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Am I the only one who thinks that Mary Trump is a train wreck? (Original Post) Baltimike Jul 2020 OP
This message was self-deleted by its author milestogo Jul 2020 #1
Was she supposed to be? Most people aren't, especially if they are not used to being The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2020 #12
No, I guess not. milestogo Jul 2020 #44
+++ still_one Jul 2020 #48
Exactly. How many of us are professional talking heads? nt Hortensis Jul 2020 #109
Thank you for this comment Mike 03 Jul 2020 #117
Why would you expect her to be? StarfishSaver Jul 2020 #92
Why did you expect or want her to be mesmerizing ? that's just weird JI7 Jul 2020 #100
There are a lit of people who need to be mesmerized. redstatebluegirl Jul 2020 #103
It is weird, isn't it? Mike 03 Jul 2020 #119
Like Jimmy Carter over Ronald Reagan. Aristus Jul 2020 #125
I never said mesmerizing...YOU did...but she did know she Baltimike Jul 2020 #178
Franz Mesmer: The "Father of hypnotism" panader0 Jul 2020 #113
Well in her defense... SHE IS A TRUMP! n/t JustFiveMoreMinutes Jul 2020 #2
Yup Ahpook Jul 2020 #5
This. You're absolutely right Baltimike Jul 2020 #15
This message was self-deleted by its author IcyPeas Jul 2020 #3
Probably. I don't see anything wrong with the way she is speaking. The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2020 #4
+1 moondust Jul 2020 #8
Well put Ahpook Jul 2020 #25
+1. i'm a million times smarter than drumpf (who isn't) Takket Jul 2020 #40
Thank you StarfishSaver Jul 2020 #93
I know I would be either an incoherently-babbling mess, The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2020 #98
I don't either PatSeg Jul 2020 #95
Same here. Actually I found her to be quite reflective in the way she spoke. triron Jul 2020 #116
I'm enjoying the interview. But, I don't have cable tv so I can only get audio from tunein mucifer Jul 2020 #6
Try this canetoad Jul 2020 #10
thanks but I'm not sure that's a legal thing mucifer Jul 2020 #13
this service has been up for since long before Rump was POTUS Celerity Jul 2020 #53
I don't canetoad Jul 2020 #7
She's afraid. Laelth Jul 2020 #9
Indeed. I will. Thanks nt Baltimike Jul 2020 #17
. Laelth Jul 2020 #28
I agree. JohnnyLib2 Jul 2020 #19
Early in the interview, I saw her cut her eyes misanthrope Jul 2020 #32
If I were she, I would definitely have counsel present. Laelth Jul 2020 #38
Oh wow. I hadn't even considered that...and must admit Baltimike Jul 2020 #77
Maybe canetoad Jul 2020 #87
She seems to be one of the few in that family that came out as a normal human being. backscatter712 Jul 2020 #156
I hope she sues because of the inheritance fraud Baltimike Jul 2020 #161
It isn't just Trumps Bettie Jul 2020 #169
Yes she's definitely getting advice from lawyers FakeNoose Jul 2020 #83
This is spot on...and makes the whole thing make much more sense. Baltimike Jul 2020 #179
I see/hear this the same way. salin Jul 2020 #88
Given what she has done to Cockwomble with her book/tv...... lastlib Jul 2020 #187
I admire her, to be sure. Laelth Jul 2020 #189
Absolutely! the tRumpers and Putinistas aren't going to play patty-cake with her.... lastlib Jul 2020 #190
Good gawd no! Boxerfan Jul 2020 #11
Me either, I think she's doing a very credible job.....slow, concise, and heartfelt a kennedy Jul 2020 #61
+1 Baitball Blogger Jul 2020 #112
I am agreeing with the substance of your remark so shouldn't grantcart Jul 2020 #174
She's an academic, not a performer Bettie Jul 2020 #14
Absolutely this. Zoonart Jul 2020 #30
THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS Lisa0825 Jul 2020 #59
Yes, experts in their fields are not entertainers. betsuni Jul 2020 #105
I think it's a good interview. rusty quoin Jul 2020 #16
+++ still_one Jul 2020 #50
I find her very intelligent tavernier Jul 2020 #18
Far more than he uncle. El Supremo Jul 2020 #22
I agree. It took a lot of guts to publish that book. The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2020 #26
She's just looking customerserviceguy Jul 2020 #20
Have you been watching? She explained exactly why The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2020 #51
Heard it customerserviceguy Jul 2020 #66
The Munsters were good souls. As was Marilyn. n/t Lucinda Jul 2020 #104
I admit customerserviceguy Jul 2020 #132
She is likely more of a "functioning human being" SharonClark Jul 2020 #54
I am gonna guess that it is men here who are not liking her. Tipperary Jul 2020 #124
Oh do tell how you're assessing her as not "fully functional" nolabear Jul 2020 #63
She's a Trump customerserviceguy Jul 2020 #67
Actually she was not raised with the rest of them. The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2020 #74
I was raised in an extended Southern family of racists and scary cops. nolabear Jul 2020 #96
I think that goes a bit too far. Baltimike Jul 2020 #85
Wow StarfishSaver Jul 2020 #97
I might not agree with his comments, but this should never be an echo chamber. cwydro Jul 2020 #111
Thank you customerserviceguy Jul 2020 #131
typical obamanut2012 Jul 2020 #118
Obviously not. betsuni Jul 2020 #123
She's not a skilled Turbineguy Jul 2020 #21
Yes, you are alone on that one, elleng Jul 2020 #23
Not at all... wcmagumba Jul 2020 #24
So "Yes" Ok is the only one? grantcart Jul 2020 #175
For me... wcmagumba Jul 2020 #184
I would completely agree...she got better as they went on Baltimike Jul 2020 #185
I agree but the OP said "am I the only one who thinks MT is a train wreck. grantcart Jul 2020 #186
Sorry, I wasn't clear, I posted in a hurry... wcmagumba Jul 2020 #188
Sorry about your neighbor grantcart Jul 2020 #192
I think she's great, as is Rachel, and looks really tired. babylonsister Jul 2020 #27
I read it as soon as it appeared in my Kindle the other night, The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2020 #36
Listening to her tonight, my hair is raised. babylonsister Jul 2020 #52
She sounds very credible, I like that she is not polished... unitedwethrive Jul 2020 #29
She's an intelligent, cautious woman Fiendish Thingy Jul 2020 #31
She's not used to this format RockCreek Jul 2020 #33
I watched the entire ABC interview Jarqui Jul 2020 #34
I think she's doing well. It was obvious how nervous she was at the beginning flibbitygiblets Jul 2020 #35
I don't have that feeling about her. LiberalFighter Jul 2020 #37
Think her nervousness relates well to the average person and makes Enoki33 Jul 2020 #39
I work with many intelligent people who fear crowds RainCaster Jul 2020 #41
I agree with everyone who disagrees with the OP. n/t ariadne0614 Jul 2020 #42
She is thoughtful. She thinks before she speaks and speaks carefully. chowder66 Jul 2020 #43
She's getting better as the interview is progressing oswaldactedalone Jul 2020 #45
I think Rachel is giving her the freedom to say what she wants to say...... a kennedy Jul 2020 #49
