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DonViejo

(60,536 posts)
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 02:34 PM Jul 2019

'Do not tweet': Pelosi scolds progressives in closed-door meeting

Source: Politico


The House speaker urged liberal Democrats not to criticize their centrist colleagues in public.

By HEATHER CAYGLE and SARAH FERRIS 07/10/2019 11:38 AM EDT Updated 07/10/2019 12:14 PM EDT

Speaker Nancy Pelosi chided progressives in a closed-door meeting Wednesday, calling on them to address their intra-party grievances privately rather than blasting their centrist colleagues on Twitter.

Pelosi’s comments, which were described as stern, came during the first full caucus meeting since a major blow up over emergency border funding last month between progressive and moderate lawmakers as well as a recent spat with Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez (D-N.Y.) and her freshman allies.

"So, again, you got a complaint? You come and talk to me about it," Pelosi told Democrats, according to a source in the room. "But do not tweet about our members and expect us to think that that is just ok."

Democrats inside the room said they interpreted that remark as a shot at Rep. Mark Pocan (D-Wis.), co-chair of the Congressional Progressive Caucus, who called moderate Democrats members of the “Child Abuse Caucus” in a tweet over their support for the Senate’s version of the emergency humanitarian package.

Read more: https://www.politico.com/story/2019/07/10/pelosi-progressives-twitter-1405763

