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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region Forumswomen are male-controlled technologies of production and reproduction
I am rereading "the chalice and the blade" and came across this line, discussing the destruction of the indigenous peoples by the indo-european invaders. nothing much has changed in several thousand years, has it?
stevenleser
(32,886 posts)niyad
(113,701 posts)sort of power.
see the vote in wisconsin.
niyad
(113,701 posts)stevenleser
(32,886 posts)It's not only a crime against the women, it's self destructive as well. I was talking about a related issue with Amanda Marcotte during my recent show http://www.blogtalkradio.com/lesersense/2013/06/09/making-sense-with-steve-leser--nsa-spying-war-on-women during discussion of her recent article 10 bizarre sex tips from the Christian right, specifically one of those tips about men who complain about women who have aborted their babies.
In both cases, these men don't think about how its a really bad idea to have children with women who do not want to be with them. In terms of the reproductive coercion, it's not just criminal and a crime against women, it's stupid too.
niyad
(113,701 posts)yes, this mentality is short-sighted and stupid, but that doesn't seem to matter to the woman-haters.
the idea of sex tips from the xian reich is too much before sufficient quantities of caffeine.
cali
(114,904 posts)some things have not changed.
niyad
(113,701 posts)cali
(114,904 posts)are you referring to reproductive rights? In that case, I agree with you. It is getting worse. Are you referring to other things as well?
niyad
(113,701 posts)datasuspect
(26,591 posts)human interaction (OFFLINE/IRL) can work wonders.
niyad
(113,701 posts)about the war on women? will be waiting.
Romulus Quirinus
(524 posts)to be funny, but it falls flat because everyone else lacks the context of your internal conversation?
*awkward silence*
edit: because I know that feel, bro.
datasuspect
(26,591 posts)because the topic of discussion comes off as unhinged, bro.
niyad
(113,701 posts)is unhinged, as is people's casual dismissal of it as though an attack on over half the population is NOT a big deal.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)What precisely leads you to imagine that the topic is unhinged?
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)here's a hint what that poster thinks of feminist issues:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=2917801
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=2525865
Trailrider1951
(3,415 posts)Right down to dictating what I wore, what I thought, and whether or not I would use contraceptives. This issue is real, whether or not you choose to understand that fact. And, if you have other issues with the OP, ignore is a wonderful thing.
niyad
(113,701 posts)women's rights, anywhere in the world, a certain mindset comes out. we are, alas, quite used to it.
Squinch
(51,074 posts)How often do you read a newspaper? Pay attention to what Congress is doing? It can work wonders with that head in sand problem.
Buzz Clik
(38,437 posts)I need to read the users manual again.
niyad
(113,701 posts)Buzz Clik
(38,437 posts)redqueen
(115,103 posts)is still in jeopardy... and that is where it exists at all!
niyad
(113,701 posts)Trailrider1951
(3,415 posts)Look up that word's derivation. Here, this might help those who are unfamiliar:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hysteria
niyad
(113,701 posts)it might come as a surprise to some.
TeeYiYi
(8,028 posts)Wandering womb syndrome. Good gawd.
TYY
redqueen
(115,103 posts)Nice priorities.
niyad
(113,701 posts)that that mindset is present on a supposedly progressive board is disheartening, to say the least.
Gravitycollapse
(8,155 posts)niyad
(113,701 posts)galileoreloaded
(2,571 posts)then you are not experiencing the mainstream America the rest of us are.
we have hit defacto gender parity in this country, almost to the point where the 3rd wave is rejecting said parity for more traditional gender roles.
the suggestion to get out of the house was an apt one.
Gravitycollapse
(8,155 posts)galileoreloaded
(2,571 posts)that statement is proven false every time you step outside.
look around you. women have everything that a men have. probably more.
whole groups advocating not for equal protection but special protection. better educations, better pay. better opportunities.
its so good that many of them are rejecting what they could have for what they want, families and kids and to be a SAHM.
its so equal, they are able to choose how equal they want to be.
i know you are kinda young, but this is the golden age for females.
Gravitycollapse
(8,155 posts)It is not a matter of return. It is a matter of never leaving. We have so barely advanced gender equity that women are still suffering under the oppressive regime of male dominated society.
galileoreloaded
(2,571 posts)Gravitycollapse
(8,155 posts)Abq_Sarah
(2,883 posts)I didn't get married until I was 40.
