Erin Moran Relied on a Feeding Tube to Stay Alive During Final Days Battling Stage 4 Cancer
Source: MSN
Happy Days' Erin Moran was fed through a GI tube at home with her mother-in-law, according to the coroner's examination
Moran was receiving treatment for Stage 4 cancer, including a gastrointestinal tube in her throat to keep her alive during her final days, a law enforcement source tells PEOPLE.
The source, who asked to remain anonymous pending further details to be released by the Harrison County Sheriff's Dept., said the coroner found a gastrointestinal tube during the examination, as well as "ample" evidence that the actress succumbed to Stage 4 cancer. The type of cancer was not immediately clear.
"It was indicative when they did the autopsy that she was receiving medical care," the source tells PEOPLE. "There were no illicit substances or anything to suggest foul play."
Read more: http://www.msn.com/en-us/tv/celebrity/happy-days-erin-moran-relied-on-a-feeding-tube-to-stay-alive-during-final-days-battling-stage-4-cancer-source/ar-BBAh7Ez?li=BBmkt5R&ocid=spartanntp
So, the "stupid junkie, she dug her own grave" narrative was vicious, ignorant bullshit.
Erin Moran died clean.
Of cancer.
madokie
(51,076 posts)feel for her. A couple days ago I thought, from reading some posts here, that she was nothing but a person who was gaming the system to get the drugs some of us need to survive. In the process driving nails in our coffins. I'm happy to see that none of what I had previously read, here and elsewhere, was true.
May Peace be with You KB for straightening this out for me.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)I am my parents and they made clear no feeding tube and no breathing tubes.
ghostsinthemachine
(3,569 posts)I have a feeding tube and no problems. I see my grandkids, go to shows, do pretty much everything, except eat large meals, that I did before. And a breathing tube? Youll have one when you get operated on, no doubt.
You really need to talk to someone who knows what is what instead of making blanket statements.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)Luz
(772 posts)for my hubbys trach or he'd be dead now instead of out walking the dog.
Ken Burch
(50,254 posts)May he be in as good a health as is possible now.
GliderGuider
(21,088 posts)She is already getting her paperwork in order - no surgery, no chemo, no resuscitation, no intubation, no curative treatments of any kind. Only palliative pain management.
We each have our own way of dealing with the end of life, and our own reasons for doing what we do. People who throw stones are throwing them at their own Shadow.
itcfish
(1,828 posts)I hope she will have some treatment, miracles do happen. God be with her.
GliderGuider
(21,088 posts)She wants to die.
I know that probably sound harsh to most peoples' ears, but you'd have to know the rest of her situation to understand her determination.
There are many ways to approach death, and each of them is deeply personal. She is doing so with her eyes wide open, embracing it as only a fully self-realized person can.
As her loving and compassionate soul-mate, I fully support her wishes.
itcfish
(1,828 posts)God bless her and you!
hamsterjill
(15,224 posts)My aunt was diagnosed with lung cancer in early 2014. She had one chemo treatment and decided she did not want to continue. She died in December, 2014.
She had lost three sons to a genetic disease, and her husband has pre-deceased her. She was ready to go. And although I selfishly wanted more time with her, I completely and utterly supported her in her decision.
It is INDEED an individual choice in dealing with the end of life.
GliderGuider
(21,088 posts)Her only family is her 94 yo mother, who lives alone, 400 miles away, in the final throes of Alzheimer's. The rest of her family were killed in the Holocaust. My wife's body has been a life-long wreck, probably due to the epigenetic aftershocks of her mother's time in Auschwitz and Bergen-Belsen. We have no children.
We have realized our life dream, re-uniting after a thirty-year separation and spending our final seven years together as one soul. She has worked hard for two decades to become self-realized, and IMO she has succeeded.
She sees her diagnosis as a Get Out of Jail Free card.
Skittles
(153,317 posts)mr_lebowski
(33,643 posts)Puts a lot of things in perspective for me at the moment.
Godspeed to your valiant wife, and you ...
Ken Burch
(50,254 posts)Cancer is a total bastard of a disease.
I think you two have everyone's support here for whatever choices you make.
GliderGuider
(21,088 posts)It's quite an adventure. I guess my concern when I talk about it on an open forum is that my wife's response to it is so different from the social norm. I don't want to sugar-coat her attitude of conscious acceptance with fake grief and a sense of tragedy, but I worry that we're going to come across cold as a result. We're anything but.
I'm sure the landscape is going to change many times in the coming months. Thanks for your support.
lunasun
(21,646 posts)similiar choice. None came across as cold , or those around them just well thought out or intuitive sense that the time is here and now to leave .
Sometimes better to go on your own terms and if she has achieved self realization it may be her awakened consciousness and its freedom that allows her to accept this choice as liberating but there will be others who can not see it.
I understand that societies impose a norm. So I understand your hesitance, just know it's not really that abnormal of a path either.
GliderGuider
(21,088 posts)As the hospice/palliative possibilities grow more people are being given the opportunity to value their perception of quality at end-of-life against straight time.
leftynyc
(26,060 posts)May she rest in peace and may her memory be a blessing.
Ken Burch
(50,254 posts)Should've waited until we heard.
cstanleytech
(26,364 posts)the details its just human nature and I doubt that will change any time soon if ever.
I personally assumed stroke or heart attack when I read the news not because of any past drug or alcohol use on her part but because of her age and cancer didnt even occur to me.
Ken Burch
(50,254 posts)In the last pictures they published, she looked worn down, older than her years.
Gothmog
(146,006 posts)Her last days involved a great deal of suffering and I feel for her and wish the best
Lucinda
(31,170 posts)SoCalMusicLover
(3,194 posts)He essentially blamed her for her death, saying it was the effects of years of drinking and drugs which caused it.