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'Do not tweet': Pelosi scolds progressives in closed-door meeting (Original Post) DonViejo Jul 2019 OP
I tend to agree with Madam Speaker on this point groundloop Jul 2019 #1
Me too DownriverDem Jul 2019 #48
But, I seem to remember whenever polls are done, even to dems, reps, and inds, pangaia Jul 2019 #57
This is the house, the Americans that count.... reACTIONary Jul 2019 #70
Well, I'm not going to criticize your point. I think it is quite valid. PatrickforO Jul 2019 #112
It's interesting here.... pangaia Jul 2019 #113
Here's the context. lapucelle Jul 2019 #56
She's right of course bucolic_frolic Jul 2019 #2
+1000 ancianita Jul 2019 #11
Yes, Of Course Horizens Jul 2019 #52
I agree with Nancy, we need to get it together. redstatebluegirl Jul 2019 #3
Look, I get it matt819 Jul 2019 #4
It isn't about muzzling new voices titaniumsalute Jul 2019 #6
weak and pathetic Larrybanal Jul 2019 #12
"It is about what to tweet and what not to tweet." intheflow Jul 2019 #18
so if someone says qazplm135 Jul 2019 #53
Telling people - and ESPECIALLY POC - how to talk and act intheflow Jul 2019 #102
stop qazplm135 Jul 2019 #103
I'm a POC too and I agree with you happy feet Jul 2019 #105
Everything in America is a racial issue. It's woven into our DNA. n/t intheflow Jul 2019 #106
I think it's a matter of how the 'new voices' express themselves groundloop Jul 2019 #8
The one thing we don't need is an internal Twitter war ripcord Jul 2019 #15
Primarying them will accomplish even less. murielm99 Jul 2019 #82
The country DownriverDem Jul 2019 #49
Niether is she. I get tired of the idea that older Dems are living in the past. wasupaloopa Jul 2019 #60
Exactly how it should be done. Glad Madame Speaker laid down the law. Fla Dem Jul 2019 #5
Post removed Post removed Jul 2019 #13
Post removed Post removed Jul 2019 #17
Appeasement Is A Dirty & Nasty Word Me. Jul 2019 #55
Pelosi/Biden politics you say? What is that? Politicub Jul 2019 #38
I think it means, middle of the road, status quo, stay the course, tentative, and weak. Magoo48 Jul 2019 #96
Learn the game DownriverDem Jul 2019 #50
I'd rather change the game. gldstwmn Jul 2019 #101
Democrats fall in love... Zoonart Jul 2019 #7
You must be kidding BeyondGeography Jul 2019 #9
It's about what to tweet zipplewrath Jul 2019 #29
This is only happening because she mocked them BeyondGeography Jul 2019 #30
Everyone's been walking a fine line zipplewrath Jul 2019 #34
No she didn't "mock them" to Dowd. Dowd misquoted her. George II Jul 2019 #108
Thank You! HopeAgain Jul 2019 #31
The problem is who were the ones targeting individual representatives eilen Jul 2019 #88
Not likely HopeAgain Jul 2019 #91
+1 Nevermypresident Jul 2019 #33
again, pelosi shows she is completely out of touch... Locrian Jul 2019 #36
We can hate on Trump all we want but he has changed the game BeyondGeography Jul 2019 #39
the game.... Locrian Jul 2019 #44
I'm an old print dinosaur on the run from social media myself BeyondGeography Jul 2019 #46
I'd rather read a book... Locrian Jul 2019 #58
Thank you for LittleGirl Jul 2019 #86
no problem Locrian Jul 2019 #98
Calling your fellow dems the "child abuse caucus" is ... reACTIONary Jul 2019 #72
Agreed. And it doesn't take a wunderkind to figure out how to use Twitter. eilen Jul 2019 #89
Indeed. It's especially insulting in light of the Epstein case developments. (nt) ehrnst Jul 2019 #99
If we are talking about the "the child abuse caucus"..... reACTIONary Jul 2019 #71
+1000 "Do as I say not as I do" bahrbearian Jul 2019 #69
when you stonewall and strong-arm, people are going to tweet if no other recourse EveHammond13 Jul 2019 #10
Aren't Dems supposed to be a big tent party? DeminPennswoods Jul 2019 #14
I have a different take, though i agree with you in general Raven123 Jul 2019 #20
Doesn't take any courage to blast someone on twitter, face-to-face... brush Jul 2019 #28
Except social media IS how the younger generations DeminPennswoods Jul 2019 #59
Yep, if you're tweeting it to the world even a fossil like turtleman will find out brush Jul 2019 #75
I agree with you. tazkcmo Jul 2019 #61
Actually adults who have a problen with another adult should talk to... brush Jul 2019 #32
I know, imagine if you had an issue or disagreement eilen Jul 2019 #68
Right. Guess good judgment comes later to some than others. brush Jul 2019 #74
She's not wrong. RelativelyJones Jul 2019 #16
If Nancy refuses to budge then they have no choice LiberalLovinLug Jul 2019 #19
Good Nancy. A little decorum is in order. emmaverybo Jul 2019 #21
Agree. Big K&R! Auggie Jul 2019 #22
From my twitter feed Gothmog Jul 2019 #23
Indeed.. privately and respectfully Thekaspervote Jul 2019 #25
That's only smart.. will they Cha Jul 2019 #79
I can sympathize with both sides of this particular question. Jedi Guy Jul 2019 #24
Child abusers caucus was over the line ripcord Jul 2019 #27
I agree, that was way over the line. Jedi Guy Jul 2019 #40
Read all the remarks, and reread the post again....some are missing the message Hulk Jul 2019 #26
that's what I read too Skittles Jul 2019 #35
That was my takeaway from this, as well. Jedi Guy Jul 2019 #41
That would be fine if she wasn't using criticism of the moderates to deflect blame BeyondGeography Jul 2019 #43
They don't hold the majority if they push them away. LiberalFighter Jul 2019 #37
It's bizarre behavior to call out a collegaue on Twitter that could be addressed face to face... Politicub Jul 2019 #42
I cannot disagree with the leader & leaders must lead which is what she is doing here. nt yaesu Jul 2019 #45
Sounds like Nancy wants to control the political dialogue within the Party. I'm 50/50 on this. YOHABLO Jul 2019 #47
Sound advice. JohnnyRingo Jul 2019 #51
If tweets bother Nancy so much, then why not impeach the twitterer-in-Chief? JoeOtterbein Jul 2019 #54
She Has A Point colsohlibgal Jul 2019 #62
in other words.. stillcool Jul 2019 #63
Does that mean no positive comments saidsimplesimon Jul 2019 #64
God yes! Enough of this silly and childish "govern via twitter" nonsense, please! PSPS Jul 2019 #65
She's right mcar Jul 2019 #66
Can't we agree that our party needs some fire in our belly? Harddaysknight Jul 2019 #67
Sorry, but accusing your fellow dems of being members of... reACTIONary Jul 2019 #73
Must have missed your meaning.No worries...I do it pretty regular. :) Harddaysknight Jul 2019 #77
From the OP... reACTIONary Jul 2019 #80
Not only that but if The Squad isn't really gldstwmn Jul 2019 #109
I've been saying it for a long time Skittles Jul 2019 #76
Nancy knows what she's doing.. she Cha Jul 2019 #81
"Punishing?" What are you even talking about? ehrnst Jul 2019 #93
"Drag us into the light" From what "darkness?" ehrnst Jul 2019 #97
do not run off and complain to Maureen Dowd... shanny Jul 2019 #78
Our political leadership is the product of our society Steelrolled Jul 2019 #83
From my twitter feed Gothmog Jul 2019 #84
I hate twitter politics Bayard Jul 2019 #85
I don't understand PADemD Jul 2019 #87
Leading by example? BeyondGeography Jul 2019 #92
"Complaining?" ehrnst Jul 2019 #95
I hope they ignore Pelosi RandiFan1290 Jul 2019 #90
They elected her their leader, many many times. Why do you think they would or should ignore her? ehrnst Jul 2019 #94
I'm just going to come right out and say it. gldstwmn Jul 2019 #100
This is a clash of generations killaphill Jul 2019 #104
I guess I don't understand the meaning of tavernier Jul 2019 #107
Sorry, but people like AOC are the future of our party. Oneironaut Jul 2019 #110
"So, again, you got a complaint? You come and talk to me about it," cntrfthrs Jul 2019 #111

groundloop

(11,518 posts)
1. I tend to agree with Madam Speaker on this point
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 02:37 PM
Jul 2019

