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arely staircase

(12,482 posts)
Thu May 12, 2016, 10:49 AM May 2016

Generation X is sick of your bullshit (millenials)

But whatever! Generation X is self-sufficient. It was a latchkey child. Its parents were too busy fulfilling their own personal ambitions to notice any of its trophies-which were admittedly few and far between because they were only awarded for victories, not participation.

http://gizmodo.com/5851062/generation-x-is-sick-of-your-bullshit

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Generation X is sick of your bullshit (millenials) (Original Post) arely staircase May 2016 OP
Us baby boomers said the same thing. We weren't special and neither are you. tonyt53 May 2016 #1
The "Me" generation weren't special? AgerolanAmerican May 2016 #29
I disagree GummyBearz May 2016 #38
A great many people didn't have those good-paying union jobs. Houses raccoon May 2016 #64
There is always going to be some class below the middle class GummyBearz May 2016 #67
Damn. I knew GenXers were emotionally arrested, but sweet jumpin' Jehoshaphat. Buzz Clik May 2016 #2
Generational labels are all bullshit BeyondGeography May 2016 #3
And when today's Millennials get older, they will be doing the same thing to young people. FrodosPet May 2016 #6
+ 10000 TubbersUK May 2016 #8
Agreed. "Kids these days..." yardwork May 2016 #10
Kids Today! FSogol May 2016 #59
Yes, and to prove it a quote by Socrates FLPanhandle May 2016 #13
Exactly. Iggo May 2016 #14
The corollary as well. 'Young people talking shit about older people...' LanternWaste May 2016 #18
That's just self-defense BeyondGeography May 2016 #20
Yes. And people who use them are usually telling you exactly what their own flaws are. Marr May 2016 #48
Have to agree.....way boring SammyWinstonJack May 2016 #58
This piece is laden with irony. Can't tell if intentional or not, though Scootaloo May 2016 #4
Speak for yourself Rebkeh May 2016 #5
Same here. RichVRichV May 2016 #24
Brought you Reagan, how did they do that? braddy May 2016 #56
I agree with you, and I didn't read it 😛 nt stopwastingmymoney May 2016 #61
complaints about complaints GreatGazoo May 2016 #7
Wow. Iggo May 2016 #9
Co-signed... Blue_Tires May 2016 #11
I was just thinking about this as I was walking the 30 miles to work I do every day... Javaman May 2016 #12
This part I found funny Egnever May 2016 #44
Except for all the people who are connected leftyladyfrommo May 2016 #49
Thank you. nt raccoon May 2016 #65
Don't look at me... Hugin May 2016 #15
Are you sure you want to go there? cagefreesoylentgreen May 2016 #16
Message auto-removed Name removed May 2016 #17
Every adult generation always thinks the generation after it is full of slackers. Tommy_Carcetti May 2016 #19
We Gen X'ers are raising the milennials Happyhippychick May 2016 #21
The real forgotten generation RandySF May 2016 #22
That's my parent's generation too. Arugula Latte May 2016 #30
My brother, who was an early boomer, born in 1946, always referred to that generation trackfan May 2016 #39
That's very true RandySF May 2016 #41
That's my parents too. 1942 and 1943. EllieBC May 2016 #42
That generation was known as LoverOfLiberty May 2016 #45
Yep - I'm Gen-X - daughter of the silent generation parents, as well. myrna minx May 2016 #52
I'm 33 years old and almost all of my older cousins and friends usually Iliyah May 2016 #23
From 2011 - and to be fair JustAnotherGen May 2016 #25
For some reason it is making the rounds on FB again. arely staircase May 2016 #27
I think introduced Screaming Meemie to it a few months ago JustAnotherGen May 2016 #33
From a Xennial: stfu Xer. MillennialDem May 2016 #26
I'm an (old) Gen Xer, and I like the Millennial generation a lot better than my own. Arugula Latte May 2016 #28
My peers (born in 1973) JustAnotherGen May 2016 #34
Yeah, I was born in the mid-60s, so we started high school in the very early 80s. Arugula Latte May 2016 #36
No we don't. We like you a lot. Bonobo May 2016 #31
Lulz Jesus Malverde May 2016 #50
Not the way to win hearts and minds. All boomers didn't have it so easy as raccoon May 2016 #66
Is that why they have a tendency to be so uncaring towards others? That's a shame. highprincipleswork May 2016 #32
Naah - it's because we were all a bunch of Latch Key Kids! JustAnotherGen May 2016 #35
Well, I do empathize with that state of affairs, but suggest looking into attachment theory, highprincipleswork May 2016 #37
Um lighten up JustAnotherGen May 2016 #40
This Gen-Xer loves millennials! GreenEyedLefty May 2016 #43
As I get older, ladies get young RandySF May 2016 #46
This Millennial is sick of Gen-Xers shitting on us, accusing us of being "spoiled entitled brats". Odin2005 May 2016 #47
Damn worthless no-good young-uns racing dangerously down the streets struggle4progress May 2016 #51
Why do we keep seeing this crap ... surrealAmerican May 2016 #53
Please God, if I'm still here in 20 years will somebody remind me not to say stuff like this? DemocraticWing May 2016 #54
Will you swing a broom at people walking on "your sidewalk?" Oneironaut May 2016 #57
Every generation finds itself superior, Oneironaut May 2016 #55
I hope this is satire DonCoquixote May 2016 #60
This article is 5 years old. herding cats May 2016 #62
This Xer can't stomach them, let alone stand them Reter May 2016 #63
 

