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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsPaul Ryan's ex girlfriend
...after Ryan's relationship with Pope, who graduated in 1994, two years after him eventually fizzled out when he went to Washington D.C. to pursue his political ambitions on Capitol Hill and she to Chicago when she left Ohio.
Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2196944/Paul-Ryans-black-ex-girlfriend-Deneeta-Pope-spent-months-prison-77-000-fraud.html
Ellipsis
(9,124 posts)chowder66
(9,108 posts)Sorry but I have to ask. I don't get why anyone would drag her into this.
on edit: I see that Ryan was the one that brought her into this originally.
uponit7771
(90,371 posts)uponit7771
(90,371 posts)...skinned people or was married to one.
Chorophyll
(5,179 posts)Because he's a Republican? I mean, he's a complete p.o.s. in my view, and his party is full of racists, but maybe he and this woman just liked each other.
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)Did he also date a girl that liked Cheetos?
Is it because she's a Cheerleader?
Were you trying to make a point?
Go on...say it.
I dare you.
apples and oranges
(1,451 posts)was that the relationship fizzled when he went to Washington to pursue a career in politics. It made me wonder if he dumped her to further his career?
leveymg
(36,418 posts)Maybe, Rep. Ryan was thinking about Ms. Pope when he made that remark?
jillan
(39,451 posts)she probably dumped him after she found out what an asshole he really is.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)Shows he's even more disingenuous than we thought. Deep down, he doesn't believe in his party's racist platform. So he's just compromising his principles for power and money.
dawg
(10,626 posts)It pains me to see that a douchebag like Ryan has been able to attract pretty women while I sit here alone to rot.
loli phabay
(5,580 posts)LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)He has pretty eyes. That's the only attractive feature he has.
loli phabay
(5,580 posts)dawg
(10,626 posts)But I'm not bad, either.
There are probably even some women out there who would think that I'm cuter. (Especially liberal ones)
I'm sure I could get dates if I tried.
It's a broken-heart that is holding me back. I really need to cowboy-up and get over it, but apparently I'm not very good at that.
laundry_queen
(8,646 posts)I hear you. It's been 3 yrs since my ex left and I'm starting to get the 'why aren't you out dating? What's wrong with you?' crap from everyone I know. 'Get over it' is totally invalidating. It's not that easy for those of us who actually believed in life-long commitments.
dawg
(10,626 posts)I left over two years ago because she was cheating. I kind of hoped she would .... I don't know .... reform? Fight for the marriage? Make it up to me somehow?
Well, she's pretty much dating even though we're still married. Not me. I'm still wearing the ring. I'm trying to go through with the divorce, but the lawyer isn't co-operating, and I've been too emotionally crippled to call him up and ask where the hell are the damn divorce papers?
Everyone thinks I should have moved on by now, but it's really, really hard. I believe I'll get there eventually, but in the meantime, I feel like I'm partially wasting what are potentially some of the best years of my life.
laundry_queen
(8,646 posts)He cheated and moved out after years of me being the only one to try to make it work, so I moved away with the kids. He moved his girlfriend into 'our' house we had built together and they get to go on cruises and vacations to Vegas together. I get to go back to school in my 30's and raise 4 kids on my own (he sees them once a month, and gets to do the 'disneyland dad' thing with them, while spreading rumors about me 'living the high life' on child support. M'kay. It's a blast. ) I had hoped he would 'see the light' but it hasn't happened - he's content to live his life far away from his own kids. I finally just got the separation agreement signed - it was supposed to be done the month I moved out, but there were some problems, and then I have been putting it off for the last 6 months. Every email or phone call from the lawyer was like a knife to my gut.
Anyway, hang in there. You definitely aren't alone.
dawg
(10,626 posts)Although the fact that she isn't a total jerk just makes it that much harder to move on.
Angry Dragon
(36,693 posts)Love comes when you least expect it and comes when you do not think you have time for love
GeorgeGist
(25,327 posts)to platitudes.
dawg
(10,626 posts)Thanks!
Nye Bevan
(25,406 posts)He does have plenty of other flaws, however.
WI_DEM
(33,497 posts)bigdaddyva
(1 post)www.ryandonmoyer.com
Ganja Ninja
(15,953 posts)She's an ex girl friend who has moved on. Unless there's some evidence he forced her to have an abortion or smacked her around, this is nothing.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)This woman did not ask to become a public figure.
DropZoneMom
(5 posts)...that IS a surprise!!
BayouBengal07
(1,486 posts)LeftishBrit
(41,219 posts)So Deneeta Pope made a bad choice of boyfriend when she was a student, and eventually got out of the relationship. Big deal.