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Omaha Steve

(99,582 posts)
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 01:26 PM Jun 2020

Democrats ask Chris Janicek to quit Senate race after 'sexually inappropriate' text message

Source: Omaha World Herald

By Aaron Sanderford

Nebraska Democrats are asking their U.S. Senate candidate to quit the race after he sent staffers text messages that the state party described as "sexually inappropriate."

Omaha baker Chris Janicek sent a group message to at least five people, including a female staff member who filed a complaint with the Nebraska Democratic Party. His text said that they needed to "get her laid," referring to the female staff member.

Janicek has apologized and said he's staying in the race.

"This is a moment in time where I made a terrible mistake in a text message," he said.


Chris Janicek

KENT SIEVERS/THE WORLD-HERALD

Read more: https://www.omaha.com/news/local/democrats-ask-chris-janicek-to-quit-senate-race-after-sexually-inappropriate-text-message/article_c27453b7-a487-5e98-b434-ecaaa7ad269f.html

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Democrats ask Chris Janicek to quit Senate race after 'sexually inappropriate' text message (Original Post) Omaha Steve Jun 2020 OP
DAMN! elleng Jun 2020 #1
Terrible mistake to put it in a text. LakeArenal Jun 2020 #2
Terrible mistake to have expressed it in any context or medium. He's got to go. marble falls Jun 2020 #17
But so, so stupid PatSeg Jun 2020 #25
Thanks for getting my point. LakeArenal Jun 2020 #53
You're welcome PatSeg Jun 2020 #59
Beyond stupid. marble falls Jun 2020 #27
wtaf he shouldn't ever say it to her obamanut2012 Jun 2020 #42
It was facetious. Geez..... LakeArenal Jun 2020 #52
Bow out, asshole! Beakybird Jun 2020 #3
Better We Find Out NOw Me. Jun 2020 #4
No, in the sense that he wasn't going to win anyway... brooklynite Jun 2020 #56
Don't Know About You Me. Jun 2020 #57
If Democrats could only work this hard AleksS Jun 2020 #5
Two different issues. He needs to go. We aren't hypoctrites. marble falls Jun 2020 #18
If they have a replacement candidate to step in Janicek's place, I would say resign still_one Jun 2020 #6
Either way he has to go. marble falls Jun 2020 #20
Maybe this will convince repugs to vote for him. Ferrets are Cool Jun 2020 #7
Sadly, it might. n/t Laelth Jun 2020 #9
This isn't the end of the world. Laelth Jun 2020 #8
If you could go back now neohippie Jun 2020 #11
He could have had a V8. n/t Laelth Jun 2020 #13
He revealed his attitude toward women. delisen Jun 2020 #16
Why vote for him? Laelth Jun 2020 #19
I have higher standards than "not a Republican". marble falls Jun 2020 #21
You'd prefer a Republican Senator over a misogynistic Democrat? Laelth Jun 2020 #31
That's an easy question. I will not help elect a racist Democrat either. "He may be a crook ... marble falls Jun 2020 #33
I hear you, and no. Anthony Wiener was not OK. Laelth Jun 2020 #36
Misogynistic much? Nt End Of The Road Jun 2020 #14
Lots of people would be happier if they got laid more often. Laelth Jun 2020 #15
Is that something you'd say to your mother? We have to be better than them. marble falls Jun 2020 #22
Honest, good-faith question. Laelth Jun 2020 #29
I'd never say that to anyone. Not even you. There's an aspect of harrassment in it. marble falls Jun 2020 #30
LOL. Good answer. Laelth Jun 2020 #32
Um... LaelthsDaughter Jun 2020 #45
Seriously ... marble falls Jun 2020 #58
Never heard it said about a man. delisen Jun 2020 #24
Seriously? You haven't been listening then. BamaRefugee Jun 2020 #28
+1 n/t rzemanfl Jun 2020 #35
I've definitely heard that about a man. TheFarseer Jun 2020 #38
I am a man neohippie Jun 2020 #39
Never? sarisataka Jun 2020 #40
wtaf it is sexist and misogynistic as fuck obamanut2012 Jun 2020 #43
My daughter has advised me that "just get laid already" is now gender-neutral. Laelth Jun 2020 #47
The difference between Democrats and Republicans. Midnight Writer Jun 2020 #10
Yep. FM123 Jun 2020 #26
Janicek had no chance TheFarseer Jun 2020 #12
That's exactly right. But he still needs to withdraw. marble falls Jun 2020 #23
Not a moment in time, it's a mindset. Quit now so you won't have to quit later. n/t TheFourthMind Jun 2020 #34
dude, you fucked up. take your lumps and quit. Javaman Jun 2020 #37
So, if he loses the race, we could lose our chance at a Senate majority... Sloumeau Jun 2020 #41
Sasse wasn't losing anyway Polybius Jun 2020 #48
Overreaction. LaelthsDaughter Jun 2020 #44
More than mildly inappropriate... sarisataka Jun 2020 #46
That does change things. LaelthsDaughter Jun 2020 #50
No problem sarisataka Jun 2020 #54
Didn't read the whole article initially. Laelth Jun 2020 #51
I don't understand how any politician can think sexual banter of any kind is appropriate tblue37 Jun 2020 #55
When did he send the texts, recently or years ago? Polybius Jun 2020 #49

