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Judi Lynn

(160,661 posts)
Sat Apr 28, 2018, 07:27 PM Apr 2018

Man shoots wife going to bathroom, mistaking her for burglar

Source: Associated Press


Updated 3:29 pm, Saturday, April 28, 2018

WINTER GARDEN, Fla. (AP) — Authorities in Florida say a man shot his wife twice when she went to the bathroom, saying he mistook her for a burglar.

Winter Garden police said the couple thought they heard an intruder in the home, but after checking their suburban Orlando home, they both went to bed.

Local media report the wife, Allison Simmons, got up to go to the restroom about 45 minutes later and used her phone's light to find her way. When she got out, she woke her husband, Nathan Simmons, who shot at her two times fearing it was the intruder they were seeking.

Allison was taken to a nearby hospital for treatment with non-life-threatening injuries.

Read more: https://www.chron.com/news/crime/article/Man-shoots-wife-on-bathroom-break-mistaking-her-12871781.php

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Man shoots wife going to bathroom, mistaking her for burglar (Original Post) Judi Lynn Apr 2018 OP
Suuuure you did, buddy jberryhill Apr 2018 #1
I guess when he tells people that he shot her in the can, he has to be more specific. TheBlackAdder Apr 2018 #42
Yay, guns. DavidDvorkin Apr 2018 #2
Yay! Guns! jpak Apr 2018 #3
Florida man shoot Florida woman. Historic NY Apr 2018 #4
In other news... PJMcK Apr 2018 #54
Think about what kind of paranoid fever dream RockRaven Apr 2018 #5
The old Pistorius Defense. Sneederbunk Apr 2018 #6
That was the first thought that came to my mind too. BigmanPigman Apr 2018 #13
Mine too rpannier Apr 2018 #27
Me three. Midnight Writer Apr 2018 #47
Fucking Coward JI7 Apr 2018 #7
Yes. He sent her forward and stayed behind with the gun. . . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Apr 2018 #17
Guns are the most dangerous intruder in our homes. SunSeeker Apr 2018 #8
Yes, but ----I---- would never make a deadly mistake like those other losers. groundloop Apr 2018 #32
Yes because you're one of them there RESPONSIBLE gun owners. Volaris Apr 2018 #38
"She was gonna steal my shit" FailureToCommunicate Apr 2018 #9
She must be pissed jayschool2013 Apr 2018 #10
The only way to stop a woman from peeing in the middle of the night is a good guy with a gun. n/t Still In Wisconsin Apr 2018 #11
LOL! Okay...that one made me laugh. nt Honeycombe8 Apr 2018 #26
Showing the need to be armed at all times. eom guillaumeb Apr 2018 #12
yeah, if only she had had a gun............. lastlib Apr 2018 #52
he better buy her a really nice welcome home gift. demigoddess Apr 2018 #14
Or maybe a really nice card ashling Apr 2018 #20
I am against petty theft, but taking a "dump" should not be a capital offense! dameatball Apr 2018 #15
She should've shot back, armed spouses. The guy must be a damn fool or planned it! n/t RKP5637 Apr 2018 #16
Hasn't it been studied that owning a gun makes it more likely you'll sakabatou Apr 2018 #18
Yes. SunSeeker Apr 2018 #24
That stat is sobering. joshcryer Apr 2018 #45
Having a gun in the home increases the risk of suicide fivefold. SunSeeker Apr 2018 #46
Yeah, suicidal ideation among adolecents is not uncommon. joshcryer Apr 2018 #48
He probably left the seat up too RhodeIslandOne Apr 2018 #19
Hey ! It happens ashling Apr 2018 #22
Shades of Oscar Pistorius. nt tblue37 Apr 2018 #21
Should be some jail time IMO. nt USALiberal Apr 2018 #23
Uh, huh. The old "I thought she was a burglar" excuse. Didn't that amputee use that excuse? Honeycombe8 Apr 2018 #25
How did your first spouse die? - Accidentally ate poison mushrooms. keithbvadu2 Apr 2018 #40
LOL! Honeycombe8 Apr 2018 #49
My favorite bit comes from Just Shoot Me sitcom. louis-t Apr 2018 #60
So the fact that she had left the bed didn't occur to him and his first instinct is to shoot pepperbear Apr 2018 #28
Yah sure kimbutgar Apr 2018 #29
This just in from the NRA: rustydog Apr 2018 #30
can anyone say the word fool weissmam Apr 2018 #31
If only she had been packing. Ferrets are Cool Apr 2018 #33
The only way to stop a bad guy with a gun is a good guy with a gun. Yavin4 Apr 2018 #34
The only person who can stop you from taking a piss kairos12 Apr 2018 #35
Good thing he's not a terribly good shot.... paleotn Apr 2018 #36
One neighborhood over from me. Daughters BFF lives in there Roland99 Apr 2018 #37
Next he'll say he bought the cell phone was a gun! As long as you're stealing alibis, might as well bettyellen Apr 2018 #41
"Oops" can't be an acceptable defense. Iggo Apr 2018 #39
Didn't Oscar Pistorius try that excuse? WhiteTara Apr 2018 #43
I smell bullshit Dyedinthewoolliberal Apr 2018 #44
First mistake was searching their home for possible intruder(s) Kaleva Apr 2018 #50
Good old Florida LSFL Apr 2018 #51
Really....you have to assume they don't have kids. Sancho Apr 2018 #53
Next time she needs to go Alwaysna Apr 2018 #55
Background checks are required. Idiot checks should be required too! democratisphere Apr 2018 #56
shot her once thinking she was a burgler... Javaman Apr 2018 #57
That excuse didn't work for Oscar Pistorius. n/t MrModerate Apr 2018 #58
So he was a lousy shot dreamland Apr 2018 #59
Stop with the guns. Buy a taser. truthisfreedom Apr 2018 #61
You can't get rid of her that easily IronLionZion Apr 2018 #62

