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DI - I kind of like those folks - I'm glad I got the opportunity to engage with them (Original Post) Aerows Dec 2015 OP
I was once locked in a room full of chimps..... Photographer Dec 2015 #1
You know, this sort of binary thinking Aerows Dec 2015 #2
Misogyny, Racism, Homophobia, Anti-Science---- trumad Dec 2015 #4
All of those charges are leveled at DUers pintobean Dec 2015 #5
Except if a DUer compared the PP killer... joshcryer Dec 2015 #66
Are you leveling those charges at me, Trumad Aerows Dec 2015 #8
Nope--- trumad Dec 2015 #13
Fair enough Aerows Dec 2015 #17
So, if Bernie doesn't win the nomination, what will you do? arthritisR_US Dec 2015 #148
Exactly what I have always said I would do Aerows Dec 2015 #149
I hope you stay true to your core and not sit arthritisR_US Dec 2015 #151
I should think Aerows Dec 2015 #153
Might want to have a glance around your own neighborhood, too Scootaloo Dec 2015 #27
Not even close. trumad Dec 2015 #30
I can find you at least one that thinks Stormfront is an acceptable source to attack a Jewish dem. Scootaloo Dec 2015 #34
Point away---PM me... trumad Dec 2015 #35
You've been called out. bluedigger Dec 2015 #53
However you enjoy being Aerows Dec 2015 #59
LOL trumad Dec 2015 #69
So, you misspoke pintobean Dec 2015 #71
Some people get afraid Aerows Dec 2015 #76
Crickets dumbcat Dec 2015 #84
No surprise to me. Aerows Dec 2015 #86
Hey, you have a grand opportunity to hand over Aerows Dec 2015 #87
Hey---you're a proud member of that shit hole... trumad Dec 2015 #88
Uh, do you ever listen to yourself? n/t Aerows Dec 2015 #90
Is that it? Is that all you got? trumad Dec 2015 #96
Is THIS what all that was about? nt uppityperson Dec 2015 #107
Looks like it...nt SidDithers Dec 2015 #127
I have no idea Aerows Dec 2015 #138
You're not the one "issuing threats and insults"? uppityperson Dec 2015 #143
I'm not trying anything. Aerows Dec 2015 #144
I am also on mirt with you. Nt uppityperson Dec 2015 #157
I know you are. Aerows Dec 2015 #158
Do you ever listen to yourself? nt arthritisR_US Dec 2015 #150
I'm forthright. Aerows Dec 2015 #159
They didn't buy it pintobean Dec 2015 #93
Nailed it Jesus Malverde Dec 2015 #160
Yep, nailed it Aerows Dec 2015 #166
"I asked that member to challenge me here and he fucking chickened out." dumbcat Dec 2015 #94
We see who the chickens are. n/t Aerows Dec 2015 #95
hehehe nil desperandum Dec 2015 #102
Yawn trumad Dec 2015 #109
Lookie here.... trumad Dec 2015 #98
I am excellent at accepting challenges Aerows Dec 2015 #103
OK---I whacked a couple of Wingers at a Dinner party.... trumad Dec 2015 #105
Yeah, right dumbcat Dec 2015 #120
I know it's not your first rodeo--- trumad Dec 2015 #122
Have you got the bulls? n/t Aerows Dec 2015 #168
You beat ass at a dinner party, now got the gutso to take on the intertubes! snooper2 Dec 2015 #113
Post removed Post removed Dec 2015 #123
Wait...so having a vagina means..what? Heddi Dec 2015 #125
Have a read and then come back to me. trumad Dec 2015 #126
He was referring to reproductive rights. Those men *do not* possess vaginas, therefore they have no nomorenomore08 Dec 2015 #135
So let me get this straight Sheepshank Dec 2015 #111
It all started because I posted a thread about me kicking right wing ass at a dinner party. trumad Dec 2015 #124
No surprises at the DU'ers that are doing this n/t Sheepshank Dec 2015 #130
He can't answer you pintobean Dec 2015 #132
I remember the top four very well. Aerows Dec 2015 #63
And bigotry does nothing to diminish the human experience? kcr Dec 2015 #39
What exactly do you think bigotry is Aerows Dec 2015 #56
Bigotry is a word that actually means something kcr Dec 2015 #57
I didn't realise that you were the Merriam Webster's dictionary on what bigotry is. Aerows Dec 2015 #60
We're all "whatever floats your boat?" Wow, that isn't the impression I'm getting kcr Dec 2015 #61
I agree with both of you, up to a point. "Bigotry" is, of course, often a subjective concept. nomorenomore08 Dec 2015 #136
The loud mouthed knuckledraggers on DI Facility Inspector Dec 2015 #74
Did it make you wonder why? pintobean Dec 2015 #3
Uncalled for. GGJohn Dec 2015 #54
Thank you. Aerows Dec 2015 #62
But didn't you find their lack of facts, unless you consider links to Brietbart, arthritisR_US Dec 2015 #65
I found a few of the cons were rude as hell, but for the most part, GGJohn Dec 2015 #72
Their links were pathetic at best and a joke at worst. nt arthritisR_US Dec 2015 #137
I cannot be monolithic Aerows Dec 2015 #170
Well, we all have our own opinion, GGJohn Dec 2015 #171
No doubt and I'm sure you'll report back. nt arthritisR_US Dec 2015 #173
Oh, don't get me wrong, there are a few cons over there who are nasty pieces of work GGJohn Dec 2015 #175
Many many pieces of stinky shit over there. Iggo Dec 2015 #6
No more than any other place. n/t Aerows Dec 2015 #9
More than here. (n/t) Iggo Dec 2015 #10
It has been my experience Aerows Dec 2015 #14
Exactly. Iggo Dec 2015 #15
A Confederacy of Dunces SecularMotion Dec 2015 #7
I served on about eight juries this weekend, mostly vs. conservative posts Scootaloo Dec 2015 #28
Actually, there were alerts... MrMickeysMom Dec 2015 #36
I've been about 50/50 between the two sites ever since DI opened. Lizzie Poppet Dec 2015 #11
I love DU Aerows Dec 2015 #12
You're a big reason I'm still here! Lizzie Poppet Dec 2015 #16
I do my best. Aerows Dec 2015 #18
Please define robust SmittynMo Dec 2015 #22
Discussion that involves more than the rofl smiley and yelling "THE POLLS! THE POOOOOLLS!" Scootaloo Dec 2015 #29
Or "Because bible" or some other odd nonsense 7962 Dec 2015 #42
I find the regular conservatives there are appalling people muriel_volestrangler Dec 2015 #19
The funny thing is how some believe dissing anything DI is a way to gain cred. cherokeeprogressive Dec 2015 #20
True. sibelian Dec 2015 #26
Wow! trumad Dec 2015 #31
Yeah, wow, truman... MrMickeysMom Dec 2015 #37
First off--- trumad Dec 2015 #38
See? Now, THAT'S a good example of the difference... MrMickeysMom Dec 2015 #40
Now that is an excellent response. And without being rude!! 7962 Dec 2015 #43
:-) MrMickeysMom Dec 2015 #51
Run and hide trumad Dec 2015 #48
That seems to be a threat Aerows Dec 2015 #64
Was I talking to you? trumad Dec 2015 #68
You are getting to the point where you are harassing me Aerows Dec 2015 #104
Really trumad Dec 2015 #108
**ZING** Sheepshank Dec 2015 #114
Yeah, really, GGJohn Dec 2015 #73
