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I wouldn't have done so if DU hadn't been down. There are some articulate and interesting people around there
Photographer
(1,142 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)that someone is either an ally or an enemy is what diminishes the human experience.
I can appreciate traits, opinions, creations and ideas from people I don't explicitly agree with, and I refuse to constrict my experience of the world because somebody I supposedly shouldn't like said something I supposedly should disagree with.
Get a grip.
trumad
(41,692 posts)Hey whatever the fuck floats your boat.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)here every day.
joshcryer
(62,276 posts)...to a woman who has an abortion, they'd be subsequently banned from here.
It's one thing to hold the opinion such as "I am for choice but I would never have an abortion," or "I'm against abortion and want there to be less abortions but I wouldn't want it banned."
It's an entirely different matter to compare people having an abortion to fucking domestic terrorists.
That's just one of the dozens of threads I could pick apart there. I almost got into the climate change threads but I've been down that road with conservatives before. Climate change is their modern creationism. Same argument style used. Nevermind the famed hockey stick is one of the most accurate datasets known to man and even the Koch funded climate minimalist Richard A. Muller couldn't find anything with Berkeley Earth, after many millions were spent trying to disprove the data.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)Because of the "company I keep"?
What I am saying is---if you enjoy hanging out in a shit hole---well---whatever floats your boat.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I'm not on the Hillary train, so any port in a storm.
arthritisR_US
(7,291 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)vote for the Democratic party nominee.
I don't think I need to be clearer than that.
But we don't have a nominee yet
arthritisR_US
(7,291 posts)out an election for ego.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)that you would respect me more than to think I do things out of "ego".
At least I hope you do.
Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)trumad
(41,692 posts)Find me a member at DU with a confed flag as their avatar.
Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)I can name another that thinks Gateway Pundit is a good go-to for the same.
I could point you to a very vocal TERF currently supporting clinton, as well as the guy who argued "Gay people have enough rights already."
How about the poster who was using the rape of women as an attempt to score points against Sanders?
Wanna hear about the conehead who argued that Muslims MUST be controlled through use of violence? Guess who he supports this primary?
Lots of former Zimmerman waterboys in there, too.
trumad
(41,692 posts)You know me---I'm not afraid to take these people on.
And please---stop trying to compare this place to that shit hole.
bluedigger
(17,087 posts)And they used some pretty creative language to do so!
Even though he says he wants to 'take us on', I don't think the ankle-biting, low-fat-latte (with soy please!) drinking, never-tasted-meat, has-the-'professor beard' punk has the guts to face us. We'll see as I know this challenge will come to his attention.
Note to Du'ers: You are MORE than welcome to post this over there. Pretty please?
http://www.discussionist.com/1015662396
On yeah, there's a poll. How should I vote?
Aerows
(39,961 posts)told to think, I guess?
Here's my message back. You can always come here and challenge me.
See---funny thing---they are all so full of gusto to challenge old trumad---but they want me to do all the leg work---like sign up to that shit hole.
If they are so damned concerned about me and what I say......---well come and get me.
They are a weird little group of people.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)when you told Sassyspop "any place, any time"? He got banned for engaging you here. Any of them coming here will. Rightfully so, given our TOS. The only way for your challenge to work is for you to go there. You won't get banned there unless you create a sock while in time out, so what are you afraid of?
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10027422543#post41
Aerows
(39,961 posts)of a check their mouth can't cash.
dumbcat
(2,120 posts)What a surprise.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)Those that talk big, seldom follow up.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)some gusto, bluster and good old fashioned what-for. Why not go ahead and do it?
trumad
(41,692 posts)So why don't you take me on here? You're right here.
This all started because I kicked some right wingers around at a dinner party and members of that shit hole site didn't like it.
One of the members who didn't like my thread came over---much the same way you are doing now---and challenged me to challenge the asshole wingers at DI.
I asked that member to challenge me here and he fucking chickened out.
So I challenge any of those chicken shit fuck-turds to come on over take me on.
I love the fact that there are multiple threads over at that shit hole whining and moaning about little old trumad.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)trumad
(41,692 posts)uppityperson
(115,679 posts)SidDithers
(44,228 posts)Sid
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I didn't issue the challenge, I just mentioned that there were some intelligent people over there, too.
