep 2023

That you will be more careful in the future, and that you love her. They really understand more language than we give me them credit for.

Marthe48

(17,195 posts)
11. Do you think you did any damage to her tail?
Wed Sep 13, 2023, 08:54 AM
Sep 2023

If she is holding it funny or there's a bend or swelling, it might be more than hurt feelings.

I have a Manx. No worries about stepping on her tail, but feet and bod, yep. I hate when it happens, but she forgives me if I give her a treat.

Hope your kitty gets over it.

bif

(22,876 posts)
14. It doesn't appear to be damaged.
Wed Sep 13, 2023, 09:09 AM
Sep 2023

I'm sitting on the sofa in our studio and she's creeping around the door. She sat on her usual spot on the sofa while I did my rowing workout for a few minutes.

raging moderate

(4,327 posts)
15. Oh, good.
Wed Sep 13, 2023, 09:12 AM
Sep 2023

When I had cats, I would mimic an apology in cat language that I had seen somewhere. You get on all fours, shrink down, and put your head almost on the floor, and mew a few times like a kitten. This says, I am so sorry, I didn't mean to hurt you, I got clumsy like a kitten, please forgive me as you would forgive a kitten." Then offer treats.

bif

(22,876 posts)
16. I immediately sat on the floor and held out my hand.
Wed Sep 13, 2023, 09:14 AM
Sep 2023

She was briefly okay, but then went into Cujo mode. It gave me goosebumps.

Marthe48

(17,195 posts)
19. Just hurt feelings
Wed Sep 13, 2023, 09:40 AM
Sep 2023

I'm pretty heavy, so i worry about doing damage and try to be careful. When I had cats with tails, I stepped on the boy's tail. He ran to the basement, and it was the next day before he had anything to do with me. I felt so bad.

justaprogressive

(2,287 posts)
17. Need to pick her up and
Wed Sep 13, 2023, 09:17 AM
Sep 2023

reassure her post-haste!

Basically drop what you're doing and pay attention to her, lots of pets, hugs & apologies...

plus her favorite treats!

bif

(22,876 posts)
18. No way!
Wed Sep 13, 2023, 09:21 AM
Sep 2023

She wouldn't let me get anywhere near her. I'm talking demonic howling and hissing and those possessed eyes. I had goosebumps.

LastDemocratInSC

(3,659 posts)
22. Those are automatic behaviors, not intentional.
Wed Sep 13, 2023, 09:51 AM
Sep 2023

The cat probably feels some pain and feels vulnerable as a result.

cayugafalls

(5,674 posts)
23. Your fear is palpable. I can feel it even over the wire. Your baby is 'feeling' your emotions
Wed Sep 13, 2023, 10:24 AM
Sep 2023

and responding.

You absolutely must get over your fear. If you have to leave and come back, do so. The emotion of fear needs to be removed for a while.

I raised Siamese for 20 years. After something like an unintentional harm, there has to be reconciliation. If the emotional connection is still connected to the event, it has to be broken.

Removing yourself for a short time and calming down your own fear at being attacked will greatly reduce the anxiety of your fur baby.

Reach out if you need anything.

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