What is odd is that I am getting harassed Aerows Dec 2015 #161
Some people just can't handle having their beliefs challenged GGJohn Dec 2015 #172
Right. They would actually secretly love to hang around right wingers kcr Dec 2015 #41
Probably not. Chiming in with the three hundredth ICK though looks awesome on their lapel. cherokeeprogressive Dec 2015 #50
You're right. Better to chime in supporting bigots. kcr Dec 2015 #58
My first thoughts SmittynMo Dec 2015 #21
That was my experience also katsy Dec 2015 #112
Some of them seemed pleasant enough steve2470 Dec 2015 #23
I stuck to the streets nadinbrzezinski Dec 2015 #24
Amen, my friend. Aerows Dec 2015 #156
I've always liked it. I've had very interesting exchanges there. sibelian Dec 2015 #25
Snarf trumad Dec 2015 #32
Why would you need user names? pintobean Dec 2015 #47
"snotmongers from DU swanning in like Norma Desmond". STILL laughing at that one!!!! 7962 Dec 2015 #45
Oh, it was infuriating! sibelian Dec 2015 #49
In the meantime, back in the real world, which DU is not nadinbrzezinski Dec 2015 #180
DU is clearly not the real world Gothmog Dec 2015 #192
Nope, DU is not...of course I know that our local pols nadinbrzezinski Dec 2015 #193
Now that you've had a pleasant experience, City Lights Dec 2015 #33
I think I will be visiting quite regularly. Aerows Dec 2015 #139
I read a lot here and post a lot there. Inkfreak Dec 2015 #44
People here demonize the other side to make up for their own lack of commitment to their supposed Township75 Dec 2015 #46
I enjoyed my brief stay there. 840high Dec 2015 #52
As did I. GGJohn Dec 2015 #55
Post removed Post removed Dec 2015 #119
I've been a member at DU for so long deutsey Dec 2015 #67
It's a great place for gossiping and DUer bashing if you like that sort of thing. Oops, I guess seaglass Dec 2015 #70
So are some of DU's groups pintobean Dec 2015 #75
Yes but it is different when someone tries to disguise who they are and doesn't have the risk of seaglass Dec 2015 #78
Like trashing DI and its members from DU? pintobean Dec 2015 #80
Current DUers who are DI members? Haven't seen that. n/t seaglass Dec 2015 #82
Lol. pintobean Dec 2015 #83
Sorry I don't keep track of history as well as you do and frankly don't have the time for it. n/t seaglass Dec 2015 #85
Uh, I'm AerowsX over there Aerows Dec 2015 #140
I wasn't talking about you Aerows. n/t seaglass Dec 2015 #162
Just clearing up any confusion. n/t Aerows Dec 2015 #163
LOL boston bean Dec 2015 #77
It appears that the DU folks who call DI folks great big *&$^&*#s and all sorts of things aikoaiko Dec 2015 #79
Bingo. pintobean Dec 2015 #81
So if I call the asshole at DI with the confederate flag avatar a great big *&$^&*#s .... trumad Dec 2015 #89
Absolutely not. Aerows Dec 2015 #91
Well when it comes to wingers and their representatives---I can be a bit unstable. trumad Dec 2015 #99
I'm not making a causative claim... aikoaiko Dec 2015 #92
You're confusing cause and effect. n/t lumberjack_jeff Dec 2015 #118
Thank you. n/t Aerows Dec 2015 #164
They also seem to be the purists here. joshcryer Dec 2015 #133
No Thank You ProfessorGAC Dec 2015 #97
If you like that kind of thing. demmiblue Dec 2015 #100
I agree. nm Mona Dec 2015 #101
life is too short olddots Dec 2015 #106
You're a better man than I am, Gunga Din. KamaAina Dec 2015 #110
I like diverse opinions Aerows Dec 2015 #145
Ever been to GD-P? KamaAina Dec 2015 #179
I don't need to go to Antarctica Aerows Dec 2015 #181
Here's a fun, likeable one to engage....or not Sheepshank Dec 2015 #115
That post was hidden and the poster is in time-out pintobean Dec 2015 #116
so all sentiments are acceptable because more than one person does it? Sheepshank Dec 2015 #121
You realize that my example was here on DU, right? pintobean Dec 2015 #128
Here's another example for you pintobean Dec 2015 #129
DI can be fun Gothmog Dec 2015 #117
I agree n/t Aerows Dec 2015 #146
Liberals should argue with conservatives Prism Dec 2015 #131
I always like your posts steve2470 Dec 2015 #134
Prism is an excellent DUer Aerows Dec 2015 #142
It depends! Prism Dec 2015 #201
Thank you for that Prism Dec 2015 #200
You are a stand up poster. Aerows Dec 2015 #141
Well said. n/t lumberjack_jeff Dec 2015 #186
Yup, I talk to people in the field who come from all kinds of backgrounds nadinbrzezinski Dec 2015 #194
Good for you.nt arthritisR_US Dec 2015 #147
I have always had a kind relationship with you Aerows Dec 2015 #155
I understand completely. You ..... arthritisR_US Dec 2015 #152
I've been excoriated up one side and down the other Aerows Dec 2015 #154
I posted a little when they first put it up, but got bored with that place fast. YMMV. Warren DeMontague Dec 2015 #165
Where ever you go, there you are Aerows Dec 2015 #167
Thanks, back atcha! Warren DeMontague Dec 2015 #169
DI is not for everyone but it is fun to engage with people who disagree with your positions Gothmog Dec 2015 #174
With the exception of a few really nasty idiots, GGJohn Dec 2015 #176
I'm not at all surprised you found DI to your liking. Paladin Dec 2015 #177
Over there, I stay away from the firearm discussions. eom. GGJohn Dec 2015 #178
You know, I've had just about enough of identity politics. Aerows Dec 2015 #182
I don't remember accusing you of lacking those things. Back off a little. (nt) Paladin Dec 2015 #191
I apologize if that appeared to be directed at you personally. Aerows Dec 2015 #195
I got banned from there for a bit. 2 of the hides were BS. The other 3 were legit. phleshdef Dec 2015 #183
Oh my Aerows Dec 2015 #184
I don't post there to make other people happy phleshdef Dec 2015 #185
If you consider that hide unjust, I really don't want to see the three legit ones. n/t lumberjack_jeff Dec 2015 #187
I broke no rules with that hide phleshdef Dec 2015 #188
It gets hidden there, but not here. pintobean Dec 2015 #190
Nothing good. n/t Aerows Dec 2015 #197
They seem fond of you as well. Perhaps your post slamming DU and ... 11 Bravo Dec 2015 #189
I am not "slamming" DUers Aerows Dec 2015 #196
I am stunned by some of these posts - it is one thing for someone to choose DrDan Dec 2015 #198
Thank you, Dan Aerows Dec 2015 #199
+ a whole bunch… dhill926 Dec 2015 #202
Her post was completely fine, as you say steve2470 Dec 2015 #203
Merry Christmas, steve2470 Aerows Dec 2015 #204
 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
2. You know, this sort of binary thinking
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 03:01 PM
Dec 2015

