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proud2BlibKansan

(96,793 posts)
Mon May 28, 2012, 03:00 PM May 2012

Chris Hayes is being attacked on the comment blogs this morning

Michelle Malkin posted an abbreviated discussion he had on his show about heroes and Memorial Day. She claims he said he was "uncomfortable" calling our war dead "heroes".

I'm not linking to her site.

So all the winguts who aren't busy decorating graves or cooking burgers are sharing her opinion widely. I've seen negative comments on 6 sites this morning.

Here is the entire clip from Chris Hayes' show: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/46979738/vp/47581623#47581631

And what Chris actually said:

I think it's interesting because I think it is very difficult to talk about the war dead and the fallen without invoking valor, without invoking the words "heroes." Why do I feel so [uncomfortable] about the word "hero"? I feel comfortable -- uncomfortable -- about the word because it seems to me that it is so rhetorically proximate to justifications for more war. Um, and, I don't want to obviously desecrate or disrespect memory of anyone that's fallen, and obviously there are individual circumstances in which there is genuine, tremendous heroism: hail of gunfire, rescuing fellow soldiers and things like that. But it seems to me that we marshal this word in a way that is problematic. But maybe I'm wrong about that.
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Chris Hayes is being attacked on the comment blogs this morning (Original Post) proud2BlibKansan May 2012 OP
Another feather in Chris's hat!!! Scuba May 2012 #1
Thinking hurts. Poor Malkin. Gregorian May 2012 #2
Problem is she thinks in 'dark' ways, elleng May 2012 #6
Well maybe he should have thought it through.n/t hrmjustin May 2012 #3
I've watched it twice now and think it was a very respectful and important conversation proud2BlibKansan May 2012 #4
Sounds like he did. elleng May 2012 #7
yes i did thank you hrmjustin May 2012 #8
I understand. elleng May 2012 #10
Of course but he needed to think what he said through. hrmjustin May 2012 #17
A person can be "your hero" Plucketeer May 2012 #63
thought what through? spanone May 2012 #14
what i mean is that the wing nuts will... hrmjustin May 2012 #35
fukthe wingnuts. if they don't like what you say, they elehhhhna May 2012 #44
thank you SemperEadem May 2012 #53
he is thinking and thats why everyone is mad at him Enrique May 2012 #31
military combatant war dead are not automatically "heroes" nt msongs May 2012 #5
yes they are hrmjustin May 2012 #9
Maybe they just needed a job. Gregorian May 2012 #11
they still went. they signed the papers and went. I could not... hrmjustin May 2012 #16
There are several jobs out there Rittermeister May 2012 #38
You are entitle your opinion and God Bless you for it. hrmjustin May 2012 #41
I suppose that's a psychological defense mechanism against Lydia Leftcoast May 2012 #49
My cousin is a hero to me. hrmjustin May 2012 #55
He may have THOUGHT he was serving his country Lydia Leftcoast May 2012 #56
My cousin did serve his country. hrmjustin May 2012 #58
The insurgents in Iraq would have said that THEY were serving THEIR country Lydia Leftcoast May 2012 #59
My cousin was not killed by an iraqi n/t hrmjustin May 2012 #62
Friendly fire? Lydia Leftcoast May 2012 #64
It was not friendly fire. As for your question I do not have all the answers, but... hrmjustin May 2012 #65
I agree with you. I see these lost lives, our young men and women, as victims crunch60 May 2012 #61
war sucks and... hrmjustin May 2012 #12
I disagree with his statement. And he surely knew that would incite some heated responses. Honeycombe8 May 2012 #13
I agree with you, mostly whatchamacallit May 2012 #32
His statement said nearly nothing about the soldier, in the field or no, and your last statement jtuck004 May 2012 #33
That's what I disagree with. I think he's wrong when he says that Honeycombe8 May 2012 #39
Oh, you'd better believe that they use "our troops" as justification for war Lydia Leftcoast May 2012 #52
I think I understand where you are coming from, but it sure seems so to me... jtuck004 May 2012 #57
I saw that segment on his show. It was fascinating. It's something that CTyankee May 2012 #15
I saw it too and I thought 'well this is too deep for the wingnuts' proud2BlibKansan May 2012 #20
He might be glad that he got the publicity! It may drive more liberals and CTyankee May 2012 #26
Way too deep for the wing nuts is polysyllabic words and compound sentences. EFerrari May 2012 #28
Calling a dead person a hero or claiming they made a sacrifice doesn't erase EFerrari May 2012 #18
Ok that was well said hrmjustin May 2012 #19
That is what he was getting at. EFerrari May 2012 #23
I would have said it differently because all they will hear is... hrmjustin May 2012 #29
I think you're right about that. EFerrari May 2012 #34
Freaking perfect malaise May 2012 #24
Wingnuts simply cannot process nuance. spooky3 May 2012 #21
Yes i agree they will take it to a level he did not mean n/t hrmjustin May 2012 #27
Wow! He's coming up in the world! lunatica May 2012 #22
I agree with Chris, but I will never say it openly. Odin2005 May 2012 #25
It's obvious to me what he's saying. People are morons. BlueStater May 2012 #30
Yes but all they will hear is I am uncomfortable calling them hero's.n/t hrmjustin May 2012 #36
Touched a nerve by suggesting war isn't by definition "heroic." DirkGently May 2012 #37
There should be a nuanced discussion of "heroes"- digonswine May 2012 #40
Agree and my husband and I are both veterans. When someone says to me kiranon May 2012 #42
No doubt- digonswine May 2012 #43
I saw Andrew Card from the Bush administration try to thank a disabled vet for his service proud2BlibKansan May 2012 #45
Chris Hayes is great but I disagree with him on this. limpyhobbler May 2012 #46
It's a conversation we absolutely need to have. proud2BlibKansan May 2012 #47
It would be so interesting to know how many of the pro-war truedelphi May 2012 #48
And they don't want to pay for the care and support of the "heroes" they sent to the slaughter Lydia Leftcoast May 2012 #54
Michelle Malkin and War MrMickeysMom May 2012 #50
Hero is a word that is greatly overused. alarimer May 2012 #51
I'm sure they will call Malkin a hero for standing up to Chris Hayes. ScottLand May 2012 #60
Is the term hero for us to feel better about those who serve or ... chowder66 May 2012 #66
the Chris Hayes Apology limpyhobbler May 2012 #67
 

