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discntnt_irny_srcsm

(18,479 posts)
Fri Oct 19, 2012, 10:38 AM Oct 2012

Is there anyone else that thinks...

Last edited Fri Oct 19, 2012, 02:36 PM - Edit history (1)

...high heels look ridiculous? I personally think they make a woman's foot look ugly. From what I've been told by women, that they're uncomfortable and sometimes dangerous. I can only conclude that those who wear them are yielding to some moronic social pressure.



Does anyone feel the same?


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Is there anyone else that thinks... (Original Post) discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 OP
No, not me. HappyMe Oct 2012 #1
Good for you discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #3
I love the way women look in high heels... Upton Oct 2012 #2
Judging by society... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #4
There are a lot more important HappyMe Oct 2012 #5
High heels are uncomfortable for everyone at first, some just get used to it redqueen Oct 2012 #7
Peace to you and respect. discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #8
I knew a woman who always wore heels at work but changed into flats to drive home. milestogo Oct 2012 #39
I just don't like them :( n/t discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #40
High heals are key to any successful raid. opiate69 Oct 2012 #6
I'm mystified. discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #9
I`ll clarify, then... opiate69 Oct 2012 #10
The light... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #11
it`s all good... was just making a funny (or trying to) based on your typo... opiate69 Oct 2012 #12
yes discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #14
kidding aside, I like the way they look... opiate69 Oct 2012 #24
I do not like green eggs or heels... n/t discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #29
I think they do make women look sexier, but I encourage women not to wear them all the same. stevenleser Oct 2012 #13
It appears... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #15
Every man should have a pair or two. One_Life_To_Give Oct 2012 #16
no thanks discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #17
Chicken One_Life_To_Give Oct 2012 #18
I love chicken... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #19
I'm not going to pick an option LadyHawkAZ Oct 2012 #20
I understand... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #22
It's very steampunk Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #27
I love a lot of the steampunk clothes LadyHawkAZ Oct 2012 #37
Warby Parker has a dashing hifiguy Oct 2012 #46
Some women do look nice in heels. lumberjack_jeff Oct 2012 #21
Agreed :) n/t discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #23
Penis gourd Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #26
I think people should wear whatever the fuck they want. Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #25
Those are all high heeled boots. nt redqueen Oct 2012 #28
Very... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #31
High heeled boots, yes. Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #32
To further elaborate: Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #34
I can't see the second pic, it doesn't show up. redqueen Oct 2012 #35
Fair enough. I stand corrected. Warren DeMontague Oct 2012 #38
Grateful Dead tennies. Now that hifiguy Oct 2012 #47
Boots are fine... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #30
Hoof heels Major Nikon Oct 2012 #45
This is the way to wear boots: hifiguy Oct 2012 #49
No, not ridiculous... ElboRuum Oct 2012 #33
IMHO... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #36
I prefer feet to be totally naked. ZenLefty Oct 2012 #41
I'm good with that. discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #43
I don't think they look ridiculous. Behind the Aegis Oct 2012 #42
These... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #44
Putting the boot in, are we? hifiguy Oct 2012 #48
You could say... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #50
Those aren't uncomfortable LadyHawkAZ Oct 2012 #51
No man really likes them, we just force women to wear them 4th law of robotics Oct 2012 #52
Didn't get the memo. discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #53
It's seems like they take effort. limpyhobbler Oct 2012 #54
Effort yielding... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #55
So thats a "no" vote for heels. lumberjack_jeff Oct 2012 #56
LOL People should wear whatever they want. limpyhobbler Oct 2012 #57
Not me. caseymoz Oct 2012 #58
To each... discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2012 #59

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
1. No, not me.
Fri Oct 19, 2012, 11:10 AM
Oct 2012

I'm a woman. I enjoy wearing them. It's key to make sure that they fit properly, and don't buy cheap shoes.
As far as I know, it has nothing to do with "moronic social pressure". I'm perfectly capable of making up my own mind about shoes. I really don't care what other women think.

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
5. There are a lot more important
Fri Oct 19, 2012, 12:00 PM
Oct 2012

issues facing women these days. I think you are doing women a dis-service by implying that we are weak minded and foolish enough to not be able to make up our own minds about shoes. Heels are not the only shoes available. If a woman finds them uncomfortable, there are plenty of flats or kitten heels to be found.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
7. High heels are uncomfortable for everyone at first, some just get used to it
Fri Oct 19, 2012, 12:34 PM
Oct 2012

and don't mind the discomfort as much after a while.

They literally deform your feet.