I do not know Trumad, and if you follow the thread you will see that Trumad immediately leaped all over me for reasons unknown.
I'm not the one issuing threats and insults.
uppityperson
(115,679 posts)Don't try this with me. I can read too.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)You can read - so read. Read what the hell happened up thread.
uppityperson
(115,679 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)And this is the reason I am explaining it to you.
arthritisR_US
(7,291 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)And unapologetic about it. I try to be an honest broker in everything I do, including participation on a message board.
Please show where I have been dishonest, ugly or underhanded.
You will get points for the latter, because that is not my style, cher.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)They liked the story just fine, they just didn't believe it. That guy didn't chicken out, he got banned. Aerows isn't challenging your story, she's saying that if you want to take those people on, you'll have to go over there to do it.
You've been trash-talking DI since it began. You're looking pretty thin skinned with this little bit of return fire.
Jesus Malverde
(10,274 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)dumbcat
(2,120 posts)Uh, no. He came over here and challenged you and was immediately PPRed, just as you knew he would be.
Man up, dude.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)nil desperandum
(654 posts)remember this simple message:
trumad
(41,692 posts)Is that all you got?
trumad
(41,692 posts)He didn't get whacked because he was a member of DI...hell you're here.
He got whacked for fucking trolling.
You challenge me. You take me on with the thread that started it all. Come on---represent your clan at DI.
Here's the thread.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10027422543
Don't be afraid---if you keep it cordial you won't get whacked.
Tell me---what is wrong with knocking a few Right Wingers at a dinner party?
Aerows
(39,961 posts)In fact, I flourish in them.
Bring it.
trumad
(41,692 posts)Any problem with that?
Because your fellow members at DI got all bothered by it.
dumbcat
(2,120 posts)How can you guarantee that? Are you in charge of the whacking around here?
This ain't my first rodeo.
trumad
(41,692 posts)New screen name here at DU ---wonder what your last one was.
What---you can't debate here without exposing yourself?
See---that's chickenshit.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)snooper2
(30,151 posts)AWESOME!
Response to snooper2 (Reply #113)
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Heddi
(18,312 posts)That's your idea of an insult? Suggesting someone has a vagina?
You're a hateful misogynist.
Signed,
someone with a vagina who can insult people without making gender slurrs
trumad
(41,692 posts)nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)right to restrict women's intimate life decisions, including abortion and birth control. See OP.
Sheepshank
(12,504 posts)you like the folks at Discussionist. You like them so much in fact that you are protecting them, lauding them, and sticking up for them, even though many are Republicans, over a DU'er?
is that right?
that shit hole seems to have earned a coddler.
trumad
(41,692 posts)Here was the thread that they started to come after old trumad because they did not like me writing about the kick ass.
http://www.discussionist.com/1015649057
Yes---there are posters here in this thread who are defending these shit bags.
Sheepshank
(12,504 posts)pintobean
(18,101 posts)Ironic.
Ya know, the people who can handle DI, can certainly handle the silly little slaps they get here.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)Thanks for your perspective, Scoot.
kcr
(15,320 posts)I don't need to waste time hanging around right wingers. Nothing binary about that because it's not either or. There are plenty of decent places on the internet to go.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)if it isn't "us" against "them"?
I'm not so shaky on my ideals that I can't have a conversation with people that don't have precisely the opinion that I do.
kcr
(15,320 posts)It's not some nebulous concept that can be applied to any old thing. And you can have conversations with bigots. Whatever floats your boat. It just isn't accurate to compare everyone else to them, and call things that aren't bigotry, bigotry.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)It indeed is a word that means something.
All of you are starting to sound the same "whatever floats your boat".
kcr
(15,320 posts)of the opinion of us from other Discussionists and Friends of Discussionists. Maybe you should tell them that
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)But I've seen some pretty damn ugly stuff on DI, a lot of it objectively vile and hateful. Though for whatever reason, Muslims and black folks seem to get the worst of it, while gay people tend to be relatively spared.
Facility Inspector
(615 posts)epitomize binary thinking.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)What do you think they were thinking?