One thing repubs have excelled at is party discipline, we could take a lesson from that. I'm not saying that young progressives shouldn't express their opinions, but don't do it in a way to make it look like we're weak.

pangaia

(24,324 posts)
57. But, I seem to remember whenever polls are done, even to dems, reps, and inds,
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 05:26 PM
Jul 2019

that many/most of the "liberal' ideas, positions ARE favored by americans.. It;s just when the wrong terms are used, explanations are not made, questions are asked in the wrong way, that the country seems 'moderate.'

Don;t correct me if I am wrong, I have trouble with criticism.


Just kidding.... well, maybe a little...

reACTIONary

(5,770 posts)
70. This is the house, the Americans that count....
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 08:02 PM
Jul 2019

.... are the Americans in the Representative's district, not Americans as a whole. And their Representative knows their opinion.

Another factor is the difference between support for an abstract or ideological policy and support for actual legislation. Many folks are interested in getting something done and understand the trade offs that have to be made.

PatrickforO

(14,570 posts)
112. Well, I'm not going to criticize your point. I think it is quite valid.
Fri Jul 12, 2019, 01:55 AM
Jul 2019

I also think we need more aggressive action on impeachment hearings - at least CALL them that.

As to AOC - well, I didn't really want to come on here for a few days because I knew many, many, many on here would be piling on.

It got ugly, and I believe Pelosi's dismissal of these four women will backfire on her, and on the Dem leadership.

I'm sorry for it, but AOC, and the others are trying to get some action, and I don't think they will back down. And I don't think they will be defeated for reelection, either. I believe the Democratic party leadership is quite stuck with them, and good luck keeping them down.

If Pelosi isn't careful, the party is headed toward a rift just as we need to be united. But to be careful of the potential rift, Pelosi and the Democratic leadership will have to take vigorous and aggressive action against Republicans.

I guess we'll see how it plays out, won't we?

pangaia

(24,324 posts)
113. It's interesting here....
Fri Jul 12, 2019, 05:25 AM
Jul 2019

one day everybody loves Pelosi if she does something.
next day the love AOC if she does something. and visa versa..


Not knowing the story of the feud I think they both have very valid stances And both make mistakes.
Pelosi perhaps in lumping together especially the 4 new progressive WOC, who just HAPPENED to be WOC..
And AOC was just as wrong to accuse Pelosi of going after the WOC, which I do not believe for a second would ever have entered Pelosi's mind.. just coincidence...

Eh, what do I know. I'm just a 'drummer.'

lapucelle

(18,248 posts)
56. Here's the context.
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 05:25 PM
Jul 2019
“I hope there will be some level of respect and sensitivity for our — each individual experience that we bring to this Caucus,” Pelosi said. “You make me the target, but don’t make our Blue Dogs and our New Dems the target in all of this because we have important fish to fry,” Pelosi said.

snip============================================================

Pelosi also told the assembled Democrats that if they, or a member of their staff, had thoughts to attack another lawmaker on social media they should "think twice," according to the senior aide.

"Actually, don't think twice; think once," Pelosi said.

"That was a very poignant moment in there," the senior aide said.


https://thehill.com/homenews/house/452422-pelosi-scolds-democrats-for-public-barbs

bucolic_frolic

(43,128 posts)
2. She's right of course
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 02:38 PM
Jul 2019

though drueling with anger and rage at the state of things, we need party discipline not division. the image we portray to the world is important. There are tradeoffs, compromises. But keep eyes on the prize.

redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
3. I agree with Nancy, we need to get it together.
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 02:39 PM
Jul 2019

This faction of our party are going to bring us down, no doubt.

matt819

(10,749 posts)
4. Look, I get it
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 02:43 PM
Jul 2019

United front and all that.

But don't muzzle these new voices. Use them.

Yeah, yeah, I get it. Pelosi is a long-time pol. But we are not living in the same world that she was in as she matured in Congress and gained the position she has now.

titaniumsalute

(4,742 posts)
6. It isn't about muzzling new voices
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 02:44 PM
Jul 2019

It is about what to tweet and what not to tweet. Tweet against donald Trump all day. Don't air your dirty laundry about other Dem members. It is making us look weak and pathetic.

intheflow

(28,462 posts)
18. "It is about what to tweet and what not to tweet."
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 03:40 PM
Jul 2019

Um, that's muzzling their voices. It's asking them to voluntarily forego their first amendment right of free speech to support their own party's agenda on points they disagree with. But, yeah, we Democrats should all walk in lockstep like Republicans do, because that's working out just fine for the country.

qazplm135

(7,447 posts)
53. so if someone says
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 05:19 PM
Jul 2019

hey maybe don't call your fellow Dems members of the child abuse caucus because of one vote you didn't like, you interpret that as "marching in lockstep?"