Scuba

(53,475 posts)
1. Another feather in Chris's hat!!!
Mon May 28, 2012, 03:02 PM
May 2012

When those assholes start attacking you, you know you're doing something right!

elleng

(131,284 posts)
6. Problem is she thinks in 'dark' ways,
Mon May 28, 2012, 03:18 PM
May 2012

she knows what he said, and its meaning, but she and her 'friends' CANNOT attribute anything positive to Dems. AND she gets paid for her darkness.

proud2BlibKansan

(96,793 posts)
4. I've watched it twice now and think it was a very respectful and important conversation
Mon May 28, 2012, 03:17 PM
May 2012

And obviously well thought out.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
8. yes i did thank you
Mon May 28, 2012, 03:21 PM
May 2012

They are my hero's. I separate them from the policy makers. I lost a cousin in iraq 7 years ago and he will always be my hero.

elleng

(131,284 posts)
10. I understand.
Mon May 28, 2012, 03:25 PM
May 2012

Very sorry for your loss.

I'm sure you can understand Chris' concern, that 'it is so rhetorically proximate to justifications for more war.'

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
17. Of course but he needed to think what he said through.
Mon May 28, 2012, 03:34 PM
May 2012

His overall point about war mongers is right. He should have said that he is uncomfortable with people using the sacrifice of our soldiers to their agenda's benefit. That would have been more accurate. I like Chris Hayes but he should have thought it through.

