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blur256

(979 posts)
Fri May 17, 2019, 07:02 PM May 2019

Serious question

So my wife is getting ordained this summer in the UCC church. The current church she is at was supposed to pay her as an associate (20,000 more in pay) once that happens but apparently the budget will not support this. So she is looking elsewhere. What are good cities for us? I'm moveable. I work in staffing, my degrees are in advertising, public relations, and management. I can get a job anywhere so I always told her we would go where her calling is.
That being said, where are safe places for us? She has an in person interview in Cleveland coming up which I am cool with so we would be closer to our families. She is also going to apply to a job in Santa fe. I found one in Chicago she would be good for.
But really, as a lesbian couple, where should we be looking? Keep in mind a lot of UCC churches are open and affirming but not all. We are originally both from Missouri and we definitely can't go back there right now because of the state government.
So any thoughts? We are really open to pretty much anything as long as it is the right environment and space for us. Thanks in advance!

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Serious question (Original Post) blur256 May 2019 OP
Fort Lauderdale! FM123 May 2019 #1
Well that is awesome! blur256 May 2019 #2
Yes, we have "weird voting stuff" happening constantly. FM123 May 2019 #3
Will do! blur256 May 2019 #4
Chicago cate94 May 2019 #5
Thank you! blur256 May 2019 #6

FM123

(10,053 posts)
1. Fort Lauderdale!
Fri May 17, 2019, 07:53 PM
May 2019

As an ally, I can tell you that many of my lgbtq friends and family love it down here. We even have a neighborhood in Ft. Lauderdale called Wilton Manors where not only is it safe, but the police have designed a rainbow squad car to show their welcome and support of the lgbtq community.
https://www.sun-sentinel.com/local/broward/fl-ne-wilton-manors-rainbow-gay-police-car-20190201-story.html

blur256

(979 posts)
2. Well that is awesome!
Fri May 17, 2019, 09:55 PM
May 2019

But I worry about Florida as a whole... lots of repubs and vote tampering apparently...

FM123

(10,053 posts)
3. Yes, we have "weird voting stuff" happening constantly.
Fri May 17, 2019, 10:34 PM
May 2019

Actually, weird all kinds of stuff, lol...
But, the Fort Lauderdale & Miami area of South Florida is pretty progressive with lots of Dems, not so much the further north you go in the state. Even if you don't move down here, please consider coming for a visit

cate94

(2,810 posts)
5. Chicago
Thu May 23, 2019, 01:59 PM
May 2019

It’s a beautiful city. People are mostly friendly. Democrats in power. The only bad thing about it is winter.

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