Mkay.

intheflow

(28,462 posts)
102. Telling people - and ESPECIALLY POC - how to talk and act
Thu Jul 11, 2019, 11:31 AM
Jul 2019

is a form of systemic racism and control. Pelosi isn't calling out Warren, she isn't calling out Sanders for supporting much of the same legislation. She's tone policing, and it's bullshit.

Also, I never called any Democrat a child molester or even a Republican. But really: telling elected Democratic officials how they should interact with their constituents is trying to get the party united by excluding some voices. Excluding people is what Republicans do best. We Democrats need to do better. Much better.

qazplm135

(7,447 posts)
103. stop
Thu Jul 11, 2019, 11:35 AM
Jul 2019

I'm a POC. If I act in a way that's improper, I probably should be called out just like anyone else.

This turning it into a racial issue is bullshit.

groundloop

(11,518 posts)
8. I think it's a matter of how the 'new voices' express themselves
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 02:45 PM
Jul 2019

Calling other Democrats names isn't going to accomplish anything. Talking with each other is the way to get things done.

ripcord

(5,340 posts)
15. The one thing we don't need is an internal Twitter war
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 03:17 PM
Jul 2019

I have noticed this new group of Congress people don't seem to take well to people criticising them.

DownriverDem

(6,228 posts)
49. The country
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 05:15 PM
Jul 2019

is more with Nancy than you think. We have to win the middle if we want to win the Electoral College and beat trump.

 

wasupaloopa

(4,516 posts)
60. Niether is she. I get tired of the idea that older Dems are living in the past.
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 05:39 PM
Jul 2019

The legislation that all Dems are working on is for today and the future. Fresh ideas are needed but the new Dems can’t do it alone.

There is nothing inherently special about young politicos. There are always younger people coming along. It takes a majority in the House and Senate to pass the bills young Dems want. Also it takes a Dem President to sign them. It takes young and old working together to bring about a progressive agenda.

Fla Dem

(23,650 posts)
5. Exactly how it should be done. Glad Madame Speaker laid down the law.
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 02:43 PM
Jul 2019

Last edited Wed Jul 10, 2019, 05:50 PM - Edit history (1)

Republicans would love to see nothing less than a divided Dem caucus so they can conquer. That's one thing about the Rethugs, they stayed united during Obama's administration and blocked him at every point. Rand Paul and Cruz were the most outspoken, but even they came around.

Response to Fla Dem (Reply #5)

Response to Post removed (Reply #13)

Magoo48

(4,705 posts)
96. I think it means, middle of the road, status quo, stay the course, tentative, and weak.
Thu Jul 11, 2019, 08:35 AM
Jul 2019

This is certainly not the stance which will inspire the American people. How about some support for those courageous enough to take strong positions? Instead of the Party demanding everyone embrace their slow-walk, how about they embrace those leading the charge for change?

Zoonart

(11,849 posts)
7. Democrats fall in love...
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 02:45 PM
Jul 2019

Republicans fall in line.

Mark Twain said that a lie can circle the globe before a man can put his pants on. In today's social media culture, that time can be reduced to the second it takes to form a thought bubble.

The line has to be drawn somewhere, because we keep giving the MAGAts amunition.

BeyondGeography

(39,369 posts)
9. You must be kidding
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 02:48 PM
Jul 2019

Don't tweet? We finally have someone who knows how to use social media effectively and the answer to our problems is don't tweet?

Btw, this all got out of hand because Pelosi had a complaint and she talked to Maureen fricking Dowd about it, who did what she does and used Pelosi to make Democrats look bad. So excuse AOC for tweeting in self-defense. Next time, I guess she can just wait for MoDo to call.

zipplewrath

(16,646 posts)
29. It's about what to tweet
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:09 PM
Jul 2019

Tweet about your issues. You can even lament outcomes you didn't support or like. But don't target your complaints towards specific democrats or internal democratic caucuses.

And honestly, right now, it's time for "more honey than vinegar". I.e. it is the time to be winning over conservative democrats, or at the very least increasing the popularity of your positions with the electorate so that the conservative democrats are swayed by their own constituents to move towards your positions.

No speaker ever likes particularly active or independent first term congressional members. Alternately, the list of speakers that ignored them at their own peril is long. Some day she'll need them and she'll need a basis for engaging them. Personally I think that day is more distant than it is near. But I could be wrong.