I object to the characterization of anyone who adopts social norms which don't harm others as 'weak minded' or 'foolish'. There is intense social pressure on women to look sexy, and high heels are widely considered the sexiest kind of shoe (as well as the default in many professional settings).

discntnt_irny_srcsm

(18,479 posts)
8. Peace to you and respect.
Fri Oct 19, 2012, 01:06 PM
Oct 2012

Those women I've talked to say otherwise. Maybe they all coincidentally have a balance impairment. My recollection is 7 to 2 against wearing them. One of the two in favor was unable to not walk on her tiptoes due to her continuous wearing of heals. The other 7 females, with whom I have discussed the topic, hate them and won't wear them. There is nothing female about that. I happen to feel a tie of any style looks anywhere between foolish and pompous. I refuse to wear one unless I'm being paid to. I don't own one that I am aware of and haven't worn one in over 10 years. Also, IMHO, they look stupid.

Please, please do not take what you inferred as what I meant. For sure I did not imply a disservice to women. Many folks with all attributes of humanity will take measures to be attractive. My personal preferences should never, either for or against a style, decide what anyone I know should wear. It was my interest just to find out if there were others who also either actively disliked the look of heels or just found them neutral but unappealing. I am warned by my wife from time to time that I need to guard against being disconnected.

I find appealing the saying, "There is no man more free than the one who doesn't give a damn what society thinks of him."

Most people who make choices on style do it based on their own ideas. Please don't feel attacked as I respect everyone's right to make their own choices without consulting me or basing their decisions on my ideas. I do feel that most folks imprint their ideas somewhat unconsciously from advertising and the choices of piers.

Vive la différence

milestogo

(16,829 posts)
39. I knew a woman who always wore heels at work but changed into flats to drive home.
Fri Oct 19, 2012, 09:19 PM
Oct 2012

Her legs started to ache, so she changed to wearing the heels all the time. She couldn't adjust to going back and forth without some degree of pain so she chose to wear heels all the time. That seems a bit extreme.

 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
6. High heals are key to any successful raid.
Fri Oct 19, 2012, 12:18 PM
Oct 2012

I prefer Holy Priests, but Resto Druids have great AoE heals.



Wait... wut??

 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
10. I`ll clarify, then...
Fri Oct 19, 2012, 02:05 PM
Oct 2012

"heals" is sort of shorthand for the job healer characters do in games like World of Warcraft. Raids are challenging dungeons in which groups of 10 or 25 players work together to defeat large groups of "enemies" and very tough "bosses." The 3 roles in any raid group are tank, damage per second and healer. Tanks have extremely high defensive stats, allowing them to draw the focus of the mobs to them, while the DPS deal high amounts of damage. Healers; well... they keep the players alive. There are several different classes which can be healers, and each class has different talent builds. The examples I used were Holy Priest and Restoration Druid. As oppsed to Shadow Priests and Feral Druids, which are DPS specs.

"Heels" are a component of womens`shoes.

 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
24. kidding aside, I like the way they look...
Fri Oct 19, 2012, 04:50 PM
Oct 2012

Mainly because:

1) it makes them look taller.
2) it makes then appear to have longer legs.
3) it contracts the calves giving them a more pronounced shape.
4) It forces the gluteus muscles into a different shape, highlighting them also.

Having said that, though, my wife doesn`t like wearing them. She has a hard time with balance on high heels. Plus, lately she`s been having some problems with plantar fasciitis, so wearing them would be way too painful.

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
13. I think they do make women look sexier, but I encourage women not to wear them all the same.
Fri Oct 19, 2012, 02:26 PM
Oct 2012

they are extremely destructive to feet. I think heels are one of the primary reasons that the fastest growing medical speciality is podiatry. There is a photo out there on the internet that shows an xray of a foot in high heels and you can see, there is no way you wear those things day after day long term without doing massive musculoskeletal damage.

discntnt_irny_srcsm

(18,479 posts)
15. It appears...
Fri Oct 19, 2012, 02:35 PM
Oct 2012

...that I'm in the minority. I was just looking for some confirmation that I'm not totally alone in my view.
Thanks the orthopedic enlightenment. I kind of thought as much.

One_Life_To_Give

(6,036 posts)
16. Every man should have a pair or two.
Fri Oct 19, 2012, 02:56 PM
Oct 2012
In 1533, more than three decades after the male French nobility began wearing heels, the diminuitive wife of the Duke of Orleans, Catherine de Medici, commissioned a cobbler to fashion her a pair of heels, both for fashion, and to increase her stature. This was the first written record of the high-heeled shoe.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=1006041309109

It's not like they have always been exclusively Women's Wear.

According to Lucky magazine, guys are starting to wear high heels. For realz.