She wrote this book to warn us that her uncle is a social misfit AND IF HE GETS ELECTED AGAIN a kennedy Jul 2020 #46
it gets better Demonaut Jul 2020 #47
It did. nt Baltimike Jul 2020 #82
Bradkey Moss finds her more impressive because she isn't polished, is clearly uneasy. highplainsdem Jul 2020 #55
Uneasy. YES!!! Perfect, in fact. nt Baltimike Jul 2020 #73
She's intelligent, honest, concise, straightforward and informative. sop Jul 2020 #56
She's measured and cautious, but there is no lack of substance in oasis Jul 2020 #57
NO! texasfiddler Jul 2020 #58
Odd, indeed. OP's concern is duly noted. nt Lisa0825 Jul 2020 #62
YAAAAAWN Baltimike Jul 2020 #79
What? She was lucid, calm, detailed, what did you want? nolabear Jul 2020 #60
and she's NOT SEEKING THE SPOTLIGHT, this book is her account of the piece of shit a kennedy Jul 2020 #64
Absolutely disagree about Mary Trump davekriss Jul 2020 #65
the opposite, I think she is extraordinarily credible Celerity Jul 2020 #68
I think we are so used to people who talk so fast they fall over their words . Srkdqltr Jul 2020 #69
We are also used to people who are slick and practiced and used to the limelight, The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2020 #80
Exactly. Remember how Robert Mueller's TV presence was criticized, not his testimony and evidence? catrose Jul 2020 #94
I didn't see it that way at all. Music Man Jul 2020 #70
Exactly. I am terrified by the thought of how I would come across, as a non-media person. nt Lisa0825 Jul 2020 #89
I disagree with you. I like the interview Tribetime Jul 2020 #71
Other than a few overly brief responses I thought she was great Awsi Dooger Jul 2020 #72
Nope. Not at all. And I had an advantage of only being able to listen to her with no visual clues. yonder Jul 2020 #75
LOL. Thanks for your "concern!" PSPS Jul 2020 #76
YAAAAAAAWN Baltimike Jul 2020 #81
I find her authentic. dalton99a Jul 2020 #78
Not a train wreck at all. I don't get how you think that Cousin Dupree Jul 2020 #84
She seems scared, and not entirely prepared for the media onslaught that her book... SKKY Jul 2020 #86
Are you talking about the Mary Trump who just published a book about her uncle? StarfishSaver Jul 2020 #90
Wow. Really? ecstatic Jul 2020 #91
To answer your question about train wreck ... MFGsunny Jul 2020 #99
Train Wreck? Strong opinion there ChubbyStar Jul 2020 #101
The train wreck is her uncle. Kingofalldems Jul 2020 #114
Hope you are well ChubbyStar Jul 2020 #135
Same here. Doing great. Kingofalldems Jul 2020 #137
Mary Trump is just fine dlk Jul 2020 #102
Your idea of a train wreck ... GeorgeGist Jul 2020 #106
... betsuni Jul 2020 #107
I think she was quite eloquent Sunsky Jul 2020 #108
Not moved by this OP Mr. Ected Jul 2020 #110
Yes obamanut2012 Jul 2020 #115
This didn't turn out like you hoped ornotna Jul 2020 #120
I'm reading the book now. MineralMan Jul 2020 #121
There's Something About Mary ? kentuck Jul 2020 #122
Da. BannonsLiver Jul 2020 #126
This is an example of the problem with modern American culture GusBob Jul 2020 #127
+1 betsuni Jul 2020 #128
You might be? pwb Jul 2020 #129
It is *what* you say that counts. Not the way you say it. NT. anamnua Jul 2020 #130
actually, I was more than disgusted when this thread was posted CatWoman Jul 2020 #133
Over 130 replies and no recs, so it looks like the answer is "yes", you're the only one. Towlie Jul 2020 #134
and yet, you didn't read the nearly 130 responses or you would have seen posts #15, 17, 73 Baltimike Jul 2020 #139
Let me figure out a nice way to put this rufus dog Jul 2020 #136
read posts # 15, 17, 73, 77 and 82 Baltimike Jul 2020 #138
Ditto. Tipperary Jul 2020 #140
kthanks. Baltimike Jul 2020 #144
Lol. Tipperary Jul 2020 #147
and yet, here you are. nt Baltimike Jul 2020 #158
No. I won't fuck off, and my asshole is none of your business... Baltimike Jul 2020 #143
Junior, is that you? Vinca Jul 2020 #141
wow, really? Read post #20, and I've noted your concern. This isn't an echo chamber. nt Baltimike Jul 2020 #142
Your attitude toward Ms. Trump--the only member of the family calling him out hlthe2b Jul 2020 #146
Pls read post #20. I NEVER said "less than forthcoming" please don't put words in my mouth Baltimike Jul 2020 #152
Now I know why your assessment of the interview was so inexplicably off base hlthe2b Jul 2020 #160
not inexplicably off base...but I can understand why you thought Baltimike Jul 2020 #163
Yes, you're the only one. This OP didn't go as planned, eh? SMC22307 Jul 2020 #145
Not at all. Tipperary Jul 2020 #148
DU isn't what it was in its "glory days" (Dubya/Iraq) but it still manages to... SMC22307 Jul 2020 #149
True, I am going to go with your optimistic outlook. Tipperary Jul 2020 #150
Just logged backed on after a long break today... SMC22307 Jul 2020 #193
Disagree ProfessorGAC Jul 2020 #151
not looking to run interference, just speaking my mind Baltimike Jul 2020 #159
So, Everything Is About You? ProfessorGAC Jul 2020 #164
Oh dear...I must have misinterpreted your post Baltimike Jul 2020 #167
You Do Grasp What A Sub Thread Is, Right? ProfessorGAC Jul 2020 #171
past tedious 6 miles back, and Baltimike Jul 2020 #180
I've been here since 2004 under a different name. SMC22307 Jul 2020 #194
as *planned* Read ALL OF MY POSTS ON HERE FOR COMPREHENSION Baltimike Jul 2020 #154
there is a link at the bottom of the OP Kali Jul 2020 #173
the piling on got too insulting Baltimike Jul 2020 #182
My pleasure. I'm all for shining a bright light... SMC22307 Jul 2020 #195
Me too. Thanks for shining a light on the bullying and knee jerking Baltimike Jul 2020 #198
She's exposed the serial wrongdoings of the entire Trump family from an insiders view. Imallin4Joe Jul 2020 #153
Oh, I applaud the book for SURE, and respect her academic prowess Baltimike Jul 2020 #155
Peace, Baltimike. I'm with you. Imallin4Joe Jul 2020 #168
Well ,when I first saw her on Rachel, I thought she was a bit LuckyCharms Jul 2020 #157
I only saw the Rachel interview, and it did get better as it went on, and lots of reasons why Baltimike Jul 2020 #166
She's not a pundit that goes on the bobblehead shows for a living. backscatter712 Jul 2020 #162
stated, and answered upthread Baltimike Jul 2020 #165
WOW, Self delete this silly post! nt USALiberal Jul 2020 #170
Thanks for the kick for what you call a silly post Baltimike Jul 2020 #177
LOL, yes the RECs are amazing! nt USALiberal Jul 2020 #181
LOL!!! So is that FLAME since no one has to post for rec's and post #77 Baltimike Jul 2020 #183
Would it be better if she were studied like, say, Ivanka? kskiska Jul 2020 #172
LOL!!! Baltimike Jul 2020 #176
It can be difficult to accept those not polished enough for our commercially branded tastes LanternWaste Jul 2020 #191
yes Demonaut Jul 2020 #196
Public speaking is an art. musicblind Jul 2020 #197