AgerolanAmerican

(1,000 posts)
29. The "Me" generation weren't special?
Thu May 12, 2016, 12:23 PM
May 2016

Little bit of historical revisionism there, no?

The Boomers were so full of themselves they thought nothing of racking up an unprecedented mountain of debt for which they would put future generations on the hook.

 

GummyBearz

(2,931 posts)
38. I disagree
Thu May 12, 2016, 01:03 PM
May 2016

Supporting a middle class life style including 2 kids and buying a house with one income from a union job makes the boomers special. My parents were boomers and did exactly that. And that hasn't happened for any generation since. You had it that good and you can't even recognize it? Amazing.

Imagine marrying someone and graduating today from a top 50 university with combined $50k student loan debt (this could easily be doubled). You have to pay a quarter of your take home salary to student loans, half of your take home salary goes to rent, the rest to buy food and gas. Tell me how you would support 2 kids and save up for a down payment on a house, because that is exactly what my parents did in the 60s.

Your generation was so special you don't even realize how special you were.

raccoon

(31,131 posts)
64. A great many people didn't have those good-paying union jobs. Houses
Fri May 13, 2016, 05:26 AM
May 2016

were a helluva lot smaller then as well.

buying a house with one income from a union job makes the boomers special. My parents were boomers and did exactly that
 

GummyBearz

(2,931 posts)
67. There is always going to be some class below the middle class
Fri May 13, 2016, 09:49 AM
May 2016

The point was, back then the middle class was far bigger and better off than it is today

BeyondGeography

(39,393 posts)
3. Generational labels are all bullshit
Thu May 12, 2016, 10:53 AM
May 2016

Nothing but older people talking shit about younger people. And it has been going on literally forever. Boring.

FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
6. And when today's Millennials get older, they will be doing the same thing to young people.
Thu May 12, 2016, 10:59 AM
May 2016

And so on and so on.

Getting older sucks beyond compare. But it beats the alternative.

FLPanhandle

(7,107 posts)
13. Yes, and to prove it a quote by Socrates
Thu May 12, 2016, 11:18 AM
May 2016

“The children now love luxury. They have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for elders and love chatter in place of exercise.”

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
18. The corollary as well. 'Young people talking shit about older people...'
Thu May 12, 2016, 11:26 AM
May 2016

The corollary as well. 'Young people talking shit about older people... and it too has been going on literally forever. Exciting enough to comment on, but the fashionably disinterested and cool trendiness of youth compels us to call it "boring" for the sake of, well... the cool trendiness of youth.

It is odd that you call generational labels 'bullshit' in your premise while using them as supporting evidence.

BeyondGeography

(39,393 posts)
20. That's just self-defense
Thu May 12, 2016, 11:37 AM
May 2016

Older people throw the first punch. The whole dynamic is a dead end distraction. Circumstances are what fundamentally change with time, not people.