 

Plucketeer

(12,882 posts)
63. A person can be "your hero"
Mon May 28, 2012, 05:59 PM
May 2012

not a thing at all wrong with that. But as regards one's duties while in the military - there's a real distinction between heros and combatants. Combatants stay on the front in the pursuit of a mission - an objective. There's also the spectre that would ensue if they put down their rifle and quit. Heros not only do their partr, but go above and beyond what their superiors would expect of them. To apply the title of hero to everyone who's been in combat is to cheapen the honors for those truly deserving of them.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
35. what i mean is that the wing nuts will...
Mon May 28, 2012, 04:08 PM
May 2012

...only hear that he is uncomfortable with calling them hero's. I think they are hero's, and I understand what he was trying to say about warmongers will use their sacrifice. But they will only here the first comment.

SemperEadem

(8,053 posts)
53. thank you
Mon May 28, 2012, 05:09 PM
May 2012

he could have chosen any way to say it and malkin would have found a way to whine about it because THEIR SIDE HAS NO GROUND ON WHICH TO STAND, PERIOD. They have to reach deep in their asses to pull shit out, as evidenced by malkin's clown show.

Gregorian

(23,867 posts)
11. Maybe they just needed a job.
Mon May 28, 2012, 03:25 PM
May 2012

I'll bet that's the case for 90% of vets.

My dad wanted the GI bill to pay for his college. He's totally anti-war. But he went.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
16. they still went. they signed the papers and went. I could not...
Mon May 28, 2012, 03:28 PM
May 2012

...do that. I don't know about you but I could not.

Rittermeister

(170 posts)
38. There are several jobs out there
Mon May 28, 2012, 04:16 PM
May 2012

far more likely to result in one's death or maiming than serving in the modern volunteer military. Sorry, but getting killed in Afghanistan or Iraq while fighting insurgents barely out of the stone age does not garner you more esteem in my eyes than falling off a fishing boat and drowning or being killed in a mine cave-in.

I should note that in an actual war of national preservation - WWII or the American Civil War, for instance - I feel differently. Going to war to defend kith and kin is something I can get behind.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
41. You are entitle your opinion and God Bless you for it.
Mon May 28, 2012, 04:29 PM
May 2012

But I lost a cousin in Tikrit Iraq and I hold him in the highest esteem and he is my hero. Those who protest the war are hero's to me. All who stood up in congress against the war are hero's to me. All who put their lives on the line are hero's to me. You have a nice day my friend.

Lydia Leftcoast

(48,217 posts)
49. I suppose that's a psychological defense mechanism against
Mon May 28, 2012, 05:04 PM
May 2012

realizing that your cousin died for the oil companies and George Bush's ego.

In the past ten years, thousands of young Americans have died in combat for no good reason. If they thought they were "serving their country," they were deceived. Maybe it makes their families feel better to think of them as "heroes," but a hero is someone who dies for a WORTHY cause.

The country would have been better off if all the military personnel had said, "This war makes no sense. We're not going."

The older I get, the less I buy that "patriotism=militarism" bullshit.

In fact, I avoid all Memorial Day and Fourth of July celebrations, because I used to be a college professor, and when armchair patriots get all misty about "our heroic men and women," I see the boys and girls I used to teach, young people with their whole lives ahead of them. Lost. And for what?

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
55. My cousin is a hero to me.
Mon May 28, 2012, 05:13 PM
May 2012

If you don't think so thats your opinion. My family was never for the war but my cousin served in the national guard for years and served his country proudly. He left four kids and a wife behind and he was killed just a few days after his arrival. My cousin death hit this family very hard and we will always honor his service.

Lydia Leftcoast

(48,217 posts)
56. He may have THOUGHT he was serving his country
Mon May 28, 2012, 05:23 PM
May 2012

but World War II (and possibly Korea) was the last time this was actually the truth, as opposed to pro-enlistment propaganda.

