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nolabear

(42,001 posts)
Thu Jun 13, 2013, 09:32 PM Jun 2013

Shrink Question: What would the home of your dreams look like?

I'm always fascinated by what people think expresses their best selves. So how about your ideal home? You know, the place that reflects you, that you have a little dream about retiring to or raising your kids in or that really reflects who you are?

Me? I want a place on the water, with a pier and a little boat, a great big porch, and an interstate highway nearby that leads to the city I want to spend a bunch of time in.

I want great big windows and shade trees and a window to look out of wen I write that lets me look off into the distance. I want a kitchen with a gas stove and two ovens and a houseboy in cut off jeans and a tan...wait, what were we talking about?

Seriously, what's your dream home?

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Shrink Question: What would the home of your dreams look like? (Original Post) nolabear Jun 2013 OP
Essentially what I have now, but a second floor get a way room. Baitball Blogger Jun 2013 #1
I like minimalist. But I also like art, so I have a bunch in the townhouse. nolabear Jun 2013 #2
It would be the apartment building I live in now, but located where my last apartment was. arcane1 Jun 2013 #3
Sound-proof should never be overestimated. Baitball Blogger Jun 2013 #5
I'm pretty soundproof already, sharing two common walld with two different opera singers... arcane1 Jun 2013 #7
My soundproofing is amazing too. The guy next door is moving and this is the first time I've heard. nolabear Jun 2013 #16
About 5 acres so I could garden and have a small pool with lots of trees rurallib Jun 2013 #4
Good point. I would prefer a balcony 2 times bigger, with more sunlight. arcane1 Jun 2013 #8
exactly what and where I am now dixiegrrrrl Jun 2013 #6
Modern but not cold or intimidating tavernier Jun 2013 #9
Something like this: femmocrat Jun 2013 #10
Oh hell yes. nolabear Jun 2013 #17
What's that out on the horizon? Oh shit! A 100' wall of water! A HERETIC I AM Jun 2013 #39
I want a cottage in the woods with a rock garden and deck/screened in porch that wraps around applegrove Jun 2013 #11
Three words - Mr.Bill Jun 2013 #12
I think his work is incredible. But is it livable? nolabear Jun 2013 #18
We shopped a Frank Lloyd Wright kwassa Jun 2013 #45
Would someone PLEASE explain the cult of Frank Lloyd Wright? jmowreader Jun 2013 #57
Same thing happened with the Reitveld house. kwassa Jun 2013 #59
Google the Fallingwater restoration for extra entertainment jmowreader Jun 2013 #66
We finished building it in 2008 csziggy Jun 2013 #13
Looks wonderful. I'm such a sucker for a porch. nolabear Jun 2013 #19
On the far side is a screened porch csziggy Jun 2013 #21
If I had a spare half million, I'd buy the house down the street..... Rowdyboy Jun 2013 #14
Large estate house with many rooms and a walled-in garden. Chan790 Jun 2013 #15
this will do it... easychoice Jun 2013 #20
Dayum. I hope you have a staff. nolabear Jun 2013 #22
there would be janitors for sure... easychoice Jun 2013 #27
Long as it has a cement pond! nolabear Jun 2013 #29
Annd some architectural plantings easychoice Jun 2013 #35
The older I get, the more I'm into simple and uncluttered. Arugula Latte Jun 2013 #23
Garage with attached house One_Life_To_Give Jun 2013 #24
a hobbit hole in a wooded area fizzgig Jun 2013 #25
I like where I live except for a few things. hunter Jun 2013 #26
Falling Water NV Whino Jun 2013 #28
*sigh* SO gorgeous. But not the cuddliest place on earth. nolabear Jun 2013 #30
Actually, I find it quite cuddly NV Whino Jun 2013 #34
I am OK with the house I am in ... Tuesday Afternoon Jun 2013 #31
It would surrounded by 100 acres Auggie Jun 2013 #32
This would be like living inside a breast. rug Jun 2013 #33
I'm off the clock. nolabear Jun 2013 #36
A Gi-NORMous office space.... lastlib Jun 2013 #37
There's a lot of space here: discntnt_irny_srcsm Jun 2013 #38
If you haven't read "Wool" you should. nolabear Jun 2013 #43
Wool??? discntnt_irny_srcsm Jun 2013 #44
Yes. It's pretty good. About everyone surviving living in a massive silo. nolabear Jun 2013 #47
I'll check it out. n/t discntnt_irny_srcsm Jun 2013 #53
there is a silo for sale about 5 miles from my house Kali Jun 2013 #50
How much? n/t discntnt_irny_srcsm Jun 2013 #52
I am not sure Kali Jun 2013 #54
It would be... discntnt_irny_srcsm Jun 2013 #55
If money were no object, I'd want either a cool urban loft with an amazing city view pink-o Jun 2013 #40
Took two years to get done, but I'm living in it REP Jun 2013 #41
If my current home had an ocean view, you'd have to pry me out the door. Squinch Jun 2013 #42
hmmm ... kwassa Jun 2013 #46
Where IS that??? It's magnificent! nolabear Jun 2013 #48
Mexico kwassa Jun 2013 #56
about like the one I am in Kali Jun 2013 #49
. nolabear Jun 2013 #51
A home made mostly from the stuff we throw away...... DeSwiss Jun 2013 #58
Gosh. nolabear Jun 2013 #60
It is..... DeSwiss Jun 2013 #62
Totally off-grid. -- Tuesday Afternoon Jun 2013 #64
Here's how they do it: DeSwiss Jun 2013 #67
thanks for the picture. I bkmrkd the link, too. Tuesday Afternoon Jun 2013 #68
very nicely done! thanks for the pix and the link Tuesday Afternoon Jun 2013 #61
De nada. ;-} DeSwiss Jun 2013 #63
I'm with you, nolabear, elleng Jun 2013 #65
I found my dream house in 2006 Trailrider1951 Jun 2013 #69
Something where I could sit on my porch and not see a hundred other houses. Iggo Jun 2013 #70