 

Marr

(20,317 posts)
48. Yes. And people who use them are usually telling you exactly what their own flaws are.
Thu May 12, 2016, 05:53 PM
May 2016

I've noticed it's usually the laziest people who like to complain about lazy young people.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
4. This piece is laden with irony. Can't tell if intentional or not, though
Thu May 12, 2016, 10:53 AM
May 2016
Generation X should have posted this to LiveJournal.


*snrk*

RichVRichV

(885 posts)
24. Same here.
Thu May 12, 2016, 12:08 PM
May 2016

I'm proud of what the millennials have accomplished and how active they are. And I fully support them. As a Gen Xer I'm tired of having the baby boomers always decide things (we simply never had the numbers to counter them).

I don't begrudge the baby boomers but they are the generation that brought us Reagan, trickle down economics, and the DLC. I'm quite sure the millennials can do a better job once they start flexing their collective muscles. And I look forward to supporting them in the endeavor.

GreatGazoo

(3,937 posts)
7. complaints about complaints
Thu May 12, 2016, 10:59 AM
May 2016

The standard of living in America has been in decline since 1968. There is a challenge in that for ALL of us. We live in a country that seems to be believe that being low income HAS to be punished. The equation is now even more stick than carrot (and the carrot is GMO btw).

We need more doers and less complainers. More actors and less audience. Higher expectations and lower healthcare costs.

for ALL of us.

Javaman

(62,534 posts)
12. I was just thinking about this as I was walking the 30 miles to work I do every day...
Thu May 12, 2016, 11:14 AM
May 2016

uphill both ways in a blizzard while carrying the 150 pounds of paper work I have to process each and every hour.

then, if I get a lunch (you kids today are so lucky with the eating thing), I go and chew on twigs and gravel.

and let's not even discuss the complete waste of time of going to the bathroom. I'm holding it in until retirement.

-this has been a message brought to from the babyboom generation, now get off my lawn!

 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
44. This part I found funny
Thu May 12, 2016, 03:07 PM
May 2016
then, if I get a lunch (you kids today are so lucky with the eating thing), I go and chew on twigs and gravel.


When i was a kid the hours were 9-5 including an hour lunch paid. There was even a movie complaining about it.

Now days it's 9-5:30 with a half hour lunch unpaid....

Just saying that gravel might not have tasted good but at least you were paid to eat it.

leftyladyfrommo

(18,874 posts)
49. Except for all the people who are connected
Thu May 12, 2016, 06:27 PM
May 2016

24 hours a day. There are people who basically live their jobs.

I say that but I am a boomer and I always worked a ton of overtime but I did get paid for it.

Hugin

(33,222 posts)
15. Don't look at me...
Thu May 12, 2016, 11:19 AM
May 2016

I'm Generation Jones.

Younger siblings to the Boomers and airline seat-back kickees to the Bratty X-ers.

Our motto: We don't count, so we don't give a damn.

Oh, and BTW... I get a real charge out of the Millennials. Go get 'em kids! w00t!

16. Are you sure you want to go there?
Thu May 12, 2016, 11:19 AM
May 2016

The bulk of the anti-vax movement seems to be Gen X. Are you sure you really want to toot that horn? As a Gen Xer myself, I find that dead embarrassing.

Response to arely staircase (Original post)

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,226 posts)
19. Every adult generation always thinks the generation after it is full of slackers.
Thu May 12, 2016, 11:32 AM
May 2016

It's cyclical.

I'm not a millennial, but I can't help but roll my eyes at Gen Xers going on about how millennial are self-entitled brats. The boomers said the same thing about us, and their parent's generation said the same thing about them.

Happyhippychick

(8,379 posts)
21. We Gen X'ers are raising the milennials
Thu May 12, 2016, 11:44 AM
May 2016

We've got no one to blame but ourselves. But personally I love milennials.

RandySF

(59,614 posts)
22. The real forgotten generation
Thu May 12, 2016, 11:52 AM
May 2016

We're those like my parents who were born in the mid-1930's to early 1940's.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
30. That's my parent's generation too.
Thu May 12, 2016, 12:24 PM
May 2016

In some ways they might have had the best of the American Dream, if they were white. Yes they had the tail end of the Depression and WWII in their childhoods, but they were largely too young for Korea and then too old for Vietnam drafts. They came of age in a time when college was cheap and then one decent job, even a factory job, could get you a house, a new car every few years, vacations, etc. Medical and dental care didn't bankrupt you.