PatSeg

(47,399 posts)
25. But so, so stupid
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 02:14 PM
Jun 2020

to put it in writing, in a text. You would think that by now, people would have learned to be careful what you write in texts or emails. The don't go away and can be used against you. For that matter, even saying it out loud to someone is dangerous, as you don't know if you're being recorded. When in doubt, don't say or write anything that is inappropriate or offensive. And that one is highly offensive to women. I thought we were moving past that kind of crap.

PatSeg

(47,399 posts)
59. You're welcome
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 06:21 PM
Jun 2020

Parents lecture their children about how they use texts and social media, yet well educated, worldly people still behave recklessly when using a smartphone or computer. Careers and marriages have been destroyed because of this kind of idiocy and it boggles the mind that people keep doing it.

brooklynite

(94,502 posts)
56. No, in the sense that he wasn't going to win anyway...
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 04:47 PM
Jun 2020

...and nobody ran against him for the SEN nomination.

Me.

(35,454 posts)
57. Don't Know About You
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 05:45 PM
Jun 2020

But I'd rather not be surprised if there is going to be a problem. As for never going to win anyway, I never say that anymore.

Laelth

(32,017 posts)
8. This isn't the end of the world.
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 01:46 PM
Jun 2020

Nobody was really hurt. Nobody got grabbed by the genitals. Nobody died on 5th Avenue. He apologized. Let it go.

-Laelth

neohippie

(1,142 posts)
11. If you could go back now
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 01:49 PM
Jun 2020

He could have said someone get her a snickers bar, it was wrong, but it's also wrong to hold human beings to a standard of infallibility and one bad decision shouldn't wipe out, a history of better choices, either

However, maybe there's a history of other questionable behavior or comments, at least people are demanding accountability

delisen

(6,042 posts)
16. He revealed his attitude toward women.
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 02:00 PM
Jun 2020

He should have not demeaned the person but he could and did.

Why should any woman or man vote for this misogynist. Democratic women should not have to put up with this crap.

Laelth

(32,017 posts)
31. You'd prefer a Republican Senator over a misogynistic Democrat?
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 02:33 PM
Jun 2020

I am not defending misogyny, obviously, but I can’t wrap my head around the idea that a Republican would be preferable to any Democrat in our current political environment.

-Laelth

marble falls

(57,077 posts)
33. That's an easy question. I will not help elect a racist Democrat either. "He may be a crook ...
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 02:38 PM
Jun 2020

but he's our crook" is such a Republican attitude. There has to be another Democrat in Nebraska.

Anthony Wiener was OK with you?

Laelth

(32,017 posts)
36. I hear you, and no. Anthony Wiener was not OK.
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 02:48 PM
Jun 2020

But the alternative is a Republican. I don’t think that there’s another option for us in Nebraska at this late date.

It’s a long-shot, either way. I just hate to see us eating our own.



-Laelth

Laelth

(32,017 posts)
15. Lots of people would be happier if they got laid more often.
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 01:58 PM
Jun 2020

It’s still inappropriate to say so, admittedly, but I don’t consider this observation misogynistic in any way.

-Laelth

Laelth

(32,017 posts)
32. LOL. Good answer.
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 02:38 PM
Jun 2020

I freely admit that I would be happier if I got laid more often.

That said, our candidate has acknowledged that he made a mistake. He has apologized. My point is that this isn’t a major offense, and that we should accept his apology and move on. Even a misogynistic Democrat is better than a Republican in our current political environment.

-Laelth

P.S. I also freely admit that what does not appear to be a major offense (to me) may be a major offense to you. In that regard, I thank you for taking the time to educate me.

LaelthsDaughter

(150 posts)
45. Um...
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 03:56 PM
Jun 2020

Where is the harrasment? I’ve never ever gotten the implaction of harrasment from a get laid, shut up. It usually means ‘please, anyone but me. Go fuck off cuase I don’t wanna hear you, get laid and then come back.’ And it’s not offensive. Everyone needs to get laid.

marble falls

(57,077 posts)
58. Seriously ...
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 06:06 PM
Jun 2020
https://apnews.com/db5b8e0b714d76827262eb0381574312


"The text messages, which were obtained by The Associated Press, were from a group chat involving Janicek and five other people, including the female staffer. At one point, he wrote that he had argued with her and then asked whether the campaign should spend money on “getting her laid.”