RockRaven

(15,075 posts)
5. Think about what kind of paranoid fever dream
Sat Apr 28, 2018, 07:35 PM
Apr 2018

your day-to-day existence must be that you react to this situation this way. How miserable.

groundloop

(11,530 posts)
32. Yes, but ----I---- would never make a deadly mistake like those other losers.
Sat Apr 28, 2018, 09:36 PM
Apr 2018

If ----I---- kept a loaded gun in my house ----I---- would always use perfect judgement - even if awakened from a deep sleep in the middle of the night. ----MY---- gun would never be picked up by young children, even if kept in an unlocked nightstand drawer because my kids know better. ----I---- went to the gun range last year so ----I---- am perfectly prepared to take out a bad guy in a crisis situation.

Volaris

(10,278 posts)
38. Yes because you're one of them there RESPONSIBLE gun owners.
Sat Apr 28, 2018, 10:11 PM
Apr 2018

Just like everyone else.
Until the moment you're not....

lastlib

(23,362 posts)
52. yeah, if only she had had a gun.............
Sun Apr 29, 2018, 06:51 AM
Apr 2018


So sad that people in this country think killing someone is the solution to a problem.

demigoddess

(6,645 posts)
14. he better buy her a really nice welcome home gift.
Sat Apr 28, 2018, 07:57 PM
Apr 2018

I would suggest jewelry. Or she may take that gun and....

sakabatou

(42,202 posts)
18. Hasn't it been studied that owning a gun makes it more likely you'll
Sat Apr 28, 2018, 08:05 PM
Apr 2018

kill a family member than someone who broke into your home?