My husband and I are equal partners in everything, including our business.
I am no servant, I am not oppressed.
It's insulting to me and every woman who has lived life on her own terms to describe us as perpetual victims.
Gravitycollapse
(8,155 posts)I am commenting on the social order, not you personally. There are always exceptions to rules and even the rules themselves have the potential to evolve.
niyad
(113,701 posts)to trigger around here. if you have not been paying attention to the outright, blatant attacks on women's rights and reproductive health, then I suggest (as so many of us have to you in the past) try actually reading up on the issue.
but keep trying. there are some who actually believe the bs you posted.
galileoreloaded
(2,571 posts)asking to balance your extreme ideology with real world experience is an attack?
only on the internet
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)Just look at the news if you need examples. And when terrible things happen so frequently, I don't see how you can consider them aberrations.
And the mere fact that many are "rejecting (relative) parity for more traditional gender roles" suggests that the changes in society have been rather weak and superficial to begin with.
*Edit: added a word.
Squinch
(51,074 posts)uppityperson
(115,681 posts)Neither of which is "gender parity". Do you mean the continuation of job differences where some are primarily male, some female? Or that the males get promoted faster and paid better? None of which is "gender parity". Not sure what you mean.
LondonReign2
(5,213 posts)but I value my skin
southerncrone
(5,506 posts)Now they are basically responsible for 90% of all "real" work that makes the world go 'round in the US.
Indentured servants in chains.
niyad
(113,701 posts)of nonsense. ssdd.
HiPointDem
(20,729 posts)'male-controlled'.
niyad
(113,701 posts)clue about the reality of the war on women.
HiPointDem
(20,729 posts)niyad
(113,701 posts)HiPointDem
(20,729 posts)eisler has degrees in sociology and law. not history, not anthropology, not archeology.
she writes "popular" books based on ideology and superficial scholarship.
Gravitycollapse
(8,155 posts)HiPointDem
(20,729 posts)niyad
(113,701 posts)HiPointDem
(20,729 posts)not been universally dominated by men in the simplistic way claimed. it's just a stupid statement, made from a modern ideological stance that falsifies the past & the present.
niyad
(113,701 posts)HiPointDem
(20,729 posts)niyad
(113,701 posts)50 years of my life (and that is just me, not counting everyone else all around the world, throughout patriarchal his/story) fighting for women's rights, fighting for full reproductive autonomy.
please explain, if the pukes and reichwing fundies DON'T see women as technologies of production and reproduction, WHY they are so determined to keep us in precisely those roles?
nice try at insult, too. as I said, keep it up, I really need the laughs.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)And people's way of thinking always lags behind technology, and behind changes in law, for that matter.
niyad
(113,701 posts)nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)We in Western countries may seem "enlightened" relative to much of the world, but we also have our share of serious problems. In the U.S. particularly, Christian fundamentalism a la Todd Akin - which isn't the whole problem, but a large chunk of it certainly - has a frighteningly strong foothold in our political and social discourse.
Like I said, it's all very relative. And "better than it used to be" doesn't mean "good."
niyad
(113,701 posts)nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)Far too many of us are still beholden to Medieval superstition and religion-based pseudoscience. Which skews our entire discourse in harmful ways.
Kath1
(4,309 posts)I am certainly not (now) a male-controlled technology of production and reproduction but I understand. Too many women are.
Just look at Wisconsin.
niyad
(113,701 posts)Response to niyad (Original post)
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One_Life_To_Give
(6,036 posts)Seems to me alot has changed in two millennium. The path hasn't been straight and there continues to be significant regional disparities. But in general the path has been positive and particularly so within the last century. Recent trends may seem like a regression. But the developing educational gap favoring women may make the end of the Patriarchy inevitable. Although it certainly won't go without a fight. Which is perhaps what we are already witnessing.