Response to Baltimike (Original post)

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,976 posts)
12. Was she supposed to be? Most people aren't, especially if they are not used to being
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:37 PM
Jul 2020

interviewed on national tv. Her book is, though.

redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
103. There are a lit of people who need to be mesmerized.
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 07:15 AM
Jul 2020

Like the ones who say Joe Biden doesn't "excite them".

Mike 03

(16,616 posts)
119. It is weird, isn't it?
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 09:32 AM
Jul 2020

Give me a sincere person with something worth saying who isn't used to the limelight over a polished vacuity any day.

Baltimike

(4,148 posts)
178. I never said mesmerizing...YOU did...but she did know she
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 04:36 PM
Jul 2020

was going to be on tv, so...see post #77

Ahpook

(2,751 posts)
5. Yup
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:36 PM
Jul 2020

Damaged!

On edit: Its a damaged family that spawned that thing that currently resides in the WH.

She is doing ok

Baltimike

(4,148 posts)
15. This. You're absolutely right
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:38 PM
Jul 2020

and I am not trying to flame...just trying to vent.

That's the right perspective though Thanks

Response to Baltimike (Original post)

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,976 posts)
4. Probably. I don't see anything wrong with the way she is speaking.
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:36 PM
Jul 2020

She's not someone who's used to this kind of limelight, so there's no reason to expect her to be as smooth as Rachel or anyone else who's regularly on TV. She's an academic, and that's how she comes across. She seems very honest and credible.