But now a lot of them (obviously not all) are bitter old rightwing racists who hate immigrants, don't want to pay any taxes, and think only they should be entitled to the good life. At least that's been my experience with my parents' peers.

trackfan

(3,650 posts)
39. My brother, who was an early boomer, born in 1946, always referred to that generation
Thu May 12, 2016, 01:49 PM
May 2016

just older than him as "those guys that were only interested in hot rods".

LoverOfLiberty

(1,438 posts)
45. That generation was known as
Thu May 12, 2016, 03:23 PM
May 2016

The Silent Generation

Since we are on a generation kick, I can't recommend this book enough. It changed my entire perspective on generational divides and really helped me to come to terms with the Boomer v Xer battle.

JustAnotherGen

(32,002 posts)
25. From 2011 - and to be fair
Thu May 12, 2016, 12:13 PM
May 2016

Back then when I first read it?

I see it targeted at Millenials and Boomers.

And yes - for me it applies. A LOT of it!

And if people can't see the humor in the Cynical Assholeness of this - well wake up and smell the cynics! We are all around you. At our family get togethers that pretty much inspired the show "Modern Family".

arely staircase

(12,482 posts)
27. For some reason it is making the rounds on FB again.
Thu May 12, 2016, 12:18 PM
May 2016

Personally I take it as humor but a lot of people seem humorless.

Not you.

JustAnotherGen

(32,002 posts)
33. I think introduced Screaming Meemie to it a few months ago
Thu May 12, 2016, 12:39 PM
May 2016

There was a thread where a lot of gen xer's kvetched and bemoaned the Inhumanity of Our Existence! Or rather lack therof to politicians, marketers, etc. etc.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
28. I'm an (old) Gen Xer, and I like the Millennial generation a lot better than my own.
Thu May 12, 2016, 12:20 PM
May 2016

I never fit in with my "Reagan Youth" peers.

This generation is more liberal, less racist, more accepting and open-minded and tolerant, more worldly, and much less susceptible to propaganda. They see through bullshit, like religion and political spin.

JustAnotherGen

(32,002 posts)
34. My peers (born in 1973)
Thu May 12, 2016, 12:40 PM
May 2016

Were not Reagan Youth - the more 'avante garde' were Ross Perot supporters.

I also saw in 2000 how quickly my liberal friends and I got on the Bradley train!

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
36. Yeah, I was born in the mid-60s, so we started high school in the very early 80s.
Thu May 12, 2016, 12:43 PM
May 2016

My family was middle class, but my high school was swimming in rich white kids who loved them some Izod shirts, Topsiders, and Ronnie Raygun. Ugh.

raccoon

(31,131 posts)
66. Not the way to win hearts and minds. All boomers didn't have it so easy as
Fri May 13, 2016, 05:33 AM
May 2016

you apparently think.

JustAnotherGen

(32,002 posts)
35. Naah - it's because we were all a bunch of Latch Key Kids!
Thu May 12, 2016, 12:42 PM
May 2016

And we had to EARN our trophies and ribbons!



But that's okay. Generation X is used to being ignored, stuffed between two much larger, much more vocal, demographics. But whatever! Generation X is self-sufficient. It was a latchkey child. Its parents were too busy fulfilling their own personal ambitions to notice any of its trophies-which were admittedly few and far between because they were only awarded for victories, not participation.
 

highprincipleswork

(3,111 posts)
37. Well, I do empathize with that state of affairs, but suggest looking into attachment theory,
Thu May 12, 2016, 12:47 PM
May 2016

and you might heal some of your own wounds, and actually enjoy that even more.

In the meantime, you're right. Feeling too entitled is not a good thing either. But too much "self-sufficiency" isn't all it is always cracked up to be. Working together and in unison is really the only way peoplekind has survived.

JustAnotherGen

(32,002 posts)
40. Um lighten up
Thu May 12, 2016, 01:56 PM
May 2016

Seriously - it was a joke.

I c/p'd from the article.