SunSeeker

(51,794 posts)
24. Yes.
Sat Apr 28, 2018, 08:37 PM
Apr 2018

A gun in the home is 22 times more likely to be used to kill or injure in a domestic homicide, suicide, or unintentional shooting than to be used in self-defense. (Kellermann, Arthur L.MD, MPH, et al. “Injuries and Deaths Due to Firearms in the Home.” Journal of Trauma, Injury, Infection, and Critical Care 45 (1998): 263-67)

joshcryer

(62,287 posts)
45. That stat is sobering.
Sun Apr 29, 2018, 12:42 AM
Apr 2018

Even if you go "but half the deaths are suicide" that's still an extremely high number.

SunSeeker

(51,794 posts)
46. Having a gun in the home increases the risk of suicide fivefold.
Sun Apr 29, 2018, 01:57 AM
Apr 2018

Guns make it a lot easier to act on what it usually a passing suicidal urge, making an episode of depression fatal. I lost a friend in high school to a gun suicide. She did it in her bedroom with the family gun.

joshcryer

(62,287 posts)
48. Yeah, suicidal ideation among adolecents is not uncommon.
Sun Apr 29, 2018, 02:35 AM
Apr 2018

A gun in the house will make it so much easier to act on those actions.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
25. Uh, huh. The old "I thought she was a burglar" excuse. Didn't that amputee use that excuse?
Sat Apr 28, 2018, 08:49 PM
Apr 2018

Didn't that famous amputee use that excuse when he riddled his live-in gf with bullets while she was in the bathroom?

Another one: Oops! This is the second time a wife of mine fell down the stairs & got her head bashed in and died...when I was the only other person here! What a coincidence!

keithbvadu2

(37,025 posts)
40. How did your first spouse die? - Accidentally ate poison mushrooms.
Sat Apr 28, 2018, 10:25 PM
Apr 2018

How did your first spouse die? - Accidentally ate poison mushrooms.

How did your second spouse die? - Accidentally ate poison mushrooms.

How did your third spouse die? - Accidentally fell off a cliff... Didn't like mushrooms.

louis-t

(23,309 posts)
60. My favorite bit comes from Just Shoot Me sitcom.
Sun Apr 29, 2018, 01:32 PM
Apr 2018

Elliot finds out his long lost love is back in town.
Meets her to have dinner and get acquainted again.
She tells him she got married but husband fell overboard and drowned.
She married again, but on a trip around the world, husband #2 fell overboard and drowned.
Then she met husband #3. After a brief marriage, he also died.
Elliot, getting suspicious, says "Don't tell me he drowned, too."
"No", she says, "he accidentally shot himself in the back with a spear gun."


Yavin4

(35,454 posts)
34. The only way to stop a bad guy with a gun is a good guy with a gun.
Sat Apr 28, 2018, 09:43 PM
Apr 2018

Now, in this situation, which one is which?

paleotn

(18,012 posts)
36. Good thing he's not a terribly good shot....
Sat Apr 28, 2018, 09:47 PM
Apr 2018

Most humpers couldn't hit the broad side of a barn from 20 feet.

Roland99

(53,342 posts)
37. One neighborhood over from me. Daughters BFF lives in there
Sat Apr 28, 2018, 09:54 PM
Apr 2018

Guy didn’t notice his wife wasn’t in the bed???

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
41. Next he'll say he bought the cell phone was a gun! As long as you're stealing alibis, might as well
Sat Apr 28, 2018, 10:26 PM
Apr 2018

get two of them?

Iggo

(47,587 posts)
39. "Oops" can't be an acceptable defense.
Sat Apr 28, 2018, 10:12 PM
Apr 2018

He shot an innocent person.

If being found to be in possession of less than a gram of a party drug is grounds to deny someone their 2nd amendment right forever, surely shooting an innocent person should carry AT LEAST that penalty.

Fuck the Oops Defense.

Bring down the hammer.

Kaleva

(36,394 posts)
50. First mistake was searching their home for possible intruder(s)
Sun Apr 29, 2018, 05:48 AM
Apr 2018

Stay in the bedroom and call the police.

