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(10,499 posts)It is a myth that people with Downs Syndrome are always happy. They have hopes and dreams like anyone else. Their parents worry and hope that their child will be able to be independant one day.
Please take part in the national Buddy Walk and support Downs Syndrome research! It will be an experience that you cannot imagine!
Thanks Ashling!
SheilaT
(23,156 posts)I'm old enough that when I was growing up I never saw anyone with Down Syndrome. They were put in institutions and died relatively young because of ignorance and inadequate care.
By the time I had young children of my own, I loved it that we'd go out in public and would see children with Down Syndrome. They looked different and they had limitations my kids didn't have, but weren't locked away.
Here's a story that does not reflect well on me: About ten years ago an acquaintance's oldest child was born, and the first few times I saw the baby I couldn't quite figure out what it was about him that creeped me out. When he was about six months old, the mother casually said, "You know that Stevie (not his real name) has Down Syndrome." No I didn't and now that I knew everything fell into place and he absolutely did not creep me out. Stevie now has two younger siblings and is doing quite well in his life.
My only excuse for being creeped out is that I could tell there was something different about him but didn't recognize the rather clear physical signs of Down. Because I promise, I do not feel creeped out at all when I see someone with it.
tclambert
(11,087 posts)(for those like me who wondered) It's easy to remember because Down Syndrome is caused by trisomy (three instead of two) of chromosome 21.
passiveporcupine
(8,175 posts)What a great way to propose. And I hope they have a long and happy life together.