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DonViejo

(60,536 posts)
Mon Oct 9, 2017, 02:03 PM Oct 2017

A gay coffee shop owner kicked out religious mouth-breathers & conservatives are outraged

By Alex Bollinger · Monday, October 9, 2017

Right wing blogs are enraged that a gay coffee shop owner kicked out a group of anti-choice religious nutjobs. The group was handing out pamphlets in Seattle that called abortion sinful and showed an image of bloody hands and rainbows. They took a break at Bedlam Coffee and went to the upstairs seating area.

At some point, the owner of the coffee shop, Ben Borgman, went upstairs with one of the pamphlets and asked the activists to leave. They asked why they were being told to leave, and he pointed to one of the pamphlets and said, “This is offensive to me.”

A heated discussion ensued that was recorded and posted on Facebook by the anti-choice group Abolish Human Abortion. Borgman is agitated, telling the activists to “shut up” and leave.

One of the activists tells him that she tolerates his presence (so he has to tolerate everything she does?), to which he responded, “If I go get my boyfriend and fuck him in the ass right here you’re going to tolerate that? Are you going to tolerate it?”

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https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2017/10/gay-coffee-shop-owner-kicked-religious-mouth-breathers-conservatives-outraged/

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A gay coffee shop owner kicked out religious mouth-breathers & conservatives are outraged (Original Post) DonViejo Oct 2017 OP
So much for private property rights. muntrv Oct 2017 #1
Yup, they expect to be allowed to be prejudice against others Doreen Oct 2017 #2
This has and is their message from the get go. Wellstone ruled Oct 2017 #4
I see, only they should have the right to refuse service to people they don't agree with Downtown Hound Oct 2017 #3
"If I go get my boyfriend and fuck him in the ass right here youre going to tolerate that?" RhodeIslandOne Oct 2017 #5
All the coffee shop owner had to say was: BillyBobBrilliant Oct 2017 #6
I've begun to seriously question the sanity of the "religious right". raven mad Oct 2017 #7
I've been following the religious right since 9/11. Initech Oct 2017 #20
Ive been following them since the 1970s. I grew up with a lot of them. yardwork Oct 2017 #28
And they don't care that DOTUS is just using them, Ilsa Oct 2017 #30
I don't believe "sanity" and "religious right" are ever proper in the same sentence. bitterross Oct 2017 #24
Where in Seattle is this and what is the name? Doreen Oct 2017 #8
Follow the link in the OP, I'm sure you'll learn the name of the place DonViejo Oct 2017 #9
Or even just read the part copied in the original post mythology Oct 2017 #27
here you go": niyad Oct 2017 #10
Thank You. My boyfriend and I will go when we get back. Doreen Oct 2017 #13
you are most welcome. niyad Oct 2017 #15
"Hey! They can't do that to our pledges! Only we can do that to our pledges!" Initech Oct 2017 #11
Kicked them out for WHAT they were doing not WHO they are underpants Oct 2017 #12
Not all antagonisms are best expressed, and certainly not in this guy's style. Hortensis Oct 2017 #14
Yes. cwydro Oct 2017 #26
As a gay person, I wish that hed represented with more class. yardwork Oct 2017 #29
Well, at least maybe that and the willingness to mix confounded a cliche Hortensis Oct 2017 #31
Oh, but what about "private enterprises can do as they like?" mreilly Oct 2017 #16
Gotta wonder if they set the owner up. nocalflea Oct 2017 #17
Let them Downtown Hound Oct 2017 #18
Oh, it doesn't bother me. I think it's rather childish. nocalflea Oct 2017 #19
There is a pride flag hanging prominently on the front, but AtheistCrusader Oct 2017 #22
Those people have been hanging around a 2-3 square block area for weeks now. AtheistCrusader Oct 2017 #21
"I like ass. I'd fuck Jesus in the ass!" LiberalLovinLug Oct 2017 #23
nobody fucks with the Jesus! elias7 Oct 2017 #25

Doreen

(11,686 posts)
2. Yup, they expect to be allowed to be prejudice against others
Mon Oct 9, 2017, 02:13 PM
Oct 2017

but others not be allowed to be like that to them. The restaurant owner would have been kicked out of their business so why the hell not the other way?

 

RhodeIslandOne

(5,042 posts)
5. "If I go get my boyfriend and fuck him in the ass right here youre going to tolerate that?"
Mon Oct 9, 2017, 02:20 PM
Oct 2017

Uhhh yeah, um I don't think ANY of his customers should have to answer that question.