Were George Bush's ego and the oil companies a worthy reason for four children to grow up without their father?

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
58. My cousin did serve his country.
Mon May 28, 2012, 05:26 PM
May 2012

You don't have to like the war but don't diminish the service of our armed forces.

Lydia Leftcoast

(48,217 posts)
59. The insurgents in Iraq would have said that THEY were serving THEIR country
Mon May 28, 2012, 05:32 PM
May 2012

In their minds, they were fighting a foreign invader.

Do you honor them, too?

Lydia Leftcoast

(48,217 posts)
64. Friendly fire?
Mon May 28, 2012, 06:05 PM
May 2012

Even a worse waste.

But that's dodging my question. Would you consider the Iraqi insurgents to be heroes? They see themselves as fighting for their country, and they have families who mourn them.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
65. It was not friendly fire. As for your question I do not have all the answers, but...
Mon May 28, 2012, 06:13 PM
May 2012

...I will say that many of those insurgents were citizens who thought that our presence need to begotten rid of in their country. It is true many came from other countries to fight us, but the majority were regular Iraqi's trying to get rid of us. I can not say if they are hero's or not. I can understand how Iraqi's can all them hero's.

 

crunch60

(1,412 posts)
61. I agree with you. I see these lost lives, our young men and women, as victims
Mon May 28, 2012, 05:40 PM
May 2012

of the military industrial complex, the latest wars I attribute to the Bush/Cheney wrecking crew and continued by Obama. My uncle was awarded a bronze star for his service in WW2, and he suffered horrendous "shell shock" for years. Lives forever changed, even if you survive the atrocities that is war. I do not support these latest wars, but honor and appreciate those who served.

I also believe we should have stopped the Nazi regime long before we did. Also not a just war, but certainly a necessary one.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
12. war sucks and...
Mon May 28, 2012, 03:27 PM
May 2012

warmongers are evil but separate the soldier from the warmongers and chris did not do that. They are our hero's. Just like the people in congress who stood up against the war are my hero's.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
13. I disagree with his statement. And he surely knew that would incite some heated responses.
Mon May 28, 2012, 03:27 PM
May 2012

IMO, the soldier on the field is divorced from the CAUSE of any war. They didn't declare war or decide to go to war. They are doing their job. That job takes a certain amount of physical strength, commitment, loyalty, and bravery. Anyone who voluntarily faces a bullet on behalf of his country is a hero, IMO. Even those who face a bullet involuntarily, but step up to the plate and do their job on behalf of their country, are heroes.

Many pull strings to get out of having to face a bullet. That would be people like Cheney and Bush and Romney. Those people are cowards, IMO.

It has nothing to do with the cause of the war, which was declared by others.

whatchamacallit

(15,558 posts)
32. I agree with you, mostly
Mon May 28, 2012, 04:02 PM
May 2012

You're right, putting yourself in harm's way for your country is indeed brave, maybe even heroic. That said, there is something corrupt about leaders who send men and women to war for questionable reasons, calling them heroes in an attempt to legitimize the conflict. It works well because questioning the conflict dishonors the "heroes" who made the ultimate sacrifice for it.

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
33. His statement said nearly nothing about the soldier, in the field or no, and your last statement
Mon May 28, 2012, 04:03 PM
May 2012

is exactly his point.

"It has nothing to do with the cause of the war, which was declared by others."

When he said "we marshal this word in a way that is problematic" he is saying that hero is used, by some, in the same sentence as a justification for more war because heroes are so desirable, used as a marketing tool to justify the, or more, war. Their sacrifice is forgotten, and the selling of more war becomes the focus.

In so doing we use their sacrifice too cheaply, almost as if their being a "War Bond" salesmen for people who profit from war, whether politician or businessperson, was the reason we asked for, sometimes, their life. In so doing we dishonor every single person who has ever served, any family or loved one that has waited at home, and a nation who asked for that sacrifice.