Baitball Blogger

(46,775 posts)
1. Essentially what I have now, but a second floor get a way room.
Thu Jun 13, 2013, 09:37 PM
Jun 2013

It would have a large window with private balcony which reaches out just below the tree branches. The room wouldn't be large, in fact, that's the beauty of it. It will have all those features that you see in minimalist architecture. I can work by the window by day and if I'm still working into the night I can pull out a murphy style bed.

nolabear

(42,001 posts)
2. I like minimalist. But I also like art, so I have a bunch in the townhouse.
Thu Jun 13, 2013, 09:40 PM
Jun 2013

We're "interestingly cluttered". I'd like more space but can't get it for reasonable money here. And I LOVE my area of Seattle.

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
3. It would be the apartment building I live in now, but located where my last apartment was.
Thu Jun 13, 2013, 09:44 PM
Jun 2013

And the walls would be about 20% more sound-proof

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
7. I'm pretty soundproof already, sharing two common walld with two different opera singers...
Thu Jun 13, 2013, 09:55 PM
Jun 2013

and a pianist/violinist down the hall.

I can hear them in the hallway, but not inside. But they are loud in the daytime and early evening, whereas I like to sing loudly and play metal guitar at midnight. That 20% would go a long way

nolabear

(42,001 posts)
16. My soundproofing is amazing too. The guy next door is moving and this is the first time I've heard.
Fri Jun 14, 2013, 12:58 AM
Jun 2013

Replacing the carpet. We in the little group of townhouses all know one another to varying degrees and I like him, but I've never been aware of his existence on a noise basis until th carpet guy started banging around. Acoustics are pretty great these days.

rurallib

(62,471 posts)
4. About 5 acres so I could garden and have a small pool with lots of trees
Thu Jun 13, 2013, 09:47 PM
Jun 2013

I have always wanted a dome home with about 2 stories in the ground so we could laugh at big storms - wide open living/dining/ kitchen area.
As much natural light as possible and solar/wind for electricity. As much green power as possible

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
8. Good point. I would prefer a balcony 2 times bigger, with more sunlight.
Thu Jun 13, 2013, 09:57 PM
Jun 2013