Takket

(21,702 posts)
40. +1. i'm a million times smarter than drumpf (who isn't)
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:49 PM
Jul 2020

but i'm also introverted and shy, and would probably by nervous to the point of throwing up if i was going to be on a national tv show. she's just out of her element most likely.

 

StarfishSaver

(18,486 posts)
93. Thank you
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:44 PM
Jul 2020

I wonder what people are expecting?

And I wonder how "mesmerizing" they would be when doing their first television interviews.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,976 posts)
98. I know I would be either an incoherently-babbling mess,
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:48 PM
Jul 2020

or the proverbial deer in the headlights, able to answer only in monosyllables. In a previous professional life I did a number of oral arguments and a few trials without freaking out, but knowing I was on national tv talking to the likes of Rachel Maddow would probably make me wet my pants and/or throw up.

PatSeg

(47,741 posts)
95. I don't either
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:45 PM
Jul 2020

She's obviously a little uncomfortable and nervous being on national TV, most people would be, but I thought she was fine. I just finished reading her book and she is an impressive writer.

Also, I'm sure she knows that members of her family are watching her on television, which would undoubtedly make her more nervous.

mucifer

(23,612 posts)
6. I'm enjoying the interview. But, I don't have cable tv so I can only get audio from tunein
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:36 PM
Jul 2020

It might be different to see it

canetoad

(17,215 posts)
7. I don't
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:36 PM
Jul 2020

It seems like her natural manner to be reserved. I guess her job makes her more accustomed to listening. And she's not a TV presenter.

Laelth

(32,017 posts)
9. She's afraid.
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:37 PM
Jul 2020

She’s publicly attacking the most powerful person in the world, and she knows he’s a vindictive psychopath.

My instinct is to cut her some slack.

-Laelth

JohnnyLib2

(11,212 posts)
19. I agree.
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:39 PM
Jul 2020


Anything she says will probably be distorted to use against her. That's an intimidating spot to be in.

misanthrope

(7,436 posts)
32. Early in the interview, I saw her cut her eyes
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:47 PM
Jul 2020

to her right as if she was watching/listening to someone. It wouldn't be surprising if she has counsel present and has been told to not get too far out over her skies.

Baltimike

(4,148 posts)
77. Oh wow. I hadn't even considered that...and must admit
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:32 PM
Jul 2020

I didn't watch all of it. She was too disjointed for me, but that would certainly be a good explanation why.

When she spoke in her pocket, the psychology, she was pretty great, but other times...she seemed to be over parsing her words.

That makes sense if she had counsel communicating to her

canetoad

(17,215 posts)
87. Maybe
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:38 PM
Jul 2020

You are not used to a Trump who thinks through her sentences before she opens her mouth, then can finish what she's saying without rambling off-topic.

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
156. She seems to be one of the few in that family that came out as a normal human being.
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 03:43 PM
Jul 2020

Of course they disowned her for that.

Bettie

(16,145 posts)
169. It isn't just Trumps
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 04:01 PM
Jul 2020

severely dysfunctional families can make people agonize over every word, trying to find the best way to say something.

Growing up, my mother (later diagnosed with bipolar and more) was a very angry person. So, I learned to be VERY careful in how I phrased things. Oh and to avoid her if at all possible. I still do both, because the difference between "Oh, Hi how are you?" and "You ruined my life you bitch." can be literally one word.

FakeNoose

(32,884 posts)
83. Yes she's definitely getting advice from lawyers
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:36 PM
Jul 2020

... in real time ... while the interview is streaming. Don't kid yourself, Chump is looking for ways to sue her even while this is coming out over the airwaves. Chump will never give up.

Mary Trump is scared as shit and I'm cutting her every break I can.



Baltimike

(4,148 posts)
179. This is spot on...and makes the whole thing make much more sense.
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 04:37 PM
Jul 2020

I wasn't trying to flame a thing, I really wasn't

lastlib

(23,366 posts)
187. Given what she has done to Cockwomble with her book/tv......
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 04:51 PM
Jul 2020

I would eat her polonium sammich from Vlad Cafe....!

Yeah, she was nervous, tentative, etc.--but with her sincerity and courage, she cut Shitbag a hole big enough to drive a tank through. And I love her for it!

Laelth

(32,017 posts)
189. I admire her, to be sure.
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 04:57 PM
Jul 2020

She would be a fool, however, if she wasn’t a little afraid.

-Laelth

lastlib

(23,366 posts)
190. Absolutely! the tRumpers and Putinistas aren't going to play patty-cake with her....
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 05:09 PM
Jul 2020

They'll be playing with BIG marbles that go "boom."

a kennedy

(29,771 posts)
61. Me either, I think she's doing a very credible job.....slow, concise, and heartfelt
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:04 PM
Jul 2020

in her answers.

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
174. I am agreeing with the substance of your remark so shouldn't
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 04:31 PM
Jul 2020

you be answering "Yes" he is the only one?

Bettie

(16,145 posts)
14. She's an academic, not a performer
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:38 PM
Jul 2020

and she's probably not used to being in the spotlight.

I see nothing wrong with her lack of "showmanship".

Zoonart

(11,898 posts)
30. Absolutely this.
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:45 PM
Jul 2020

We have been conditioned to think that everyone that does an interview is a 'talking head" and at home in front of the camera.