Although he did not say it directly, I think that by asking the question he is also asking if we should return the value to that word, and use it with the reverence and thanks that we should.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
39. That's what I disagree with. I think he's wrong when he says that
Mon May 28, 2012, 04:22 PM
May 2012

people use "heroes" as justification for war. I don't think that's true. I think HE was inferring that HE sees the two as linked, and therefore, HE has a problem with using the term "heroes." I have no such problem. The two are disconnected, and I think that is so with most people.

Lydia Leftcoast

(48,217 posts)
52. Oh, you'd better believe that they use "our troops" as justification for war
Mon May 28, 2012, 05:07 PM
May 2012

The U.S. has regular armed forces all over the world, and yet National Guard and Reserves, mostly from small towns, were sent to Iraq and Afghanistan.

Why?

I got an inkling in 1991 when I lived in a small town that was headquarters for a National Guard unit. If you protested the Gulf War, you were dissing "our brave troops." The people in that town did NOT distinguish the troops from the cause. They were incapable of separating them.

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
57. I think I understand where you are coming from, but it sure seems so to me...
Mon May 28, 2012, 05:24 PM
May 2012


6440 people have died since this guy told us that the people with the WMD's were gonna come get us. That's over twice as many as died on 9/11.

To underscore it, he appeared on the deck of an aircraft carrier, a "hero" among heroes. He knew we hadn't won anything,and he wasn't honoring their sacrifice.

It was a sales job to underscore his brilliance.

That is what Chris thinks we can do without, and I agree.

CTyankee

(63,926 posts)
15. I saw that segment on his show. It was fascinating. It's something that
Mon May 28, 2012, 03:27 PM
May 2012

intellectuals like Hayes can do when given a chance: talk about ambiguity. Discuss the way words take on meanings in different contexts. It's the opposite of sound bites.

proud2BlibKansan

(96,793 posts)
20. I saw it too and I thought 'well this is too deep for the wingnuts'
Mon May 28, 2012, 03:37 PM
May 2012

and I had a feeling they'd attack Hayes. Which they did.

CTyankee

(63,926 posts)
26. He might be glad that he got the publicity! It may drive more liberals and
Mon May 28, 2012, 03:48 PM
May 2012

other intelligent people to his show!

Somebody once said that there is no such thing as bad publicity!

EFerrari

(163,986 posts)
28. Way too deep for the wing nuts is polysyllabic words and compound sentences.
Mon May 28, 2012, 03:53 PM
May 2012

We need much more of this. Trying to keep it simple for them has led to people thinking Jesus rode dinosaurs. It's high time to challenge them and especially on militarism.

EFerrari

(163,986 posts)
18. Calling a dead person a hero or claiming they made a sacrifice doesn't erase
Mon May 28, 2012, 03:34 PM
May 2012

the hundred bad policy decisions that got that person dead.

I'd say America has 'way too many heroes and not nearly enough good policy makers.

EFerrari

(163,986 posts)
23. That is what he was getting at.
Mon May 28, 2012, 03:42 PM
May 2012

Craven politicians have always been ready to honor those who died for their bad decisions -- they think it lets them off the hook. It is an exploitation, not an honor, to be used that way.

Let's really honor the dead. Let's help the wounded heal and let's end these wars. And please, let's deny the men who sent them to their deaths the ability to use those deaths as a political chip. We owe them that, at least.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
29. I would have said it differently because all they will hear is...
Mon May 28, 2012, 03:55 PM
May 2012

...uncomfortable calling them hero's.

EFerrari

(163,986 posts)
34. I think you're right about that.
Mon May 28, 2012, 04:08 PM
May 2012

And we can't let ourselves be bullied by people who don't even need us to speak before they start their bullying in an effort to shut us up. Imo, anyway.

spooky3

(34,510 posts)
21. Wingnuts simply cannot process nuance.
Mon May 28, 2012, 03:40 PM
May 2012

It's a carefully worded, nuanced statement, that they have chosen to misinterpret.