I guess that really does make me a Gen Xer -because I can laugh at anything. Some say our defining movies were Higher Learning and Reality Bites. Nu-unh. I say Clerks and Office Space - and Half Baked - because well -

It was easier to buy weed at 19 than it was a six pack of beer. They didn't ask for your fake id.

GreenEyedLefty

(2,073 posts)
43. This Gen-Xer loves millennials!
Thu May 12, 2016, 02:54 PM
May 2016

I am really excited about young adults nowadays.

Or maybe I'm biased because my oldest daughter is 25 and has never asked me for a penny... when she was without a job, she hustled her ass off and cobbled together 3 or 4 part time gigs in order to make ends meet before finding her current full-time position.

One thing I can say for sure, they are sick of our shit and aren't taking it lying down anymore.

struggle4progress

(118,379 posts)
51. Damn worthless no-good young-uns racing dangerously down the streets
Thu May 12, 2016, 06:47 PM
May 2016

in excess of 15 miles an hour, spooking the horses

Plus they crank up those victrolas at all hours of the night and scandalize the neighborhood with their naughty dance recordings

I actually saw a young woman -- I won't call her a lady -- sitting on a young man's shoulders the other day

surrealAmerican

(11,367 posts)
53. Why do we keep seeing this crap ...
Thu May 12, 2016, 06:52 PM
May 2016

... pitting one generation against another? We're all in this together. We are the wealthiest nation the world has ever know. We can take care of everyone. We don't need to attack young adults to benefit older adults, or vice-versa.

Oneironaut

(5,538 posts)
57. Will you swing a broom at people walking on "your sidewalk?"
Thu May 12, 2016, 07:17 PM
May 2016

(AKA my insanely Polish great-grandmother? )

Oneironaut

(5,538 posts)
55. Every generation finds itself superior,
Thu May 12, 2016, 07:15 PM
May 2016

forgetting that it acted in the same way. Your generation was full of whiny brats. Sorry to break it to everybody. You just have a mental bias and don't remember.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
60. I hope this is satire
Thu May 12, 2016, 10:37 PM
May 2016

especially as a Gen Xer. Look, to those that agree with the OP, maybe you are jealous because instead of taking smoke breaks, going whatever, and idolizing Kurt (whose music was not even the best of his generation), the Millennials are actually trying to DO SOMETHING about it. It may be silly, it may be futile, but when these kids are in their 40's, they can at least say they gave a damned and tried.

To quote the Boomer artist that Kurt quote in his suicide note "it's better to burn out than to fade away." Sadly, people like this op chose to fade away. If that is what being a Gen X is being reduced to, then fuck that. Of course, I know it is not, but that this is just another thing put in the spotlight so that the rich among the Boomers can point top it and say Se,, we were the last youthful generation to mean anything" w suit them just fine as the last of their Generation eats the last of the earth, gleeful that they no longer have to pretend to give a damned about anybody but themselves.

My every Boomer who chose to demonize and exploit Gen Xers or Millennials live long enough to enjoy a rest home staffed by the same kids whose future they spent.

herding cats

(19,569 posts)
62. This article is 5 years old.
Thu May 12, 2016, 11:45 PM
May 2016

Not that the angst has necessarily changed, but I think many GenX people have since given up on ever having a niche.

It's a generation over looked and never really marketed to. In modern society, it's as if they're an asterisk in history, which is sad. They honed much of our culture, imagine what rock would be without their contributions? Metal, punk, rap and grunge were honed from their advances.. Sure, film sort of sucked, but I think they resisted the herding there better some other generations to be honest. ESee their music for a hint at that (ignore hair bands, WTF were they thinking?!) They hated being told how it was going to be and lashed out in their own way. Problem was, no one was listening since they were sandwiched in between two much larger generations.

I'm a GenX I recently learned (I think?), but whatever. I'm not about labels, and I have friends both above and below my generation. We can all learn from each other. And, hey, even if I'm not as competitive as some of my slightly younger peers at work, I work amazingly well on my own, and need less personal validation for my input. <---- riffing on the stereotype for those who don't get my humor. 😉

Lather, rinse, repeat. This crap never changes... All we can do is not bother to validate the silliness of it. We don't have to "clan" up against each other. We're all in this together. That's reality.

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