I think that perhaps she may be an introvert by nature. I have a couple of close friends that she reminds me of in mannerism and speech pattern.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,976 posts)
26. I agree. It took a lot of guts to publish that book.
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:42 PM
Jul 2020

There's no end to Trump's vengefulness, and I'm sure he'll do everything he can to discredit her. I expect he'll sue her for libel by the end of the week. Fortunately she now has a shit-ton of money with which to defend herself, unlike many of the other people he's sued.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
20. She's just looking
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:39 PM
Jul 2020

to make up financially for what she feels cheated out of by the rest of the grifter family. A few months before the election is the right time to sell a book.

If she was a really functioning human being, she would have changed her name and moved far, far away from them.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,976 posts)
51. Have you been watching? She explained exactly why
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:55 PM
Jul 2020

she decided to write the book, and when. She wouldn't have done it at all if it hadn't been for the New York Times investigation of Trump's finances, for which she supplied some financial records that she had no idea what they contained, because she didn't think anyone would believe her. She doesn't seem to have a financial motive at all.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
66. Heard it
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:14 PM
Jul 2020

I don't believe it. She's part of the spawn of Fred Trump. I refuse to believe she's the "Marilyn" of that Munster family.

 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
124. I am gonna guess that it is men here who are not liking her.
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 09:39 AM
Jul 2020

For the usual reasons. I thought she did fine.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
67. She's a Trump
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:15 PM
Jul 2020

Raised with greed and avarice as her guiding stars.

If she's such a great person, how come we never heard a peep out of her until this year?

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,976 posts)
74. Actually she was not raised with the rest of them.
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:28 PM
Jul 2020

Her father was the son that didn't fit in and who was constantly abused. Her family did not have money once her father went off on his own to become a pilot, and she was a witness to the abusive and crazy behavior of her grandfather but was not under his thumb like the others. She explained why she didn't write the book until now, which is because she did not expect anyone to believe her, at least until the NYT story came out. It took guts to write that book because Trump and his followers will do what they can to harass her and make her life miserable.

Yes, she's a Trump, but the world is full of people who didn't turn out to be anything like their shitty parents.

But you do you. I think what she's done is admirable.

nolabear

(42,002 posts)
96. I was raised in an extended Southern family of racists and scary cops.
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:45 PM
Jul 2020

Some of whom I love. I admit to unconscious racism that I try to think about and I act as an ally in situations involving race when I can. Trust me or not; for complex reasons I am considerably different from my family. I believe she does not regret making money but I believe her motives are out of the same fear 45 instills in us all, and she can do something about it.

Baltimike

(4,148 posts)
85. I think that goes a bit too far.
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:38 PM
Jul 2020

I don't think she was inauthentic, just disjointed in a way that I found kind of hard to follow at times.

Lots of great explanations here why, but I am not afraid to speak my mind and there was a LOT of dead air space and some really long (seemed unnecessary) pauses.

I hope she sues them for lying about her inheritance

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
111. I might not agree with his comments, but this should never be an echo chamber.
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 08:57 AM
Jul 2020

Some here seem to hate anyone who doesn't go with the current narrative.

It's a DISCUSSION boars. People should speak as they want.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
131. Thank you
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 01:53 PM
Jul 2020

Diversity of opinion seems to be less favored around here lately than it used to be.

If somebody had unearthed an Obama family member during his administration that was telling tales, true journalists would be examining the person's motives with a fine toothed comb. I feel that this broken individual is taking advantage of the possibility that the mainstream media is not likely to be as skeptical about someone seen as a burr under Trump's saddle.

elleng

(131,370 posts)
23. Yes, you are alone on that one,
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:41 PM
Jul 2020

she's articulate and credible.

See her interview with G. Stephanopolous.

wcmagumba

(2,893 posts)
184. For me...
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 04:42 PM
Jul 2020

I have watched several of her interviews now and do not see her as a "train wreck" but other than being a little nervous in that first interview found her to sound intelligent and her answers informative and interesting.

Baltimike

(4,148 posts)
185. I would completely agree...she got better as they went on
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 04:45 PM
Jul 2020

but the beginning of that first one? I'm just saying. (I wasn't trying to flame anything either)

grantcart

(53,061 posts)
186. I agree but the OP said "am I the only one who thinks MT is a train wreck.
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 04:51 PM
Jul 2020

So isn't your intent to say that yes he is the only one that thinks she is a train wreck,?

wcmagumba

(2,893 posts)
188. Sorry, I wasn't clear, I posted in a hurry...
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 04:54 PM
Jul 2020

and had just found out my neighbor tested positive for c-19...

unitedwethrive

(1,997 posts)
29. She sounds very credible, I like that she is not polished...
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:45 PM
Jul 2020

much more 'real' than most of the politicians and talking heads we are used to seeing talk about Trump. Her pauses come across as thinking about being precise and accurate, which is very important.

Fiendish Thingy

(15,703 posts)
31. She's an intelligent, cautious woman
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:46 PM
Jul 2020

I’m sure she has been coached by her lawyers.

She is confirming all the stories in her book, what else were you expecting?

She’s an intellectual, apparently not an impressive speaker.

RockCreek

(739 posts)
33. She's not used to this format
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:47 PM
Jul 2020

A regular interview in person would be hard enough, but add in the virtual. There are time pauses, difficulty with kniwing how to look at either Rachel or the camera, etc.

