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Croney

(4,656 posts)
Wed Apr 24, 2019, 09:31 AM Apr 2019

My mother said her name today.

This means she's still there, starting the long road back to her feisty self.

Four days ago, two weeks from turning 96, she had a "big stroke" (the doctors' name for it). I'm in Baton Rouge, down from Cambridge, sleeping in her room. I've brought up the Andrews Sisters on YouTube, I've sung Que Sera Sera in her face, I've put a pad and pen in her lap and she's written random letters and numbers.

She just had her first session with the speech therapist, who knows Mom was a jitterbug star so she said we should play music and sing. I said we'd sing for her, and I put my face to Mom's and we sang the Que Sera Sera chorus. Her words were just sounds but those sounds were on key.

Dance, sing, live.

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My mother said her name today. (Original Post) Croney Apr 2019 OP
Celebrating this victory with you, MissMillie Apr 2019 #1
Progress!! One step at a time. Sounds like she's a fighter. All the best to your Mom & your family. Fla Dem Apr 2019 #2
You're a good person Croney. panader0 Apr 2019 #3
Celebrating with you and your mom. spicysista Apr 2019 #4
I'm wearing this today. Croney Apr 2019 #12
Lol! spicysista Apr 2019 #16
They say music resides in a part of the brain that often escapes truamatic brain injury ehrnst Apr 2019 #5
As my father lay dying, I brought my cello into the room and played his favorite songs catrose Apr 2019 #18
I went through that with my wife. So painful to watch. skydive forever Apr 2019 #6
Wonderful news! calimary Apr 2019 #7
I'm from Baton Rouge. Mr. Evil Apr 2019 #8
Yes, that's where we are; they are great here. Croney Apr 2019 #13
Best wishes to your family. Mr. Evil Apr 2019 #15
Oh, that's wonderful news! I'm so happy for your mom and you. Kind of Blue Apr 2019 #9
A beautiful story and thank you for sharing w/ us. NT SWBTATTReg Apr 2019 #11
... Kind of Blue Apr 2019 #19
Beautiful! Croney Apr 2019 #14
You're beautiful. Thank you for posting! Kind of Blue Apr 2019 #21
Here's to a speedy recovery for Mom! lillypaddle Apr 2019 #10
celebrate everything deek Apr 2019 #17
It's the beauty of music. The best therapy there is. trickyguy Apr 2019 #20
prayers for y'all 🙏🙏🙏 joet67 Apr 2019 #22
Hugs and prayers to you and her. Ilsa Apr 2019 #23

Fla Dem

(23,542 posts)
2. Progress!! One step at a time. Sounds like she's a fighter. All the best to your Mom & your family.
Wed Apr 24, 2019, 09:48 AM
Apr 2019
 

ehrnst

(32,640 posts)
5. They say music resides in a part of the brain that often escapes truamatic brain injury
Wed Apr 24, 2019, 10:29 AM
Apr 2019

and even Alzheimers.

My grandmother would come out of her alzheimers fog when I would sing gospel songs to her - you could tell it was emotional for her to grasp those threads of joy from her life that were otherwise hidden from her.

Keep it up.


catrose

(5,058 posts)
18. As my father lay dying, I brought my cello into the room and played his favorite songs
Wed Apr 24, 2019, 07:43 PM
Apr 2019

He calmed down immediately and "came back" long enough for a good last conversation. I hope someone brings music to me when my day comes.

Mr. Evil

(2,808 posts)
8. I'm from Baton Rouge.
Wed Apr 24, 2019, 11:34 AM
Apr 2019

I wish you and your mom the very best. Is she at OLOL? Good people there. They really took good care of my mom before she passed about 3 years ago.

If you get hungry go to Po-Boy Express on Siegen Ln. Get the roast beef w/provolone, mayonnaise and gravy (not bbq sauce). You'll never forget it. A bit messy but, best sandwich ever.

Croney

(4,656 posts)
13. Yes, that's where we are; they are great here.
Wed Apr 24, 2019, 02:34 PM
Apr 2019

Someone is taking me later to get an oyster po-boy (my fav) but your suggestion sounds great too.

Kind of Blue

(8,709 posts)
9. Oh, that's wonderful news! I'm so happy for your mom and you.
Wed Apr 24, 2019, 11:41 AM
Apr 2019

I do believe music had a hand in restoring her.

Do you remember this from a few years ago...

Ilsa

(61,687 posts)
23. Hugs and prayers to you and her.
Thu Apr 25, 2019, 07:10 AM
Apr 2019

It's a long road, and I am hopeful for her success in recovering.

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