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spinbaby

(15,088 posts)
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 08:22 PM Jul 2020

I'm beginning to suspect I'm a crazy cat lady

My current inventory:

A frail 20-year-old black cat.

An 11-year-old black cat who hates me and everyone else except my son—she adores him.

Two fat gray cats of indeterminate age who came with the house.

One thin gray cat I got in someone else’s divorce.

A 16-year-old orange marmalade cat who demands ice in his water.

Another orange marmalade cat I got when someone moved.

A buff-colored feral cat with an ear tip who just decided to live here.

A young orange-and-white tomcat who I suspect has another home, but likes our buffet. I plan to neuter him soon.

Three foster kittens. I may keep one.

Two feral cats in cages from Monday’s trapping and Tuesday’s spaying. One is going back to her home turf in the morning; the other was only three pounds—barely big enough to spay—and I’m hoping to tame her, combo test her, and add her to my foster crew.

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I'm beginning to suspect I'm a crazy cat lady (Original Post) spinbaby Jul 2020 OP
I'd love to have another cat, but... Binkie The Clown Jul 2020 #1
That's my worry, too Boomer Jul 2020 #7
Dear Spinbaby MLAA Jul 2020 #2
Getting close. irisblue Jul 2020 #3
I can afford it spinbaby Jul 2020 #4
I appreciate that you were kind enough to reply irisblue Jul 2020 #9
No one is going to come get the cats spinbaby Jul 2020 #12
Too many Kitties is never enough jpak Jul 2020 #5
I'll echo MLAA... Duppers Jul 2020 #6
That's awesome! The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2020 #8
you are an angel-hero! peacebuzzard Jul 2020 #10
Being a retired animal rescuer, I have about 30 cats...cats needed rescuing more than dogs Karadeniz Jul 2020 #11
I'm a crazy catdad I_UndergroundPanther Jul 2020 #13

Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
1. I'd love to have another cat, but...
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 08:28 PM
Jul 2020

...at my age, and in my condition, any kitten I adopted would outlive me, and then end up in a shelter.

Boomer

(4,168 posts)
7. That's my worry, too
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 09:12 PM
Jul 2020

I'm only a year or two from retirement and in bad health. I'm in no position to take on any pet since they will most likely outlive me and I have no family to take them. Unfortunately, the local neighborhood kittens didn't get that memo.

We have three cats ages 1, 4 and 5 years old, who wandered into our yard as kittens and transitioned into house cats. (A fourth broke our hearts by dying of FIP earlier this year.) We also have a 5-year-old feral cat who resists being tamed but considers our yard his home and expects us to feed him.

There are also two 10-month old ferals in the alley behind our house who now depend on me for meals, even though they find me very scary and run if I get too close to them.

MLAA

(17,277 posts)
2. Dear Spinbaby
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 08:32 PM
Jul 2020

I’m going to stop saying crazy like a fox and say crazy like a cat in your honor. You are a hero. I tear up thinking about the wonderful bed and breakfast (and lunch and dinner) you are providing. I too am partial to ice in everything I drink, so a special thank you for taking their special requests 🥰😍

irisblue

(32,967 posts)
3. Getting close.
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 08:33 PM
Jul 2020

Bluntly, can you afford that many kits? Who & how often are the pans changed?

I'm not meaning to sound harsh.

spinbaby

(15,088 posts)
4. I can afford it
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 08:38 PM
Jul 2020

Everyone is well fed and vetted. Six litter pans cleaned twice a day, thank you very much.

irisblue

(32,967 posts)
9. I appreciate that you were kind enough to reply
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 09:19 PM
Jul 2020

I am feeding 3 ferals, one who is pregnant.
I am having an issue finding a rescue to get the pregnant cat & her sister.
It feels frustrating, the pregnant one want really wants in, but my 2 current living room lions will have nothing of that.

spinbaby

(15,088 posts)
12. No one is going to come get the cats
Fri Jul 24, 2020, 05:58 AM
Jul 2020

A fact of life in most areas is that animal control wants nothing to do with cats and shelters often have no room for cats. The universe has assigned you to take care of the kitties.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,673 posts)
8. That's awesome!
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 09:13 PM
Jul 2020

Thanks for looking after all those cats, including the ferals and the one who hates you. I'm down to one cat now - my two old boys passed away in the last couple of months - and I'd like to have more, but the last cat is a diva and I think she really likes having me to herself. We'll see. Cat ladies are never crazy. Cats keep us sane.

peacebuzzard

(5,167 posts)
10. you are an angel-hero!
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 09:21 PM
Jul 2020

thanks for your dedication and rescue work.
Those kitties would have no where to go...

Karadeniz

(22,499 posts)
11. Being a retired animal rescuer, I have about 30 cats...cats needed rescuing more than dogs
Thu Jul 23, 2020, 09:53 PM
Jul 2020

By the numbers. Every morning they make me happy and smile. They're a gift!❤

I_UndergroundPanther

(12,463 posts)
13. I'm a crazy catdad
Fri Jul 24, 2020, 07:43 PM
Jul 2020

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