Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

easttexaslefty

(1,554 posts)
Mon Feb 4, 2019, 04:35 PM Feb 2019

Help.

My cat called out to me 6 months after much son's death. He told me who to call and what he looked like.i went a got him & he's been my comfort since. He died Saturday, he had cancer. 11 years later & I feel like Im dying too. I miss him so much
He was my connection to my son. I feel lost.

1 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
Help. (Original Post) easttexaslefty Feb 2019 OP
Oh, Lefty, how very sad. 3catwoman3 Feb 2019 #1

3catwoman3

(23,973 posts)
1. Oh, Lefty, how very sad.
Mon Feb 4, 2019, 04:59 PM
Feb 2019

AS a cat lover, may I suggest that the spirits of both your son and his/your cat, would likely think it was a fine thing if you offered your loving heart and home to a kitty or two who needs someone.

41 year ago this month, while I was stationed in Japan with the Air Force nurse corps, my brother, my only sibling, died in a scuba diving adventure gone wrong. I had only been in Japan a short time, so didn’t have much of a support network thousands of miles from home.

Not to long after that, one of my neighbors in the BOQ (bachelor officers’ quarters) found a kitten. I fell for him immediately, and it was a healing thing to come home to a little critter who needed me and was happy to see me.

I brought that cat back to the States with me. I had him for 20 years. It was tough when he crossed the Rainbow Bridge, but it was worth having had him all that time.

Latest Discussions»Culture Forums»Ancestry/Genealogy»Help.