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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsHow America's Bully Economy leads to a "Bully Society"
http://www.alternet.org/books/americas-bully-society-creates-bully-economyThe following is an excerpt from Jessie Klein's new book " The Bully Society: School Shootings and the Crisis of Bullying in America's Schools," (New York University Press, 2013).
Schools are microcosms of American society where students are told that financial wealth and superficial gender markers are compulsory for social acceptance. They learn these lessons from each other but also from grown-upsparents, teachers, and the wider culture they inhabit. As they prepare to enter the adult workforce and social life, children come to understand that being perceived as the richest or prettiest, or the most powerful or confident, could dramatically enhance their futuresand that without these marks of American success they may become lifelong outcasts. They also learn to see life as a zero-sum game, where they can win only if someone else loses, rise only by ensuring that someone else falls. These values are at the core of bullying behavior, and they are also the foundation upon which much of the economic, political, and social life of our nation is built.
Not all cultures are so obsessively focused on winning. In the Southwest, for instance, coaches say that teams of Hopi Indians want to win but that they often try not to win because they dont want to embarrass their opponents. In some traditional cultures, the game isnt over until the two sides are tied. They work hard to make sure no one loses. Even in Europe, as T. R. Reid writes in The European Social Model, some core human needs are seen as everyones birthright rather than as something to be won through competition with ones compatriots. To Americans, Reid writes, it is simply a matter of common sense that rich families get better medical care and education than the poor; the rich can afford the doctors at the fancy clinics and the tutors to get their kids into Harvard. But this piece of common sense does not apply in most of Europe. The corporate executive in the back seat of the limo, her chauffeur up front, and the guy who pumps the gas for them all go to the same doctor and the same hospitals and send their children to the same (largely free) universities.
In the United States, however, hardcore competition and striving to be the best are generally considered vital to keeping people motivated and functioning at optimal levels. Harsh inequalities are considered, at best, an unfortunate consequence. Yet gender pressuresand especially the expectation to embrace hypermasculine values and behaviorsare seldom examined in the context of the larger socioeconomic forces that shape them.
In one of my criminal justice classes, I asked students to tell me what words they associated with capitalism. What qualities do you need to be successful in our society? The board filled up quickly: competitive, aggressive, and powerful were some of the first suggestions. At that point, we were discussing white-collar crime and the unprincipled behavior that had produced both the Enron scandal and the economic meltdown of recent years. Later in the course we discussed school shootings and their relationship to gender, and I asked my students to list some words they associated with masculinity. The same list emerged competitive, aggressive, and powerful. Without intending to, my students had highlighted the link between the values of masculinity and capitalism.The school shooters, for the most part, grew up in the 1980s or later. The rise in school shootings roughly coincides with the Reagan administrations restructuring of the American economic, political, and cultural landscapea period that glorified unrestrained capitalism and reemphasized an up by your own bootstraps ethos. Following a landslide reelection in 1984, Reagan promised an America rich with freedom, individualism, and financial reward for those who skillfully met the standard, coupled with a lower degree of support for those who did not. Increasingly, success was defined in terms of power, economic attainment, and social statusthe same barometers increasingly used, at the high school level, to assess masculinity.
HughBeaumont
(24,461 posts). . . than those who are willing to protect the sociopathic wealthy at all costs: Former school authoritarians and bullies in a corrupt profession rotten with bad apples, short fuses, serial assaulters both physical and sexual, loose cannons and higher-ups who would rather cover up than own up. OWS was proof of this.
Here's a hint. Look at the amount of police, the amount of police-provoked violence and the amount of arrests at anti-war and anti-unbridled capitalism demonstrations.
Now do you see any of that shit going on at "Stand with Rand" rallies, where men who are completely OK with sedition are openly brandishing rifles and sidearms? Any arrests of the "Tree of Liberty" guys ('Murca puts them on TV instead) along the area where the President is?? What if one of us was seen walking with a sidearm even a MILE from where Bewsh was scheduled to be? You think we'd be posting on DU the next day? See any of that shit going on at Tea Party/Glenn Beck rallies, loaded with hateful signs and tempermental angry white nut-barrels holding them?
The Legal Gang is now militarized enough that the wealthy can sleep quietly and peacefully knowing that no one will storm their precious gates, take them to task, pop their comfy bubbles or whatever. Useful idiots working hand-in-hand with parasites keeping the peasantry scared shitless.
And we wonder why nothing's going to change. EVER.
SnowCritter
(810 posts)seems to be the dictum that a lot of corporate America uses as a guideline for employee treatment. Not all, of course.
CrispyQ
(36,557 posts)We are some of the most unhappy, affluent people on the planet.