BeyondGeography

(39,369 posts)
30. This is only happening because she mocked them
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:12 PM
Jul 2019

To Maureen Dowd of the NYT no less. The honey/vinegar ratio got out of whack right there.

And she's taking ZERO responsibility; she doesn't do regrets, ya know.

The rookies aren't blameless but she's the Leader.

zipplewrath

(16,646 posts)
34. Everyone's been walking a fine line
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:20 PM
Jul 2019

I think the thing that sparked the current exchange was over the compromise bill with the senate. That was a bridge too far for many and those that voted for it were feeling out on a limb and didn't wanna hear anything. I did find the whole "come talk to me" statement interesting. I do wonder just how "close" to Pelosi a first termer can get or whether that gets staffed out pretty quickly.

HopeAgain

(4,407 posts)
31. Thank You!
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:12 PM
Jul 2019

I couldn't have said it better other than to add that sometimes we seem hellbent on alienating young progressives.

eilen

(4,950 posts)
88. The problem is who were the ones targeting individual representatives
Thu Jul 11, 2019, 06:26 AM
Jul 2019

on Twitter, name-calling etc. I would say the alienation was on the progressive end. If they were not so willing to throw their fellow Democrats under the bus, maybe they might get other reps to vote with them.

Locrian

(4,522 posts)
36. again, pelosi shows she is completely out of touch...
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:29 PM
Jul 2019

Great example of dinosaurs not knowing where or how the battle is now being fought.

They fundamentally do not get that they cannot control all the channels of communication, that there are new ways to communicate and win vs the centralized power "authority" of old. That these ways are just if not more important than "strongly worded letters", etc.

Did they learn nothing from trump in terms of how the dynamics have changed? That there are multiple battlefronts and things move at 200x faster speeds? Stunning....


And no, this is not about "staying on message" etc, and especially about "winning". It's about power and control.







BeyondGeography

(39,369 posts)
39. We can hate on Trump all we want but he has changed the game
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:36 PM
Jul 2019

The power of open communication is real, even if we think it's a steaming pile coming from him. The way they see it, he cares enough about his base to communicate freely with them. That's filling a human need, not a Republican need. AOC doesn't have 4.8 million followers because she's sending out rote statements.

Locrian

(4,522 posts)
44. the game....
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:55 PM
Jul 2019

trump - by accident found that crowd surfing, real time A/B testing, and social media change everything.

It's changed the way the world works and perceives....

Think of EVERY "institution" that used to centrally control info and authority:
* Sports - now we have scandals, doping, protests etc - live or die by social media
* Religion - abuse, exposed - cannot cover it all up easily
* Politics - whole new level of information - immediate info for research (and fake news) no getting away (internet memory is forever) etc
* Medical - distrust - what do you do before and after a doc visit? Google it

And on, and on and on. The game is DIFFERENT. Things can be researched (yes good and bad), movements created (metoo, etc), you can't get away with the soundbite on the news that disappears. You don't have to go to microfilm to find out what happened 2 years ago. It's instantaneous and moves super fast.

That is why there is so much distrust and confusion of the state of things. Everything is in question and we have to learn how to figure it all out and make use of it. Because it's not going away.

Not saying some of the old things we'ren't good - but they HAVE to get that the battle ground has changed and make effective use of it.

BeyondGeography

(39,369 posts)
46. I'm an old print dinosaur on the run from social media myself
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 05:05 PM
Jul 2019

I pivoted to conference organizing in order to stave off the reaper. No one's job gets to stay the same forever in American capitalism.

Change has been much slower to come to government but their cheese is getting moved too. Even with the extra layers of protection such as safe seats and strict seniority rules. Ain't no stopping it. You don't threaten people who are good at the new rules into submission for long.

Locrian

(4,522 posts)
58. I'd rather read a book...
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 05:26 PM
Jul 2019

oldschool too..

But I love how AOC is able to run rings around most of them.
The one constant thing I guess is change.
And I've seen it again and again how people resist it and the cost.
And I've also seen moving too fast - it's a balance but we're WAY over on one way.

Thing is now we have almost no time left to avert global catastrophe re climate change.
And then I see a lot of people who just want a "not trump" and some kind of soothing "back to obama" era ...sigh...

reACTIONary

(5,770 posts)
72. Calling your fellow dems the "child abuse caucus" is ...
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 08:25 PM
Jul 2019

... making "effective use" of social media? I'd say no.

eilen

(4,950 posts)
89. Agreed. And it doesn't take a wunderkind to figure out how to use Twitter.
Thu Jul 11, 2019, 06:31 AM
Jul 2019

Trump has figured it out. It's not rocket science. Other statesmen prefer to remain dignified.

reACTIONary

(5,770 posts)
71. If we are talking about the "the child abuse caucus".....
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 08:19 PM
Jul 2019

... tweet, you are way off in your assessment. That is not how the battle is fought and the fight is not against the dems.