Jarqui

(10,131 posts)
34. I watched the entire ABC interview
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:47 PM
Jul 2020

and all of Maddow so far. (as of 9:46pm)

I find her quite credible

flibbitygiblets

(7,220 posts)
35. I think she's doing well. It was obvious how nervous she was at the beginning
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:47 PM
Jul 2020

I could see her taking deep breaths, clearly trying to calm herself. She nods a lot when Rachel speaks, and occasionally gives a nervous laugh when Rachel says something quasi-funny. However, she certainly appears to be well-educated and has an extensive vocabulary.

Side note, the family resemblance is very strong. That might tend to bias a lot of people against her. (I didn't notice it in the book bio pic, but in person it's quite noticeable.) It creates a kind of cognitive dissonance to see someone who looks so much like Donald but can speak intelligently and isn't arrogant, self-important or vindictive.

LiberalFighter

(51,301 posts)
37. I don't have that feeling about her.
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:48 PM
Jul 2020

She is not a shyster like her uncle.

She doesn't wander from topic to topic or speak in incomplete sentences like her uncle.

Enoki33

(1,589 posts)
39. Think her nervousness relates well to the average person and makes
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:49 PM
Jul 2020

her more believable. She solidifies all of the ugliness that has been playing out on tv screens across the country that COVID-19 has personalized by his gross incompetence.

RainCaster

(10,952 posts)
41. I work with many intelligent people who fear crowds
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:49 PM
Jul 2020

And the Rachel show is really big time.

She has written very well, give her credit for that.

chowder66

(9,104 posts)
43. She is thoughtful. She thinks before she speaks and speaks carefully.
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:50 PM
Jul 2020

I see no problem with her interview.

a kennedy

(29,771 posts)
46. She wrote this book to warn us that her uncle is a social misfit AND IF HE GETS ELECTED AGAIN
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:52 PM
Jul 2020

WE’RE DEAD AS A COUNTRY.

highplainsdem

(49,121 posts)
55. Bradkey Moss finds her more impressive because she isn't polished, is clearly uneasy.
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 09:58 PM
Jul 2020






And in case you're not familiar with who Bradley Moss is:

https://markzaid.com/moss/

https://www.politico.com/states/contributor/bradley-p-moss




I'd say he's likely to be a good judge of how credible she is in this interview.

texasfiddler

(1,993 posts)
58. NO!
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:00 PM
Jul 2020

Please don’t take this wrong, but the fact that you need a polished speaker is odd! I would think our society is more interested in truth than a polished con artist. Your concern is odd in my view.

nolabear

(42,002 posts)
60. What? She was lucid, calm, detailed, what did you want?
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:03 PM
Jul 2020

She’s not a drama queen. Maybe people have gotten too fond of drama queens.

a kennedy

(29,771 posts)
64. and she's NOT SEEKING THE SPOTLIGHT, this book is her account of the piece of shit
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:08 PM
Jul 2020

she lived with and knew her whole life and she’s telling the country, DO NOT ELECT THIS ORANGE PIECE OF SHIT AGAIN. (JMHO)

davekriss

(4,643 posts)
65. Absolutely disagree about Mary Trump
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:09 PM
Jul 2020

She obviously was nervous at the start. But thereafter I found her to be bright and very articulate.

Srkdqltr

(6,376 posts)
69. I think we are so used to people who talk so fast they fall over their words .
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:19 PM
Jul 2020

It was nice to hear someone who spoke clearly and was understandable.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,976 posts)
80. We are also used to people who are slick and practiced and used to the limelight,
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:34 PM
Jul 2020

and now we expect that level of slickness from everyone, even though most ordinary people who haven't been soaked in that celebrity culture are more likely to behave like deer in the headlights when plopped down in front of a tv camera.

Music Man

(1,184 posts)
70. I didn't see it that way at all.
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:21 PM
Jul 2020

In fact, a lot of people here are saying she seemed nervous, especially in the beginning, and I didn't even see that. She came across to me as a plain, non-media figure. Very genuine.

 

Awsi Dooger

(14,565 posts)
72. Other than a few overly brief responses I thought she was great
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:26 PM
Jul 2020

And she was best on the most important topics.

Rachel was clearly frustrated at a few of the incomplete answers early. That led to some very long questions seemingly designed to get Mary to open up. Once Mary relaxed and offered multifaceted answers the interview really picked up.

yonder

(9,685 posts)
75. Nope. Not at all. And I had an advantage of only being able to listen to her with no visual clues.
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:30 PM
Jul 2020

I think she was articulate, careful (as she should be) with a considered and measured stride. Not only that but IMO, she writes well too. She came off like I would expect from the excerpts that I have read.

In any case, it would be tough enough coming out of that family as a healthy person, and I believe she succeeded.

SKKY

(11,834 posts)
86. She seems scared, and not entirely prepared for the media onslaught that her book...
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:38 PM
Jul 2020

...has launched in her direction.

 

StarfishSaver

(18,486 posts)
90. Are you talking about the Mary Trump who just published a book about her uncle?
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:42 PM
Jul 2020

Because I saw that Mary Trump on Rachel Maddow and was very impressed with her. She was very articulate, calm, rational and thoughtful. She wasn't at all "disjointed" and wasn't anything close to being " a "train wreck."

ecstatic

(32,782 posts)
91. Wow. Really?
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:42 PM
Jul 2020

Were it not for trump's destruction of the world, I'm sure she would have been content to stay in obscurity. She's doing her duty to report what she knows. Not everyone is going to be camera ready and perfectly marketable for the masses.