GGJohn
(9,951 posts)I spent the weekend there and found that while I certainly didn't agree with the cons there, I did enjoy the back and forth, and I had to back up my claims with links and facts.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I can be civil wherever I go, and civil afterwards.
arthritisR_US
(7,291 posts)Drudge and FOx as facts, well ...did you not find this frustrating along with their histrionics?
GGJohn
(9,951 posts)most of them were civil and were willing to argue their point with facts and links.
That said, I still don't agree with their point of view.
arthritisR_US
(7,291 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)and part of a "crowd" to sacrifice my individuality. Just isn't in my DNA.
I evaluate ideas on the terms I set forth for myself, and my morality.
Cliquish behavior has never appealed to me, and likely never will.
GGJohn
(9,951 posts)mine differs from yours.
arthritisR_US
(7,291 posts)GGJohn
(9,951 posts)who don't link to what they claim, I tend to ignore them, but there are cons over there also who are civil, intelligent and do provide links to what they claim, even if I do disagree with them.
I like being challenged in my beliefs, but they won't change my core beliefs.
Iggo
(47,565 posts)Many many.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)Iggo
(47,565 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)that where ever you go, there you are.
SecularMotion
(7,981 posts)They boast about being more "open" than DU while alerting on any liberal opinions.
Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)The remainder were that "mony" person having their massive meltdown
MrMickeysMom
(20,453 posts)But the jury tended to be more thick skinned... like I wish a lot of people here would decide to be.
This, by no means excuses the confederate flag avatars, which I refer to as a banana hammock.
Lizzie Poppet
(10,164 posts)Broadly speaking, I find I'm more likely to have a good, in-depth, substantive conversation on certain topics (socio-political stuff...not "specialty" topics like sports or suchlike) over there than I am here...and that's sad. The passive-aggressive nastiness here* frustrates me no end, and because I have minority (for a leftist) positions on a few things, perhaps I see more of the hateful posting here than DU'ers who aren't "off the reservation" on a couple topics.
Don't get me wrong: I like it here, and I'd hate for there to be no progressive-oriented community like this. Some of the more extreme RW blowhards over there do manage to post enough toxic crap to annoy me on frequent occasion. But I'm actually more upset by the nastiness I see here; it's somehow worse to see us eating our own than it is to see partisan bickering (which is just the nature of politics).
* And hey, I'm from Portland. It's not like I don't encounter passive-aggressive types all the time...
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I am beginning to like DI, too. Robust conversation has always been something I enjoy.
Lizzie Poppet
(10,164 posts)That note you sent when I was considering leaving because of my feeling I wasn't the "right" sort of progressive had a big impact!
So now people know who to blame...
Aerows
(39,961 posts)You are a good person, and I am glad to have you around to talk to
SmittynMo
(3,544 posts)Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)7962
(11,841 posts)muriel_volestrangler
(101,361 posts)Occasionally, one of them manages to write something worth reading, but most of the time, they post to either annoy liberals, say something incredibly stupid but popular with similar stupid right wingers, or just express a hateful bigotry. Occasionally, they appear to be psychopaths with a desire for murder.
I get a far better quality of conversation at an international political forum where there are many right wingers, but they are people who mostly think, try and make rational arguments, and don't mainly post just to make party political points for Republicans.
I tried for over a year, but gave up. How long have you tried talking to them?
cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)Ooooh! Yuck! Bad people! Bad people there!
(I did that for the cred)
sibelian
(7,804 posts)I've had very worthwhile exchanges with people on that site, far more in depth and considered than here.
Really?
MrMickeysMom
(20,453 posts)It's interesting to talk to people who are on the other side. Don't you do this in every day life? Or, are you rather insulated and fly with birds of a feather, in stead?
trumad
(41,692 posts)I don't talk to Misogynists, racists, Homophobes and assholes who are anti-science. Why would I---they're asssholes.
Second you said this: "more in depth and considered than here"
So the Misogynists, racists, Homophobes and assholes who are anti-science are "more in depth and considered than here"?
Hey whatever floats your boat.
MrMickeysMom
(20,453 posts)You, using your best thin-skinned hyperbolic reaction could not separate the wheat from the chaff of that missive.