DeminPennswoods

(15,278 posts)
14. Aren't Dems supposed to be a big tent party?
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 03:16 PM
Jul 2019

It's a different world today and the younger generations have no problem speaking their minds and calling a spade a spade. They grew up in a world of social media and know how to use it. That actually is an advantage we should cultivate, not discourage.

Raven123

(4,828 posts)
20. I have a different take, though i agree with you in general
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 03:47 PM
Jul 2019

If you have a gripe, take it up with the person(s) who concern you. The problem with battling tweets is multiple. 1) i think it more difficult to clear up conflict without a robust dialogue, and you can get a more candid and thorough back and forth face to face. 2) Any and every social media post runs the risk of misappropriation by nefarious actors. I am not against social media use, just desiring judicious employment of this platform. 3j Why air out our disagreements on social media? I am just not sure of the upside.Perhaps if you can’t resolve issues, I can understand it.

Just my opinion.

brush

(53,764 posts)
28. Doesn't take any courage to blast someone on twitter, face-to-face...
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:08 PM
Jul 2019

well that's a tad harder.

Also more adultish, if that's a word. Be a man or a woman and inititate a face-to-face dialogue instead of sharing Dem dirty laundry with the world.

Why do grown people even have to be told that?

DeminPennswoods

(15,278 posts)
59. Except social media IS how the younger generations
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 05:31 PM
Jul 2019

communicate. Face-to-face talking is becoming a thing of the past. Watch younger people with their cell phones, they aren't calling each other, they're texting, they're on facebook or twitter or instagram or snapchat or some other platform. No one is using their voice to communicate.

Supporting McConnell's Senate version of emergency funding was a really hard call for a lot of Dems. They wanted to do something about the plight of these immigrants and children, but they didn't want to give the Trump administration carte blanche. The message coming out of the vote could easily have been that in the interest expediency and compassion, the House accepted the Senate bill with its lack of accountability and understood that some members chose to take a vote on principle.

McConnell must still be laughing at getting Dems to fight among themselves.

brush

(53,764 posts)
75. Yep, if you're tweeting it to the world even a fossil like turtleman will find out
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 09:19 PM
Jul 2019

Time to become actual adults and learn to form alliances with others, power blocks. That ain't gonna happen with tweets. You might actual have to get up, put the phone down and walk to someone's office. Or go to lunch with them.

They're in the big leagues now. Get smarter.

tazkcmo

(7,300 posts)
61. I agree with you.
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 05:41 PM
Jul 2019

Don't air your dirty laundry in public. This was a basic tenet of polite society. I think with advent of cell phones this basic rule died a quiet death. I gave heard people argue, back bite, curse and generally air their drama while on their cell phone in a public space. Couple this with the fact that it IS easier to confront or insult someone when not face to face and you get a generation of people that never learned or practiced "Don't air your dirty laundry in public.".

Speaker Pelosi is right and she must set the example as the leader. She must also be accessible and fair handed so as to encourage House members to come talk to her, especially for the newest Representatives who may be intimidated by the greatness that is Speajer Pelosi. She's a rock star even why you may disagree with her. For their part, the Representatives need to trust their leader, follow her example in this area and respect Speaker Pelosi's experience and achievements.


brush

(53,764 posts)
32. Actually adults who have a problen with another adult should talk to...
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:14 PM
Jul 2019

Last edited Wed Jul 10, 2019, 09:45 PM - Edit history (1)

them face-to-face instead taking the lack-of-courage way to blast someone on twitter and to the world.

Act like a grown up, you're in the big league now. Social media can be useful but airing Dem dirty laundry? No.

eilen

(4,950 posts)
68. I know, imagine if you had an issue or disagreement
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 07:44 PM
Jul 2019

at your job and instead of talking about it, you went on social media-- Twitter and LinkedIn and said those kinds of things. You certainly won't find yourself with good work assignments, important projects, greater responsibilities. Why do young people do this? Because they are immature, self-centered and socially and professionally inexperienced.

I think that is what is called a pink slip expressway.

LiberalLovinLug

(14,173 posts)
19. If Nancy refuses to budge then they have no choice
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 03:45 PM
Jul 2019

And please Nancy, glass houses. Just because Twitter is foreign to you, you also throw back your own disrespectful barbs at the progressive wing, AOC and others using traditional media. Calling them insignificant and they should shut up etc... It goes both ways.

Maybe Nancy should realize she needs to listen instead of threats to shut out the new voices.

Cha

(297,137 posts)
79. That's only smart.. will they
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 09:41 PM
Jul 2019

follow Nancy's sage advice?