MFGsunny

(2,356 posts)
99. To answer your question about train wreck ...
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 10:55 PM
Jul 2020

Count me in on the totally OPPOSITE side of thinking Mary Trump is a train wreck.

In fact, let me offer her a few well-deserved hat tips ....

ChubbyStar

(3,191 posts)
101. Train Wreck? Strong opinion there
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 11:08 PM
Jul 2020

I will be forthright in saying I have never liked you, I think my initial assessment is correct.

dlk

(11,600 posts)
102. Mary Trump is just fine
Thu Jul 16, 2020, 11:45 PM
Jul 2020

She looks and acts like a normal, everyday person. She had to have been a little nervous, with the whole world watching and the requisite threats coming from her uncle and his enablers. Cut her some slack. Women are judged too much as it is.

Sunsky

(1,737 posts)
108. I think she was quite eloquent
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 07:47 AM
Jul 2020

I wish they had more than an hour. I was literally sipping tea while listening to this family drama.
With her Ph.D. in psychology, Mary is the perfect family member to dissect the dynamics of this family. The daddy complex that she described has been passed through generations and we are now seeing similar manifestations in 45's children. I almost feel empathy towards them.
Her explanation for why she wrote the book now as opposed to pre-2016 election is also perfectly stated. We (the country) now have the lived-experience with 45 to grasp the contents of her lived experience as a Trump family member. The book is perfectly timed.

Mr. Ected

(9,675 posts)
110. Not moved by this OP
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 08:08 AM
Jul 2020

I was, however, moved by Mary Trump.

I sensed a lifetime of pain in her eyes. She has more courage than 100 men and women. She speaks eloquently and forcefully. This could not have been easy for her.

MineralMan

(146,350 posts)
121. I'm reading the book now.
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 09:35 AM
Jul 2020

She is not a train wreck. She is very articulate and clear about the Trump family and Donald J. Trump in particular.

You are incorrect. Read the book!

kentuck

(111,111 posts)
122. There's Something About Mary ?
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 09:36 AM
Jul 2020

She said she turned over 40,000 pages of documents to "someone", and maybe SDNY has possession of them?

But the story from the interview seemed to be that Trump had used the "n" word and anti-Semitic epithets? Is that something everyone did not already know or believe? He's a racist. What did we expect?

GusBob

(7,286 posts)
127. This is an example of the problem with modern American culture
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 10:09 AM
Jul 2020

Here we are now, entertain us

We dont want information we expect a show

It comes from being raised on television

CatWoman

(79,302 posts)
133. actually, I was more than disgusted when this thread was posted
Fri Jul 17, 2020, 02:00 PM
Jul 2020

and I'm still surprised it's still alive and kicking.

this is nothing but pure bullshit. the entire thread.

i'll do the next best thing and hide it.

Baltimike

(4,148 posts)
139. and yet, you didn't read the nearly 130 responses or you would have seen posts #15, 17, 73
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 02:51 PM
Jul 2020

77, and 82.

PS. This. is. a. DISCUSSION. board.

That interview got better as it went on, and I gained a lot of insight by me speaking my mind.

 

rufus dog

(8,419 posts)
136. Let me figure out a nice way to put this
Sat Jul 18, 2020, 05:03 PM
Jul 2020

First there is this

https://www.democraticunderground.com/100213768244

Then I will come out and directly tell you my thoughts 'Baltmike'

You are a fucking troll and a complete piece of shit. FUCK OFF ASSHOLE!

Baltimike

(4,148 posts)
138. read posts # 15, 17, 73, 77 and 82
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 02:47 PM
Jul 2020

FOR COMPREHENSION, and then maybe get some anger management? You seem triggered.

Baltimike

(4,148 posts)
143. No. I won't fuck off, and my asshole is none of your business...
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 03:00 PM
Jul 2020

but same to ya motherfucker. Really.

hlthe2b

(102,511 posts)
146. Your attitude toward Ms. Trump--the only member of the family calling him out
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 03:05 PM
Jul 2020

and with the professional credentials to do so in an informed manner is, at best, curious.

I could understand if you thought she might phrase things differently, thought her interview with Stephanopolis went better or even if you thought she appeared less than forthcoming (but I''d disagree strongly). Still, that would be a difference of perception--a difference of opinion. But, a trainwreck? Seems really disproportionately strong.

Baltimike

(4,148 posts)
152. Pls read post #20. I NEVER said "less than forthcoming" please don't put words in my mouth
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 03:39 PM
Jul 2020

what I thought was bad was that *I* found her hard to follow. I said so. I even responded to people telling my why that could be...and I agreed with them.

Also, I posted this in the middle of her interview, which did get better (and yes, on this very thread, I said so)

But LOTS of word parsing and dead space.

This is a discussion board. I was discussing it.

I didn't see the Stephonopolous interview. But the Rachel one was very disjointed...lots of posters had lots of reasons that I hadn't considered. I admitted that, and said so.

Then the piling on started....

hlthe2b

(102,511 posts)
160. Now I know why your assessment of the interview was so inexplicably off base
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 03:46 PM
Jul 2020

Given your inability to read and process what I actually wrote, which, did NOT claim you said that she was less than forthcoming. I said I could understand if you had felt that way.

From my previous post#146:

I could understand if you thought she might phrase things differently, thought her interview with Stephanopolis went better or even if you thought she appeared less than forthcoming (but I''d disagree strongly). Still, that would be a difference of perception--a difference of opinion. But, a trainwreck? Seems really disproportionately strong.