Some of these assholes were just that. Some of them were not as flagrant in discussing the 2nd amendment argument and understanding of more recent cases in front of the Supreme Court.
AND, BY THE WAY... you may not wish to talk to awful people, but you have no compunction in responding in a very nasty way yourself... which is EXACTLY what floats YOUR boat.
Don't bother responding. I'd rather talk to someone who isn't hateful tonight.
Bye!
7962
(11,841 posts)Seems I've heard that somewhere before.... ????
trumad
(41,692 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)I don't take kindly to those.
I think you should back away from your computer before you do something stupid.
trumad
(41,692 posts)No I was not so perhaps you need to stay away from the computer.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)not that you would be successful at that as you have been at any other venture.
I responded to a post by MrMickeysMom--not you.
So who is harrassing who?
Sheepshank
(12,504 posts)how blatantly obvious does it need to get at who was harassing, and who was being harrassed
GGJohn
(9,951 posts)something you wouldn't know about because you refuse to engage them over there, instead you insist that they engage you here, where you damn well know that they would be almost instantly banned.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)because I dared to post something positive about another site that is affiliated with DU.
That has me confused.
GGJohn
(9,951 posts)and have to fight back the only way they know how, by belittling their challenger.
kcr
(15,320 posts)But they're depriving themselves of that wonderful experience just to look good. That sounds highly plausible
cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)kcr
(15,320 posts)That's got to be a might fine looking lapel pin as well.
SmittynMo
(3,544 posts)were not good at all. I saw many threads about DU, trashing all of us, totally unprovoked. I met a few decent people there, but for the most part it was not a good experience. I had 1 encounter with a far right person. It did not end well.
I guess the bottom line was they like less rules, blocks, etc. They want total freedom to say whatever the hell they want, without penalty. With that comes ignorance, stupidity, and hatred. For some, I guess that's OK. Not me. It was definitely not my cup of tea.
katsy
(4,246 posts)So why would I go there to engage with bigots, homophobes and racists?
My family and friends represent the entire spectrum of ideas and opinions. Not a one of my huge clan agrees with another. But when we engage it's a good exchange that comes from a mutual respect. Eye to eye promotes a sense of personal responsibility for your language and attitude. Needless to say, even on opposite spectrums politically, everyone takes away a better understanding of the other. No need to spar. Or insult. Always a net positive even when no minds are changed.
Not so on the the Internet. Not so on DI. Just the way they called out Trumad with such hateful language turns me off.
Not everyone needs to war with total strangers because of political differences. I'm glad DI is there and it serves a purpose. Just not for me.
steve2470
(37,457 posts)I could do without the gratuitous bashing of liberals/progressives in general and the ad hominems in general.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)But not everybody is nasty there. Just like we have some really nasty people here. The cavers, yes they post there, can be a handfu though.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I'm so glad you came back to DU. Nice to know some folks around here that have open minds.
sibelian
(7,804 posts)I've also had some DI PMs from folk saying they think of changing their views as a result of engaging with other people on that site, I think that's pretty amazing, really.
There were a small bunch of snotmongers from DU swanning in like Norma Desmond and declaring the entire board to be beneath them, naturally, but many DUers were quite happy to take on DI's culture without any difficulty, it'd be great to see them back. People willing to actually make a case there are always listened to pretty politely, in my experience.
PMs ...why PMs...why can't they say it in public?
So what's your screen name there?
pintobean
(18,101 posts)You're too sacred to go there.
7962
(11,841 posts)Holy crap thats a funny one. Just the visual I get..........
sibelian
(7,804 posts)Idiots dribbling in like lost children declaring conservative posters I've had genuinely constructive conversations with about WHY we believe what believe and flurrying around like so many peacocks. God, it was embarassing. Not a SHRED of self-awareness.
"YOU THERE! YOU DISGUSTING, NASTY CONSERVATIVE TYPE! HOW DARE YOU THINK SUCH FOUL VILE THINGS! ICK! EW. WHY, WHY ARE YOU SO LOW, YOU BASE CREATURE?"
"Hmmm. Uuuuuh, screw YOU?"
"OH! OH! OH! OH! OH! THIS PLACE! THIS TERRIBLE PLACE!"