You can ALWAYS count on the Conservative A&*HOLE to be the only person to attack the dead person. You won't find Ron Howard or Henry Winkler jumping to conclusions less than 48 hours after Erin's death.
Lithos
(26,404 posts)She may have died of complications from alcohol/drugs/smoking, but I can almost guarantee you these were done as attempts to self-medicate her self-admitted depression. Ie, she died from complications resulting from depression and a$$holes like Scott Baio would gleefully deny people access to treatment and continue to stigmatize people who do find a route to proper treatment.
L-
Ken Burch
(50,254 posts)All to be expected.
itcfish
(1,828 posts)have brain cancer? You would think he would be a bit more sympathetic.
hlthe2b
(102,574 posts)Gets even sadder... May you be at peace, Erin.
Hekate
(91,055 posts)Ken Burch
(50,254 posts)It was more a reference to the rush to judgment out there in Greater Cyberslavia.
LeftInTX
(25,819 posts)She was diagnosed with throat cancer around Thanksgiving
She was receiving chemo and radiation
Sounds like the chemo and radiation weren't going very well
http://pagesix.com/2017/04/24/happy-days-star-erin-moran-died-of-cancer/
SunSeeker
(51,816 posts)Boomerproud
(7,986 posts)So tragic. My only hope is that she wasn't alone. If what Scott Baio said that was posted above is true-go to hell.
ghostsinthemachine
(3,569 posts)And mine goes in my stomach. Esophageal cancer usually, as in my case. After my operation (esophectomy) May 12th, I will have another feeding tube, but this time into my intestine. I doubt hers was in her throat.
Its not so bad taking food this way. Boring yes, but not so bad. My tumor has shrunk enough to allow.me to eat some things, so thats good, but only a recent development.
murielm99
(30,790 posts)I hope you continue to improve and do not have too much pain. This must be scary, to say the least.
ghostsinthemachine
(3,569 posts)But I knew since early October when I could not get food to pass. It was tough getting to diagnosis.
Thanks for your concern.
whathehell
(29,112 posts)deurbano
(2,896 posts)My daughter had to have a stomach feeding tube (PEG) during treatment for/recovery from lymphoma. A tumor was crushing her esophagus, and that caused a lot of coughing (initially misdiagnosed as allergies!), and eventually led to aspiration while eating.
The chemo effectively shrank the tumor, and she is now past the three-year mark from the last chemo.
I wish you the same good outcome! And very best wishes for an uneventful and highly successful surgery on the 12th!
irisblue
(33,061 posts)Different Drummer
(7,682 posts)The rush to judgment that people tend toward in situations like this always bothers me.
Skittles
(153,317 posts)or were they just sad that she has long battled so many demons?
my condolences to her friends and loved ones
Ken Burch
(50,254 posts)n/t.
Skittles
(153,317 posts)I saw sympathy for her here - out there, not so much, including from that conservative asshole Scott Baio.
niyad
(113,990 posts)Skittles
(153,317 posts)he said you "try" and then you "let them go" - see, that's the difference between you and me, asshole - I NEVER STOP TRYING with my loved ones / friends
niyad
(113,990 posts)PatrickforO
(14,608 posts)it is a corporate propaganda effort designed to promote more tax dollars going to defense contracts, and more corporate tax cuts as opposed to using those tax dollars WE pay in for programs that actually help us.
In addition, we do not have single payer, and so are barbaric. Moran probably couldn't afford proper treatment, and could not afford the meds she needed and so likely died in hellish pain.
But, hey, some big pharma bean counter out there is smugly satisfied at this quarter's profits...
ghostsinthemachine
(3,569 posts)But he died, not from heroin, but Hagen Das and Camel unfiltered's. Digging your own grave all the same, but nobody mentioned that.
We all dig our own graves really. My cancer was probably caused by smoking and drinking in my past. Studies shoow a higher incidence anyway.
shenmue
(38,506 posts)SoCalMusicLover
(3,194 posts)If she had throat cancer, sorry Scott....it may have been Cigarettes that killed her, not alcohol & drugs.
But we must not hurt the tobacco farmers, by talking about an elephant in the room where it comes to something like throat cancer. She was a lifelong smoker, and perhaps it should serve as a reminder about the danger of a life spent smoking tobacco.
itcfish
(1,828 posts)Father has throat cancer, never smoked, rarely drank. He is 56 years old. He is going through terrible cancer treatment now. I hope he gets cured. Sometimes these things happen through no fault of your own.
hamsterjill
(15,224 posts)They can no longer defend themselves. May "Joanie" rest in peace with my thanks for the laughs and entertainment that she brought to my household with her acting talents.
WoonTars
(694 posts)...what an asshole...
Ken Burch
(50,254 posts)And then he played the "people are only mad because I'm a Trump supporter" card, because he sees HIMSELF as the victim here.
I think we can now use "Baio" as a euphemism for "douchebag"-as in "that dude's a total Baio",
oberliner
(58,724 posts)People asked him about it, obviously.
Ken Burch
(50,254 posts)said "no comment" and walk away.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)But he was specifically asked about her history of drug and alcohol use.
I guess my point is that the people asking the questions (and the way they asked them) also benefited from coaxing Baio to say something like this and then milking it for hits.
CentralMass
(15,265 posts)lunasun
(21,646 posts)The Latin phrases De mortuis nihil nisi bonum ("Of the dead, nothing unless good" and De mortuis nil nisi bene [dicendum] ("Of the dead, nothing [spoken] unless [truthfully]" indicate that it is socially inappropriate to speak ill of the dead.