OK, so they're not talking about your average Joe here. Lucky reports on "the emergence of an elite group of men who take pleasure in wearing exquisite women’s shoes. In public."
http://www.sodahead.com/living/should-men-wear-high-heels/question-2093163/

discntnt_irny_srcsm

(18,479 posts)
19. I love chicken...
Fri Oct 19, 2012, 03:30 PM
Oct 2012

...especially chicken salad.

As I said upthread my style can be summed up in: "There is no man more free than the one who doesn't give a damn what society thinks of him." My feeling is, if you don't like my shoes, you should indulge yourself in not liking my shoes.

LadyHawkAZ

(6,199 posts)
20. I'm not going to pick an option
Fri Oct 19, 2012, 03:56 PM
Oct 2012

some look good and some don't. A lot of them are like clothes, designed to look good on a shelf in the store, not on a human body:



That's not a shoe, it's modern art.

I also find them mostly uncomfortable and dangerous, although if you keep the heel height low and look for wider heels, they can be wearable and even comfortable. A lot depends on the designer and the height.





 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
21. Some women do look nice in heels.
Fri Oct 19, 2012, 04:18 PM
Oct 2012

That said, functionally they are a debacle. My aesthetic sense in no way justifies asking a woman to wear the goddamn things.

I imagine there's a male analogue to heels that would be equally debilitating yet attractive, but I don't know what it would be... koteka, maybe.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
25. I think people should wear whatever the fuck they want.
Fri Oct 19, 2012, 05:01 PM
Oct 2012

Last edited Fri Oct 19, 2012, 06:34 PM - Edit history (1)

That said, as far as what I personally like--- High heeled shoes? Dont really care so much either way.

OTOH... black leather boots? Now we're talkin'.




Edited to fix incorrect footwear assertion.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
34. To further elaborate:
Fri Oct 19, 2012, 06:39 PM
Oct 2012

Like:



Don't care:



Also, FWIW, these never go out of style for either gender IMHO, although they can wreak their own special sort of havoc on one's feet:



redqueen

(115,103 posts)
35. I can't see the second pic, it doesn't show up.
Fri Oct 19, 2012, 06:45 PM
Oct 2012

But if you like high heeled boots, then you like high heeled shoes, cause boot is a subset of shoe.

You don't like all kinds of high heeled shoes, but you do like some.

I have rainbow converse. My daughter wears them more than I do.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
38. Fair enough. I stand corrected.
Fri Oct 19, 2012, 08:05 PM
Oct 2012

The shoes that are the shoes and not the boots, though, don't impact my psyche in a noticeable way.

You can get just about anything on a pair of converse, now. Fun.



ElboRuum

(4,717 posts)
33. No, not ridiculous...
Fri Oct 19, 2012, 06:38 PM
Oct 2012

...they look just a bit uncomfortable.

Of course, there have been plenty of "sexy" footwear styles for women which didn't/don't involve high heels, but for some reason, high heels are the standard bearer.

I don't get it personally. Of course, feet really aren't my thing.

Behind the Aegis

(53,961 posts)
42. I don't think they look ridiculous.
Sat Oct 20, 2012, 01:55 AM
Oct 2012

Some look very uncomfortable, but I find many types of footwear uncomfortable.

LadyHawkAZ

(6,199 posts)
51. Those aren't uncomfortable
Sat Oct 20, 2012, 10:49 PM
Oct 2012

the heel is low and wide, and no more uncomfortable than sneakers.

These are what my riding boots look like:


Comfortable as hell to walk in, especially when it's snowy, and great riding boots. (H-D makes shit bikes, but awesome gear)

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
52. No man really likes them, we just force women to wear them
Sun Oct 21, 2012, 02:48 PM
Oct 2012

to keep them subordinate and limit their mobility. We agreed to this at the last meeting of the patriarchy. Didn't you attend?

discntnt_irny_srcsm

(18,479 posts)
55. Effort yielding...
Sun Oct 21, 2012, 07:39 PM
Oct 2012

...neither joy nor money isn't at the top of my list. I can't see how heels could fall be thought of as self improvement either.

limpyhobbler

(8,244 posts)
57. LOL People should wear whatever they want.
Mon Oct 22, 2012, 04:44 PM
Oct 2012

We probably all agree on that.

I'm walking pretty good now btw. The username is from about a year ago after leg injury.

caseymoz

(5,763 posts)
58. Not me.
Thu Oct 25, 2012, 09:29 AM
Oct 2012

I think women should stop buying them and wearing them because they're painful and bad for the ankles, knees, hips and back.

That being said, I have to admit to a guilty pleasure: I like how they look. It's not their effect on their leg either, it's the posture the rest of the body takes.

And I tend to really respect women who can move gracefully on them. No easy thing.
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