I've been trying to grow some scraps of beans and mustard greens, but it's a tight fit!

tavernier

(12,410 posts)
9. Modern but not cold or intimidating
Thu Jun 13, 2013, 09:57 PM
Jun 2013

I'm a sucker for art so I would need miles of wall space. The Hermitage seems about right. Oh, and I would like a glass ceiling in the bedroom to watch the stars at night. And water all around, of course.

nolabear

(42,001 posts)
17. Oh hell yes.
Fri Jun 14, 2013, 12:59 AM
Jun 2013

My idea of heaven. I do wonder what it would be like to live in a place like that full tie instead of on vacation.

A HERETIC I AM

(24,380 posts)
39. What's that out on the horizon? Oh shit! A 100' wall of water!
Fri Jun 14, 2013, 07:47 PM
Jun 2013

I think you might want to put the umbrella down.

applegrove

(118,869 posts)
11. I want a cottage in the woods with a rock garden and deck/screened in porch that wraps around
Thu Jun 13, 2013, 10:16 PM
Jun 2013

the house. It would be winterized. There would be a huge fireplace. The couch and bed would be covered in plaid. I could sleep in the porch in the summer and watch the stars as I fall asleep. It will never happen. I can't drive anymore so I will never own my own house. But I have great memories of the woods from a cottage we had. I can live on those. Plus I'm addicted to interior décor photos and house plans.

nolabear

(42,001 posts)
18. I think his work is incredible. But is it livable?
Fri Jun 14, 2013, 01:00 AM
Jun 2013

I had a fetish for Fallingwater from an early age. Oddly, when I had the option I never went to see it. But I'd love to see it and Taliesin West.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
45. We shopped a Frank Lloyd Wright
Fri Jun 14, 2013, 09:22 PM
Jun 2013

My parents and us when we were kids. The house was small and dark, though, and unsuited for us.



We ended up in a Gerrit Rietveld. In this style, not this house.

jmowreader

(50,572 posts)
57. Would someone PLEASE explain the cult of Frank Lloyd Wright?
Sat Jun 15, 2013, 10:48 PM
Jun 2013

Apparently no one told him flat roofs leak like sieves.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
59. Same thing happened with the Reitveld house.
Sat Jun 15, 2013, 11:14 PM
Jun 2013

Flat roofs are not suitable for houses in Ohio. Many roof leak problems.

jmowreader

(50,572 posts)
66. Google the Fallingwater restoration for extra entertainment
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 01:57 AM
Jun 2013

It cost about $12 million to restore an under-$200,000 house because it was falling IN the water...

csziggy

(34,139 posts)
13. We finished building it in 2008
Thu Jun 13, 2013, 10:28 PM
Jun 2013

Just before I volunteered to work for the Obama campaign.

It's on the 60 acres farm we bought in 1979. The exterior is sort of a Craftsman/farm house style - here are the elevations:


Interior simple, with few but largish rooms.

Somehow, though I took hundreds of pictures during the construction, I've never taken pictures of the finished house. I need to do that!

nolabear

(42,001 posts)
19. Looks wonderful. I'm such a sucker for a porch.
Fri Jun 14, 2013, 01:02 AM
Jun 2013

I love Creole Cottages and they are elevated and have those big porches.

csziggy

(34,139 posts)
21. On the far side is a screened porch
Fri Jun 14, 2013, 07:47 AM
Jun 2013

Which I should have made wrap all the way around to connect to the front one. Someday I might add that - and maybe screen the entire porch.

