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apples and oranges

(1,451 posts)
Mon Sep 3, 2012, 02:29 PM Sep 2012

Paul Ryan's ex girlfriend







Ryan Donmoyer, a journalist who interviewed Ryan in 1999, wrote that then freshman congressman for Wisconsin's first district had told him that he had dated a black former cheerleader for five years. Steel, Representative Ryan's spokesman, said: 'They dated in the mid-1990s, and broke up several years before Mr Ryan met Mrs Ryan (in 1999).'

...after Ryan's relationship with Pope, who graduated in 1994, two years after him eventually fizzled out when he went to Washington D.C. to pursue his political ambitions on Capitol Hill and she to Chicago when she left Ohio.

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2196944/Paul-Ryans-black-ex-girlfriend-Deneeta-Pope-spent-months-prison-77-000-fraud.html
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Paul Ryan's ex girlfriend (Original Post) apples and oranges Sep 2012 OP
bfd Ellipsis Sep 2012 #1
What does she have to do with anything? Is she running for office? chowder66 Sep 2012 #2
+1 rMOney has 0% approval amongst blacks...those are literally Adolf Hitler numbers uponit7771 Sep 2012 #5
Paul Ryan ascribes to ideals of a overtly racist organizaton, could care less if he dates only dark uponit7771 Sep 2012 #3
Why is this even a thing? Chorophyll Sep 2012 #4
....and? alphafemale Sep 2012 #6
one line that jumped out at me apples and oranges Sep 2012 #9
Now, SHE might be able to run a sub-3 hour Marathon. leveymg Sep 2012 #7
Wonder if he has "Brown Sugar" on his playlist too? Seriously, jillan Sep 2012 #8
Good for him. Cleita Sep 2012 #10
She's pretty. dawg Sep 2012 #11
wwell without seeing you he is a pretty good looking guy. loli phabay Sep 2012 #12
No, he's not LadyHawkAZ Sep 2012 #13
well luckily attraction is subjective or we would all chase the same person. loli phabay Sep 2012 #15
Well, he's in better shape than me. dawg Sep 2012 #14
hugs to you laundry_queen Sep 2012 #16
Oh, it feels so good to not be the only one. dawg Sep 2012 #17
Very similar situation here. laundry_queen Sep 2012 #20
At least mine is a good Mom. dawg Sep 2012 #21
Love does not come when you look for it Angry Dragon Sep 2012 #23
Personally, I prefer silence ... GeorgeGist Sep 2012 #24
But I appreciated your comment. dawg Sep 2012 #26
OK, so he is not a racist. Nye Bevan Sep 2012 #18
Who cares? WI_DEM Sep 2012 #19
This is where the Daily Mail found her, I think. Article is 13 years old. bigdaddyva Sep 2012 #22
I don't see where any of this is an issue. Ganja Ninja Sep 2012 #25
Exqueeze me, but what does this have to do with anything? jberryhill Sep 2012 #27
So he isn't as racist as Romney... DropZoneMom Sep 2012 #28
I thought it was going to be Ayn Rand BayouBengal07 Sep 2012 #29
Typical Daily Mail, invading people's privacy for no reason LeftishBrit Sep 2012 #30

chowder66

(9,108 posts)
2. What does she have to do with anything? Is she running for office?
Mon Sep 3, 2012, 02:31 PM
Sep 2012

Sorry but I have to ask. I don't get why anyone would drag her into this.

on edit: I see that Ryan was the one that brought her into this originally.

uponit7771

(90,371 posts)
3. Paul Ryan ascribes to ideals of a overtly racist organizaton, could care less if he dates only dark
Mon Sep 3, 2012, 02:31 PM
Sep 2012

...skinned people or was married to one.

Chorophyll

(5,179 posts)
4. Why is this even a thing?
Mon Sep 3, 2012, 02:32 PM
Sep 2012

Because he's a Republican? I mean, he's a complete p.o.s. in my view, and his party is full of racists, but maybe he and this woman just liked each other.

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
6. ....and?
Mon Sep 3, 2012, 02:34 PM
Sep 2012

Did he also date a girl that liked Cheetos?

Is it because she's a Cheerleader?

Were you trying to make a point?

Go on...say it.