Nancy would l like to win the House in 2020, too.

Jedi Guy

(3,185 posts)
24. I can sympathize with both sides of this particular question.
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 03:54 PM
Jul 2019

It's more than a little hypocritical for Pelosi to aim a remark at AOC and her colleagues in an interview, and then get upset when AOC pushes back on Twitter. Pelosi took a shot in public, and then doesn't care for it when the fire is returned in like fashion? I see what she's saying, but practice what you preach, you know? Whether AOC "deserved" the remark isn't relevant to me.

That said, I do agree that Democrats in Congress (and elsewhere) ought to be mindful of what goes out under their name on social media. Disagreements are fine, provided that they're handled in a mature and respectful way within the party. The out-in-public battles do nothing to help us and everything to make it easier for the usual suspects to harp about Democrats being "in chaos."

I feel like everyone involved here needs to take a deep breath, let bygones be bygones, and resolve to go forward in a better way, with the understanding that the same expectations apply to everyone, from freshman Congressperson to Speaker of the House.

Jedi Guy

(3,185 posts)
40. I agree, that was way over the line.
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:36 PM
Jul 2019

I was referring more to Pelosi's "whatever" remark directed at AOC and her colleagues, and AOC's response on Twitter.

Hopefully this gets sorted out and grievances between Democrats will be discussed privately, rather than splashed across social and traditional media for the world to gawk at.

 

Hulk

(6,699 posts)
26. Read all the remarks, and reread the post again....some are missing the message
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:00 PM
Jul 2019

I didn't read "don't twitter". I read ".. do not tweet about our members.." That's an infringement on First Amendment rights? Come on....that's bull shit. You all realize EVERYTHING that politicians say, write, tweet is scarfed up and can be used in a political pot shot later down the line. I hate it when the repuKKKes quote some progressive or some other Democrat that criticizes another Democrat. It does make us look weak, especially to their mentally starved masses.

I'm not a huge fan of Twitter, but if we're going to use it, and we should...then let's use it smart. You got a problem with Democrats....then what is accomplished by feeding it to the repuKKKe propaganda machine. Another example of circular firing squad...something Democrats are especially good at.

Jedi Guy

(3,185 posts)
41. That was my takeaway from this, as well.
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:38 PM
Jul 2019

If infighting absolutely has to happen, keep it behind closed doors. Airing dirty laundry in public is not wise or productive.

BeyondGeography

(39,369 posts)
43. That would be fine if she wasn't using criticism of the moderates to deflect blame
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:49 PM
Jul 2019

for her own ill-advised comments in the NYT which elicited the worst of the return fire in the first place.

Politicub

(12,165 posts)
42. It's bizarre behavior to call out a collegaue on Twitter that could be addressed face to face...
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:40 PM
Jul 2019

if they truly have an issue with someone or a vote. Dem representatives can literally walk across the chamber and speak with someone.

I get that people like to Tweet. And I also understand how people use Twitter to draw attention. It seems like a poor way to influence someone. It would be a big turnoff for me if a colleague were tweeting to put pressure on me.

Social media is garbage mostly.

JoeOtterbein

(7,700 posts)
54. If tweets bother Nancy so much, then why not impeach the twitterer-in-Chief?
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 05:20 PM
Jul 2019

Oh, I forgot, "he's not worth it". And of course why talk about Trump being accused of rape, when she can be "stern" to AOC and the other three members of her own caucus.

Demoralizing.

colsohlibgal

(5,275 posts)
62. She Has A Point
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 05:44 PM
Jul 2019

However.... I think she may be misreading where things stand. Do we go after centrists or progressives? I lean toward keeping the liberal Millennials engaged, so they show up in droves. If we do that most College educated white women will go along.

We are at a dangerous place right now, we need all three branches ASAP.

stillcool

(32,626 posts)
63. in other words..
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 05:45 PM
Jul 2019

keep it in house. Same goes with any team-mates, work-partners. Talking out of school, is not a good thing, unless you're looking to crash and burn, and take some bodies with you.

saidsimplesimon

(7,888 posts)
64. Does that mean no positive comments
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 05:58 PM
Jul 2019

on the wisdom of a centrist position? I'm going all in in 2020. Imo, we need a message that will appeal to voters 40 and below. What's Biden's plan for our future, or the Congressional majority. Give them a vision, why should they get involved?

(ICQ is still running? Is it a troll village or a good mix? Hello, anyone listening? snark)

 

Harddaysknight

(4 posts)
67. Can't we agree that our party needs some fire in our belly?
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 07:24 PM
Jul 2019

If it takes a "Firebrand" to drag us into the light,then so be it.