Rowdyboy

(22,057 posts)
14. If I had a spare half million, I'd buy the house down the street.....
Thu Jun 13, 2013, 10:29 PM
Jun 2013

I went to an estate sale there Saturday and its just as pretty inside....

nolabear

(42,001 posts)
22. Dayum. I hope you have a staff.
Fri Jun 14, 2013, 01:18 PM
Jun 2013

Because I look at that and I think "I am NOT vacuuming that sucker." Clearly I was not to the manor born.

easychoice

(1,043 posts)
27. there would be janitors for sure...
Fri Jun 14, 2013, 03:55 PM
Jun 2013

Hey,Dream BIG,LOL...
Beautiful Property though.
I doubt if I would have much in common with the neighbors.I am sure they would be suitably mortified by my presence.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
23. The older I get, the more I'm into simple and uncluttered.
Fri Jun 14, 2013, 01:37 PM
Jun 2013

I'd like a house that's not too big, but has enough room to have guests visit comfortably and to work at home in. One that has new, clean surfaces (I've lived in houses that need fixing up and I'm a little tired of outdated stuff that needs to be replaced "one day" when we get time/money). A great kitchen with updated cabinets and appliances. Good storage space. A simple yard with a small patch of grass and a sunny place for a garden. And nice porch. In the city limits, but not on a busy street.

One_Life_To_Give

(6,036 posts)
24. Garage with attached house
Fri Jun 14, 2013, 02:35 PM
Jun 2013

3 Bays wide with 14x14 doors. 40ft deep with a pot bellied stove in the back. 6000lb single post lift and a couple of gantry cranes.
Maybe an office on the second floor.

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
25. a hobbit hole in a wooded area
Fri Jun 14, 2013, 02:39 PM
Jun 2013

with good earth to garden in, geothermal heat and solar power. a large recording studio for the husband, a large kitchen with a gas stove and pantry for me. a bathroom with a double headed shower and a giant clawfoot tub under a sky light. a giant parlor/library with big, cushy chairs and a fireplace.

it would have a stream nearby, too.

hunter

(38,339 posts)
26. I like where I live except for a few things.
Fri Jun 14, 2013, 02:58 PM
Jun 2013

Things I like:

My wife and I are not commuters. It's a dog friendly place. We have a big organic garden and many bird visitors. We could house many friends and family if things go rotten. No air conditioning or heating needed for survival. The community is cosmopolitan, accepting or tolerant people from all over the world. Vast quantities of food exported.

Things I don't like:

Most people still need cars, public transportation is awkward at best. Primary energy source is natural gas.

===

On my own I've never asked for much. I'd be happy if they let me sleep in the library and shower in the gym. If I'd stumbled upon multi-million dollars as a single guy that's probably where I'd be. A small step up from living in my broken down car in a church parking lot.

NV Whino

(20,886 posts)
34. Actually, I find it quite cuddly
Fri Jun 14, 2013, 06:03 PM
Jun 2013

Being of short stature, I love the low ceilings. Gives a sense of intimacy. I love the stairs to the creek as well. The corner windows—wow. Fireplace… well, you get the idea.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
31. I am OK with the house I am in ...
Fri Jun 14, 2013, 05:49 PM
Jun 2013

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could wish that it was twice as much heated floor space, same number of rooms but, each room twice again as large, with a full basement and a full attic. Love wide open spaces. Large rooms. Nine foot ceilings instead of the eight foot I have now. Big front porch with a large screened in porch on the side. Would like a fireplace in the living/dining area and in the Master Suite. Also, need a carport or, a detached garage would be nice but, I can live with a carport. Also, am OK with this piece of property but, would like to purchase the surrounding 40 acres for a total of 50, nice round number, I think.

Auggie

(31,222 posts)
32. It would surrounded by 100 acres
Fri Jun 14, 2013, 05:51 PM
Jun 2013

Big, small ... I don't care. I want the land. And in a Mediterranean climate.

lastlib

(23,352 posts)
37. A Gi-NORMous office space....
Fri Jun 14, 2013, 07:07 PM
Jun 2013

...with a big honkin' desk the size of Rhode Island; bookshelves the length of the Wabash River; and a workshop the size of Kansas. Don't care a whole lot about the rest of the house, as long as it's livable......

I am so F**King tired of trying to cram my f**king life into about 6'x7'x6'......!

(sorry to be grumpy, but it really torques my spindle)

discntnt_irny_srcsm

(18,483 posts)
38. There's a lot of space here:
Fri Jun 14, 2013, 07:22 PM
Jun 2013
Just don't plan on getting pizza delivered.



