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brooklynite

(94,502 posts)
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 08:19 AM Jul 2020

My Behavior In The Video Is Appalling'; Tech CEO Michael Lofthouse Captured In Video Berating Asian

Source: CBS News

SAN FRANCISCO (CBS SF) — Silicon Valley tech CEO Michael Lofthouse issued an apology late Tuesday for his behavoir captured on a viral video delivering vulgar and racist comments toward an Asian family celebrating a birthday at a restaurant in Carmel Valley.

In a statement issued to the Daily Mail and other media, Lofthouse said he lost control of his emotions.

“My behavior in the video is appalling,” the statement read. “This was clearly a moment where I lost control and made incredibly hurtful and divisive comments. I would like to deeply apologize to the Chan family. I can only imagine the stress and pain they feel. I was taught to respect people of all race and I will take the time to reflect on my actions and work to better understand the inequality that so many of those around me face every day.”

The video originally posted on Instagram shows a man cursing and gesturing with his middle finger at the family at the Bernardus Lodge and Spa’s Lucia restaurant.

Read more: https://sanfrancisco.cbslocal.com/2020/07/07/racist-comments-asian-family-viral-video-san-francisco-tech-ceo-michael-lofthouse/amp/?__twitter_impression=true

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My Behavior In The Video Is Appalling'; Tech CEO Michael Lofthouse Captured In Video Berating Asian (Original Post) brooklynite Jul 2020 OP
In vino veritas Maeve Jul 2020 #1
I Like A James McMurtry Line, Ma'am The Magistrate Jul 2020 #49
Did he drive home drunk? Sanity Claws Jul 2020 #2
Strange idea that when you "lose control," racism is what comes out. NT enough Jul 2020 #3
Isn't that so true! Akakoji Jul 2020 #10
At least he didn't say he was "joking" like trump would. mwb970 Jul 2020 #14
That jumped out at me too. Like it's a demon in his head, constantly pressuring him. lagomorph777 Jul 2020 #27
Under stress, the true voice emerges. forgotmylogin Jul 2020 #35
The apology isn't enough mdbl Jul 2020 #4
not buying it. Damage control. He's a rascist a-hole or he would not have done that. Drunk or sober. Evolve Dammit Jul 2020 #5
Many others have been fired for such bucolic_frolic Jul 2020 #6
My sister's saying "a drunk mans words are a sober mans thoughts" blueinredohio Jul 2020 #7
the SOB's company needs to kick him to the curb. if it's his own company clients need to bail onetexan Jul 2020 #30
You got a smart sister. Phoenix61 Jul 2020 #37
If you worked for certain large corporations in the late 20th century Steelrolled Jul 2020 #44
And allegedly, this lovely exchange AFTER the video got out CurtEastPoint Jul 2020 #8
+1. Michael Lofthouse is a hardcore white supremacist dalton99a Jul 2020 #21
And sadly, British. I hate that. I know it's everywhere but I always think the Brits are kind. CurtEastPoint Jul 2020 #25
most are but look at how Meghan markle was treated and had to leave JI7 Jul 2020 #28
Yes. CurtEastPoint Jul 2020 #36
Not really. There are many who are not racists, but.... jrthin Jul 2020 #39
Realized it was going to cost him financially. captain queeg Jul 2020 #9
Most likely will be fired in short order. lagomorph777 Jul 2020 #29
i hope all the company's clients bail to teach this racist a lesson if they don't kick him out onetexan Jul 2020 #32
Those are some deeply held beliefs. ToxMarz Jul 2020 #11
He won't change. mwb970 Jul 2020 #12
Woops - did that get recorded? Time to invoke the PR crisis plans... getagrip_already Jul 2020 #13
Nobody with any sense believes this garbage MrScorpio Jul 2020 #15
fuck him JI7 Jul 2020 #16
He got caught. nt Laffy Kat Jul 2020 #17
That was a very nice apology. marie999 Jul 2020 #18
Evidently white immigrants are inherently superior and have a right to tell POC to leave dalton99a Jul 2020 #19
I am certain that his behavior is appalling UpInArms Jul 2020 #20
Yup. It's all bs... 2naSalit Jul 2020 #22
Unprovoked dalton99a Jul 2020 #24
So glad this young lady used her phone camera to capture the exchange - it's our best weapon!! onetexan Jul 2020 #33
When wealthy educated deplorables say "Trump's going to fuck you" IronLionZion Jul 2020 #23
Trump's going to fuck you... skypilot Jul 2020 #31
Come November we'll make sure to screw both the Idiot, his enablers & rabid followers onetexan Jul 2020 #34
Surprise, trumpkins! Grokenstein Jul 2020 #42
I guess they view trump as an orange dildo. Small dildo of course. captain queeg Jul 2020 #43
I thought he had an accent and found out he is from the UK JI7 Jul 2020 #26
And San Francisco has such a large Asian population it's hard to believe he is such a racist living kimbutgar Jul 2020 #38
You think there aren't loads of racist people living in SF? Steelrolled Jul 2020 #46
Well, apparently Miguelito Loveless Jul 2020 #40
"I'm so sorry I showed zentrum Jul 2020 #41
He regrets getting caught, but isn't 'sorry' for anything. Talitha Jul 2020 #45
boycott his company rockfordfile Jul 2020 #47
Re: Michael Lofthouse Girl powers Jul 2020 #48

The Magistrate

(95,244 posts)
49. I Like A James McMurtry Line, Ma'am
Thu Jul 9, 2020, 05:14 AM
Jul 2020

A stanza from 'Too Long in the Wasteland':


"I never intended to break the rules, but whiskey don't make liars, it just makes fools. So I didn't mean to say it. But I meant what I said."


lagomorph777

(30,613 posts)
27. That jumped out at me too. Like it's a demon in his head, constantly pressuring him.
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 09:27 AM
Jul 2020

This guy should be ousted immediately by his board. Not CEO material.

forgotmylogin

(7,527 posts)
35. Under stress, the true voice emerges.
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 09:40 AM
Jul 2020

I learned this from my language teacher in high school who had spoken mostly English for decades and told us about the time he fell from his bike and broke an ankle in public. He couldn't comprehend at first why bystanders helping him couldn't understand what he was saying. He said he thought "Don't they understand English?" and realized he wasn't speaking English - he was babbling in Spanish due to shock and pain.