Is it that the old guard sees the immense popularity of AOC and others that actually believe that we as Democrats should stand in stark contrast to the Republicans,instead of conveying that old middle of the road centrist nonsense.Isn't this what lost us the last election?No offense here,but isn't the same thing happening all over again,where we are being told we need a popular centrist name as our standard bearer,and losing the youth vote in the process?

If I was forced to choose between The Speaker,and AOC,I'd choose AOC all day long.I suppose the muzzling of the vocal firebrands is exactly what this is all about?

There is a reason these new people are so very popular.Maybe we should take note,and embrace them,instead of appearing to be punishing them.

reACTIONary

(5,770 posts)
73. Sorry, but accusing your fellow dems of being members of...
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 08:37 PM
Jul 2019

... the "child abuse caucus" seems a bit self destructive. Not sure how that's going to do anything to bring in the youth vote. This is exactly the sort of nasty rhetoric that turns young folks off. Doesn't strike me as being embraceable at all.

 

Harddaysknight

(4 posts)
77. Must have missed your meaning.No worries...I do it pretty regular. :)
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 09:36 PM
Jul 2019

I'm sorry that I don't understand the "child abuse caucus" reference reACTIONary.In any event,if we are going to be the progressive party,maybe we should try to actually progress.

reACTIONary

(5,770 posts)
80. From the OP...
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 09:46 PM
Jul 2019
Democrats inside the room said they interpreted that remark as a shot at Rep. Mark Pocan (D-Wis.), co-chair of the Congressional Progressive Caucus, who called moderate Democrats members of the “Child Abuse Caucus” in a tweet over their support for the Senate’s version of the emergency humanitarian package.

gldstwmn

(4,575 posts)
109. Not only that but if The Squad isn't really
Thu Jul 11, 2019, 03:51 PM
Jul 2019

down with Pelosi then I can't imagine their contemporaries are either. That's a whole lot of people.

Cha

(297,137 posts)
81. Nancy knows what she's doing.. she
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 09:49 PM
Jul 2019

wants to Win the House Again in 2020.. like she helped do the last time with the BLUEWAVE when at least 40 Red Seats were Flipped to BLUE.


 

ehrnst

(32,640 posts)
93. "Punishing?" What are you even talking about?
Thu Jul 11, 2019, 08:25 AM
Jul 2019


What "Punishment?"

AOC says in January that she "give zero f*cks" what people say about her confrontational style, and Pelosi makes a single comment in a dismissive about how twitter followers don't give anyone an extra vote on the floor, and AOC hits the roof, bashing Pelosi on twitter.

I guess her skin has gotten much thinner since then. Way too thin to be Speaker.
 

Steelrolled

(2,022 posts)
83. Our political leadership is the product of our society
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 10:55 PM
Jul 2019

Popular politics exhibits extreme tribalism, slap downs, knee-jerk reactions, etc., all instantly published on social media. Why would we expect our political leaders not to be the same? AOC is riding high on a wave - why should she change?

Bayard

(22,057 posts)
85. I hate twitter politics
Thu Jul 11, 2019, 12:10 AM
Jul 2019

We get enough of that from The Oval Office Toadstool. People feel safe to say things they would otherwise not say in public.

Pelosi is absolutely right. We don't fight in public. Its divisive within the party, and gives the rethugs ammunition.

PADemD

(4,482 posts)
87. I don't understand
Thu Jul 11, 2019, 05:05 AM
Jul 2019

Why didn’t Nancy confront Marc Pocan directly, like she’s advocating, instead of complaining publicly to Maureen Dowd about four women who did not make the remark? Is newsprint any different than Twitter? They both will stay on the Internet forever.

 

ehrnst

(32,640 posts)
94. They elected her their leader, many many times. Why do you think they would or should ignore her?
Thu Jul 11, 2019, 08:27 AM
Jul 2019

In what way is Pelosi fighting "against" us?

 

killaphill

(212 posts)
104. This is a clash of generations
Thu Jul 11, 2019, 11:50 AM
Jul 2019

The younger generation doesn't want their thoughts filtered and censored. They are passionate, confrontational, and willing to call people out. I think we need more of them!

Oneironaut

(5,492 posts)
110. Sorry, but people like AOC are the future of our party.
Thu Jul 11, 2019, 08:50 PM
Jul 2019

They might not have the same opinions as her, but they will be like her - media savvy, open to talk to the press, unafraid to defend our party’s core principles.

Nancy Pelosi is yesterday’s Democrat. It’s time to get new leadership.

cntrfthrs

(252 posts)
111. "So, again, you got a complaint? You come and talk to me about it,"
Thu Jul 11, 2019, 09:48 PM
Jul 2019

and she will do NOTHING. AOC and her progressive sisters have a huge following among this countrys people of color...and her chiding these women like children is going to LOSE the votes these followers have...think about that...

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