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hamsterjill

(15,224 posts)
Sun Aug 13, 2017, 12:58 PM Aug 2017

A thread of hugs. Come here if you need one.

I turn on the news and see hate like I've never seen before. Idiots who want to hate others just because they are too insecure not to hate someone who might be a little different.

I condemn assholes like that. If someone maliciously does something to you, then anger is understandable. But if someone is born to look differently than you, you have no excuse to hate other than that you WANT to hate.

I'm not saying this very well, but we need some love. As hokey as it sounds, we need some love. So I'm going to start. I'm going to start right here.

I wish my fellow DU'ers love. I wish you peace and comfort and prosperity. I wish you security and protection in a world that has gone mad.

I offer you a virtual hug.

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A thread of hugs. Come here if you need one. (Original Post) hamsterjill Aug 2017 OP
Hugs shenmue Aug 2017 #1
Thanks, Shenmue. hamsterjill Aug 2017 #8
I'm in. forgotmylogin Aug 2017 #2
Thanks. hamsterjill Aug 2017 #9
Thank you... I feel spent. demmiblue Aug 2017 #3
Me, too. hamsterjill Aug 2017 #10
Thank you...I am exhausted. Freedomofspeech Aug 2017 #4
Yep. hamsterjill Aug 2017 #11
I'll take one... inanna Aug 2017 #5
Thank you, inanna. hamsterjill Aug 2017 #12
Thank You...Very Kind!! Stuart G Aug 2017 #6
You're welcome. hamsterjill Aug 2017 #14
Between Trump and a horrible divorce Blue_Roses Aug 2017 #7
Take some time each day to care for yourself. hamsterjill Aug 2017 #15
I keep saying I will get through this but Blue_Roses Aug 2017 #17
I am old. hamsterjill Aug 2017 #19
I can use one TexasBushwhacker Aug 2017 #13
I find that I cry every morning these days. hamsterjill Aug 2017 #16
It has been a hard week. Lifelong Protester Aug 2017 #18
It has been a doozy. hamsterjill Aug 2017 #21
I need a hug GrapesOfWrath Aug 2017 #20
We all need some comfort. hamsterjill Aug 2017 #22
Hugs back to all! LiberalLoner Aug 2017 #23
Thank you, LiberalLoner. hamsterjill Aug 2017 #24
Two people I need a hug from... bellmartin Aug 2017 #25
Oh me, too. hamsterjill Aug 2017 #26
At Netroots yesterday greymattermom Aug 2017 #27
How cool is that???!!! hamsterjill Aug 2017 #28
Giving hugs to All of DU love_katz Aug 2017 #29
Peace, love_katz hamsterjill Aug 2017 #31
Big Hug Time apkhgp Aug 2017 #30
Yep, you got it!!! hamsterjill Aug 2017 #32
Hug back. And give a few literal ones today too. nolabear Aug 2017 #33
That's right! hamsterjill Aug 2017 #34
that rally in VA chilled me to the bone, thank you steve2470 Aug 2017 #35
Me, too. hamsterjill Aug 2017 #36

hamsterjill

(15,224 posts)
11. Yep.
Sun Aug 13, 2017, 01:22 PM
Aug 2017

I think we all are. We've got to look out for one another to be able to stay strong. Get some rest and refresh, and fight again another day.

Blue_Roses

(12,894 posts)
7. Between Trump and a horrible divorce
Sun Aug 13, 2017, 01:17 PM
Aug 2017

I'm going through, I feel like just crawling under the covers and sleeping for days.

hamsterjill

(15,224 posts)
15. Take some time each day to care for yourself.
Sun Aug 13, 2017, 01:28 PM
Aug 2017

Divorce is hard. I've been there. Let it all out. Talk to trusted friends, write down your thoughts, whatever helps. Be as sensible as you can (and I do realize what I'm saying. How can you be sensible when the world is turning upside down). But do your best.

You WILL get through this.

Blue_Roses

(12,894 posts)
17. I keep saying I will get through this but
Sun Aug 13, 2017, 01:33 PM
Aug 2017

days like today feel so grim. My soon-to-ex seems to think that he no longer has any obligations to his kids. I can't wait to be divorced from him, but the way he is treating our kids is breaking my heart.

hamsterjill

(15,224 posts)
19. I am old.
Sun Aug 13, 2017, 01:36 PM
Aug 2017

I went through this with my ex, too, as have many others. It sucks.

Do the best you can to be there for your kids. When all is said and done, I promise you, they WILL understand.

TexasBushwhacker

(20,244 posts)
13. I can use one
Sun Aug 13, 2017, 01:23 PM
Aug 2017

I actually broke down and cried yesterday. Charlotsville, threats of war against NK and now Venezuela. I just can't take it.

hamsterjill

(15,224 posts)
16. I find that I cry every morning these days.
Sun Aug 13, 2017, 01:31 PM
Aug 2017

I cry when I wake up and remember. The fear. The uncertainty. The lies. The fools.

I think it means we are in touch with what's going on as opppsed to being immune to the suffering, and I take a small, tiny sense of relief that I am still able to feel things.

We have a special kind of stupid happening in Texas, don't we???!!!

Hugs to you.

GrapesOfWrath

(525 posts)
20. I need a hug
Sun Aug 13, 2017, 01:36 PM
Aug 2017

I just feel shaken to my very core by this right wing/maga hatred. I should probably take some time off from the media

hamsterjill

(15,224 posts)
22. We all need some comfort.
Sun Aug 13, 2017, 01:37 PM
Aug 2017

A little peace. I try to back off from media exposure but it's hard during times of quickening events. I do think it is important if you can do it to do it.

apkhgp

(1,068 posts)
30. Big Hug Time
Sun Aug 13, 2017, 02:00 PM
Aug 2017

First you need a hug. Second everything you said should go out to the whole community. Being part of a group like this has made me so happy. With my one voice I am saying something positive.


hamsterjill

(15,224 posts)
32. Yep, you got it!!!
Sun Aug 13, 2017, 02:15 PM
Aug 2017

First, thank you. Second, you're absolutely right in that being part of DU is something awesome. Love will conquer hate, and it starts with all of us.

nolabear

(42,002 posts)
33. Hug back. And give a few literal ones today too.
Sun Aug 13, 2017, 02:29 PM
Aug 2017

We're all so stressed. Physical contact helps most of us when we're in need of assurance that there's still plenty of good.

hamsterjill

(15,224 posts)
34. That's right!
Sun Aug 13, 2017, 03:20 PM
Aug 2017

Great idea, nolabear. We could all use some reassurances, and consensual hugging is physically good for us.

hamsterjill

(15,224 posts)
36. Me, too.
Sun Aug 13, 2017, 03:57 PM
Aug 2017

I feel like I am reliving the 60's, only worse.

It's gotta be stopped before it does get worse.

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