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Rorey

(8,445 posts)
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 09:31 PM Mar 2021

Something is going on with my grandson

He's 6 1/2 months old, and a couple of days ago had an episode where he threw up four times in a very short span of time. Then nothing for a few days. I even went for a short masked visit yesterday.

Well, it started again today. They went to the ER, and now he's being transferred to Children's Hospital in Colorado Springs. I don't want to bombard my son with questions because he's following the ambulance while my daughter-in-law rides along.

I'll be crazy with worry until we figure this out. He has no fever and his vitals are good, but he's definitely not acting like himself.

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Something is going on with my grandson (Original Post) Rorey Mar 2021 OP
Oh Rorey blm Mar 2021 #1
I'm pretty much freaking out Rorey Mar 2021 #2
Try to relax,.. the hospital is a good move,... with all the equipment and expertise,... magicarpet Mar 2021 #3
It's a good hospital Rorey Mar 2021 #7
A little glass of wine might help to calm you down,... if that's your thing. magicarpet Mar 2021 #12
I'm trying to be logical Rorey Mar 2021 #15
Sending vibes and hoping it is easily treated. ms liberty Mar 2021 #4
Thank you Rorey Mar 2021 #8
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that. wendyb-NC Mar 2021 #5
Thank you so much Rorey Mar 2021 #9
Does your grandson take a bottle? Alliepoo Mar 2021 #6
I know he's mostly breastfed, with an occasional bottle Rorey Mar 2021 #10
And thank you. NT Rorey Mar 2021 #11
I don't really know though Rorey Mar 2021 #18
Rorey, hugs to you. Try to keep positive and not worry about something that hasn't happened yet. badhair77 Mar 2021 #13
Yeah, worrying is genetic for me Rorey Mar 2021 #16
Oh no! WVGIRL Mar 2021 #14
Thank you, and I will. Rorey Mar 2021 #17
We went through this when my oldest son was little. On doctor's orders we gave him abqtommy Mar 2021 #19
Allergies - that crossed my mind Rorey Mar 2021 #21
On just the little bit you've said it sounds like a possible esophageal stricture or something simil mostlyalurker Mar 2021 #20
Well, that sounds kind of terrifying Rorey Mar 2021 #22
Any news yet on what it is? ratchiweenie Mar 2021 #23
Not really Rorey Mar 2021 #24
Do let us know if they find out what it is and if he gets better. I'm a grandma and a worrier. ratchiweenie Mar 2021 #25
Thanks for the reminder Rorey Mar 2021 #26
He's been acting fine Rorey Mar 2021 #27
The doctor said they should feed him food Rorey Mar 2021 #28
You must be wringing your hands with worry. Keep us informed. Take care of yourself. ratchiweenie Mar 2021 #29
Definitely worried now....again Rorey Mar 2021 #30

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
2. I'm pretty much freaking out
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 09:37 PM
Mar 2021

Counting on DU to distract me.

In another time we'd all be following that ambulance. Now we can just sit home and wait for texts. My son's got about 20 people on a group text.

He's got three sons and all three have done this hospital thing this past year.

I haven't even gotten to hold the baby because of COVID.

magicarpet

(14,222 posts)
3. Try to relax,.. the hospital is a good move,... with all the equipment and expertise,...
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 09:47 PM
Mar 2021

.... they should track down what ails him quickly.




Rorey

(8,445 posts)
7. It's a good hospital
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 09:55 PM
Mar 2021

Thank you, and I'm trying. I know that hospital is far superior to the two in my city when it comes to treating kids.

My son always puts on a strong front, and I know my daughter-in-law will try to do that too, but she's just got to be out of her mind.

magicarpet

(14,222 posts)
12. A little glass of wine might help to calm you down,... if that's your thing.
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 10:06 PM
Mar 2021

All you can do is wait and hear the medical prognosis. Send your boy a text and ask him to call/text you when he gets a chance.

You are a bag of nerves wondering if there is anything you can do to help them. Maybe do some cooking for them so casseroles are on hand for heat and serve.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
15. I'm trying to be logical
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 10:12 PM
Mar 2021

My son first told me that they were sending my grandson up to Children's at 4:15, and the ambulance didn't pick him up from the ER until 6:15, so I'm telling myself that the fact that it took two hours for the transfer to happen means that they're not thinking it's an emergency, and just that they know he'll get more focused care in Children's Hospital.

But no, no wine for me. Cooking sounds like a good idea, but they're both excellent cooks, and I'm pretty basic. Great suggestions for most people, but we're a weird family, I guess.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
8. Thank you
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 09:57 PM
Mar 2021

I hope they figure it out right away. He has been just seemed to be super healthy, and is such a happy baby.

wendyb-NC

(3,351 posts)
5. Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that.
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 09:53 PM
Mar 2021

I know, you have to be crazy with worry, it's how moms and grandmas, are.

I will keep your grand baby, his mom and dad, and you in my prayers for, healthy recovery and a future of wellness and joy.

Alliepoo

(2,238 posts)
6. Does your grandson take a bottle?
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 09:55 PM
Mar 2021

My youngest did something similar-turns out she needed to be put on soy formula instead of one with dairy. Try not to to worry too much (yeah right- I understand) but it’s much more likely to be something treatable instead of something more serious. Here’s a ((HUG)) for you. We all need a hug sometimes!