Odin2005

(53,521 posts)
25. I agree with Chris, but I will never say it openly.
Mon May 28, 2012, 03:46 PM
May 2012

I have a cousin who is an Iraq veteran, and if I do anything that implies that he is not a "hero" I will be torn apart.

BlueStater

(7,596 posts)
30. It's obvious to me what he's saying. People are morons.
Mon May 28, 2012, 03:58 PM
May 2012

He's not attacking the soldiers. He's attacking the scumbags who have and continue to exploit them for their own selfish causes.

DirkGently

(12,151 posts)
37. Touched a nerve by suggesting war isn't by definition "heroic."
Mon May 28, 2012, 04:13 PM
May 2012

It's a huge, well-known piece of dishonest rhetoric that respect for service people should shut down any criticism of war. The gold standard example is using the deliberately inflated perception that liberals protesting Vietnam villianized Vietnam Vets to dodge the overarching question of whether that war was just or wise or successful.

It's that religious type of enforced groupthink we hear (mostly, but not exclusively) from conservatives, in which invoking the flag or "the troops" is code for blind acceptance of any kind of military endeavor.

It's bullshit, we all know it's bullshit, and yet even Hayes had a hard time saying it, so successful is this taboo.

Enough. We're not children. We can respect service and sacrifice and still oppose foolish wars. That may be too complicated for the Malkins of the world, but the rest of us just aren't that stupid.

digonswine

(1,485 posts)
40. There should be a nuanced discussion of "heroes"-
Mon May 28, 2012, 04:27 PM
May 2012

I personally do not think that being in the military makes one a hero. Or dying for a cause makes one a hero. Or dying for one's country makes one a hero. Or being a firefighter makes one a hero. Or being willing to take a bullet makes one a hero.
The dudes at Mei Lai were willing to take a bullet for Uncle Sam. These are not heroes. These are people.
Until we stop the lionizing of fallen dead and the glorification of the war, these kids will keep being cannon-fodder.
We need to knock it off already.

kiranon

(1,727 posts)
42. Agree and my husband and I are both veterans. When someone says to me
Mon May 28, 2012, 04:35 PM
May 2012

"thank you for your service", I hear the rest of the statement "because then I didn't have to serve." So many of the people who say "thank you for your service" voted for the wars and are Republicans.

digonswine

(1,485 posts)
43. No doubt-
Mon May 28, 2012, 04:42 PM
May 2012

and I do appreciate your and your husband's service. I don't like it all to be reduced to platitudes and a way for some to circumvent real discussion. "They are heroes, I have called them such, my job is done-now watch this drive!" Or something.

proud2BlibKansan

(96,793 posts)
45. I saw Andrew Card from the Bush administration try to thank a disabled vet for his service
Mon May 28, 2012, 04:56 PM
May 2012

Card was on a book tour. There was a man in a wheelchair at the event and Card approached him as he was leaving and said "I'd like to thank you for your service" and held out his hand. The man said "No, I won't shake hands with a war criminal". The look on Card's face was priceless.

Here's the really funny part. The man wasn't even a veteran. But Card saw the wheelchair and jumped to conclusions.

limpyhobbler

(8,244 posts)
46. Chris Hayes is great but I disagree with him on this.
Mon May 28, 2012, 04:56 PM
May 2012

A certain part of patriotism is just the difference between being a human being versus being an effing robot.

How could my grandpa who risked his life to fight Hitler not be a hero? gtfo.

Chris Hayes is great and I'm glad he's making this point. Somebody had to make it and it wasn't going to be me because I don't agree with it.

It takes courage to make a point like that when you have a TV career to think about.

I won't be surprised if he gets canned, or they don't renew his contract when it comes up.

So hopefully his internet podcast will also be good.

