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Massacure

(7,528 posts)
Tue Mar 24, 2015, 07:23 PM Mar 2015

So I'm going speed dating tomorrow

Some of you may remember me posting about a pharmacist about a month back. I spent a few minutes chatting with her shortly before the pharmacy closed and when I asked her how long she had lived in my city, she mentioned she had moved moved from a city about an hour away to be with her boyfriend a little over a year ago.

So anyway, I found a speed dating event on Meetup. At first I thought "cool, $24 dollars to meet 12 young ladies". I just went out to the meetup site to see who else is attending, and it looks like 6 guys and 3 ladies. I hope I'm not jinxing myself, but I'm feeling a little hesitant. :\

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So I'm going speed dating tomorrow (Original Post) Massacure Mar 2015 OP
Nerves mean you're in touch with reality! Just be yourself... CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2015 #1
Go try it irisblue Mar 2015 #2
what's the worst that can happen? magical thyme Mar 2015 #3
Remember, take it slow Telcontar Mar 2015 #4
Keep us posted on how it went! Have fun! Nt riderinthestorm Mar 2015 #5
good luck and have fun! :) nt steve2470 Mar 2015 #6
Meetups are awesome. Xyzse Mar 2015 #7
I just got the results back Massacure Mar 2015 #8

irisblue

(33,048 posts)
2. Go try it
Tue Mar 24, 2015, 07:33 PM
Mar 2015

I have gone to meet ups, and some have been fun, some have been dull. To quote Babcia Wisniewski, "what could it hurt?"
and you were brave to chat the pharmacist up.

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
3. what's the worst that can happen?
Tue Mar 24, 2015, 07:46 PM
Mar 2015

go, enjoy the experience for what it is. Maybe you'll make some new friends. Maybe not. Worth a shot, though...

Xyzse

(8,217 posts)
7. Meetups are awesome.
Wed Mar 25, 2015, 03:53 PM
Mar 2015

Though I've never done one for dating.
I mostly go to some activity I enjoy, and leave it at that.

Think of this as an activity to meet new people, with no expectations beyond that.
I think you'll have more fun doing it that way.

Massacure

(7,528 posts)
8. I just got the results back
Thu Mar 26, 2015, 06:44 PM
Mar 2015

There were 11 girls , I said yes to 6 and no to 5. Only one girl said yes to me though, and it wasn't one of the six I was impressed with.

I'm kind of bummed. :\

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