The silohome is a surface mountain home with an underground 20,000 sf vault one can habitat in with luxury. Francisco and Gibbons have restored the 2300 sf two level launch control center. Their complex is climate controlled using the earth temperature to moderate the surface and below ground environments. The same principals can be built into the large and expansive additional 20,000 sf silo area. So one can see the possibilities are unlimited.

http://www.silohome.com/index.htm

nolabear

(42,001 posts)
47. Yes. It's pretty good. About everyone surviving living in a massive silo.
Sat Jun 15, 2013, 12:05 AM
Jun 2013

They've been there for generations, each block of floors having a specialty that keeps it all going. The upper floors have screens where the destroyed outside world can be seen, and people who commit crimes can be sentenced to have to go outside, where the toxins kill them. But first they clean the screens that let people watch, because they go kind of mad if they can't have some view out.

Then, of course, it turns out things are not as they seem.

The thing that attracted me is that it was self published as a series and it's now sold more than 700,000 copies.

Kali

(55,027 posts)
50. there is a silo for sale about 5 miles from my house
Sat Jun 15, 2013, 12:12 AM
Jun 2013

it has been accessed and the well is functional, the electric is hooked back up, but no other work has been done that I know of.



Kali

(55,027 posts)
54. I am not sure
Sat Jun 15, 2013, 12:31 PM
Jun 2013

it was listed at 200K for a long time before the guy that has it now got it. includes about 15 acres if I recall and very close to the interstate.

I always thought it would be a great place to have a retro trailer park/hotel. Atomic Acres.

pink-o

(4,056 posts)
40. If money were no object, I'd want either a cool urban loft with an amazing city view
Fri Jun 14, 2013, 07:49 PM
Jun 2013

Or a Craftsman Bungalow with original features and charm in a tree-lined neighborhood...one that's close to a hipster street like 24th here in Noe Valley, or NW 23rd in PDX. A big mansion doesn't appeal to me. Too much work to fill the space and keep it clean.

But if you're talking about a literal dream house, here's my story: I often dream of entering a huge old home, filled with wonderful history, art, artifacts and secret passages to hidden rooms. In these dreams, I'm excited and anticipatory, running from room to room, knowing I will find amazing treasures. I think it's symbolic of how I see life: meant to be explored, a world of knowledge in a safe, welcoming environment. I live to travel and indulge this passion as much as possible.

So the real house I live in is a studio rental in the fog belt, with beat up Ikea and Target furniture I built myself, cuz I'd rather be out in the world. There's no place like home, if home is the entire globe!

Squinch

(51,074 posts)
42. If my current home had an ocean view, you'd have to pry me out the door.
Fri Jun 14, 2013, 08:02 PM
Jun 2013

Also, a bigger garden. For fresh veggies. Because Monsanto.

Kali

(55,027 posts)
49. about like the one I am in
Sat Jun 15, 2013, 12:10 AM
Jun 2013

but cleaner and with everything fixed and working. plus a pool. (staff would be nice too, including the houseboy in cutoffs)

elleng

(131,271 posts)
65. I'm with you, nolabear,
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 12:46 AM
Jun 2013

and you described the place I may be looking for within the next year. Lots of family things going on recently, leads me to thinking the right time to do it is approaching.

Fortunately I already live within 1-1/2 hours of water, so I'm able to drive around and look when I feel like it.

A room with a view has been my mandatory minimum for years.

Trailrider1951

(3,415 posts)
69. I found my dream house in 2006
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 02:06 PM
Jun 2013

I, too, am partial to the craftsman bungalow architecture. That's my sister on the front porch:




It's on 1/3 acre, corner lot. There is room for a pool out back:





And a couple of raised beds for vegetables:



And inside, I have a room for a small art studio:




All in Small Town Central Texas. I will retire here next year.

Iggo

(47,583 posts)
70. Something where I could sit on my porch and not see a hundred other houses.
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 05:26 PM
Jun 2013

Other than that? Big enough for my stuff, no leaks, and I gotta be able to make some noise.

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