Not every soldier is necessarily a hero, but many are. To try to tarnish their reputations in the memories of their families, even if there is a valid point, is politically stupid. And kind of rude.

Whatever though. I get what he meant.



proud2BlibKansan

(96,793 posts)
47. It's a conversation we absolutely need to have.
Mon May 28, 2012, 04:58 PM
May 2012

Maybe if we did we'd have more to consider before going to war in the future.

truedelphi

(32,324 posts)
48. It would be so interesting to know how many of the pro-war
Mon May 28, 2012, 05:04 PM
May 2012

RW wing nuts that want to perpetually honor the fallen soldiers would also want to have their taxes raised to cover the trillions of dollars we as a nation are spending to fight the wars. Honor a war grave - send in some money.

Boy oh boy - I bet the people honoring the war dead (especially all the sleezy, multi millionaire dollar a yr Talking Heads) who have never been on any combat mission would change their tune in a hurry if they had to start paying for the wars.

People who are war heroes usually don't want to talk about it much at all. They'd rather that you just hand them a burger and let them hear the ball game announcers.

Lydia Leftcoast

(48,217 posts)
54. And they don't want to pay for the care and support of the "heroes" they sent to the slaughter
Mon May 28, 2012, 05:10 PM
May 2012

The veteran who will never work again because of a traumatic brain injury? Let his family take of him, is their attitude.

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
50. Michelle Malkin and War
Mon May 28, 2012, 05:05 PM
May 2012

One takes advantage of the hideousness of the other.... in the attempt to find a career path.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
51. Hero is a word that is greatly overused.
Mon May 28, 2012, 05:07 PM
May 2012

Not everybody who dies in war is a hero. A hero is someone who does something extraordinary, like rescuing other people or something. Dying in a war does not automatically make you a hero.

ScottLand

(2,485 posts)
60. I'm sure they will call Malkin a hero for standing up to Chris Hayes.
Mon May 28, 2012, 05:33 PM
May 2012

It doesn't matter how or what Chris says, the RW's job is to disagree.

chowder66

(9,094 posts)
66. Is the term hero for us to feel better about those who serve or ...
Mon May 28, 2012, 09:24 PM
May 2012

is it really for them? I ask because the majority of times (maybe even every time) most people ask NOT to be called a hero when they do their duty/job.

It's a very nice sentiment to give to another person but it should be used correctly and quite carefully because it does lose it's meaning when overused or abused. I have the same issue with the word "miracle". I don't buy into miracles but if I had a dollar for every time someone uses it I'd be the richest person alive.


It would be a miracle to find one hero that identifies as a hero.


limpyhobbler

(8,244 posts)
67. the Chris Hayes Apology
Mon May 28, 2012, 09:32 PM
May 2012
Statement from Chris Hayes

On Sunday, in discussing the uses of the word "hero" to describe those members of the armed forces who have given their lives, I don't think I lived up to the standards of rigor, respect and empathy for those affected by the issues we discuss that I've set for myself. I am deeply sorry for that.

As many have rightly pointed out, it's very easy for me, a TV host, to opine about the people who fight our wars, having never dodged a bullet or guarded a post or walked a mile in their boots. Of course, that is true of the overwhelming majority of our nation's citizens as a whole. One of the points made during Sunday's show was just how removed most Americans are from the wars we fight, how small a percentage of our population is asked to shoulder the entire burden and how easy it becomes to never read the names of those who are wounded and fight and die, to not ask questions about the direction of our strategy in Afghanistan, and to assuage our own collective guilt about this disconnect with a pro-forma ritual that we observe briefly before returning to our barbecues.

But in seeking to discuss the civilian-military divide and the social distance between those who fight and those who don't, I ended up reinforcing it, conforming to a stereotype of a removed pundit whose views are not anchored in the very real and very wrenching experience of this long decade of war. And for that I am truly sorry.

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Gotta say I saw this coming.



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