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targetpractice

(4,919 posts)
Fri Aug 23, 2019, 04:03 PM Aug 2019

I can't bring myself to say... "My condolences to David Koch's family."

Mostly because, that sentence has no verb and I can be pedantic at times. I realized today that offering condolences to someone is awkward not only because of the sad situation, but also because I can't figure out a non-awkward way of being grammatically correct when I do it.

Oh, and there's all that other nasty stuff about him, too.

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I can't bring myself to say... "My condolences to David Koch's family." (Original Post) targetpractice Aug 2019 OP
The "I give" is understood- there's your verb RainCaster Aug 2019 #1
Thanks, RainCaster... targetpractice Aug 2019 #2
nope elleng Aug 2019 #3
I hope his brother drops dead at the funeral. nt doc03 Aug 2019 #4
Try as I may, I can't wish anybody dead. zanana1 Aug 2019 #6
I'm w/ you MissMillie Aug 2019 #7
i want trump to die a painful death JI7 Aug 2019 #8
So he's dead then oswaldactedalone Aug 2019 #5

targetpractice

(4,919 posts)
2. Thanks, RainCaster...
Fri Aug 23, 2019, 04:17 PM
Aug 2019

"I give" being understood makes sense, and I hadn't thought about that before. I remember once saying, "I offer my condolences..." to someone and felt so embarrassed... I was sincere, but then got kinda wrapped up in how awkward I came across. This is just one of those little random thoughts that occur to me at inappropriate times, but you've actually given me info to feel more comfortable in the future. So, thank you again.

zanana1

(6,106 posts)
6. Try as I may, I can't wish anybody dead.
Sat Aug 24, 2019, 07:58 AM
Aug 2019

I can't wish anybody physical harm, either. Help me to be hard!

MissMillie

(38,545 posts)
7. I'm w/ you
Sat Aug 24, 2019, 08:46 AM
Aug 2019

Then again there's always the old saying "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all." I try to apply that to people... but not necessarily their actions or ideology.

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