It's a reflex to revert to base instinct under duress and revealing how this also applies to closet racists.

mdbl

(4,973 posts)
4. The apology isn't enough
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 08:29 AM
Jul 2020

He has some lifelong penance to do and doesn't deserve to be head of a company.

blueinredohio

(6,797 posts)
7. My sister's saying "a drunk mans words are a sober mans thoughts"
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 08:31 AM
Jul 2020

So evidently he feels that way he just wouldn't say it unless he's drunk. Being ceo I certainly hope he lost his job.

onetexan

(13,036 posts)
30. the SOB's company needs to kick him to the curb. if it's his own company clients need to bail
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 09:34 AM
Jul 2020

DISGRACEFUL POS!!

Phoenix61

(17,002 posts)
37. You got a smart sister.
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 10:05 AM
Jul 2020

The whole “He was drunk” as an excuse for bad behavior is bs. Alcohol just lets whatever is inside escape to the outside for all to see. It doesn’t make people angry, it just lets the anger out.

 

Steelrolled

(2,022 posts)
44. If you worked for certain large corporations in the late 20th century
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 11:24 AM
Jul 2020

you would have the "opportunity" to attend training where the goal was for everyone to admit some degree of racism. It was several days of intense interaction by skilled instructors, and of course people resisted to varying degrees. There was validity to the concept of the training, but I don't think it could be done today.

jrthin

(4,835 posts)
39. Not really. There are many who are not racists, but....
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 10:11 AM
Jul 2020

What we see with many Brits and others as well, are their front door faces, and not their backdoor faces. Brexit was in large part an appeal to their racism. Also, I have British friends who are Jewish, and couldn't wait to flee when they hit their teens because of the flagrant anti-semitism.

captain queeg

(10,171 posts)
9. Realized it was going to cost him financially.
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 08:45 AM
Jul 2020

Whatever a “tech CEO” does, I’m thinking he’s lost some business.

lagomorph777

(30,613 posts)
29. Most likely will be fired in short order.
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 09:29 AM
Jul 2020

Can't afford this crap in corporate America, especially SIlicon Valley.

ToxMarz

(2,166 posts)
11. Those are some deeply held beliefs.
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 08:51 AM
Jul 2020

Reflecting on his behavior isn't gonna help other than maybe learn to hide them better in public.

getagrip_already

(14,708 posts)
13. Woops - did that get recorded? Time to invoke the PR crisis plans...
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 08:53 AM
Jul 2020

Now the public company is going to spend millions on PR efforts to protect "his" racist brand. Of course, if he gets forced out, trump will just make him ambassador to some asian country he doesn't care about.

dalton99a

(81,451 posts)
19. Evidently white immigrants are inherently superior and have a right to tell POC to leave
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 09:06 AM
Jul 2020


Michael Lofthouse is Trump trash


UpInArms

(51,280 posts)
20. I am certain that his behavior is appalling
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 09:10 AM
Jul 2020

Whether it is videoed or not ...

I despise the “sorry you caught me on tape” apologies...

smh

2naSalit

(86,536 posts)
22. Yup. It's all bs...
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 09:18 AM
Jul 2020

He never would have attacked those people if he didn't have those thoughts already.

dalton99a

(81,451 posts)
24. Unprovoked
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 09:22 AM
Jul 2020
Chan adds for context that this was at her grandmother’s (or aunt's) birthday dinner. “We were celebrating my tita’s birthday, literally just singing happy birthday to her and taking pictures, when this white supremacist starts yelling disgusting racist remarks at us,” she posted on the Insta, adding the Lofthouse’s remarks also included “(‘Fuck you Asians’ ‘Go back to whatever fucking Asian country you’re from’ ‘You don’t belong here’).”


“I’ve dealt with racism before but never on that scale,” Chan told KPIX 5. “Never on the level where somebody completely unprovoked felt obligated to voice their hatred for absolutely no reason.”


onetexan

(13,036 posts)
34. Come November we'll make sure to screw both the Idiot, his enablers & rabid followers
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 09:38 AM
Jul 2020

they'll get what's coming to them.

JI7

(89,247 posts)
26. I thought he had an accent and found out he is from the UK
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 09:25 AM
Jul 2020

racist white trash thinks they have more right to the US than American minorities.

kimbutgar

(21,130 posts)
38. And San Francisco has such a large Asian population it's hard to believe he is such a racist living
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 10:05 AM
Jul 2020

And working here.

 

Steelrolled

(2,022 posts)
46. You think there aren't loads of racist people living in SF?
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 01:22 PM
Jul 2020

As I mentioned in another comment, there are (were) corporate training programs that more-or-less would get everyone to admit they had some racist thoughts and behaviors. It was intense and emotionally draining for many. The ultimate goal of the training was to get people to recognize racism in themselves, and control it.

Humans stereotype by nature, and racism is an extension of that.

Miguelito Loveless

(4,460 posts)
40. Well, apparently
Wed Jul 8, 2020, 10:16 AM
Jul 2020

what you were "taught" didn't take. You not only felt that you could say the vile things you did, you had NO fear of being recorded saying them.

Go work in a soup kitchen and clean trash from the streets for the next few years, then come back and tell us what you have learned.

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