that someone is either an ally or an enemy is what diminishes the human experience.

I can appreciate traits, opinions, creations and ideas from people I don't explicitly agree with, and I refuse to constrict my experience of the world because somebody I supposedly shouldn't like said something I supposedly should disagree with.

Get a grip.

joshcryer

(62,276 posts)
66. Except if a DUer compared the PP killer...
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 06:20 AM
Dec 2015

...to a woman who has an abortion, they'd be subsequently banned from here.

It's one thing to hold the opinion such as "I am for choice but I would never have an abortion," or "I'm against abortion and want there to be less abortions but I wouldn't want it banned."

It's an entirely different matter to compare people having an abortion to fucking domestic terrorists.

That's just one of the dozens of threads I could pick apart there. I almost got into the climate change threads but I've been down that road with conservatives before. Climate change is their modern creationism. Same argument style used. Nevermind the famed hockey stick is one of the most accurate datasets known to man and even the Koch funded climate minimalist Richard A. Muller couldn't find anything with Berkeley Earth, after many millions were spent trying to disprove the data.

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
13. Nope---
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 03:24 PM
Dec 2015

What I am saying is---if you enjoy hanging out in a shit hole---well---whatever floats your boat.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
149. Exactly what I have always said I would do
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 04:44 AM
Dec 2015

vote for the Democratic party nominee.

I don't think I need to be clearer than that.

But we don't have a nominee yet

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
153. I should think
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 05:15 AM
Dec 2015

that you would respect me more than to think I do things out of "ego".

At least I hope you do.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
34. I can find you at least one that thinks Stormfront is an acceptable source to attack a Jewish dem.
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 06:29 PM
Dec 2015

I can name another that thinks Gateway Pundit is a good go-to for the same.

I could point you to a very vocal TERF currently supporting clinton, as well as the guy who argued "Gay people have enough rights already."

How about the poster who was using the rape of women as an attempt to score points against Sanders?

Wanna hear about the conehead who argued that Muslims MUST be controlled through use of violence? Guess who he supports this primary?

Lots of former Zimmerman waterboys in there, too.

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
35. Point away---PM me...
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 06:37 PM
Dec 2015

You know me---I'm not afraid to take these people on.

And please---stop trying to compare this place to that shit hole.

bluedigger

(17,087 posts)
53. You've been called out.
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 09:50 PM
Dec 2015

And they used some pretty creative language to do so!

As we can't go there and survive long, do you think this epic turd, less-than-30 inch waisted, goldfish-eating, ass-so-chapped-he'll-need plastic-surgery, bruised-petal assbag will come here and engage us? Under his known screenname?

Even though he says he wants to 'take us on', I don't think the ankle-biting, low-fat-latte (with soy please!) drinking, never-tasted-meat, has-the-'professor beard' punk has the guts to face us. We'll see as I know this challenge will come to his attention.

Note to Du'ers: You are MORE than welcome to post this over there. Pretty please?

http://www.discussionist.com/1015662396


On yeah, there's a poll. How should I vote?
 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
69. LOL
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 08:24 AM
Dec 2015

Here's my message back. You can always come here and challenge me.

See---funny thing---they are all so full of gusto to challenge old trumad---but they want me to do all the leg work---like sign up to that shit hole.

If they are so damned concerned about me and what I say......---well come and get me.

They are a weird little group of people.

 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
71. So, you misspoke
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 09:06 AM
Dec 2015

when you told Sassyspop "any place, any time"? He got banned for engaging you here. Any of them coming here will. Rightfully so, given our TOS. The only way for your challenge to work is for you to go there. You won't get banned there unless you create a sock while in time out, so what are you afraid of?
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10027422543#post41

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
87. Hey, you have a grand opportunity to hand over
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 11:37 AM
Dec 2015

some gusto, bluster and good old fashioned what-for. Why not go ahead and do it?