IDIOTS.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)the Climate Action Plan that was passed yesterday was endorsed by a wide coalition of people, that spanned the left and the right and the business community.
That is how the real world works.
I think I am going to be the only media that is actually listing them. Oh and that includes save our bolts... WHAT WHHHHAAATTTTT? Yup, even our lovely we want our sport team damn it endorsed the plan
Gothmog
(145,554 posts)nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)did not do it just becuase of the future, and kids (plenty of speechifying in that respect), but some is looking to the governors office... err, my mayor, he just got some serious environmental street cred.
City Lights
(25,171 posts)will you visit regularly, or just when DU is down?
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I've even gotten a few friends from DU to go, too.
Feel free to PM me over there. It's not hard to figure out who I am
Inkfreak
(1,695 posts)I kinda like hashing shit out with the other side. Some are cool or funny. A few are assholes. I don't get the need to declare someone's distaste for the site. Big fucking deal..it's a site where some have differing opinions. There are quite a few left leaning posters there that don't seem to catch the attentions of those with "the vapors" at having visited the site and saw a RW'ers post.
This site & that site will always be linked.
Township75
(3,535 posts)values.
I would love to see the tax returns and carbon footprints of the posters there that label all right wingers as greedy, climate change deniers, etc. It's not like if I bash someone for denying climate change, then avoid public transportations/car pooling, and don't think twice about the fossils fuels that i use to heat my home that my carbon foot print diminishes. Same with trying to avoid taxes then claiming the other side is anti education/health care/poor....anyone trying to minimize their taxes is taking money from the schools, hospitals, and social services desperately needed by poor people...and no amount of attacking right wingers will change that.
840high
(17,196 posts)I'm going to split what little time I have between here and there.
Response to GGJohn (Reply #55)
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deutsey
(20,166 posts)because it's been a welcome refuge from the conservative area where I live (especially during the insane years 2001-2008).
I have nothing against DI, but I can engage any number of civil and uncivil conservatives in my real life any time I want. Since 2001, DU has been a place where I have found kindred spirits, which was very important during Bush's regime.
The interesting thing is I really didn't miss DU while it was offline. Ten years ago, I probably would've been going through withdrawals. But I hardly noticed it over the weekend.
So it goes.
seaglass
(8,173 posts)you do.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)as I'm sure you are aware.
seaglass
(8,173 posts)a hide, isn't it?
pintobean
(18,101 posts)seaglass
(8,173 posts)Check your 'history'.
seaglass
(8,173 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)and use the same avatar.
seaglass
(8,173 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)boston bean
(36,223 posts)aikoaiko
(34,183 posts)are generally the great big *&$^&*#s on DU.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)trumad
(41,692 posts)I'm a great big *&$^&*#s?
Aerows
(39,961 posts)You just appear to be ... unstable.
trumad
(41,692 posts)aikoaiko
(34,183 posts)... If that makes you feel better about it.
lumberjack_jeff
(33,224 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)joshcryer
(62,276 posts)Which has convinced me these people aren't for real. It's gotta be narcissism. It makes no sense to trash a made up "third way" here but laud bigots over there.
ProfessorGAC
(65,168 posts)Been there, done that. I did not enjoy the experiences. I did found the conversations neither engaging nor informative.
The "other side" still heavily reliant on disproven economic concepts, or factual disinformation about a myriad of topics appeals to me not at all.
demmiblue
(36,885 posts)I will stick with non-homophobes, non-racists and non-misogynists (though we do have some of those here, just not in the numbers that exist there).
There are a couple of caves you can visit if you want a similar experience.
Mona
(135 posts)olddots
(10,237 posts).
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)Even though I know you're female.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I've never been one that accepts somebody else's opinion. I want to see for myself, challenge it, and dissect it.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)Diversity abounds over there. Sometimes to a fault.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)to know there are places that are cold
Sheepshank
(12,504 posts)I'm curious what Americans think would happen if all the gun grabbers in this country suddenly developed a powerful urge to drink Drano and relieve the country of their burden?
I can't really think of any negatives in the long run. Lots of vacant political seats, fewer folks on the handout dole, fewer worthless scum polluting politics and entertainment media.
I just don't see the drawback. Sure a few doctors here and there would be dead but there would be plenty left over to pick up the slack.