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
10. I know he's mostly breastfed, with an occasional bottle
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 10:00 PM
Mar 2021

He gets some baby food too. In fact, this morning my daughter-in-law posted a video of him making the most awful face when she tried to give him peaches, so maybe he was feeling whatever is going on even then.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
18. I don't really know though
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 10:19 PM
Mar 2021

Maybe he did get a bottle, and two of my kids are lactose intolerant, so maybe he is too. That would be an answer I can handle.

badhair77

(4,227 posts)
13. Rorey, hugs to you. Try to keep positive and not worry about something that hasn't happened yet.
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 10:07 PM
Mar 2021

I know, that’s hard to do. I’m a worrier and my psychologist friend always asks me “how is that serving you?” And it’s not. Good vibes that the doctors will get to the bottom of this quickly. Please keep us updated.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
16. Yeah, worrying is genetic for me
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 10:14 PM
Mar 2021

I'm just like my dad was. I know it's a waste of time, but it's hard to conquer.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
17. Thank you, and I will.
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 10:17 PM
Mar 2021

They should be getting there soon.

Oh yeah, and it's been raining. The highway is going to be slick tonight after it freezes, but my son will probably stay up there too. I know my daughter-in-law won't leave her baby. She's a super mom.

abqtommy

(14,118 posts)
19. We went through this when my oldest son was little. On doctor's orders we gave him
Thu Mar 4, 2021, 11:59 PM
Mar 2021

lots of coke syrup and Pedialite then when he was older he tested positive for various
allergies. I wish you a positive outcome.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
21. Allergies - that crossed my mind
Fri Mar 5, 2021, 07:58 AM
Mar 2021

They did imaging, and then x-rays, and didn't find anything. Around 10:30 my son sent a text saying he nursed and his vomiting had stopped and they were going to release him. They got home around 12:30.

Apparently they said it could be FPIES, which is rare, but they can outgrow it. They're supposed to take him to his pediatrician today.

I hope they slow their roll on other food. I know that little guy loves to eat, but I think my son might get more zealous than he should be in introducing new foods. Maybe I'm wrong, but I think it can really mess up their system when they're given something before their little bodies are ready.

Many years ago I had an acquaintance who told me her son had severe food allergies. She had given him a bottle of orange juice when he was only a month old and it did a lot of damage. I didn't know her very well.

Thank you for your good wishes. I hope they figure this thing out.

mostlyalurker

(37 posts)
20. On just the little bit you've said it sounds like a possible esophageal stricture or something simil
Fri Mar 5, 2021, 12:00 AM
Mar 2021

That kind of thing can be easily fixed by surgery. If this is only happening now and he hasn’t had any other problems you don’t know about its very hopeful.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
22. Well, that sounds kind of terrifying
Fri Mar 5, 2021, 08:10 AM
Mar 2021

My dad died from esophageal cancer, so I kind of panic thinking about anything having to do with the esophagus. My dad never smoked, and my mom used to say that she thought it was caused by all of the coffee he drank. (And here I sit with my morning coffee.) He used to drink an entire pot in the morning, and then more later in the day. I don't do that.

Thank you for throwing that out there. I'd like to think that doctors would figure it out, but they don't always, and I don't think it hurts to research things. I appreciate all ideas on this.

Of course doctors don't usually appreciate the medical credentials that people like me earn from using search engines. A couple of years ago I was smelling cigarette smoke all the time, and told my doctor that I had concluded that I had either a brain tumor or schizophrenia. She sort of rolled her eyes. Whatever the case, it decreased a lot, so I might have been wrong.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
24. Not really
Fri Mar 5, 2021, 09:29 PM
Mar 2021

He's got an appointment with an allergy specialist in Denver a week from Monday. He's still not himself, but he hasn't been throwing up. My son is really thinking it's that FPIES (Food Protein Induced Enterocolitis Syndrome (FPIES) is a type of non-IgE mediated food allergy that can present with severe vomiting, diarrhea and dehydration. Like other food allergies, FPIES reactions are triggered by eating a particular food), but he didn't have any other symptom other than vomiting and he was very lethargic.

I'm betting they won't be giving him any food other than from nursing until they hopefully get answers from the allergy doctor. They're going to take his older brother, who is four, to see that doctor too because his seasonal allergies are awful. I reminded my son that his oldest, who is 16, also had bad seasonal allergies when he was little. He's better now that he's older.

Thank you so much for asking. I'll be nervous about this until we get definitive answers.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
26. Thanks for the reminder
Mon Mar 15, 2021, 06:44 PM
Mar 2021

Their appointment got changed to a telehealth appointment because of the storm that hit us here in Colorado. I'll text my daughter-in-law.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
28. The doctor said they should feed him food
Mon Mar 15, 2021, 07:31 PM
Mar 2021

He prescribed Zofran is case of nausea, and they have an appointment with a nutritionist. My daughter-in-law sounds pretty nervous about it all. She's just a super mom. I think the world of her, and my other DIL too.

Thank you for asking.

Rorey

(8,445 posts)
30. Definitely worried now....again
Fri Mar 19, 2021, 04:21 PM
Mar 2021

My son just called me to tell him that the vomiting is back. Today was the first time that he's had food, other than breast milk, since this started. He had some baby food pumpkin.

If it's FPIES, he'll supposedly probably grow out of it, but I hope they find some food that doesn't do this to him soon.

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