“It will probably take three guys,” he wrote, before describing in graphic detail an imagined group sex scene involving the female staffer."


He said that to demean her. To diminish her. Its not just sexual harassment, its out and out harassment. Doesn't is sound an awful lot like the words used by an orange shitgibbon on a bus just before the 2016 election???

delisen

(6,042 posts)
24. Never heard it said about a man.
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 02:13 PM
Jun 2020

It is a phrase used to keep women in their supposed place and out of the public space.

Less competition of course gives the less qualified opportunity to thrive and keep prejudice and inequality thriving-just what brought us to where we are today.

neohippie

(1,142 posts)
39. I am a man
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 03:11 PM
Jun 2020

I have been told I need to get laid

I have been told that on a message board online by another man. I was offended, but I am not so offended that I don't speak to the person who said it or felt like I needed to leave the online community.

I did complain that I thought that it was bs, and a personal attack not relevant to the discussion etc..

But in the grand scheme of things it was just an insult and life goes on, we can't be so offended that we can't get past a mistake in judgement, unless people don't learn from their mistakes or show that it 's part of a larger pattern of behavior

How offended should we be, I didn't like what happened with Al Franken, and thought that he should have not quit without more of a fight, this seems way less offensive than the behavior that ended his political career

Laelth

(32,017 posts)
47. My daughter has advised me that "just get laid already" is now gender-neutral.
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 04:00 PM
Jun 2020

It’s used by women to other women. It’s used by men to other men. It’s used by men to women. It’s used by women to men. It’s rude, certainly. It means “shut up,” but this is no longer a gendered issue.

Our Senate candidate has apologized for his poor judgment in sending that text. That should be enough, imo.

-Laelth

Midnight Writer

(21,745 posts)
10. The difference between Democrats and Republicans.
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 01:48 PM
Jun 2020

Democrats will denounce a guy like this and try to remove him.

Republicans will stick up for a guy like this and even double down on his atrocious behavior.

TheFarseer

(9,322 posts)
12. Janicek had no chance
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 01:50 PM
Jun 2020

And anyone they replace him with has no chance. Many Dems don’t like Janicek because he’s a bit of a live wire or maybe eccentric is the right word. It’s hard to get anyone credible to run in Nebraska. Janicek was only marginally credible as a senate candidate if we are being real.

Javaman

(62,517 posts)
37. dude, you fucked up. take your lumps and quit.
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 02:53 PM
Jun 2020

there is no surviving this, regardless of how large your ego appears to be.

Sloumeau

(2,657 posts)
41. So, if he loses the race, we could lose our chance at a Senate majority...
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 03:42 PM
Jun 2020

because of this idiot? This is almost unbelieveable.

LaelthsDaughter

(150 posts)
44. Overreaction.
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 03:50 PM
Jun 2020

I think we need to judge the facts as we see them. A Democrat running for a senatorial position made a mildly inappropriate comment to one of his staff members in a text. He has since apologized, but is still running for office.

This text is inappropriate in that it’s not meant to be shared in a public setting, nor is it what the Democratic Party wants to promote. I understand. However, do we really want to give up a seat in the Senate over the text? I wouldn’t.

In the end, this text is controversial. It’s telling a chick to shut up. While it’s wrong to tell people to shut it, sometimes it just needs to happen. This issue is also not sexist anymore. For my generation, you tell everyone to ‘get laid’ when they’re grouchy. It doesn’t matter what you present as or what you have or anything else. I got the impression the real complaint was that Janicek was being sexist. However, I don’t think so. In this light, his comment isn’t as evil as people are making it out to be.

Don’t get me wrong. I still think he handled the situation badly. At least he apologized. Janicek may do more to atone, as well. It just seems that calling for him to drop out is akin to sending one of our own to the wolves. In otherwords, not helpful.

sarisataka

(18,600 posts)
46. More than mildly inappropriate...
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 04:00 PM
Jun 2020

Per the article:

Janicek's texts described lining up multiple partners for group sex with the staffer and suggested the "three guys" could be paid.

"Thoughts?!money" he wrote.

LaelthsDaughter

(150 posts)
50. That does change things.
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 04:08 PM
Jun 2020

That does change my mind a good bit. It wasn’t in the op. Thank you for bringing it to my attention.

sarisataka

(18,600 posts)
54. No problem
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 04:18 PM
Jun 2020

I could forgive a one off comment (assuming the victim also forgives him) but it seems he went far beyond that

tblue37

(65,331 posts)
55. I don't understand how any politician can think sexual banter of any kind is appropriate
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 04:26 PM
Jun 2020

with staffers, especially in a group including men and women.

You can interact with people without always reverting to sexual references, after all.

Polybius

(15,385 posts)
49. When did he send the texts, recently or years ago?
Tue Jun 16, 2020, 04:02 PM
Jun 2020

I skimmed through the article but couldn't find any info.

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