I guess that explains a lot.

Baltimike

(4,148 posts)
163. not inexplicably off base...but I can understand why you thought
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 03:48 PM
Jul 2020

the term trainwreck was too strong....but given the context of the rest of the thread, it is clear where I was coming from

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
149. DU isn't what it was in its "glory days" (Dubya/Iraq) but it still manages to...
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 03:13 PM
Jul 2020

weed through obvious bullshit on occassion.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
193. Just logged backed on after a long break today...
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 11:16 PM
Jul 2020

and see what you mean. Although one OP led me to a burrito-eating dog, so there's that.


ProfessorGAC

(65,382 posts)
151. Disagree
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 03:28 PM
Jul 2020

I've been here since nearly the beginning.
Come "imminent election" time, things have gotten more contentious here.
Combination of trolls and persistent "devil's advocate" types stirring the pot.
Just view the posts from people you trust, and ignore those looking to run interference.

Baltimike

(4,148 posts)
159. not looking to run interference, just speaking my mind
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 03:46 PM
Jul 2020

God, it would be nice if people actually read my posts before knee jerking all over the place.

ProfessorGAC

(65,382 posts)
164. So, Everything Is About You?
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 03:49 PM
Jul 2020

I didn't mention you, nor was I even referring to you.
My post was about DU being different, or not, from the "glory days".
I think it's YOU that should read the posts, instead of kneejerking.
Get over yourself.

ProfessorGAC

(65,382 posts)
171. You Do Grasp What A Sub Thread Is, Right?
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 04:15 PM
Jul 2020

Happens all the time here.
But, since you're the one who doesn't read for comprehension, you probably don't.
BTW: you went past tedious about 6 miles back.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
194. I've been here since 2004 under a different name.
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 11:23 PM
Jul 2020

I came here for stimulating conversation and learned quite a bit. I recommended the site to friends and coworkers. Not anymore. But I have used the Trash thread feature quite a bit today in the hopes of getting the cream to rise to the top... we'll see if that helps.

Baltimike

(4,148 posts)
154. as *planned* Read ALL OF MY POSTS ON HERE FOR COMPREHENSION
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 03:41 PM
Jul 2020

Thanks.

Oh, and thanks for kicking my post. My God, I was ready to let it sink but then this piling on happened.

Thanks for the kick though. Nice job!!!

Kali

(55,031 posts)
173. there is a link at the bottom of the OP
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 04:26 PM
Jul 2020

where you can choose to self delete if you are actually interested in "sinking" the thread

you can even copy and paste the content of the OP into a reply before deleting it. you know, for posterity.

Baltimike

(4,148 posts)
182. the piling on got too insulting
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 04:40 PM
Jul 2020

I got called an asshole and a troll in one post. If that stays, so does this.

Baltimike

(4,148 posts)
198. Me too. Thanks for shining a light on the bullying and knee jerking
Tue Jul 21, 2020, 08:11 AM
Jul 2020

attempts to bully me into an echo chamber.

I never once said I didn't agree with her cause...but I do (and still) think that her interview with Rachel was very hard to watch

But you do you boo

Imallin4Joe

(758 posts)
153. She's exposed the serial wrongdoings of the entire Trump family from an insiders view.
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 03:39 PM
Jul 2020

The people needed to read/hear this information any way it is presented.

I applaud her book.

Baltimike

(4,148 posts)
155. Oh, I applaud the book for SURE, and respect her academic prowess
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 03:42 PM
Jul 2020

I found the beginning of the interview hard to watch, and said so. Maybe she's not a "media" person, or she had to consider legal issues...I can understand that...

Imallin4Joe

(758 posts)
168. Peace, Baltimike. I'm with you.
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 03:54 PM
Jul 2020

Personally, I'd be scary on-camera. Some just aren't meant to go on live TV etc..

LuckyCharms

(17,472 posts)
157. Well ,when I first saw her on Rachel, I thought she was a bit
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 03:44 PM
Jul 2020

aloof, or nervous. I've seen her in subsequent interviews, and I've changed my opinion. I think she is very intelligent, well spoken, and quite attractive. She presents herself as a normal person, in my opinion.

Baltimike

(4,148 posts)
166. I only saw the Rachel interview, and it did get better as it went on, and lots of reasons why
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 03:51 PM
Jul 2020

that I can certainly understand. I am not saying that I don;t believe her...I do...but I found that interview a little hard to follow. Aloof is a good word for it.

And thank you for responding without judging me

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
162. She's not a pundit that goes on the bobblehead shows for a living.
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 03:47 PM
Jul 2020

I'd cut her a break. Especially since she has to give interviews while engaging in legal CYA because she's now in the crosshairs of Trump's scumbag lawyers.

Baltimike

(4,148 posts)
183. LOL!!! So is that FLAME since no one has to post for rec's and post #77
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 04:41 PM
Jul 2020

which you clearly didn't read kinda says it, but hey...THANKS FOR THE KICK, yanno? Why don;t you kick it up again?

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
191. It can be difficult to accept those not polished enough for our commercially branded tastes
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 05:11 PM
Jul 2020

Thankfully, there were enough viewers who ignored the superficial and the shallow, concentrating on the message and content rather than supercilious criticisms of the irrelevant.

musicblind

(4,486 posts)
197. Public speaking is an art.
Sun Jul 19, 2020, 11:39 PM
Jul 2020

We're used to hearing from politicians and journalists; that's skewed our expectations.

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