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Behind the Aegis

(53,956 posts)
Thu Mar 7, 2019, 09:49 PM Mar 2019

Man in crisis calls gay bookstore, and manager and patrons answer

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While working at the bookstore one night, he said he received a call from a man who said he might be gay and was “considering self-harm.”

“We were not a crisis center! But as long as we’re talking, he’s safe, right?” @TweetChizone continued in a tweet that has received more than 30,000 likes as of Wednesday afternoon.

The man said he kept the caller on the phone by answering his questions, even though there were several customers in his store. @TweetChizone said that a few minutes later, “this angel of a woman puts her hand on my shoulder and asks for the phone. 'My turn,' she says.”

"And SHE, this 50-something lesbian talks to this stranger on the phone. And a LINE FORMS BEHIND HER. Every customer in that store knows that call, knows that feeling, and every person takes a turn talking to that man,” he continued. “That story comforts me so much to this day.”

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Man in crisis calls gay bookstore, and manager and patrons answer (Original Post) Behind the Aegis Mar 2019 OP
People caring for people. True love. "When someone else's happiness is essential to your own" Bernardo de La Paz Mar 2019 #1
What a beautiful story, it warms my heart! FM123 Mar 2019 #2
Some life-affirming news today. Good to see it. badhair77 Mar 2019 #3
I think we all needed to hear this today. Haggis for Breakfast Mar 2019 #4
Good people. all of them are heroes. demigoddess Mar 2019 #5
So thankful for the people who took the time to help JustFiveMoreMinutes Mar 2019 #6
Thanks for sharing PatSeg Mar 2019 #7
I am so moved. littlemissmartypants Mar 2019 #8
Ran across this story on Facebook, then discovered it was already posted here. Stonepounder Mar 2019 #9
Many years ago, when I was in college (MANY!) I worked the overnight shift in a NYC emergency room.. George II Mar 2019 #10
Trouble shared is trouble halved GeoWilliam750 Mar 2019 #11
Wow what a great story. n/t Odoreida Mar 2019 #12
Heartwarming story, it brought tears to my eyes. Beacool Mar 2019 #13
A lot of LGBT have had or heard of such experiences as this, the very young, coming out, ... SWBTATTReg Mar 2019 #14
I remember those bookstores. I remember the hope they brought. brandnewday2009 Mar 2019 #15
That is the best, most humane, news I have read all week or even all year. Life-affirming... Hekate Mar 2019 #16
Thanks. mahannah Mar 2019 #17
Always call a book store. mahannah Mar 2019 #18
A good story Sherman A1 Mar 2019 #19
I think I have something in my eye. pazzyanne Mar 2019 #20
Thank you! cp Mar 2019 #21

Bernardo de La Paz

(49,001 posts)
1. People caring for people. True love. "When someone else's happiness is essential to your own"
Thu Mar 7, 2019, 09:54 PM
Mar 2019

At least in that moment, it was essential.

Haggis for Breakfast

(6,831 posts)
4. I think we all needed to hear this today.
Thu Mar 7, 2019, 10:34 PM
Mar 2019

A re-affirmation that humanity and kindness actually do exist in our increasingly polarized country.

THANK YOU for sharing this post.

JustFiveMoreMinutes

(2,133 posts)
6. So thankful for the people who took the time to help
Thu Mar 7, 2019, 11:28 PM
Mar 2019

... and DAMN the people who spout the hate and lies that put the poor soul into that state of mind.

Stonepounder

(4,033 posts)
9. Ran across this story on Facebook, then discovered it was already posted here.
Fri Mar 8, 2019, 12:09 AM
Mar 2019

We are our brothers/sisters keepers. Fantastic story! Thanks for posting.

George II

(67,782 posts)
10. Many years ago, when I was in college (MANY!) I worked the overnight shift in a NYC emergency room..
Fri Mar 8, 2019, 12:11 AM
Mar 2019

...on weekends as the admitting clerk. One night I got a call from a guy who said he was going to commit suicide. We talked about a half hour, me telling him that if he killed himself he couldn't make things better, etc., etc. It was a long call.

He thanked me and hung up.

Then I took my "sleep" break (3-4 AM). When I went back to work I learned we had a new patient - he came to the hospital and checked in for observation. DAMN, I felt good. Who knows what ultimately happened after that, but at least he decided to do something about his problem.

Beacool

(30,247 posts)
13. Heartwarming story, it brought tears to my eyes.
Fri Mar 8, 2019, 06:50 PM
Mar 2019

These people took time to help a stranger on the phone who was under distress. I'm sure that they left him feeling much better than when he made the call. It does take a village...

SWBTATTReg

(22,114 posts)
14. A lot of LGBT have had or heard of such experiences as this, the very young, coming out, ...
Fri Mar 8, 2019, 06:56 PM
Mar 2019

despairing and not knowing where to get 'true and realistic' help (not the help the bible thumpers offer). A lot of what young kids hear is a constant barrage of how wrong this lifestyle is, the hate, the bigotry, etc.

Of course most of us know our lifestyle is not the evil that others seem to make it (all fake and distorted and far from reality and the truth). It's not. It's families, spouses, children (fostered or from prior straight marriages, etc.), with homes, with jobs, with friends, in short, what everyone else has in the 'normal' straight world. If you put both worlds side by side, oftentimes you would have difficulty in picking which world it was you were picking, should you attempt to pick which world was what.

Those coming out face a whole world of bigotry and hate, in full view and I've known too many 18 year olds getting kicked out of their homes because they came out. Some have reconciled, others have not. The community does extend its hand out in comfort and aid all across the country on a daily basis...you just don't hear about it. Maybe that's why the bookstore story is so real to people, for we have all seen this story already.

 

brandnewday2009

(287 posts)
15. I remember those bookstores. I remember the hope they brought.
Fri Mar 8, 2019, 09:08 PM
Mar 2019

While I never called the bookstore to seek help because I had reached the end of hope, I did, as a confused and frightened gay boy of 14, find my community when I found the Amazon Bookstore (the FIRST and the BEST) while on a trip to Minneapolis one summer. It was what I needed right then and there, just like the story. Thank you for sharing this article!

Hekate

(90,674 posts)
16. That is the best, most humane, news I have read all week or even all year. Life-affirming...
Fri Mar 8, 2019, 09:21 PM
Mar 2019

Just everything you want humanity to be in a crisis, and in this dark time it makes me want to cry.



pazzyanne

(6,551 posts)
20. I think I have something in my eye.
Sat Mar 9, 2019, 07:54 AM
Mar 2019

People can be so wonderful and caring. Sometimes we forget this in our everyday lives, especially for the past 2 years. Blessings on these wonderful people!

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