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
88. Hey---you're a proud member of that shit hole...
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 12:08 PM
Dec 2015

So why don't you take me on here? You're right here.

This all started because I kicked some right wingers around at a dinner party and members of that shit hole site didn't like it.

One of the members who didn't like my thread came over---much the same way you are doing now---and challenged me to challenge the asshole wingers at DI.

I asked that member to challenge me here and he fucking chickened out.

So I challenge any of those chicken shit fuck-turds to come on over take me on.

I love the fact that there are multiple threads over at that shit hole whining and moaning about little old trumad.



 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
138. I have no idea
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 03:23 AM
Dec 2015

I didn't issue the challenge, I just mentioned that there were some intelligent people over there, too.

I do not know Trumad, and if you follow the thread you will see that Trumad immediately leaped all over me for reasons unknown.

I'm not the one issuing threats and insults.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
159. I'm forthright.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 06:04 AM
Dec 2015

And unapologetic about it. I try to be an honest broker in everything I do, including participation on a message board.

Please show where I have been dishonest, ugly or underhanded.

You will get points for the latter, because that is not my style, cher.

 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
93. They didn't buy it
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 12:55 PM
Dec 2015

They liked the story just fine, they just didn't believe it. That guy didn't chicken out, he got banned. Aerows isn't challenging your story, she's saying that if you want to take those people on, you'll have to go over there to do it.

You've been trash-talking DI since it began. You're looking pretty thin skinned with this little bit of return fire.

dumbcat

(2,120 posts)
94. "I asked that member to challenge me here and he fucking chickened out."
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 01:15 PM
Dec 2015

Uh, no. He came over here and challenged you and was immediately PPRed, just as you knew he would be.

Man up, dude.

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
98. Lookie here....
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 02:16 PM
Dec 2015

He didn't get whacked because he was a member of DI...hell you're here.

He got whacked for fucking trolling.

You challenge me. You take me on with the thread that started it all. Come on---represent your clan at DI.

Here's the thread.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10027422543

Don't be afraid---if you keep it cordial you won't get whacked.

Tell me---what is wrong with knocking a few Right Wingers at a dinner party?



 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
105. OK---I whacked a couple of Wingers at a Dinner party....
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 03:00 PM
Dec 2015

Any problem with that?

Because your fellow members at DI got all bothered by it.

dumbcat

(2,120 posts)
120. Yeah, right
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 04:40 PM
Dec 2015
Don't be afraid---if you keep it cordial you won't get whacked.


How can you guarantee that? Are you in charge of the whacking around here?

This ain't my first rodeo.
 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
122. I know it's not your first rodeo---
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 04:45 PM
Dec 2015

New screen name here at DU ---wonder what your last one was.

What---you can't debate here without exposing yourself?

See---that's chickenshit.

Response to snooper2 (Reply #113)

Heddi

(18,312 posts)
125. Wait...so having a vagina means..what?
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 04:52 PM
Dec 2015

That's your idea of an insult? Suggesting someone has a vagina?

You're a hateful misogynist.

Signed,

someone with a vagina who can insult people without making gender slurrs

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
135. He was referring to reproductive rights. Those men *do not* possess vaginas, therefore they have no
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 07:34 PM
Dec 2015

right to restrict women's intimate life decisions, including abortion and birth control. See OP.

 

Sheepshank

(12,504 posts)
111. So let me get this straight
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 03:34 PM
Dec 2015

you like the folks at Discussionist. You like them so much in fact that you are protecting them, lauding them, and sticking up for them, even though many are Republicans, over a DU'er?

is that right?

that shit hole seems to have earned a coddler.

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
124. It all started because I posted a thread about me kicking right wing ass at a dinner party.
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 04:50 PM
Dec 2015

Here was the thread that they started to come after old trumad because they did not like me writing about the kick ass.
http://www.discussionist.com/1015649057

Yes---there are posters here in this thread who are defending these shit bags.

 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
132. He can't answer you
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 07:06 PM
Dec 2015

Ironic.

Ya know, the people who can handle DI, can certainly handle the silly little slaps they get here.

kcr

(15,320 posts)
39. And bigotry does nothing to diminish the human experience?
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 06:59 PM
Dec 2015

I don't need to waste time hanging around right wingers. Nothing binary about that because it's not either or. There are plenty of decent places on the internet to go.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
56. What exactly do you think bigotry is
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 03:16 AM
Dec 2015

if it isn't "us" against "them"?

I'm not so shaky on my ideals that I can't have a conversation with people that don't have precisely the opinion that I do.

kcr

(15,320 posts)
57. Bigotry is a word that actually means something
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 03:29 AM
Dec 2015

It's not some nebulous concept that can be applied to any old thing. And you can have conversations with bigots. Whatever floats your boat. It just isn't accurate to compare everyone else to them, and call things that aren't bigotry, bigotry.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
60. I didn't realise that you were the Merriam Webster's dictionary on what bigotry is.
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 04:23 AM
Dec 2015

It indeed is a word that means something.

All of you are starting to sound the same "whatever floats your boat".

kcr

(15,320 posts)
61. We're all "whatever floats your boat?" Wow, that isn't the impression I'm getting
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 04:26 AM
Dec 2015

of the opinion of us from other Discussionists and Friends of Discussionists. Maybe you should tell them that

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
136. I agree with both of you, up to a point. "Bigotry" is, of course, often a subjective concept.
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 07:38 PM
Dec 2015

But I've seen some pretty damn ugly stuff on DI, a lot of it objectively vile and hateful. Though for whatever reason, Muslims and black folks seem to get the worst of it, while gay people tend to be relatively spared.

GGJohn

(9,951 posts)
54. Uncalled for.
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 12:52 AM
Dec 2015

I spent the weekend there and found that while I certainly didn't agree with the cons there, I did enjoy the back and forth, and I had to back up my claims with links and facts.

arthritisR_US

(7,291 posts)
65. But didn't you find their lack of facts, unless you consider links to Brietbart,
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 05:18 AM
Dec 2015

Drudge and FOx as facts, well ...did you not find this frustrating along with their histrionics?