Sancho

(9,071 posts)
53. Really....you have to assume they don't have kids.
Sun Apr 29, 2018, 07:01 AM
Apr 2018

So you hear an intruder and hunt for the crook yourself - but don't call the police (we're talking about a suburb in Orlando folks, not a farm in Kansas). Good think she didn't mistake the gun for her phone on the nightstand.

Another link: https://www.wftv.com/news/local/police-man-shoots-wife-twice-thinking-shes-intruder-/738959606

People Control, Not Gun Control

This is my generic response to gun threads where people are shot and killed by the dumb or criminal possession of guns. For the record, I grew up in the South and on military bases. I was taught about firearms as a child, and I grew up hunting, was a member of the NRA, and I still own guns. In the 70’s, I dropped out of the NRA because they become more radical and less interested in safety and training. Some personal experiences where people I know were involved in shootings caused me to realize that anyone could obtain and posses a gun no matter how illogical it was for them to have a gun. Also, easy access to more powerful guns, guns in the hands of children, and guns that weren’t secured are out of control in our society. As such, here’s what I now think ought to be the requirements to possess a gun. I’m not debating the legal language, I just think it’s the reasonable way to stop the shootings. Notice, none of this restricts the type of guns sold. This is aimed at the people who shoot others, because it’s clear that they should never have had a gun.

1.) Anyone in possession of a gun (whether they own it or not) should have a regularly renewed license. If you want to call it a permit, certificate, or something else that's fine.
2.) To get a license, you should have a background check, and be examined by a professional for emotional and mental stability appropriate for gun possession. It might be appropriate to require that examination to be accompanied by references from family, friends, employers, etc. This check is not to subject you to a mental health diagnosis, just check on your superficial and apparent gun-worthyness.
3.) To get the license, you should be required to take a safety course and pass a test appropriate to the type of gun you want to use.
4.) To get a license, you should be over 21. Under 21, you could only use a gun under direct supervision of a licensed person and after obtaining a learner’s license. Your license might be restricted if you have children or criminals or other unsafe people living in your home. (If you want to argue 18 or 25 or some other age, fine. 21 makes sense to me.)
5.) If you possess a gun, you would have to carry a liability insurance policy specifically for gun ownership - and likely you would have to provide proof of appropriate storage, security, and whatever statistical reasons that emerge that would drive the costs and ability to get insurance.
6.) You could not purchase a gun or ammunition without a license, and purchases would have a waiting period.
7.) If you possess a gun without a license, you go to jail, the gun is impounded, and a judge will have to let you go (just like a DUI).
8.) No one should carry an unsecured gun (except in a locked case, unloaded) when outside of home. Guns should be secure when transporting to a shooting event without demonstrating a special need. Their license should indicate training and special carry circumstances beyond recreational shooting (security guard, etc.). If you are carrying your gun while under the influence of drugs or alcohol, you lose your gun and license.
9.) If you buy, sell, give away, or inherit a gun, your license information should be recorded.
10.) If you accidentally discharge your gun, commit a crime, get referred by a mental health professional, are served a restraining order, etc., you should lose your license and guns until reinstated by a serious relicensing process.

Most of you know that a license is no big deal. Besides a driver’s license you need a license to fish, operate a boat, or many other activities. I realize these differ by state, but that is not a reason to let anyone without a bit of sense pack a semiautomatic weapon in public, on the roads, and in schools. I think we need to make it much harder for some people to have guns.

For those who want to argue legality, please reference: The Second Amendment: A Biography by Michael Waldman

Javaman

(62,534 posts)
57. shot her once thinking she was a burgler...
Sun Apr 29, 2018, 09:14 AM
Apr 2018

shot her a second time to make sure she wasn't.

morons with guns.

truthisfreedom

(23,166 posts)
61. Stop with the guns. Buy a taser.
Sun Apr 29, 2018, 03:03 PM
Apr 2018

They have built-in flashlights and pointer lasers. They reach 15 feet. They’re generally non-lethal.

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