I dare you.

apples and oranges

(1,451 posts)
9. one line that jumped out at me
Mon Sep 3, 2012, 02:38 PM
Sep 2012

was that the relationship fizzled when he went to Washington to pursue a career in politics. It made me wonder if he dumped her to further his career?

leveymg

(36,418 posts)
7. Now, SHE might be able to run a sub-3 hour Marathon.
Mon Sep 3, 2012, 02:34 PM
Sep 2012

Maybe, Rep. Ryan was thinking about Ms. Pope when he made that remark?

jillan

(39,451 posts)
8. Wonder if he has "Brown Sugar" on his playlist too? Seriously,
Mon Sep 3, 2012, 02:34 PM
Sep 2012

she probably dumped him after she found out what an asshole he really is.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
10. Good for him.
Mon Sep 3, 2012, 02:40 PM
Sep 2012

Shows he's even more disingenuous than we thought. Deep down, he doesn't believe in his party's racist platform. So he's just compromising his principles for power and money.

dawg

(10,626 posts)
11. She's pretty.
Mon Sep 3, 2012, 02:44 PM
Sep 2012

It pains me to see that a douchebag like Ryan has been able to attract pretty women while I sit here alone to rot.

dawg

(10,626 posts)
14. Well, he's in better shape than me.
Mon Sep 3, 2012, 03:22 PM
Sep 2012

But I'm not bad, either.

There are probably even some women out there who would think that I'm cuter. (Especially liberal ones)

I'm sure I could get dates if I tried.

It's a broken-heart that is holding me back. I really need to cowboy-up and get over it, but apparently I'm not very good at that.

laundry_queen

(8,646 posts)
16. hugs to you
Mon Sep 3, 2012, 03:26 PM
Sep 2012

I hear you. It's been 3 yrs since my ex left and I'm starting to get the 'why aren't you out dating? What's wrong with you?' crap from everyone I know. 'Get over it' is totally invalidating. It's not that easy for those of us who actually believed in life-long commitments.

dawg

(10,626 posts)
17. Oh, it feels so good to not be the only one.
Mon Sep 3, 2012, 03:37 PM
Sep 2012

I left over two years ago because she was cheating. I kind of hoped she would .... I don't know .... reform? Fight for the marriage? Make it up to me somehow?

Well, she's pretty much dating even though we're still married. Not me. I'm still wearing the ring. I'm trying to go through with the divorce, but the lawyer isn't co-operating, and I've been too emotionally crippled to call him up and ask where the hell are the damn divorce papers?

Everyone thinks I should have moved on by now, but it's really, really hard. I believe I'll get there eventually, but in the meantime, I feel like I'm partially wasting what are potentially some of the best years of my life.

laundry_queen

(8,646 posts)
20. Very similar situation here.
Mon Sep 3, 2012, 04:28 PM
Sep 2012

He cheated and moved out after years of me being the only one to try to make it work, so I moved away with the kids. He moved his girlfriend into 'our' house we had built together and they get to go on cruises and vacations to Vegas together. I get to go back to school in my 30's and raise 4 kids on my own (he sees them once a month, and gets to do the 'disneyland dad' thing with them, while spreading rumors about me 'living the high life' on child support. M'kay. It's a blast. ) I had hoped he would 'see the light' but it hasn't happened - he's content to live his life far away from his own kids. I finally just got the separation agreement signed - it was supposed to be done the month I moved out, but there were some problems, and then I have been putting it off for the last 6 months. Every email or phone call from the lawyer was like a knife to my gut.

Anyway, hang in there. You definitely aren't alone.

dawg

(10,626 posts)
21. At least mine is a good Mom.
Mon Sep 3, 2012, 04:33 PM
Sep 2012

Although the fact that she isn't a total jerk just makes it that much harder to move on.

Angry Dragon

(36,693 posts)
23. Love does not come when you look for it
Mon Sep 3, 2012, 08:03 PM
Sep 2012

Love comes when you least expect it and comes when you do not think you have time for love

Ganja Ninja

(15,953 posts)
25. I don't see where any of this is an issue.
Tue Sep 4, 2012, 02:27 PM
Sep 2012

She's an ex girl friend who has moved on. Unless there's some evidence he forced her to have an abortion or smacked her around, this is nothing.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
27. Exqueeze me, but what does this have to do with anything?
Tue Sep 4, 2012, 02:32 PM
Sep 2012

This woman did not ask to become a public figure.

LeftishBrit

(41,219 posts)
30. Typical Daily Mail, invading people's privacy for no reason
Tue Sep 4, 2012, 04:48 PM
Sep 2012

So Deneeta Pope made a bad choice of boyfriend when she was a student, and eventually got out of the relationship. Big deal.

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