GGJohn

(9,951 posts)
72. I found a few of the cons were rude as hell, but for the most part,
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 09:26 AM
Dec 2015

most of them were civil and were willing to argue their point with facts and links.
That said, I still don't agree with their point of view.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
170. I cannot be monolithic
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 07:16 AM
Dec 2015

and part of a "crowd" to sacrifice my individuality. Just isn't in my DNA.

I evaluate ideas on the terms I set forth for myself, and my morality.

Cliquish behavior has never appealed to me, and likely never will.

GGJohn

(9,951 posts)
175. Oh, don't get me wrong, there are a few cons over there who are nasty pieces of work
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 09:58 AM
Dec 2015

who don't link to what they claim, I tend to ignore them, but there are cons over there also who are civil, intelligent and do provide links to what they claim, even if I do disagree with them.

I like being challenged in my beliefs, but they won't change my core beliefs.

 

SecularMotion

(7,981 posts)
7. A Confederacy of Dunces
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 03:18 PM
Dec 2015

They boast about being more "open" than DU while alerting on any liberal opinions.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
28. I served on about eight juries this weekend, mostly vs. conservative posts
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 05:34 PM
Dec 2015

The remainder were that "mony" person having their massive meltdown

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
36. Actually, there were alerts...
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 06:43 PM
Dec 2015

But the jury tended to be more thick skinned... like I wish a lot of people here would decide to be.

This, by no means excuses the confederate flag avatars, which I refer to as a banana hammock.

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
11. I've been about 50/50 between the two sites ever since DI opened.
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 03:22 PM
Dec 2015

Broadly speaking, I find I'm more likely to have a good, in-depth, substantive conversation on certain topics (socio-political stuff...not "specialty" topics like sports or suchlike) over there than I am here...and that's sad. The passive-aggressive nastiness here* frustrates me no end, and because I have minority (for a leftist) positions on a few things, perhaps I see more of the hateful posting here than DU'ers who aren't "off the reservation" on a couple topics.

Don't get me wrong: I like it here, and I'd hate for there to be no progressive-oriented community like this. Some of the more extreme RW blowhards over there do manage to post enough toxic crap to annoy me on frequent occasion. But I'm actually more upset by the nastiness I see here; it's somehow worse to see us eating our own than it is to see partisan bickering (which is just the nature of politics).

* And hey, I'm from Portland. It's not like I don't encounter passive-aggressive types all the time...

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
16. You're a big reason I'm still here!
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 03:26 PM
Dec 2015

That note you sent when I was considering leaving because of my feeling I wasn't the "right" sort of progressive had a big impact!


So now people know who to blame...

muriel_volestrangler

(101,361 posts)
19. I find the regular conservatives there are appalling people
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 03:35 PM
Dec 2015

Occasionally, one of them manages to write something worth reading, but most of the time, they post to either annoy liberals, say something incredibly stupid but popular with similar stupid right wingers, or just express a hateful bigotry. Occasionally, they appear to be psychopaths with a desire for murder.

I get a far better quality of conversation at an international political forum where there are many right wingers, but they are people who mostly think, try and make rational arguments, and don't mainly post just to make party political points for Republicans.

I tried for over a year, but gave up. How long have you tried talking to them?

 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
20. The funny thing is how some believe dissing anything DI is a way to gain cred.
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 03:36 PM
Dec 2015

Ooooh! Yuck! Bad people! Bad people there!

(I did that for the cred)

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
26. True.
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 05:29 PM
Dec 2015

I've had very worthwhile exchanges with people on that site, far more in depth and considered than here.

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
37. Yeah, wow, truman...
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 06:46 PM
Dec 2015

It's interesting to talk to people who are on the other side. Don't you do this in every day life? Or, are you rather insulated and fly with birds of a feather, in stead?

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
38. First off---
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 06:54 PM
Dec 2015

I don't talk to Misogynists, racists, Homophobes and assholes who are anti-science. Why would I---they're asssholes.

Second you said this: "more in depth and considered than here"

So the Misogynists, racists, Homophobes and assholes who are anti-science are "more in depth and considered than here"?

Hey whatever floats your boat.

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
40. See? Now, THAT'S a good example of the difference...
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 07:00 PM
Dec 2015

You, using your best thin-skinned hyperbolic reaction could not separate the wheat from the chaff of that missive.

Some of these assholes were just that. Some of them were not as flagrant in discussing the 2nd amendment argument and understanding of more recent cases in front of the Supreme Court.

AND, BY THE WAY... you may not wish to talk to awful people, but you have no compunction in responding in a very nasty way yourself... which is EXACTLY what floats YOUR boat.

Don't bother responding. I'd rather talk to someone who isn't hateful tonight.

Bye!

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
64. That seems to be a threat
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 05:08 AM
Dec 2015

I don't take kindly to those.

I think you should back away from your computer before you do something stupid.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
104. You are getting to the point where you are harassing me
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 02:58 PM
Dec 2015

not that you would be successful at that as you have been at any other venture.

 

Sheepshank

(12,504 posts)
114. **ZING**
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 03:40 PM
Dec 2015

how blatantly obvious does it need to get at who was harassing, and who was being harrassed

GGJohn

(9,951 posts)
73. Yeah, really,
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 09:32 AM
Dec 2015

something you wouldn't know about because you refuse to engage them over there, instead you insist that they engage you here, where you damn well know that they would be almost instantly banned.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
161. What is odd is that I am getting harassed
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 06:28 AM
Dec 2015

because I dared to post something positive about another site that is affiliated with DU.

That has me confused.

GGJohn

(9,951 posts)
172. Some people just can't handle having their beliefs challenged
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 09:30 AM
Dec 2015

and have to fight back the only way they know how, by belittling their challenger.

kcr

(15,320 posts)
41. Right. They would actually secretly love to hang around right wingers
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 07:02 PM
Dec 2015

But they're depriving themselves of that wonderful experience just to look good. That sounds highly plausible

kcr

(15,320 posts)
58. You're right. Better to chime in supporting bigots.
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 03:33 AM
Dec 2015

That's got to be a might fine looking lapel pin as well.