Anyone see any drawbacks because I don't.
http://www.discussionist.com/102217207
it's nothing like this damn echo chamber, am I right?
It's rather refreshing to see people actually having a point of view that isn't driven by the echo chamber.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)He is almost always in time-out.
But, hey, this is cool...
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10027445741#post24
Sheepshank
(12,504 posts)your arguement is weak sauce....and a very poor excuse for accepting that kind of sentiment.
And you know as well as I do that because one post was hidden at Discussionist, it doesn't mean that the site isn't rampant with those types of sentiments....that post just barely got hidden at 4-3. so there is that.
As for the OP's comment that Du is an echo chamber....what the fuck do they think this was created for in the first place? It's designed to be a place for Dem support, Dem opinions. Of course it's a supposed to be a place for like minded persons to exchange ideas. If it wasn't designed to be so, it would be another Discussionist shit hole. But to insult everyone here for signing up for a site where they actually knew the TOS was for Dems, is extremly nasty, low, name calling, insulting etc etc etc.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)It still stands.
Your example on DI was hidden eight minutes after it was posted.
The OP isn't trash talking DU, she's saying that sometimes she likes more variety of opinion and a more robust conversation. The OP and I belong to both sites. Our admin created that site and invited all of us to join. We don't let the cons run over us, and we don't run from their scare tactics.
Really, I find Discussionist more civil than GDP.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)Another hide at DI. We would see a lot more shit like this hidden, if so many DUers didn't run away. We could use some help.
ETA - This person also went into time-out.
Mail Message
On Tue Dec 15, 2015, 03:13 PM an alert was sent on the following post:
Islam is a murdering death cult
http://www.discussionist.com/?com=view_post&forum=1015&pid=663549
REASON FOR ALERT
This post is uncivil, off-topic, offensive, or otherwise inappropriate.
ALERTER'S COMMENTS
This is a vicious attack against an entire religion
The same type of rhetoric is inciting Americans to attack Muslims across this nation every day
JURY RESULTS
You served on a randomly-selected Jury of Discussionist members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Tue Dec 15, 2015, 03:24 PM, and the Jury voted 5-2 to HIDE IT.
Juror #1 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: Sure. I tire of this.
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: If attacking Christianity a few time a week on DI is acceptable, Islam shouldn't get a pass.
Juror #3 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #4 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: I'm stunned! Gunslinger posts more vile shit!
Juror #5 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: The poster continually is over the top with his hatred.
Juror #6 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: This is pure bigotry. I have Muslim friends and neighbors and they are kind, generous, and wonderful.
Juror #7 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Thank you very much for participating in our Jury system, and we hope you will be able to participate again in the future.
Gothmog
(145,554 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)Prism
(5,815 posts)It sharpens the mind and tightens up arguments.
DU, for all its graces, is a sloppy place. Sloppy thinking, sloppy arguments, preaching to the choir. I always wonder about people who claim they're "activisting" and things. Because most of the time, I wouldn't want them anywhere near my neighbors. I cannot count the number of times I've seen, "I'm canvassing!" Oh Jesus. Not you. Not in my neighborhood.
I read conservative sites and blogs all the time. Things are either true or not. I like being challenged.
But DU is a place where even liberal sources are challenged. "You linked an author who once said something bad about Captain America?!!!!!" It's like, holy hell, how tight does your bubble need to be for you to function.
steve2470
(37,457 posts)You live in Berkeley, which is arguably one of the most progressive places in the country. You're a progressive. This place gets a tad extreme at times. Good points about reading and arguing with conservatives.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)And I suspect a really nice guy in person
Prism
(5,815 posts)Is trader joe's wine involved? Then I'm super friendly!
I keed.
I adore you, Aerows. Aren't you on my facebook now?!
Prism
(5,815 posts)Berkeley definitely can be a wacky place. And it can be an echo chamber, so I like to be devil's advocate. But, I'm lucky. I really, really like my congressman (I'd quibble over Feinstein). And while I'm not thrilled about gentrification and the homeless situation, it's easier to be a liberal here than most places.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I've always enjoyed reading your posts.
