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Taking my kids to see Selma tomorrow. (Original Post) onecaliberal Jan 2015 OP
I'm glad you are taking your kids. Skidmore Jan 2015 #1
Thanks. I think all young people should see it as well. onecaliberal Jan 2015 #2
How old are your kids? Mine's nine and I'm waffling. aikoaiko Jan 2015 #3
They are 14. (Boy/girl twins) onecaliberal Jan 2015 #4
I would think that letting them see how such language was so freely used Skidmore Jan 2015 #5
I agree young people should see. Mine certainly are. onecaliberal Jan 2015 #6
My husband and I saw it yesterday. It's a powerful film. mnhtnbb Jan 2015 #7
Wow. I hope it has a dramatic impact on my kids. onecaliberal Jan 2015 #8
I saw it. NanceGreggs Jan 2015 #9
Thank you. I appreciate your candor. onecaliberal Jan 2015 #10
Good movie. bigwillq Jan 2015 #11
Most appropriate day to see the film Brother Buzz Jan 2015 #12
I thought so too. Instead of them thinking onecaliberal Jan 2015 #13
Could make an imprint, a memory, that could last a lifetime Brother Buzz Jan 2015 #14
Mine are all little except one and I want him to go with me. He is 14. jwirr Jan 2015 #15
My kids are 14 too. onecaliberal Jan 2015 #16

Skidmore

(37,364 posts)
1. I'm glad you are taking your kids.
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 09:02 PM
Jan 2015

We went to see "Selma" on Friday afternoon. It may have been the time we went to see it, but the theater was only partially full and all members of the audience were older people like us. My husband was the only black person there. Thank you for taking them. It is a film all young people should see.

aikoaiko

(34,163 posts)
3. How old are your kids? Mine's nine and I'm waffling.
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 09:05 PM
Jan 2015

I generally trust common sense media. They suggest it for 13 year olds.

https://www.commonsensemedia.org/movie-reviews/selma

What parents need to know

Positive messages
Reveals the triumphs and challenges of the civil rights movement and the importance of gathering a diverse community to fight institutional racism in the Jim Crow South. Shows how the civil rights workers put their lives and privacy at risk in the face of tremendous odds.

Positive role models
King isn't idealized here -- his flaws, including infidelity, are addressed. But there's no shortage of incredible role models among the civil rights leaders, including King and his wife; their friends Hosea Williams, Bayard Ruskin, and a young John Lewis; Diane Nash; James Bevel; and others who supported the cause of nonviolent protest and raised national consciousness about inequality in the South.

Violence
Southern whites terrorize the black marchers and potential voters -- attacking them with sticks, bats, guns, barbed stakes, and even whips. Selma police use tear gas and batons to viciously beat protestors until they're bloody and unable to walk. Angry segregationists blow up a church, killing four girls; they also beat a white clergyman to death. MLK and his friends refer to lynchings and the murders of Medgar Evars, Malcolm X, and Robert F. Kennedy.

Sex
A few kisses and embraces between couples. One scene in which Coretta listens to a recording of two people having sex, presumably to make her think it's her husband and a mistress. Coretta and Martin have a conversation about his infidelity.

Language
Infrequent (except for the racial slurs) use of words including "f--k," "s--," "bulls--t," "ass," and "goddamn." Much more frequent use of the "N" word, "nigras," "negroes," "coon," "white n----r," "bastard," and more.

onecaliberal

(32,786 posts)
4. They are 14. (Boy/girl twins)
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 09:10 PM
Jan 2015

I do worry about the use of the N word because my daughter's best friend is AA. They've encountered some of that ignorance at school and my daughter was horrified. Still I want them to see this country for what it is. I'm very active politically so they are aware of a lot.
I would be a little apprehensive if I were you too.

Skidmore

(37,364 posts)
5. I would think that letting them see how such language was so freely used
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 09:19 PM
Jan 2015

back then could be used to underscore the change that has occurred in that respect. However, you will find yourself being struck by how many of the same attitudes and problems are still here but with a glossy coating. Again, I do think that young people need to see this film.

mnhtnbb

(31,374 posts)
7. My husband and I saw it yesterday. It's a powerful film.
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 09:28 PM
Jan 2015

We are old geezers (he's 72 and I'm 63) who remember the events of the 60's.
His family is from Georgia, and he actually spied on a Klan meeting when
he was visiting them from California--where he grew up--one time.

onecaliberal

(32,786 posts)
8. Wow. I hope it has a dramatic impact on my kids.
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 09:32 PM
Jan 2015

They are both compassionate kids but I want them to see the struggle. How people died. That it's not okay to skip voting when they turn 18.

NanceGreggs

(27,813 posts)
9. I saw it.
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 09:39 PM
Jan 2015

I found it to be not a "great" film. But then I'm a senior, who lived through that period of history.

That being said, I think it affords a great education for teens and younger adults who didn't witness these events in real time. The violence against blacks is depicted in ways that make the point, without being so graphic as to assault the sensibilities of those of your kids' ages.

Just my opinion, but I think this film will serve as a great educational tool for younger citizens, and will spark much-needed conversation about that era and its impact on the country as a whole amongst those too young to have "been there", but need to understand what "being there" was all about.



Brother Buzz

(36,388 posts)
14. Could make an imprint, a memory, that could last a lifetime
Sun Jan 18, 2015, 11:29 PM
Jan 2015

Images of an event interpreted by a director born half a decade after Kings death. I guess I'm officially an old fart.

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