SmittynMo

(3,544 posts)
21. My first thoughts
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 04:03 PM
Dec 2015

were not good at all. I saw many threads about DU, trashing all of us, totally unprovoked. I met a few decent people there, but for the most part it was not a good experience. I had 1 encounter with a far right person. It did not end well.

I guess the bottom line was they like less rules, blocks, etc. They want total freedom to say whatever the hell they want, without penalty. With that comes ignorance, stupidity, and hatred. For some, I guess that's OK. Not me. It was definitely not my cup of tea.

katsy

(4,246 posts)
112. That was my experience also
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 03:34 PM
Dec 2015

So why would I go there to engage with bigots, homophobes and racists?

My family and friends represent the entire spectrum of ideas and opinions. Not a one of my huge clan agrees with another. But when we engage it's a good exchange that comes from a mutual respect. Eye to eye promotes a sense of personal responsibility for your language and attitude. Needless to say, even on opposite spectrums politically, everyone takes away a better understanding of the other. No need to spar. Or insult. Always a net positive even when no minds are changed.

Not so on the the Internet. Not so on DI. Just the way they called out Trumad with such hateful language turns me off.

Not everyone needs to war with total strangers because of political differences. I'm glad DI is there and it serves a purpose. Just not for me.

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
23. Some of them seemed pleasant enough
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 04:19 PM
Dec 2015

I could do without the gratuitous bashing of liberals/progressives in general and the ad hominems in general.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
24. I stuck to the streets
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 04:33 PM
Dec 2015

But not everybody is nasty there. Just like we have some really nasty people here. The cavers, yes they post there, can be a handfu though.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
156. Amen, my friend.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 05:31 AM
Dec 2015

I'm so glad you came back to DU. Nice to know some folks around here that have open minds.

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
25. I've always liked it. I've had very interesting exchanges there.
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 05:27 PM
Dec 2015

I've also had some DI PMs from folk saying they think of changing their views as a result of engaging with other people on that site, I think that's pretty amazing, really.

There were a small bunch of snotmongers from DU swanning in like Norma Desmond and declaring the entire board to be beneath them, naturally, but many DUers were quite happy to take on DI's culture without any difficulty, it'd be great to see them back. People willing to actually make a case there are always listened to pretty politely, in my experience.
 

7962

(11,841 posts)
45. "snotmongers from DU swanning in like Norma Desmond". STILL laughing at that one!!!!
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 07:12 PM
Dec 2015

Holy crap thats a funny one. Just the visual I get..........

sibelian

(7,804 posts)
49. Oh, it was infuriating!
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 07:30 PM
Dec 2015

Idiots dribbling in like lost children declaring conservative posters I've had genuinely constructive conversations with about WHY we believe what believe and flurrying around like so many peacocks. God, it was embarassing. Not a SHRED of self-awareness.

"YOU THERE! YOU DISGUSTING, NASTY CONSERVATIVE TYPE! HOW DARE YOU THINK SUCH FOUL VILE THINGS! ICK! EW. WHY, WHY ARE YOU SO LOW, YOU BASE CREATURE?"

"Hmmm. Uuuuuh, screw YOU?"

"OH! OH! OH! OH! OH! THIS PLACE! THIS TERRIBLE PLACE!"

IDIOTS.
 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
180. In the meantime, back in the real world, which DU is not
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 01:34 PM
Dec 2015

the Climate Action Plan that was passed yesterday was endorsed by a wide coalition of people, that spanned the left and the right and the business community.

That is how the real world works.

I think I am going to be the only media that is actually listing them. Oh and that includes save our bolts... WHAT WHHHHAAATTTTT? Yup, even our lovely we want our sport team damn it endorsed the plan

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
193. Nope, DU is not...of course I know that our local pols
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 07:29 PM
Dec 2015

did not do it just becuase of the future, and kids (plenty of speechifying in that respect), but some is looking to the governors office... err, my mayor, he just got some serious environmental street cred.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
139. I think I will be visiting quite regularly.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 03:35 AM
Dec 2015

I've even gotten a few friends from DU to go, too.

Feel free to PM me over there. It's not hard to figure out who I am

Inkfreak

(1,695 posts)
44. I read a lot here and post a lot there.
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 07:10 PM
Dec 2015

I kinda like hashing shit out with the other side. Some are cool or funny. A few are assholes. I don't get the need to declare someone's distaste for the site. Big fucking deal..it's a site where some have differing opinions. There are quite a few left leaning posters there that don't seem to catch the attentions of those with "the vapors" at having visited the site and saw a RW'ers post.

This site & that site will always be linked.

Township75

(3,535 posts)
46. People here demonize the other side to make up for their own lack of commitment to their supposed
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 07:15 PM
Dec 2015

values.

I would love to see the tax returns and carbon footprints of the posters there that label all right wingers as greedy, climate change deniers, etc. It's not like if I bash someone for denying climate change, then avoid public transportations/car pooling, and don't think twice about the fossils fuels that i use to heat my home that my carbon foot print diminishes. Same with trying to avoid taxes then claiming the other side is anti education/health care/poor....anyone trying to minimize their taxes is taking money from the schools, hospitals, and social services desperately needed by poor people...and no amount of attacking right wingers will change that.

Response to GGJohn (Reply #55)

deutsey

(20,166 posts)
67. I've been a member at DU for so long
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 07:15 AM
Dec 2015

because it's been a welcome refuge from the conservative area where I live (especially during the insane years 2001-2008).

I have nothing against DI, but I can engage any number of civil and uncivil conservatives in my real life any time I want. Since 2001, DU has been a place where I have found kindred spirits, which was very important during Bush's regime.

The interesting thing is I really didn't miss DU while it was offline. Ten years ago, I probably would've been going through withdrawals. But I hardly noticed it over the weekend.