BillyBobBrilliant

(805 posts)
6. All the coffee shop owner had to say was:
Mon Oct 9, 2017, 02:20 PM
Oct 2017

"It is contrary to my STRONGLY HELD BELIEFS to serve someone with YOUR lifestyle."
Game over.

Initech

(100,151 posts)
20. I've been following the religious right since 9/11.
Mon Oct 9, 2017, 04:04 PM
Oct 2017

They were insane then. 16 years later, they've only got worse. And now they think they have a free pass to the White House under Trump. Scary.

yardwork

(61,812 posts)
28. Ive been following them since the 1970s. I grew up with a lot of them.
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 07:42 AM
Oct 2017

As a group, they are irrational, disconnected from reality, and highly paranoid. The right-wing Republicans politicized them in the 1980s - creating the Religious Right - and poured money on them. They built mega-churches and expanded into a vast network.

They’re still divorced from reality and highly paranoid. And now they vote in droves.

Ilsa

(61,720 posts)
30. And they don't care that DOTUS is just using them,
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 07:51 AM
Oct 2017

that he has little in common with their core beliefs.

Talked to an old friend this weekend. She voted for him for business reasons, but can't stand him personally. I guess her christian principles weren't important enough this time.

 

bitterross

(4,066 posts)
24. I don't believe "sanity" and "religious right" are ever proper in the same sentence.
Mon Oct 9, 2017, 04:32 PM
Oct 2017

The two just don't go together.

Doreen

(11,686 posts)
8. Where in Seattle is this and what is the name?
Mon Oct 9, 2017, 02:22 PM
Oct 2017

When I get back from Canada I want to go and have their coffee and congratulate them on an awesome job.

niyad

(113,987 posts)
10. here you go":
Mon Oct 9, 2017, 02:24 PM
Oct 2017

Bedlam Coffee
2.9427 Google reviews
$ · Coffee Shop
Coffee, tea, flavored toasts & desserts are served in a colorful room with mismatched chairs.
Address: 2231 2nd Ave, Seattle, WA 98121
Hours: Open today · 6AM–10PM







Menu: places.singleplatform.com
Phone: (206) 321-2222
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Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
14. Not all antagonisms are best expressed, and certainly not in this guy's style.
Mon Oct 9, 2017, 02:29 PM
Oct 2017
"When they go low, we go high." Michelle Obama

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
31. Well, at least maybe that and the willingness to mix confounded a cliche
Tue Oct 10, 2017, 08:44 AM
Oct 2017

in those minds, even if such expansive lessons are extremely unlikely to stick.

 

mreilly

(2,120 posts)
16. Oh, but what about "private enterprises can do as they like?"
Mon Oct 9, 2017, 02:41 PM
Oct 2017

... or does that only apply to bigots who refuse to make wedding cakes for gay couples?

The hypocrisy never stops with these people. It is endless. It is eternal. It. Never. Stops.

nocalflea

(1,387 posts)
17. Gotta wonder if they set the owner up.
Mon Oct 9, 2017, 03:25 PM
Oct 2017

They love to flip the script.

Intolerant libs
Racist libs
Violent libs

Downtown Hound

(12,618 posts)
18. Let them
Mon Oct 9, 2017, 03:29 PM
Oct 2017

Every time they try just respond with, "This is what you have been fighting for the right to do for years. How do you like it now that it's on the other foot?"

nocalflea

(1,387 posts)
19. Oh, it doesn't bother me. I think it's rather childish.
Mon Oct 9, 2017, 03:40 PM
Oct 2017

But, I do like your response (in case they ever do piss me off).

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
22. There is a pride flag hanging prominently on the front, but
Mon Oct 9, 2017, 04:26 PM
Oct 2017

these abortion activists aren't the sharpest tools in the shed, so to speak. Hard to say.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
21. Those people have been hanging around a 2-3 square block area for weeks now.
Mon Oct 9, 2017, 04:21 PM
Oct 2017

Obnoxious as all get-out, screaming at everyone with a car-battery powered bullhorn.

Yeah, ok, you've got your first amendment, freedom of expression and all that, but you don't have to be fucking dicks about it. Waving photos of an aborted fetus in my kid's face, (he's 8) is a good way to provoke something very different than sympathy for your 'issue' from me.

LiberalLovinLug

(14,180 posts)
23. "I like ass. I'd fuck Jesus in the ass!"
Mon Oct 9, 2017, 04:31 PM
Oct 2017


Sorry, I know its not supposed to be our script about going high when they go low, but damn I love it when these insulated brainwashed holier-than-thous, who just presume that everybody who's anybody obviously agrees with them, receive such a shock to the system like that.
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