We also have in common that we like being challenged
lumberjack_jeff
(33,224 posts)nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)as to the activism here... I will be brutal. I wonder how many of these folks are actually, well, getting up from their chairs and doing it.
arthritisR_US
(7,291 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)I am not about to sacrifice it over a blow up.
arthritisR_US
(7,291 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)bathed in flames.
I merely mentioned that they had some civil folks over there.
I stand by that assessment.
Now after this thread, what assessment would you give yourselves?
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)I certainly don't go in for the line about how "only horrible peeepul post over there so you are a horrible peeepul if you post over there warrrrrgggghhhlllll" .... that's just lame.
There is, undeniably, some nasty crap floated there, but, that doesn't mean everyone there is awful nor do I think there are not worthwhile conversations that can and do take place there.
But I don't have time to argue with hard-core right wingers about things we're never gonna see eye to eye on. It's futile for everyone involved.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)And I think you are a great poster. Just consider that it is always in the last place you look
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)It's pretty easy to figure out who I am over there.
Gothmog
(145,554 posts)The real world is full of people who disagree with you. I have a high tolerance for stupidity and bigotry and so I can stand dealing with the conservative posters on DI
GGJohn
(9,951 posts)I found most of them, to my surprise, very civil and personable, not what I dreamed that DI would be.
Paladin
(28,272 posts)Considering their "Culture" section is overwhelmingly devoted to pro-gun discussions.
GGJohn
(9,951 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)I'm a human being that has varied ideas, ideals and I have a conscience.
Paladin
(28,272 posts)Aerows
(39,961 posts)It was meant as a general statement.
phleshdef
(11,936 posts)My last one was because someone said something about Obama looking weak to other foreign leaders and I said they could all suck my dick. LOL. I really didn't think that was hide worthy since it wasn't directed at any other poster and adult language is not against the rules, but its all good. Sometimes I engage people over there in serious discussion and sometimes I just don't give a shit. Depends on my mood that day.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)"I got banned because I told everybody "They can suck my dick"", your words, and wonder why the place might be a shade ... partial to refraining from welcoming you with open arms.
Please take some time to wonder why.
phleshdef
(11,936 posts)I don't care what they think, I don't care if I offend them, I can count the posters over there I respect with one hand and that's without using my thumb. A lot of them are a bunch of oversensitive asses that whine and cry about political correctness all day but yet can't handle it when someone use as a curse word or says something off color for the sake of humor. So no I'm not going to take any time and wonder about anything. I don't give a fuck.
lumberjack_jeff
(33,224 posts)phleshdef
(11,936 posts)If you can't handle someone saying that so and so can suck a dick then I don't know how you survive in the modern world at all. Its the same thing as "kiss my ass", just a little more crude and I like crude.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)Wtf does that say?
Aerows
(39,961 posts)11 Bravo
(23,926 posts)DUers has something to do with that.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I am inviting folks to look around here and see what is going on.
We are hemorrhaging good DUers.
I think if we want this community to survive with a shred of credibility and sanity it is time to ask Why?
When it gets to the point that a bully squad follows you to another forum, because you state your opinions plainly, and refuse to be beaten down, what does that say about those that chase you?
DrDan
(20,411 posts)not to go there themselves and engage in a discussion. But to criticize someone else who does and finds it personally rewarding, is over-the-top.
Then there are those who go into full bully-mode in their criticism. I guess their internet-bravado helps ease their insecurities. They sure take a lot of (false) pride in "putting down the enemy."
Anyway, I think your attitude is healthy. I have RW friends. We can be civil even though we disagree. We can give each other respect even though we vote for different candidates. I can't imagine finding glee in putting them down at a dinner party and then and bragging about it to digital "friends".
I guess it might be different if we (DU) were free from the nastiness found there. But we know that is not the case.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)It is puzzling to me.
dhill926
(16,355 posts)steve2470
(37,457 posts)I have a neighbor who despises President Obama, yet he is one of the nicest people I know. So, we don't talk politics.
There's nothing wrong with going to Discussionist to have a civil debate. We can't do it here. Some choose not to, which is totally fine. From what I've read, some opinions at DI have been changed as a result of us going over there.
Merry Christmas, Aerows, to you and your family.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)to you and yours, also!