So it goes.

seaglass

(8,173 posts)
70. It's a great place for gossiping and DUer bashing if you like that sort of thing. Oops, I guess
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 08:24 AM
Dec 2015

you do.

seaglass

(8,173 posts)
78. Yes but it is different when someone tries to disguise who they are and doesn't have the risk of
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 10:40 AM
Dec 2015

a hide, isn't it?

aikoaiko

(34,183 posts)
79. It appears that the DU folks who call DI folks great big *&$^&*#s and all sorts of things
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 10:47 AM
Dec 2015

are generally the great big *&$^&*#s on DU.
 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
89. So if I call the asshole at DI with the confederate flag avatar a great big *&$^&*#s ....
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 12:09 PM
Dec 2015

I'm a great big *&$^&*#s?

joshcryer

(62,276 posts)
133. They also seem to be the purists here.
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 07:14 PM
Dec 2015

Which has convinced me these people aren't for real. It's gotta be narcissism. It makes no sense to trash a made up "third way" here but laud bigots over there.

ProfessorGAC

(65,168 posts)
97. No Thank You
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 02:11 PM
Dec 2015

Been there, done that. I did not enjoy the experiences. I did found the conversations neither engaging nor informative.

The "other side" still heavily reliant on disproven economic concepts, or factual disinformation about a myriad of topics appeals to me not at all.

demmiblue

(36,885 posts)
100. If you like that kind of thing.
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 02:23 PM
Dec 2015

I will stick with non-homophobes, non-racists and non-misogynists (though we do have some of those here, just not in the numbers that exist there).

There are a couple of caves you can visit if you want a similar experience.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
145. I like diverse opinions
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 04:25 AM
Dec 2015

I've never been one that accepts somebody else's opinion. I want to see for myself, challenge it, and dissect it.

 

Sheepshank

(12,504 posts)
115. Here's a fun, likeable one to engage....or not
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 04:03 PM
Dec 2015
What Would Happen If All the Gun Grabbers Drank Drano

I'm curious what Americans think would happen if all the gun grabbers in this country suddenly developed a powerful urge to drink Drano and relieve the country of their burden?

I can't really think of any negatives in the long run. Lots of vacant political seats, fewer folks on the handout dole, fewer worthless scum polluting politics and entertainment media.

I just don't see the drawback. Sure a few doctors here and there would be dead but there would be plenty left over to pick up the slack.

Anyone see any drawbacks because I don't.


http://www.discussionist.com/102217207

it's nothing like this damn echo chamber, am I right?

7. This place isn't so dang homogenous

It's rather refreshing to see people actually having a point of view that isn't driven by the echo chamber.

 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
116. That post was hidden and the poster is in time-out
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 04:24 PM
Dec 2015

He is almost always in time-out.

But, hey, this is cool...

Fuck them and their shitty website. They made me want to murder a RWNJ. Thanks for playing and...

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10027445741#post24
 

Sheepshank

(12,504 posts)
121. so all sentiments are acceptable because more than one person does it?
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 04:44 PM
Dec 2015

your arguement is weak sauce....and a very poor excuse for accepting that kind of sentiment.

And you know as well as I do that because one post was hidden at Discussionist, it doesn't mean that the site isn't rampant with those types of sentiments....that post just barely got hidden at 4-3. so there is that.

As for the OP's comment that Du is an echo chamber....what the fuck do they think this was created for in the first place? It's designed to be a place for Dem support, Dem opinions. Of course it's a supposed to be a place for like minded persons to exchange ideas. If it wasn't designed to be so, it would be another Discussionist shit hole. But to insult everyone here for signing up for a site where they actually knew the TOS was for Dems, is extremly nasty, low, name calling, insulting etc etc etc.

 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
128. You realize that my example was here on DU, right?
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 05:09 PM
Dec 2015

It still stands.
Your example on DI was hidden eight minutes after it was posted.

The OP isn't trash talking DU, she's saying that sometimes she likes more variety of opinion and a more robust conversation. The OP and I belong to both sites. Our admin created that site and invited all of us to join. We don't let the cons run over us, and we don't run from their scare tactics.

Really, I find Discussionist more civil than GDP.

 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
129. Here's another example for you
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 05:29 PM
Dec 2015

Another hide at DI. We would see a lot more shit like this hidden, if so many DUers didn't run away. We could use some help.

ETA - This person also went into time-out.

AUTOMATED MESSAGE: Results of your Jury Service

Mail Message
On Tue Dec 15, 2015, 03:13 PM an alert was sent on the following post:

Islam is a murdering death cult
http://www.discussionist.com/?com=view_post&forum=1015&pid=663549

REASON FOR ALERT

This post is uncivil, off-topic, offensive, or otherwise inappropriate.

ALERTER'S COMMENTS

This is a vicious attack against an entire religion
The same type of rhetoric is inciting Americans to attack Muslims across this nation every day

JURY RESULTS

You served on a randomly-selected Jury of Discussionist members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Tue Dec 15, 2015, 03:24 PM, and the Jury voted 5-2 to HIDE IT.

Juror #1 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: Sure. I tire of this.
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: If attacking Christianity a few time a week on DI is acceptable, Islam shouldn't get a pass.
Juror #3 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #4 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: I'm stunned! Gunslinger posts more vile shit!
Juror #5 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: The poster continually is over the top with his hatred.
Juror #6 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: This is pure bigotry. I have Muslim friends and neighbors and they are kind, generous, and wonderful.
Juror #7 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given

Thank you very much for participating in our Jury system, and we hope you will be able to participate again in the future.
 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
131. Liberals should argue with conservatives
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 06:27 PM
Dec 2015

It sharpens the mind and tightens up arguments.

DU, for all its graces, is a sloppy place. Sloppy thinking, sloppy arguments, preaching to the choir. I always wonder about people who claim they're "activisting" and things. Because most of the time, I wouldn't want them anywhere near my neighbors. I cannot count the number of times I've seen, "I'm canvassing!" Oh Jesus. Not you. Not in my neighborhood.

I read conservative sites and blogs all the time. Things are either true or not. I like being challenged.

But DU is a place where even liberal sources are challenged. "You linked an author who once said something bad about Captain America?!!!!!" It's like, holy hell, how tight does your bubble need to be for you to function.

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
134. I always like your posts
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 07:15 PM
Dec 2015

You live in Berkeley, which is arguably one of the most progressive places in the country. You're a progressive. This place gets a tad extreme at times. Good points about reading and arguing with conservatives.