Or maybe I am just a hopeless optimist.
niyad
(113,701 posts)daily basis, even the screaming denials that there IS this problem, makes me somewhat less so than you.
dogknob
(2,431 posts)niyad
(113,701 posts)niyad
(113,701 posts)abortions nationwide after 20 weeks--that is just THIS WEEK. the war goes on, and on.
yawnmaster
(2,812 posts)niyad
(113,701 posts)designed TO CONTROL WOMEN"S REPRODUCTIVE ABILITIES? if you don't know about any of this, start paying attention. and pay particular attention to the reichwing fundie nutjobs, who talk about the death penalty for women who have had abortions, or have committed adultery, or "been uppity". no hyperbole, this is daily fare in the daily news, well, at least for those of us who are paying attention.
muriel_volestrangler
(101,400 posts)Just because a Republican says something, that doesn't mean it is.
niyad
(113,701 posts)the endless number of LAWS (not TALK, LAWS) these woman-hating cretins are passing do you not understand? these assholes ARE trying to define my life, in case you have not noticed.
yawnmaster
(2,812 posts)or else you are hyperbolating.
niyad
(113,701 posts)these pukes are passing at every level, and THEN tell me how much better we have it. by the way, "hyperbolate" does not seem to be in the dictionary. would you be good enough to define it for us?
yawnmaster
(2,812 posts)niyad
(113,701 posts)the question. but then, a truthful answer to the question would render your previous statement inaccurate, to say the least. remdi95
yawnmaster
(2,812 posts)DirkGently
(12,151 posts)Last edited Sun Jun 16, 2013, 01:33 AM - Edit history (1)
The entire power structure in Europe had to do with sons inheriting lands from their fathers. What if the father doesn't know whether his sons are his? Or if some possible son ends in utero? A woman could stop or subvert or control all of that.
Women could have conceivably wielded the womb the way men wield their fists and weaponry.
I don't mean to say it's a real threat, or that even if it conceivably could be, that it's reasonable to act upon it. But those in power can see other avenues of control, and despise them, automatically.
They banned the female gods. Wiped god's wife from the Bible. Made the priesthood an all-male club. Put the entire onus of sexual "misdeeds" on women. Qualities associated with the feminine were derided as weak or foolish.
It may not have been a conscious act, and certainly wasn't a single event.
But women and their entire physicality and biology and the feminine itself have been stripped and shamed so as to be less dangerous.
OneGrassRoot
(22,920 posts)RANT ON
First, niyad, I'm a huge fan of Riane Eisler (actually, I just became certified as a Conversation Leader regarding her Caring Economics program). So, yes, I agree with you.
Second, I can't believe a lot of the ignorant comments above!!!!
Has the Internet been taken over completely by 20- and 30-something Ron Paul acolytes? So much of the BS spewed here lately, including gender-related comments, sound like they're coming from that set of callous, narrow-minded, immature, naive individuals.
After just seeing the (hopefully now tombstoned) new DUer post a video suggesting all women past menopause be euthanized, and seeing perhaps well-intentioned DUers suggest that there is now complete equality between men and women in the US if not the world economically, I may become the rabid, militaristic feminist type Limbaugh & Company have tried to paint us as for decades.
redqueen
(115,103 posts)The world needs many more militant feminists.
niyad
(113,701 posts)boringly predictable.
Have been fighting this same damned battle for decades, have been called every name under the sun, as though I give a **** what cretins like that think.
Sister Militant
A-i-C, P.H.D. remdi95
Blessed order of the sisters of perpetual outrage
lumberjack_jeff
(33,224 posts)To the extent that your subject has a kernel of truth, the below is its most tangible manifestation.
Men die to protect the means of reproduction.
niyad
(113,701 posts)lumberjack_jeff
(33,224 posts)Hint: It's a big marble monument with the names of 57,939 people, of whom 57,931 are men.
Why don't the men in control of the women-bots send them to wars instead?
niyad
(113,701 posts)the majority of those killed in these men-made wars are civilians, women and children. but, again, nice try.
as for your question, they are not going to lose their breeding machines, that simple. remdi85
galileoreloaded
(2,571 posts)what is their purpose then, biologically?
lumberjack_jeff
(33,224 posts)Even the most perfunctory, simple, rudimentary, cursory, superficial, crude and tentative application of logic shows that the people which war leaves at home hold more value than that of "breeding machines" or even, as Galileoreloaded notes downthread, their meat shields.
The main manifestation of the patriarchy is that your life is more valuable than mine, or those of my sons.