 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
201. It depends!
Sat Dec 19, 2015, 03:57 PM
Dec 2015

Is trader joe's wine involved? Then I'm super friendly!

I keed.

I adore you, Aerows. Aren't you on my facebook now?!

 

Prism

(5,815 posts)
200. Thank you for that
Sat Dec 19, 2015, 03:56 PM
Dec 2015

Berkeley definitely can be a wacky place. And it can be an echo chamber, so I like to be devil's advocate. But, I'm lucky. I really, really like my congressman (I'd quibble over Feinstein). And while I'm not thrilled about gentrification and the homeless situation, it's easier to be a liberal here than most places.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
141. You are a stand up poster.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 03:47 AM
Dec 2015

I've always enjoyed reading your posts.

We also have in common that we like being challenged

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
194. Yup, I talk to people in the field who come from all kinds of backgrounds
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 07:31 PM
Dec 2015

as to the activism here... I will be brutal. I wonder how many of these folks are actually, well, getting up from their chairs and doing it.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
154. I've been excoriated up one side and down the other
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 05:18 AM
Dec 2015

bathed in flames.

I merely mentioned that they had some civil folks over there.

I stand by that assessment.

Now after this thread, what assessment would you give yourselves?

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
165. I posted a little when they first put it up, but got bored with that place fast. YMMV.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 06:44 AM
Dec 2015

I certainly don't go in for the line about how "only horrible peeepul post over there so you are a horrible peeepul if you post over there warrrrrgggghhhlllll" .... that's just lame.


There is, undeniably, some nasty crap floated there, but, that doesn't mean everyone there is awful nor do I think there are not worthwhile conversations that can and do take place there.

But I don't have time to argue with hard-core right wingers about things we're never gonna see eye to eye on. It's futile for everyone involved.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
167. Where ever you go, there you are
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 06:49 AM
Dec 2015

And I think you are a great poster. Just consider that it is always in the last place you look

Gothmog

(145,554 posts)
174. DI is not for everyone but it is fun to engage with people who disagree with your positions
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 09:47 AM
Dec 2015

The real world is full of people who disagree with you. I have a high tolerance for stupidity and bigotry and so I can stand dealing with the conservative posters on DI

GGJohn

(9,951 posts)
176. With the exception of a few really nasty idiots,
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 10:01 AM
Dec 2015

I found most of them, to my surprise, very civil and personable, not what I dreamed that DI would be.

Paladin

(28,272 posts)
177. I'm not at all surprised you found DI to your liking.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 10:32 AM
Dec 2015

Considering their "Culture" section is overwhelmingly devoted to pro-gun discussions.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
182. You know, I've had just about enough of identity politics.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 03:02 PM
Dec 2015

I'm a human being that has varied ideas, ideals and I have a conscience.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
195. I apologize if that appeared to be directed at you personally.
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 04:33 AM
Dec 2015

It was meant as a general statement.

 

phleshdef

(11,936 posts)
183. I got banned from there for a bit. 2 of the hides were BS. The other 3 were legit.
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 03:16 PM
Dec 2015

My last one was because someone said something about Obama looking weak to other foreign leaders and I said they could all suck my dick. LOL. I really didn't think that was hide worthy since it wasn't directed at any other poster and adult language is not against the rules, but its all good. Sometimes I engage people over there in serious discussion and sometimes I just don't give a shit. Depends on my mood that day.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
184. Oh my
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 03:28 PM
Dec 2015

"I got banned because I told everybody "They can suck my dick"", your words, and wonder why the place might be a shade ... partial to refraining from welcoming you with open arms.

Please take some time to wonder why.

 

phleshdef

(11,936 posts)
185. I don't post there to make other people happy
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 03:41 PM
Dec 2015

I don't care what they think, I don't care if I offend them, I can count the posters over there I respect with one hand and that's without using my thumb. A lot of them are a bunch of oversensitive asses that whine and cry about political correctness all day but yet can't handle it when someone use as a curse word or says something off color for the sake of humor. So no I'm not going to take any time and wonder about anything. I don't give a fuck.

 

phleshdef

(11,936 posts)
188. I broke no rules with that hide
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 03:47 PM
Dec 2015

If you can't handle someone saying that so and so can suck a dick then I don't know how you survive in the modern world at all. Its the same thing as "kiss my ass", just a little more crude and I like crude.

11 Bravo

(23,926 posts)
189. They seem fond of you as well. Perhaps your post slamming DU and ...
Wed Dec 16, 2015, 03:55 PM
Dec 2015

DUers has something to do with that.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
196. I am not "slamming" DUers
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 04:41 AM
Dec 2015

I am inviting folks to look around here and see what is going on.

We are hemorrhaging good DUers.

I think if we want this community to survive with a shred of credibility and sanity it is time to ask Why?

When it gets to the point that a bully squad follows you to another forum, because you state your opinions plainly, and refuse to be beaten down, what does that say about those that chase you?

DrDan

(20,411 posts)
198. I am stunned by some of these posts - it is one thing for someone to choose
Thu Dec 17, 2015, 06:09 AM
Dec 2015

not to go there themselves and engage in a discussion. But to criticize someone else who does and finds it personally rewarding, is over-the-top.

Then there are those who go into full bully-mode in their criticism. I guess their internet-bravado helps ease their insecurities. They sure take a lot of (false) pride in "putting down the enemy."

Anyway, I think your attitude is healthy. I have RW friends. We can be civil even though we disagree. We can give each other respect even though we vote for different candidates. I can't imagine finding glee in putting them down at a dinner party and then and bragging about it to digital "friends".

I guess it might be different if we (DU) were free from the nastiness found there. But we know that is not the case.

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
203. Her post was completely fine, as you say
Sat Dec 19, 2015, 05:57 PM
Dec 2015

I have a neighbor who despises President Obama, yet he is one of the nicest people I know. So, we don't talk politics.

There's nothing wrong with going to Discussionist to have a civil debate. We can't do it here. Some choose not to, which is totally fine. From what I've read, some opinions at DI have been changed as a result of us going over there.

Merry Christmas, Aerows, to you and your family.

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